Theres a boy whos in one of my classes and hes definitely `the class clown`. The problem is sometimes hell yell out my name and other girls in my classes names out loud and pretend to do very innapropriate things with his pen, whatever is around! Im serious. Today he started humping the air and was like uhhhh and was like your so hot "Kirsten" *name is changed* Its really funny but is this sexual harrassment? thanks.
Yes, this is considered sexual harassment. If you think it's funny but yet you don't like his inappropriate actions, you need to tell someone about this to stop it. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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is it bad to go out with some one if that some ones best friend likes you? Diane-age 13-female
No, it's not bad at all. If you don't like this someone's best friend, then you don't need to go out with that best friend, even if they like you. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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tHere is a boy in my school who i have liked since the beggining of the school year... ever since my friend let him know that, i have been too she to talk to him. i have never been shy around someone i like THAT WAY! when he says Hi, i say hi back but when i look at him i can't talk about things.. normally i can't stop talking. how can i get to know him better and start conversations with him without freaKing out?
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Don't worry, this guy won't freak out when you talk to him. When you see him, walk up to him and strike up a conversation; start it with "Hey, what's up?" and then ask him how his day is going and so on. If you have his screen name, start talking to him more online because it will be easier, trust me. Start talking and hanging out with him more and you will get to know him better. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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ohk im really scared! i think i MIGHT be pregnet. but see i did not ever have sex! ever! but i KIND of did anal.like it went it half way. can u get pregnet from anal? and like i always get my period before my mom, but she got hers today and istill dont have mine and im like really scared
No, you can't get pregnant by having anal sex. In order to be pregnant, sperm has to enter your vagina and so on. Your period is just irregular and you have nothing to worry about, except about your period. Don't be scared, it's normal for your period to be irregular and it will be irregular for a few more years, depending on your body and such. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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I have a math test tomorrow and I really don't understand some of the stuff! We're doing subtraction of postive and negative integers. Some examples are:
3 - (-6)
40 - (-14)
17 - 15
Can anyone please give me the answers to these problems and tell me how you got that answer? PLEASE HELP ME!!! I'll rate 5's!!!
When you subtract a negative, it's just like adding a positive. A few years ago, my teacher told me to switch the signs when doing this. For example, 3-(-6) would be changed to 3+6; 40-(-14) would be changed to 40+14; and 17-(-15) would be changed to 17+15. Also, if you ever come across a problem like -7-12, that would be -7+(-12). All you have to do is switch the signs around and it will be easier for you to solve. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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i started liking this boy right after winterbreak. he started liking me too and we started hanging out alot. we went out for a little bit but then broke up. then he started liking one of my good friends. now he like sme again and im still crazy about him. i dont know what to do. i love him to death.
If you like him and if he likes you, then you should definitely give yourself another chance and go out with him. Everyone deserves second chances, right? Just talk to him and tell him how you feel and ask him if you two could ever start dating again. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Ok for some reasn when some people write in my questions i cant see what they write inless im logged out and i dont know why and dont tell me about the thing where you can block people who have a rating below what you want it to be so i cant rate all the people that give me advice so can someone please enlighten me
There is something wrong with a code because if you click on a question that says 3 people have answered, it only shows like 1 answer and it's not that threshhold blocker. Don't worry, this is happening to me also. I don't know how to fix this but you can advise the Admin about it; her column is advicenator_admin. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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okay...sorry, but I NEED A GUY TO ANSWER THIS. Okay, guys, do guys have a problem with admitting they like a girl or something, especially if they're like, a player??? Cause there is this guy that flirted with me EVERY FREAkin Day for a month straight..and a coupla of my friends definitely thought he liked me..because he payed speciall attention to me..way more than the other girls there. Then one of my friends asked him if he liked me one day at skool when I was absent, and he said yes, even thought there were a couple of his friendz there..then she asked again, for sure, and he said yes. Then a month later, she asked him online with another girl ,and he said "no, I only made fun of her, and she's disgusting"...k, so WASSUP WITH THAT? I mean, for god's sake, make up your mind...!Anyway...so like, can any of you tell me what you think is going on!!?? I'm not very interested in him anyway, even though he's "supposedly really the hottest guy in the grade" and a lot of the girls like him, i think he's a jerk.But I just wanna know, coz it pisses me off. Did he do that because I didn't really do anything back when he flirted, just kinda smiled or sumthing...? Anyway, so answer my question plz...sorry it was really long...thx.
It sounds like this guy liked you but then started not to have feelings for you anymore and the only reason why he is saying this is because he doesn't want people to think that he has changed. Guys are like this, especially players. He probably thought that you didn't like him back, since you didn't flirt with him as much as he did with you. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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hey ok here is the thing i know its a lil confusin but plz try and help..last night 2 of my closest friends one as my best friend and one whom i know and im a lil close with who i saw twice, they both r in 8th then me so there still in the jr. high so i dont know what goes on between them since im in the high school now. well my friend comes on and tells me that my friend slapped him across the face and called him a jack@$$...but then again i dont blame her bc i would have done the same thing most likely...the thing is that i still want to be friends with him but i dont know if i want to, i dont want my BFF to get mad..though we have gotten into a fight over the summer me. vs. her n my X-BFF and anyways we became friends again and all n my X-BFF was ok with that...now i dont know if i could do this because i miss him and i do want to see him again..i just dk where i could go to hang out with him n still be friends bc im not allowed to go to the movies with guys nor can i go to their houses or have them over till im 16...we have gone to the mall twice but she was with us so i dont think the mall would be such a gr8 idea...he said well see how things work out between us and well work from there on where we can see each other or we would just have to wait till next school year to see each other again..which i dont know bc she'll also be in the school with us and i really know what to do...
i know she liked him and i liked him too @ the time but he was in a grade younger so i know i wouldnt be able to see him much till next year...so i just backed off think i may like him...i dk i how that would effect her..i asked them both if they would ever be friends again..she said she didnt know n he said he doubts it...im feel like im stuck in the middle of this and i dont want to take sides..since i was right there on-line in the chat when the whole fight broke out.
btw he is in a grade younger...yet he is 2 months older so he is now 15
(i just asked her on-line if she was ok with me being friends with him but could she be lying?)
Wow, this is a tough situation to be in. You can still be friends with this guy because you haven't done anything, only your friend has. Your friend shouldn't have slapped him and called him a "jackass" so she is the one who shouldn't be friends with this guy. You aren't in the middle of this, you just know what happened and how each person feels. You need to just let them work this out. If this guy said that he doubts that he will be friends with your friend again and your friend said she didn't know, then they probably won't. You don't have to ask her if you can be friends with this guy because you didn't take part in this and you have the right to be his friend without your friend's permission. If you can't date until you are 16 years old, then you should just wait until next year to "hang out" with this guy more often. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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I think that I might just like the same guy that my best friend likes. What do I do? I thought this kind of stuff only happened on TV
You need to talk to your friend and tell her that you like him because if something ever happens like if you ever get a chance to date this guy, you don't want your friend to be mad at you for not telling her that you liked him, right? If she is your best friend, she should understand and that it's not your fault that you've developed feelings for the same guy that she likes. This stuff doesn't only happen in movies or on TV because you just found out that it happens in realy life. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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im REALLY tiny, only 5'1 and 120 lbs. i have HUGE boobs, and they keep getting bigger. im a size 34 DD, and i cant even buy a shaped cup bra cause they dont even fit. my bra rides up my back from my boobs pulling down on it. theyre so big that i have to wear two bras just to keep them up. i dont even know where i can find a bra that will work for me, because the cups kinda cut thru my boobs and give me "bubble boob." im a size 5, and i had to buy a size 12 formal dress just to fit my boobs, and it was WAY too big. my boobs pop open the buttons on button up shirts. SERIOUSLY i know this is a dumb question but what the hell can i do?
Having big breasts on a body like yours can lead to a few health problems like having back pains. Since your breasts are still growing, you definitely need to talk to a doctor about this. My friend is just like you and she has a hard time dealing with certain clothing and finding the right bra. This isn't a dumb question because this happens to other girls also. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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He is kind of overwieght, but sweet and fun to talk too. I really feel happy around him, and always try to talk to him. But at my school he is regarded as a geek, or a nerd by everyone. And I think he likes me too! I'm not quite sure I'm ready to date, but how can I have him keep liking me until I am?
To make him keep liking you, you just need to talk to him and hang out with him more. Labels don't have anything to do with someone. If you think this guy is sweet and that you are happy around him, then that is what matters. Just keep on talking to him and he will still like you. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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hey can anybody tell me where to find good quotes for AIM profiles and such? thanks in advance.
Here are two links to websites that have a lot of great quotes about different things like love, friendship, etc.: http://www.hellz-angelz.cjb.net and http://www.quotemania.2ya.com. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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ok well i like this guy and i dont' know if he likes me back, well he's been flirting with me here lately and he always talks to me and stuff.
me and him used to fight all the time and then we started to be friends. when we have lunch he sits beside me , but he used to date on of my best friends, but they broke up about a month ago.they are still friends but they hardley talk to each other anymore. so i actually have have two quesitons do you think he likes me and if he does do you think that his x-girlfriend and my friend will be mad at me if i ask him out.
please help me (i rate high)
thanx***
I really can't tell if he likes you but from the sound of it, he probably does, since he spends a lot of time with you and talks to you a lot. If your friend and him broke up about a month ago and haven't really talked to each other that much, then your friend probably won't be mad at you if you ask him out. Just make sure she is alright with this and doesn't have feelings for him still. If she does, give it some time and when you think she doesn't like him anymore, then you should ask him out. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Hey, okay this is kinda weird for me to ask...but is it wrong for you to have a bf, or well, not a bf..but I mean at my skewl when you say bf, it's someone you just say you're goin out with, and not actually do anything besides hold hands, and im not sure but maybe kiss..at school...thats it..so is it wrong for you to have one without your parents' permission...like,i mean, not the kind where i haven't asked them cause I'm afraid of their answer, I mean I haven't asked them cause I KNOW their answer, because their not American and they have values and all that...but see I was raised in an American or International way, and so at my school...and there's this guy I like on and off..and he flirts with me...and all that. but even for the future..an I asked my sister if it's okay with her anyway coz even though she's not allowed she had 2 before without my parents finding out, but she said no, it's better not to...so is it okay for me to go ahead when they've all said no, because it's not fair, and it's my life..and even though I'm young, I know it has nothing to with age, they will never let me have a bf in their right minds...i dunno...life is pretty horrible for me right now..my parents are really mean besides that too...so i'm confused. Plz help m and answer my question. Thanx. I'm really sorry this was soo long. THX
It's definitely alright to have a boyfriend without your parent's permission. Like you said, it's your life and if you like this guy and he likes you, then you should go out with him. If your sister told you that you shouldn't, then you should think about that, since she went through the same thing, practically. Your parents just really care about you and follow their values and just want you to follow them too. Since you said that a "boyfriend" is referred as someone who you hold hands with and not do anything other than that, besides kissing, then you are fine. You should just talk to them and ask them when you can start dating, and maybe they can let you date, but you don't have to do this, it's just a suggestion. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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i moved this summer and was really, really worried about not being able to make new friends. my friends said that i would make friends in no time, and i did. but last weekend, i called my freind, and when i said i had to go, she asks, "why?" and i told her that i was going over to my new friends house, and she got all huffy and mad. its like she doesnt want me to make friends! i dont get her! it is confusing me alot, so if anyone has any good advice, please tell me.
I rate 5s!
Your friend probably just misses you and doesn't want anyone to take her place as your friend. Your friend should be "mad" that you have new friends. Maybe it's just that she was used to having you around and spending a lot of time with her before you moved away? Just talk to her and ask her why she is making you feel that you can't make any friends. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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My brother in law is living with me and my husband.
I don't mind that he's staying in our house. What I can't stand is that he is messy. He'll go into the kitchen and get something to eat and not put it away. He'll get a glass of juice and not wash his glass. Not only does he not wash it, but he leaves it on the kitchen table for me to do it.
What do you suggest I do?
You need to talk to your brother-in-law and tell him that you can't be his maid by cleaning up after him. Tell him that he needs to start being more responsible by cleaning up his mess when he is done eating and/or drinking. Since he is living with you, he should listen to you and be greatful that you let him stay with you but he should clean up after himself. Also, if you see him eating or drinking something in the kitchen, tell him that he needs to clean up after he is done. Once you start to do that more often, he'll get used to it. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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ummm there is this guyy and hes nice i guess to me.. hes really rude and short..i dont like him but im sure he likes me...how do i get rid of him without being mean???
You just need to tell this guy that you don't have feelings for him and that you wouldn't want to date a guy who is rude but then again, nice to you. If telling him doesn't work, then you just need to stop talking to him and ignore him. He will then realize that you aren't interested in him and that he will leave you alone and possibly find someone else to like. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Well here is the thing see im 14 m and i have never had a girlfriend is that weird or wrong or anything please help.
Hey, don't worry, there's nothing wrong with never having a girlfriend. Everyone is different and some people start to date at an older age and some start to date at a younger age. You will have a girlfriend one day; if you know a few girls, start flirting with them and maybe you can start to have feelings for them? Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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well im 16 and started my periods when i was 13 and i havent told my mom yet!! (ive been gettin away with it through usin loadsa toilet paper n stealin pads off her n buyin them at school, if your wonderin). the thing is i cant tell her because shes really mean and honestly does hate me and wants to put me in care - she has told me herself that she only lets me stay here still cause she gets paid in child benefits. she would laugh at me if i told her...how do i tell her that i have started without her laughing?
please dont tell me she wont or shes been through it too or whatever because i know this woman and you dont. i know she will laugh its what she does.
besides shouldnt a good mom have asked her 16 yr old daughter if shes started her periods yet anyway??
A good mother would have asked her daughter if she has started her period yet, if she was 16 years old. This now tells you that your mom really doesn't care about you, since you already knew that. If you know that she laughs when you tell her things, then you should just tell her that you have started your period and ignore her if she does laugh at you. You know that she is not a good mother towards you and like you said, she would rather put you in foster care and not take care of you, so this wouldn't make anything worse or better. Since you need to steal pads from your mom, why don't you try getting a job so you can buy your own, so you won't have to go through the hassle of getting them without your mom knowing? Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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