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Q: my cuz (5 months older than me, were both 13) is here at my house. she slept over last nite nd is staying the rest of the week! im so happy shes here! last nite we had SO much fun cause we were so hyper nd stuff. but then today we went bowling nd stuff but were bored now! :( wut can we do? were gonna have dinner then make crazy moovs of ourselves being stupid but if that doesnt work out or we get sick of it, ne other ideas? also ideas for the rest of the week? were going to rye play land (amusement park) so dont say that please! by the way, it is 6:30 PM rite now.
thanks so much for reading this! ill rate! always do.
THANKS in advance!
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scrapbook
dress-up
board games
read books
watch tv
swim
draw
take pix
make a film
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Q: im depressed. i have ALL the signs of teen depression [ i looked them up ]
i dont feel myself lately. i dont like me. i cant sleep. i cry for no reason. im really mean to people around me. this year my grades went from A's and B's...to all F's.
ugh...any ideas on how to tell my mom? i want to tell her i need to see a theripist but im scared of how to bring it up and stuff..
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Tell your mom you need some help because your not happy with yourself, she'll def. help you.
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Q: This is going to be my first date in my life, so I'm not so good at this right now. We're just going to watch a movie at my house and I don't know of any good movies that we'd probably both like. I want something funny, but a little romantic too. I'd like any suggestions.
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Q: ok im looking for the poem that say "people talk about you behind your back, people make promises they just can't keep, I've come to realize talk is cheap......" can any1 help me?
thanks i really need it!
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Q: i told my parents to f**k off and i got grounded for 2 weeks. do you think this is fair? because i was really pissed off.. i coulndt help it. lol.
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People need to control themselves towards everyone. If you don't have patience in the future you can't get anywhere. Yes i think that was fair.
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Q: what kind of music is this grateful dead, frank zappa, little feet, the who, rolling stones, led zepplin, pat b., santana, weird al, rage against the machine, jimmy hendrix ??
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Q: I'm 16 and going to be a junior in high school next fall. I go to a vocational school so I have shop every other week, all day long. I've just started having a crush on my friend who is in my shop. I like him so much, it's crazy. He likes me too. We talk on the phone a lot and I really want a relationship with him but I'm afraid that in the end our relationship won'w work out and we wont talk anymore. I would never ever want that to happen because hes such a great friend. I really have no idea what to do. Please help me out. Thanks in advance.
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If you want to be in a relationship you should go for it. If it doesn't work out you could still be frends, even though that doesn't sound good, but it works. Just think positive and always go for what you want because in the end it can help you solve another problem in life.
best wishes
twistedteen25
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Q: My sister always takes clothes from my room, and it bothers me ALOT. I always flip out on her when she does, and I tell her not to do it again, but she keeps doing it. And she doesnt care, I said what part of stay out of my room dont you understand? Then she acts smartass and says "All of it." One time I threatened her that if she did it 1 more time I'd tell mom she had sex with this guy. (She told me she did) Well, she took something after that, and I flipped out and said I'm telling mom, and she says whatever, she won't believe you. My mom will probably believe it, but I don't know if I should tell or not, because my sister will probably still take things from my room anyways. Should I tell or not? And how do I keep her out?
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If you want to be closer and more open with your sister you shouldn't tell until she thinks the time is right. About the stealing thing, ask your mom if you can get a lock for your room.
Hope I helped
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twistedteen25
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Q: i need help my dad i have not seen him one year and three mounths and he drinks a lot i try to let him go but i cant what should i do
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It seems like you care about him even though he's doing something horrible. But maybe you shouldn't let him go because now is the time he needs a lot of support and care even though you haven't seen him. You shouldn't forget about him, just, how can i put this, breakaway from him.You shouldn't blame yourself for his problem.Tell him to see a doctor, help him and give him support. Show him that your their for him. After all he is your dad.
best wishes
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twistedteen25
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Q: Does anybody know the lyrics to right here waiting by stained? Or like a link to where i can find it-thanks
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Q: OK..I ALWAYS go to bed late. If I try to go to bed early, i still don't go to bed until about
3-4AM. I've tried not to stay on the computer and tried to clear my mind and everything and i still cant sleep. After that i have a tendancy to wake up a tiny bit late (10-11 AM)..And i mean a couple times i may get to bed if I'm lucky around 1AM..i dont know what to do and my mom just thinks that i stay up on purpose so she doesnt wanna help me..what do you thinks wrong?? is there anything to prevent this from happening anymore?? thanks!!!
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That's the same with me. Just do a lot of work, be busy the whole day. By the end of the day you'll be so tired you can't even think. If you want it to work and not sleep the day away, you
have to be busy everyday you can start with some chores or babysitting for extra money.
Good Luck
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Q: i used to play for my school/parish soccer team which is U-14 as far as i know and this year im going to be a freshman but i dont wanna go out for high school soccer...id rather play rec league. do you think i should ask if i can still play since it is a school AND parish team or should i just let it go? thanks in advanced!
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Q: Ok, this is starting to bug me, I know that in america we have free speech, but omg this draws the line, STOP WHINING! I know that some of you advicenators dont deserve this, because your problems ARE real, but i have just read a "problem" about a sister who is being "too bossy," im sorry, but this screams 9 YEARS OLD all over it. Please, do not post such petty problems, you just sound blatanly stupid.
Once again, my apolagies to the people on here who actually do have a problem, and I would LOVE to help you, but to all you WHINERS out there, please just leave the problem be.
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Why don't you mind your own business because some people have no where to turn to. Besides where not called an advice column for nothing.
We help people no matter what their problem is.
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Q: I've been with my girlfriend for over 18 months. I'm 19 and female and i just transfered schools. She's 18 and is just going in to college. We're only going to be about an hour apart, but for some reason she thinks she's going to get her heart broken. I keep telling her that we will have to work together to make it work, but for some reason she doesn't think so. Is it possible that she wants out? Can our relationship survive while we're in college?
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Long distance relationships are very hard. Even though she thinks her heart is going to be broken have contact with each other when ever you can. On days you have nothing to do go visit each other. Also always be positive if you want the relationship to list.
Good luck
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twistedteen25
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Q: Does anyone know how to get rid of burns (from a clothing iron) quickly? How long will it take? Thanks Bunches!
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put some toothpaste on the burn for atleast an hour
twistedteen25
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Q: Hey guys, i like to read a lot, and i've read many famous books like To kill a mocking bird, Catcher in the Rye, Harry potter, and so on. Anyways does anyone know any really really good books, and authors for when i go to the library next time? And i dont want books that you have heard sound good, but actual books you guys have read and really enjoyed, like an "i never want to put it down" kinda book if that makes sense. Thanks luv ya!
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I love the read too it's one of my fav. hobbies
the books i recommend
Daughter of the Moon series
Keeping the moon
This lullaby
Speak
The skin i'm in
those are the books i could think of right now
good luck
twistedteen25
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Q: I am the person who loves to be creative and unique. I like doing my own thing..as long as its different from everyone else. But A LOT of people tend to copy me. From buying the same outfits as me..to..copying my profiles, quotes, ideas, etc. I know it's supposed to be a compliment. But like i said, i just like being original and dont want anyone copying me or ripping off my stuff. Any suggestions on how I should deal with this?
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everytime they copy your outfit add something or do something with your outfit that makes it look totally different or you could order clothes from around the US from ebay or something
hope i helped
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Q: I`m a 12 year old girl and I`m obessed with what I look like. I mean it`s not high matencine (i can spell lol) or anything like that. It`s just I can`t friggin stand myself!!! I always compare myself to others, I exercise constantly, and I feel like I`m always saying "Ohh you`re too effin` fat" or "God why the heck can`t you be skinny??!" I`m a size 0 but it`s like I cant accecpt that... I use to be anorexic (once again i can*t spell) and I use to cut myself. I don`t know what to do...is there something wrong with me? Please help me!!!
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No there isn't anything wrong with you, a lot of people are obsessed with how they look, they excersise, wear makeup where ever they go to hide their zits and pimples and they also wear clothes from expensive stores so they can look good. you said you were anorexic and a cutter, well you said you were, so that should definetely be left in the past and it's not something to show off either. Main point is there's nothing wrong with being obsessed if your saying your 2 obsessed than cut down, try to work on one thing at a time, exercise first and then worry about the what your gonna wear etc. I compare myself to others 2, it's not a bad thing or a good thing. If you compare that means that you think she's perfect but in some ways, actually most ways, she's not. That's the same way with me. I'm skinny as well and I'm 13.I told me best frend that she has the most perfect body image she told me though it's not the outside that counts it's the inside and inside i have a lot of problems. Another thing, everyone has to stand themselves, the problem is that your telling yourself not to stand yourself. I hope i helped and good luck!
Ask me another question, you know where to find me!
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Q: hey this is for my friend does anyone know the french word for "until"? please answer asap!
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Q: Hey can anyone here please tell me what a faghag is exactly. Thanks
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fag means gay and hag means old female
put them together you got gay old female tadah!
ask me a ? at twistedteen25
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Member Since: June 29, 2005 Answers: 389 Last Update: October 21, 2006 Visitors: 25264
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