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I need to be inspired so that I can write better poems and stories. Maybe even making my life better by being more active, physically.

My question is: Do you know some place that I can go to be inspired? Or do you know any sayings that could maybe inspire me?

read poem books. watch old movies. maybe listen to classical music. metitating might help. you can also just go to a feild where there is no one but you and just lay in the grass and watch the sky either at night watching the stars or in the day watching clouds. bring a note book to write when you think of something good.

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you know on the side where it says search columnists and it brings you to another page then you type in the letter it begins with then it bring you to a whole bunch of columnists and stars next to there names do those stars decrese or go down or does it say the way it is.

if you answer questions and the person rates you good like 4s and 5s then the stars go up nad if they rate you 1s 2s and 3s it goes down. if you dont answer many questions it eith stays the same or goes down.

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Well, I'm not fat and that's what my friends tell me. Last year I lost a load of weight but the dress I have for the Spring Fling looks absolutely adorable on me when others and I look at it. It's just when I took a picture in it yesterday (not at the Spring Fling), I looked fat. My face was fat. My friend told me that the camera always adds a extra pound or so to you, but when I take other photo's with the camera's, I find that I don't like how huge my head is. Is it that huge. I want my pictures to be pretty . I don't want to look like a pig. So do I need to drop down to another ten pounds or do I not need to just loosen up. Is it the camera or is it me? Please, help me.

its you sweetie. cameras do add a few pounds but you probably dont look as bad as you think. loosen up. realize that only motha fuckas make fun of anyone for looking bad and that you really dont look like a pig. if any one messes with ya cuz you look 'fat' as you say (ill bet you dont) just kick thier ass. hope i helped lol

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Yesterday my friend pierced my ears. I was wondering how long I have to leave them in before I can change them? Thanks!

wait 5 months til you change them then wait 10 months til you can leave them out for a long while.

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i want to go to north carolina..wat are some other good colleges?

go to tickle.com and take the IQ quiz. it will tell you the best college for you to go to.

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first off im a really good christian.. i love going to church and worshiping and stuff. i love sharing my faith with people. Im baptist raised. Im 14 years old and im a male.
So it all started a long time ago. i dont know when or where or with who exactly but it was like when i was in 5th grade. im in 8th now. but last year in the 7th grade i met the guy.. and we become really good friends. but i started having weird feelings for him that i wasnt sure about. at first i didnt know what it was. as the year went on, the feelings only continued to grow. then i realized what it was... i liked him more than a friend. but it couldnt be, not to me... its totally against my religion, against everything ive been thought by my family. the year ended.. and i was so confused. that summer i started going over to a friends house like everyday. and while in his neighborhood he introduced me to a couple of people there. and the moment i met one of them, hes was going into the 7th grade then, (a year younger than me) i knew i was hooked. i went back everyday that i could to my friends to see him. by this time i was totally giving into my feelings. i couldnt help it. all my life i was told that homosexuals made a choice to be that way. and in the bible it says that homosexualy will not be welcome into the kingdom of heaven. but i didnt make a choice.. it was just liek the feeling when you like someone... well i liked him a lot. the more i got to knnow him the more i liked him. i knew it was wrong, but i didnt care. and then i started looking at guys (mostly younger than me) and thinking they were cute.. and thinking perverted thoughts and stuff. which is a sin. (its lust) and every wednesday at churhc when we would be worshiping i would ignore the calling of god tellimg me that i was wrong, that i had to change. well.. a couple months ago i was fed up with it. i had to change, i prayed about it and it really has gone down a little bit. im not as obsessed as i used to be. but its still there. basically im looking for your view. 2 other pepple know and they are really big helps. really this is just for the christians cuz if you tell me that im wrong in thinking gays are going to hell, im gonna ignore it. because mo matter who right you think you are, your wrong. just tell me what you think.

well you can still like this guy but in the catholic religion you have to keep it to your self and you could do that and not tell anyone but the guy. really hope i helped!

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I'm gettin a big zit on my forehead..a felt it like a week ago but it was smaller,,and now i think its like cystic..it hurts alot when i touch it and its more under the skin, but it still looks like a big lump on my skin. it has 2 tiny black holes on it, i guess those are the pores that got infected?? i have another zit like this that i got a month ago and its still here..its got a darker shadish color than my skin and i could feel it under the skin, and the one im gettin now is gettin red. My question is..is there any home remedies i could put on it to stop it from forming or to get it to get away really fast? I tried what my friend told me to do, put yeast on it, but thgat didnt help, i mixed it with water and put it on as a paste, still dint work? Any one got any at-home ideas? thanks alot!

its noral if it hurts but you sould see a doctor and get some medicine.

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I don't know why...but I hate my own race...I'm not black or white..But i just find my own race annoying and dorkish..I know that's mean but I don't know why I feel this way! Am I a racist?

no your not racist if its against you. why do you hate your own race? thats more dorkish than being a race that you hate race.

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i cant stop bitting my nails and my mom wont let me get acurlic is there anthing that will make them grow ffaster or make me stop bitting thx bunches!

get nail polish that tastes really bad. when ever you try to bite your nails it will taste bad and youll stop.

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13/f nd i have had my period for a while now but its been a while since i got it and my mother and sister had it twice since my last time and im havent been sexually active since before i started getting my period????wats wrong with me? is it normal?? please help me i rate high♥

well you cant be pregnant but you could have an irregular period, dont worry thats not as bad as it seems it just means that you have your period not as many times in a row. see a doctor

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Ok, my computer is really messing up. I just recovered it, usually after I recover, it does just fine. But now, when I go to an icon website, the icons never move, I refreshed the page, and restarted the computer, icons are still not moving. On this website, or any other, every other word is turned into a link, when I click it, its just a none existing website, and I'm just not understanding any of this, does this mean I need a new computer? Or is it a program I'm installing? I have AIM and Jasc Animation Shop 3 installed, so, I'm not sure ifd these could be it, because I've never had a problem with them, thank you, I rate!

its not intalling problems id say someone needs a new computer. oh yea and AIM doesnt do anything to your computer unless you use AIM express that screws up your computer

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About 2 hours ago I asked if I was going blind and I talked about my eyes and stuff. Well, I said I got a headache after that and it became worse. I layed down and I just woke up and the headache is just as bad. I still feel dizzy, and I feel like I'm going to throw up. Is this what migraines do? I took an Advil and it didnt help at all. Ugh! I feel horrible!

thats a migrane(spelling?) you can take medicine for that. just see a doctor first.

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I got highlights about 3-4 months ago. My mom said i can only get them done by the hairdressers every 6 months because its expensive. But it looks really bad now. Is there any product I can buy thats like a do-it-yourself highlighting kit?

get loreal touch up roots thing and get it in the color of your original hair color and cover up the highlights with it.

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Does anyone have any good ideas for a mother's day gift? I have no ideas! It could also be a home-made gift.

make her paper flowers outta tissue paper and buy her a vase or a tea ot or something nice. im saying that cuz i know my mom would like that and maybe yours would.

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Tampons hurt so much when i try to put them in. Im pretty sure im putting them in the right angle. Help!!!

dont use them use a pad. hope i helped

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Hey1 I've been with my boyfriend for a bout 4 months now and his birthday is coming up. I don't have much cash, but I want to get him a gift he'll love. Does anyone have ideas of gifts or nice plances to get a boyfriend a gift?

buy him a shirt hell like. like if hes a skater then get him like a bam shirt and if hes a guy that likes to look nce then buy him a polo shirt or something. get the picture? get him something that describes his personality a little.

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Ok this might sound bad, but I want everyone to think about it. I want to become anorexic, and it's not because I want to be skinny. I'm already pretty thin. The problem is my cheeks(yes face cheeks). They are chubby and not cute at all. I think not eating would make them thinner right? I'm not going to make it a big thing and not eat until I die. Once they get thin ill eat regularly again. Theres no other ways to lose weight in your cheeks right? I mean I know it sounds really dumb to do that but I'm kind of desperate here. Is it that bad? Do you think I can get really sick? Will it work if I become anorexic?

actually dieting will make your cheeks thinner. excersising will help too. if you lose weight by excersising reglarly will make you lose weight all over your body, even your cheeks. drink a lot of water, if your constantley hydrated then it makes your whole face skinnier.

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I moved here in 6th grade and I've always wanted to be popular...So I tried hanging with the white popular people and it seriously was HARD work!! Each year, things got better..and now I'm at that point where we'd be better friends if I'd invite them over (I haven't invited them over yet because I'm embaress that they will say that my house is small compared to theres..or that they will make fun of my lifestyle..and everything) I'm now in 11th grade..and I really want to be friends with these people..I don't think I can keep a close relationship with them if I never invite them over...I'm just very embaressed of the way I live...Compared to them, I'm so much uglier and poorer..and they're rich...Please don't judge..Thanks

screw them popular people suck!

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I am African-American/Japanese and the guys that I am normally into are white skater types. Nobody I've ever really liked has liked me back, and I've been told it's because I'm too shy. Is it really because I'm too shy or is it because of race? Do guys really think about race?

well actually guys dont care what race you are really. unless theyre black and your white, then they hate every white person.(no offence) they probably jsut dont really like you cuz your shy

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Hi im Jess i am 13 years old and i have a boyfriend that is the greatest. Well sometimes we have these little fights over something stupid and we usually brake up cause we were imature. Anyways now that we sorta grew up i was wondering after getting in a fight what can we do just to get past this problem so it wont result to an other brake up? plz help i rate good.

~From Jess~

apologize even if its his fault. dont mention that its his fault though. hope i helped

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