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i am worried about my little cousin shes changed so much
i am 23 and im concerned about my little cousin shes 14. shes changed so much it just feels so different. her friends her clothes and how it seems like she just doesnt love me as much it just is all changed. we went to the mall and i was trying to find her different clothes she dresses like a grunge and all darks. she refused it all but a black and red bikini. then her phone rang and her ringtone gave me the chills and later on we went out to eat and she wouldnt eat and she seems so mad. so i asked her if shes haveing any issues and if she was gothic or anything. she got so defensive and angrier. i just wana know what happened to her does anybody think she got raped or is abused or anything else whats wrong i ask her she gets all mad.
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This is normal.
She has become young, impressionable and obviously is becoming "Goth." Hence her defensiveness.
There isn't anything wrong with being like that.
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I honestly think it is the NORMAL teenage rebelion thing. Nothing to be too concerned about.
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It's a phase...teens go through them...when I was her age I did the exact same thing...there wasn't anything wrong with me...I just wanted to find out who I was...I got new friends and I tried the whole goth/grunge thing...I found out it wasn't right for me and I should just stop trying to be someone I'm not...but I didn't stop trying to find a specific look or group until late into my sophomore year in high school. I just stopped caring...the same thing will happen to her to..I'm sure of it. Just let her be a teenager...we all go through it sooner or later...and as for the anger thing...name one teenager who doesn't have anger issues and mood swings. It's just her growing up...let her do it on her own...she'll realize who she is soon enough.
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