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BOY PROBLEMS UGH
Okay, i have a biggg problem...
I was friends with this girl and everything was going well but during the summer i was like ignoring everyone..and i ignored her.. and when we were friends she was talking on the phone with this kid ive been going out with on and off for 3 years. ( we werent going out then though )She didnt know about him , and she started talking to him acting like she knew him when she had only been talking to him for 3 days..and he called her and said listen i dont think we should talk i have a girlfriend...he really didnt.. he just liked me...and thats when i started ignoring her ( not because of the whole eddie thing but for other reasons ) and then we started going out again..and i love him soo much and im going to stay with him..but i dont know how to tell her that were going out...cause she`ll probably get mad and think HE was the reason i was ignoring her...i dont want her to feel like i took him from her which i didnt cuz ive been with him alot for 3 years .. but still i dont want to hurt her feelings.. and i cant hide it from her..how should i tell her that me and him are going out without hurting her feelings?
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you should have him call your friend and tell her that you and him been going out for 3 years on and off and that he doesnt want anything to get between the relationship so for now the friendship has to be put aside
and how is it that that gurl was ur friend for how long?? and she didnt know who u been with for the past 3 years ..dats weird...if anything shes not a really close friend so you should even have to give her any explanations
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tell your friend that you have been dating him for 3 years on and off and that he is your boyfriend now and that you really like him. but also mention that he is not the reason u have been ignoring her. tell her that you have been really busy lately and you are sorry. try to tell her the truth. that alwayz works best !
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I think that you should tell her. She should of known about you 2 before. If you tell her and if she gets her feelings hurt then there is nothing you can really do about that. She should understand that you guys really like each other and that you didn't mean to hurt her at all. It's better if you tell her now because she might find out from someone else and she might be upset about that. Just talk to her and explain to her the situation. You didn't take him away from her and that you don't want to hurt her at all. I think everything will be okay, so dont worry about it babe.
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