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what is college really like?

how is it different from high school? i remember wondering how high school was different from middle school and its more free, i guess. people dont hang out in cliques as much and stuff. (link)
well my school does this thing every summer where the incoming seniors can spend a week at a college campus to see what college is like...I did it and it's way different. First of all you sleep in a dorm and you'll most likely have a roommate unless you pay more for a private room. There are certain designated eating times for you to eat on campus (and the food is surprisingly good) like the cafeteria will only serve breakfast from lets say 7:30-10 and after that you can't get food until lunch unless you eat at the student union or somewhere off campus...also all of your classes wont be in the same building...you'll have to walk to get to your classes...bring comfortable shoes lol. and there really isn't as much drama...people don't tend to start stuff mainly based on the fact that in college people seem to lose that whole sense of immaturity and grow up so they stop caring about stupid things...unlike high school. I can honestly say that college looks so much better.


if i was 17 some months ago and i get my 6 hours of driving instruction now, do i still have to wait 6 months until i can drive alone? do people drive alone at 17 when they get their license? i dont understand (link)
yes because your still getting your license for the first time...I'm fairly sure that that law is only abolished when your 18...but it really depends upon the state...in my state you can drive by yourself right away...but you can't have anyone under the age of 21 in the drivers seat until 90 days after you get your license...and there isn't a curfew as to how late your permitted to be out like most states either...I would ask at the DMV when your getting your license because it really depends upon the state.


is it "an year" or "a year"? is y considered a vowel sometimes and when? (link)
it's a year...yes "y" can be considered a vowel sometimes...but it never has "an" as a precedent. it's usually only considered a vowel when its silent. and even then its questionable.


my boyfriend's and my anniversary is coming up next month and I was wondering if any of you could give me some ideas as to what to get him for a present. The spending limit is $50 and some of his interests are..music, theatre, and he's going to college soon...
Thanks! (link)
get him a ticket or two to a concert of a band he likes or a play thats coming to town that he'll want to go see...maybe you guys could go together as a last thing before he goes to college.


What do I have to do to get great, beautiful, fair, light, milky, healthy, soft skin?

And I'm talking about my whole body, not about acne and pimples.

I mean just naturally beautiful skin like celebs. I'm sure there have a certain diet or way or regime they follow for they're great beautiful skin other then make up.

What is it? (link)
its called airbrushing...no one has perfect skin...not even celebrities...I love how people act like they aren't human...it's moisturizer...make up...a lot of water(it helps clear up the skin) and some photoshopping...thats it...no one has skin that looks that perfect. Drink a lot of water and us an oil free moisturizer so it wont clog your pores...but nothing you do will make you have skin as "great" as the celebrities.


i have had this hemriod for like 3 years.. it hurt when i frist got it. but i didnt really know wat it was. i never went to the doctor becuase it isnt huge.. but now ive had it for the longest time but there is no pain and it doesnt hurt at all. i just want to get rid of it. how do i get rid of it? will it stay forever like a scarr or somehintg.. i need to get rid of this fast cant take it no more lol (link)
go to the doctor...its a simple procedure to take care of a hemorrhoid. it might leave a small scar but you should be fine.


i am 23 and im concerned about my little cousin shes 14. shes changed so much it just feels so different. her friends her clothes and how it seems like she just doesnt love me as much it just is all changed. we went to the mall and i was trying to find her different clothes she dresses like a grunge and all darks. she refused it all but a black and red bikini. then her phone rang and her ringtone gave me the chills and later on we went out to eat and she wouldnt eat and she seems so mad. so i asked her if shes haveing any issues and if she was gothic or anything. she got so defensive and angrier. i just wana know what happened to her does anybody think she got raped or is abused or anything else whats wrong i ask her she gets all mad. (link)
It's a phase...teens go through them...when I was her age I did the exact same thing...there wasn't anything wrong with me...I just wanted to find out who I was...I got new friends and I tried the whole goth/grunge thing...I found out it wasn't right for me and I should just stop trying to be someone I'm not...but I didn't stop trying to find a specific look or group until late into my sophomore year in high school. I just stopped caring...the same thing will happen to her to..I'm sure of it. Just let her be a teenager...we all go through it sooner or later...and as for the anger thing...name one teenager who doesn't have anger issues and mood swings. It's just her growing up...let her do it on her own...she'll realize who she is soon enough.


14/f

my parents are giving me the opportunity to take music lessons. my options are guitar (acoustic or electric) or piano. the thing about piano is i took lessons from when i was 7-11. and my brother is studying to be a piano teacher in college, and he really wants me to take piano. when he comes home on the weekends, he gives me random ben folds songs or classical pieces to play. then the next weekend, he expects me to have them memorized.. i don't want to let him down so i try to work on them. so i'm decent at the piano, but i REALLY want to play the guitar. so i'm in between.

PLEASE help mee?
personal experiences,
like you took piano or w/e
thanks in advance
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Well I took piano for a long time and doing it helped make it easier for me to learn other instruments...I'm self taught on the guitar (acoustic), the cello, and the glockenspiel. Piano has a lot of advantages...but if your really interested in taking guitar take it instead. It's all really up to you.


I've always wanted to be a singer and actor. i don't know where to go and/or who to ask. does anyone know how i can make it big in those? or even know where i can go or who to contact? even in modeling? (link)
I'd check out John Robert Powers or Millie Lewis International...they might be able to help you.


I have a 27'' waist and I'm hoping to get down to a 25'' within about a month.

I've never really taken any notice to my measurements so I'm not sure if 2 inches within a month is realistic or not? (link)
It's rare but it can happen...but if your a 27 chances are you don't need to get down to a 25...and even if you wanted to...you don't have enough fat there to lose the inches...you have to look at what your bone structure will support...its not just about being thin..its about being healthy...if you really want to get down to a 25 I'd certainly give it more than a month because your body wont eat away at what little fat is there that quickly...you're looking at a minimum of 3 months getting down to that...but more realistically would be 6 months or more.


I have a Diath ear peircings but I'm planning on getting a Tragus some time this month. I'm really good with pain but I was wondering which you would consider more painful, the Tragus or the Diath. Please only respond if you have BOTH or if you have a Tragus and Rook, Tragus and Ear Lobe, Tragus and Cartilage, or Tragus and Bellybutton with the comparison on those if you don't have a Diath. (link)
I don't have a Diath...but I have a Tragus and my ear lobes...and I'm thinking of getting my cartilage...but I haven't decided...It really doesn't hurt that bad...if your good with pain you'll be fine...I would say that the Diath would be more painful but thats just me...but my Tragus didn't hurt too bad.


its by a guy, mabye a band. and its a country one and the song just recently came out. he is talking about if the wife or somebody is reading the letter then hes already home. im pretty sure its called already home but i cant find it anywhere. whats it called and whos it by?? thanks in advance (link)
It's "I'm Already Home" and it's by Tim McGraw. You can get it on iTunes, Napster, or try downloading it on Limewire.


Has weird al made a parody of Party Like A Rockstar yet? (link)
nope. but rumor has it there might be one in the works.


Is it cancelled? i know the season finale of the simple life goes to camp just got aired but like is there going to be more Simple life's?
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There aren't any more scheduled seasons...but they will show lots of reruns...but the show was canceled after the flop of this past season.


Recently my friend and I were interviewed for a job and we both got it. BUT, my friend needed more money to help pay for his family and stuff so he quit and got a new one. Yesterday, I was fired, and now...well, I'm jobless. I need help. What kind of jobs would be good for 16 year old female, and how much do they pay? (link)
most people your age end up getting jobs in retail (Hollister, Aeropostale, JC Penney places like that) or in food service like at McDonald's...you'll end up making minimum wage usually...but after that you can start making more money depending upon how good of a worker you are.


I have bad trouble sleeping!
i really need help and i dont know what to do!
PS i put this is Realationships -> Friendhsip because i didnt know what else to put it in :)
PLEASE HELP! (link)
you could have a sleeping problem..try taking some Tylenol PM or Advil PM.Or maybe its a conscience problem...there could be something bothering you. If you've done something or said something that upsets you or bothers you you need to get off your chest...maybe you lied to someone or did something that you normally don't do and you feel bad about it...that can cause major lack of sleep too...but if you still have trouble sleeping I'd see a doctor and see if there's anything else you can do.


okay so im on birth control that gives you a period every 3 months.. this last week and a half i have been having discharge... i am not suppost to have my period for 3 more weeks but this is my first 3 months on the pill. Did any one else have this problem? Thanks! (link)
well you have to give the pill time to work...it usually takes at least 6 months for your body to adjust to it....your probably going to start spotting so I would start wearing panty liners.


does anyone know of any brillaint lyrics that may include a phrase like "i would have called you but..." or something of the like? to tell someone that you should've called, but didn't. (link)
Don't Know Why by: Norah Jones
I'm pretty sure thats the song you need...thats what its about.


are there any good types of pads that make it comfortable to play volleyball and so that you can't see the pad through the spandex?? oh and it also has to be sturdy, so it doesn't slide around or get bunched up and irritating. i'm not a tampon person, so i use pads a lot.

for example- when i'm playing and my legs are far out, the pad is like a U and then you can see this bump where my vagina is. so it looks really weird.

thanks, i've been having this problem a lot lately. help!!!!
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Kotex has a new pad that conforms to your body better...it is hardly visible...you can't really see it...I'd suggest that...If you don't go real heavy try just using pantyliners...that'll be invisible.


is there anything besides running that i can do to get in shape for track & field/cross-country? (link)
try doing leg lifts and hamstring stretches...they'll help you out keep your legs fir and toned.




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