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ok i have this g/f and i really care for her and i even love her but i dont think she understands exactly how much i care she is always flirtin with other boys and she gots mad at me all the time and i dont kno wat to do she says she really cares for me too and at times she shows it but at other times i fill like im not even datin her i have tried to tell her and talk to her but then she gits mad at me...please help me (link)
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You should go do something with her that she really loves to do even if it costs money because it will be worth it to find out how she feels about you..after you do that thing sit down with her somewhere and hold her hands and and make sure you look into her eyes when you talk to her..not her mouth not her boobs..her eyes and say i dont think you realize it but i love you and care about you so much..now do you feel the sam eabout me because at times its like you dont even kno im there! i've never felt this way before about anyone and it hurts to see you flirting with other guys when you say you care about me! that shud work but lemme clear this up...plz tell me you're the type that gets jealous when she talks to a guy because that isnt flirting its just talking so before you do this ask yourself that question...hope i helped x0x *Caitie*
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okay...i'm a huge harry potter fan...i'm like obsessed with the movies and books. especially after reading the sixth book, i'm like falling in love with the character, scary but yes. on the videos i watch the comentaries and read in magazines and know and like alot about daniel radcliffe and stuff... now straight to the point. am i in love with the character or the real person? lol stupid question but i'm so confused! i've always wanted to meet danial especially after i saw the first movie. he's gorgeous and he's a really good actor! help me!! (link)
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Hah this sounds familiar i have a friend just liek you except shes not in love with harry potter but napolean dynamite...it sounds liek you're in love with the character to me but ask yourself do you love what harry potter does or do you love what daniel does? hope i cud help! x0x0 *Caitie*
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my friends and i were talking and, i know it sounds dumb but i was raised kinda "good girlish" and they were raised kinda not. Well they always talk about things that i don't understand. i just wanted to ask what is sandwiching? and well theres other stuff but i'm too embarressed to ask so this is just fine. thanx..and don't make me feel anymore stupid than i already do. Please? (link)
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Dont stress not knowing bout it..sandwiching is when 2 guys dance wqith a girl in th e middle nuttin nasty..but I'm the perfect person to ask this stuff bcuz i kno alot bout little terms so you can contact me thru my column nd then we can just talk thru aol so you dont have to be embarrased by the other questions..if you want my help just do that nd ill be sure to answer all your questions! hope i helped! x0x *Caitie*
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Hey. Im 11 years old . and im a girl. Im scared about getting my period.. in 5 grade.. that just ended some girls starting getting there periods. And im scard!
I heard it hurts and stuff
and i dont want to use tampons what if the string came off.. and i have to use tampons to go swimming the pad would come apart..
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It's ok to be scared but there really is nothing to be scared of...it definitly doesnt hurt to get you're period so don't worry! Strings like almost never come off nobody i know has ever had that problem..everyone is scared to use tampons when they first get there period so here's my advice...for the first 2 periods you get use pads just till you get used to having your period then try putting in a light tampon..it's really easy and painless..dont worry...hope i could help x0x *Caitie*
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I've been tweezing my eyebrows for a while now but it's getting too difficult to find a shape I like. Today I'm going to get them waxed but I'm nervous. Will it hurt alot? Will I be really sore afterwards? Do the people who do it find the shape they like for you?
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No it won't hurt too much..you'r eeyes will tear but it's really not something that hurts like hell! No it won't be sore afterwards you're skin will just be red so i suggest making it the last thing on you're todo list for today so ur not walkin around with a red face! l0l! Depending on the sensitivity of your skin, is how long the redness will stay for some people it's only a couple hours while for other it doesnt fade until the next morning. The people who do the waxing are professionals so they really know a shape that will fit your face so you can just let them do it btu if you want you can say i like a higher arch or dont make them too thin..you can set guidelines for them or you could just let them do what they do! In my case I let them do it and it always turns out good! hope i could help..x0x0 *Caitie*
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it hurts when i take my tampon out, is this normal? (link)
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Well pretty much ya..I had that problem when i firts started using tampons because I wouldn't put them in far enough sp whenever I took them out it hurt a little bit so that could be one rreason..just push it in a little farther if thats what you think the problem is...it could also be you're using to high an absorbency you could knock it down one or you could leave the tampon in a little longer and let it absorb more, if thats the case once you let it absorb more it won't hurt when you take it out. You could also try a slim fit tampon which is thinner so it comes out a little easier..try Platex Gentle Glide Slimfits.. if none of these tips stop the pain..then you shud definitly get checked out by your doctor..good luck...hope i could help x0x *Caitie*
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im 13 and my friend was 17. we are both girls and we made out. would that juss be considered 'experimentin' or would it change to makin us bi or w.e? my other friend is 14. she wants to make otu with me and i would.... is this all normal? am i still straight (link)
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Ok, well ya it could be considered experimentation since you've never done it before..but the true test for being gay or straight is this...when you see a FINE guy do go daaammmnnn....and when you see a pretty girl do you go daaammmmn or just, she's pretty! That is a really good way to tell, also when you look at a cute guy that you're really attracted to do you wonder what it would be like to gte him naked or make out with him..something like that...but when you see a girl do you feel the same way...if you feel the same way then yes you're probably bi...but alot of people start experimenting at 13...not me but alot of people I know so it's perfectly normal, because you've grown up to think you're supposed to like guys but nopw that you've gotten into puberty you're really starting to grow into you're sexuality! Hope i could help x0x *Caitie*
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alright so i've given head before.. but only once* and according to the guy i was really good. But now, i want to do it to a different guy, but i dont know exactly what i was doing, cuz at the time i wasnt focusing.. what do i do? (link)
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Ok well i've never given head before but umm just go with it, as your doing it ask him does this feel good and ask him is there anything you'd like me to do? From what I know, guys like when you like i dont kno..tug on there dick! It's wierd but true but don't like rip it off l0l! Also just a piece of advice..I have a friend who gives head and her nickname is chickenhead which isn't good so be careful, so people don't find out what you're doing or you'll become the skool slut!! hope i could help x0x0 *Caitie*
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I have another question, earlier i asked one about breaking up with my boyfriend and still likeing him and we became friends with benefits. well we were both were virgins and lost are virginities together. It was my first time so it didnt really feel to good. after he asked me if i felt good an i told him no. we did it a couple more times after that time and it still didnt really feel the best. i guess it got him angry bc he told my sister and his friends that i hate sex. is it normal to feel like that after your first time? is something wrong, what should i do? (link)
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Ya, it's totally normal! Your idk umm"vagina" isnt used to havin thing go in and out of it lik that so its really tight at first and after a few more times it starts to loosen up. Obviously the guy you did it with dusnt know anything if he automatically thought you wud have an orgasm! Trust me after doing it a few more time you will start to feel good! hope i helped leave a question in my inbox if you'd like x0x0 *Caitie*
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I always hear about rape and I don't know what it is. what it rape? (link)
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ok rape is a very bad thing..its when someone forces you to have sex..whether it being making you give them oral sex or sexual intercourse. This is a very serious crime! hope i helped x0x0!
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mmmkay this august im starting highschool. i went to a catholic school all my life, and i was there for 9 years. It was really small, so everyone was my friend, and i loved just talking and laughing with them. I also really liked the school, the teachers were awesome. Im going to an all girls catholic highschool with some of my girl friends, and most of my guy friends r going to the all boys school that we have like dances w/ nd stuff. Im really sad that the 9 years is over. Wat if we dont stay friends? And what if i dont make new friends? How will i get a boyfriend wen im in an all girls school? I mean, im not very pretty, and i dont wear makeup. Im big and muscular, and a major tomboy. I know its a lot of questions, but i need help! (link)
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Well first the friends issue..im not gonna lie 2 you because I've been in a similar situation i switched skools nd you always say u will stay in touch but you eventually lose touch! One of the best ways to keep in touch is on the internet lik thru aim...at first it will hurt losin friends but eventually it will fade nd sumtimes you'll get the urge to give the old frends a call nd thats fine..do it! You could also set up a schedule where you call a diferent friend each day of the week to make sure you stay in otuch. Now on to the boyfriend/friend thing...ofcourse you'll make new friends it would be impossible for you not 2 make new friends..just be outgoing but not too outgoing. There is also nothing wrong with being a tomboy..sumitmes people stay tomboys and other times they grow out of it..i dont kno your case but if your worried about gettin a bf nd you dont think your pretty i hav sum tips..1. don't look down on yourself..lik syain im not pretty..guys luv confidence in a gurl..2. wearing a little bit of eyeliner can really help...and it not a big deal because i kno plenty of tomboys who wera it...if your lighter skinned lik pale, brown is a good color if your darker, black, just line under your eyes and thinly on your eyelid...you can hardly tell its there but it really helps your features...3.going to the mall or movies is a great way to meet guys..4.lik i said ther is nuttin rong wit bein a tomboy but in truth..most guys lik girls who show a lil skin..just a tip.
*hope you lik my advice and feel free to leave a question in my inbox..x0x0 *Caitie*
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I am 13 and I have already had sex twice with my bf who is 15....people always say I am a huge slut and whore...stuff like that...but i dont think I am that much...i meen i thought I was ready so I had sex...what do you think?
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Having sex is your decision and just like your period you have it when your body is ready. Twice is not a big deal as long as you did it because you care about eachother and not because you just wanted to say ya im not a virgin anymore. Don't listen to what people say about you because it's your body and it could be a good thing or it could be a mistake but it's none of their buisiness! x0x0 *Caitie*
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