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Q: Hiii, I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about 3 months, and he's a year older then me, and is a Freshman, so we don't go to the same school. so, i only see him once a week. lately, things have felt weird between us, and i don't really like to talk on the phone to him, and i really like him a lot still, i just know i do. but, i like this one boy thats in my grade. and we flirt a LOT. i feel like i'm hurting my boyfriend, even though NO ONE knows, but me. i don't wanna break up with my boyfriend, but i don't wanna hurt anyone. i don't know what to doo. help?
Heyy Luv!! i kno wat its like 2 like a bunch of people....im not judging first of all.

okay. Personally, i think youd have a way better relationship with sombody in your grade that you could talk to/hang out with all the time instead of sombdy that you only see once a week! you have to make a decision. either you break up with your bf or you dont. and if you dont, and you want to keep flirting, your gonna have to tell your concience to shut up. flirting is okay. i bet he does the same thing!
but remeber the guy your flirting with, If he hears that you have a bf, he might be hurt. just a concept to thing about!

Q: Ok, so for my prom I got tips put on. I used to have them on (and I went every 2 weeks to get them filled in) for about two years. I had them taken off about a year ago and then wanted them back on just for prom night.

That was two weeks ago. I went today to get them removed and one of the guys cut my natural nails so short that they hurt like crazy! He even cut me on two of my fingers! It's ridiculous, and it's killing me. My nails don't grow very quickly, so I was trying to think of solutions for this problem.

1) Is there a QUICK way to make your nails grow faster. I know there are polishes and jell-o, but will something work within a week?

2) I was thinking of getting the press-on nails for about a week or so in order to cover up the shortness and stop the tips of my fingers from rubbing up against stuff. But I don't want them to look even faker than tips.

3) Maybe I should just get tips put back on for another two weeks and next time go to the place I used to so they won't cut them too short. The only thing is that it seems like a waste of $30.

What do you think would be the best solution?
Drink Milk

and take baby oil or olive oil or somthing and massage your hand and really make sure to get the circulatioon going in your fingers.

ittle make your nails grow.

you could put band-aids or somthing over your nails to stop them from rubbing on things

Or get the stick on nails from the drugstore like rite-aid or somthing

if the french on the tips looks fake, paint over them with nail-polish.


Q: this is most likely in the wrong category sorry..

but is there a way to get rid of sunburn fast?
take a bath and rub wherever the sunburn is and ittle take the flakes off.

Then when you get out of the bath, put baby oil on your sun-burn.

To make it feel better, put aloe-vera in your freezer and so ittle be cold when you put it on..

and everyday in the shower make sure to rub the sun-burn to get all the flakes and dead skin off....

Maybe take some advil if the sun-burn hurts u

Q: How do I get my good friends to be my BEST friends? Please help.%
If you act like best friends then you are best friends!!
You could make friendship bracelets
And say stuff lik "your so adorable...no wonder your my bff!!" or somthing like that!

Tell them how much they mean to you

X's and O's

Q: my name is bre i amd 13. i reallly like this guy. he calls me hott and stufff. and always makes jokes like one time i was laying down and he said, " i am going to be on you in a few seconds" andd he wants to makeout out with me because he told me. and my friend. and me and my friend are going to a movie with him and hid friend saturday and i know something is bound to happen! i dont know how to makeout!!!!!! i am not scared at all i just dont know. i know a million people have asked this question. and i am sorry. Do your instincts really kick in? i sure hope.

love BRii
Definately! Dont stress about it because either:
1. Hell know what hes doing so it will be easier for you to follow or
2. Hell have no clue what hes doing so it wont matter what you do

But either way, yes, your instincts kick in

Q: I'm 15/f (well 15 this summer) and I've never had a boyfriend. Never had a first kiss or anything. I'm pretty (or so i've been told) I'm easy to get a long with and as long as you respect me then I'll respect you. But whats wrong with me? I've never been asked out or looked at in an affectionate way before. I know im only 15 and I shouldn't worry but all these chicks in my school are freaking ugly and have no self respect and they have boyfriends. So why can't I?

Please don't tell me "your time will come" I've heard that a million and one times.

One of my friends is so annoying and ugly, and she's just a pain in the ass and she's dating this guy in grade 12.

wtf. :(
The ugly girls get all the boys because they put out or the boys think the can get somthing out of them. Its not like the boys really like them for who they are! You dont need that. Boys cause exxxtra drama. You could be a flirt, bat your eyelashes, weaar shoooort skirts and hang out with the boys and flip your hair and do anything for them to notice you. But do you want that? Do you want a boy who dosent like you for who you are? I think you are better off; you wont get your heart brocken. The right boy WILL come...eventually. For the moment, spend time apreciating your un-broken heart!

Q: I really need help on finding a nice pair of jeans. I need them to be stretch, with very little flare and tight fitting. I'm a size 4 in american eagle but they're a tad tight in the waist. Is there any brands/stores anyone recommends? I don't care how expensive or if there are rips!
Rich and Skinny
Its a brand and their stuff fits amazingly
Also, True Religion rocks!!
An you may want to try the store Hollister.
7 jeans are ookay
Chip and Pepper = Very awesome!! (Chip and pepper is a brand)
Lucky Brand Jeans
Guess Jeans

Try Sacks 5th Avenue ( a store)
Also, Urban Outfitter

And Alloy (another gret store.)

Q: Im 13/f and i know you really cant get a job at this age. And i really dont have anywhere to babysit. Im pretty shy. But does anyone have an idea on how i can make some extra money. Thanks in advance. :).
You could ask your parents for allowence

You could sell things on eBay

You could sell friendship bracelets, and make them yourself. String is very cheap

You could make paintingss and sell those

You could bake cookies and sell those

You could totour kids in your spare time

You could ask a teacher if they would let you grade papers for extra money

You could plant flowers and sell them

You could start a dance class for little kids

You could start a dog-walking service.

You could start an anonymous love letter system, where sombody gives you a letter and for $5 you give it to whoever they want with chocolate.

You could be a party planner for little kids partys.

You could decorate cakes.

Good Luck!
Xo

Q: 15/f. I apologize, this is really long.

Well, I'm beginning (and have already BEEN) to be VERY depressed. And I mean, sometimes for no reason at all. I can't talk to ANYONE. My parents don't understand...and tell me "Oh...don't be ridiculous...there is nothing wrong with you. Everyone passes through this stage". etc. It's driving me nuts. There is too much pressure from school (having to get straight A's or else my parents will EXPLODE), I HATE my friends. They haven't ever done ANYTHING for me. NEVER. They never.......care. :( When I look at them...I see FAKE USERS. They talk crap behind me...which I can prove. I've been cutting myself...and I can't stop. I have NO ONE to talk to and no one to confide in. I don't know if I have some kind of mental illness...but I feel so freaking ALONE in this world. So very lonely. NOBODY and NOTHING ..(LOL) understands me. I feel like an outcast. I'm constantly judged by everything. music tastes, clothes, grades etc. I'm so different. ARGH. I want a therapist and I was wondering (after writing such a long paragraph) if I'm in need of one. :/ Any suggestions? Do therapists actually help? Thanks in advance.
I definately suggest therapy. For anybody who is a little sad even. They let you talk about yourself, and saying it out-loud makes you feel better. They are professionals, and know what they are doing and all they do is make you feel better and watch out for you. And they just care about you. I would definately say to go to therapy, see how it goes, and the go from there.

Q: i submitted this question once already but it like didn't go through so i fixed it up a bit..

alright well..

one of my friends has very strict parents. so they were looking at her search history and found her myspace. they also found mine.

i'm not aloud to have a myspace. my parents made it very clear that if i had one, i'd be in deep trouble. i wouldnt be allowed on the computer for a long time and when i am allowed to my parents would watch my every move. so on AIM, i cant talk to anyone about private stuff.

i deleted my account already but i dont know what to do. my friends dad said hes going to tell my parents. her dad is going to say he saw it a few days ago so there's no hiding that i actually did have one.

i really don't know what to do. i don't want to get in trouble and loose my computer rights. last resort would be to come clean but i don't want to have to do that. i need to get out of this situation. i really need help, and FAST!! please, does anyone have any advice?

thank you sooooooooooooooo much. you dont know how incredibly bad i need advice.
First of all, relax. I was ina similar situation and stressed out, and my friends mom didnt tell my parents. But they found out because i acted to nervous around them!
Okay. So, if your parents DO find out, then no computer rights. And so, your sure that your friends dad will tell. If you COME CLEAN, and tell your parents, they might have a little more trust in you, and then maybe you could re-gain your computer rights faster.
Also, you could make up a code with your friends and talk about private stuff.
Also, definately use the code 9 thing. When your parents are there, you put 9 at the beggening of ur convo and when they leave, you put 99.
You have options. You could lie, say the myspace isnt yours and that your friends dad dosent know what hes talking about. You could erase that part of your friends history, and then ask your friends dad to prove that you do have a myspace. You could have some friends come over, have them talk about their myspaces, and then tell them how wrong myspace is.and make sure that your parents are listening. Lying is only bad if you get cought. If you can keep your cool and make a good plan, youll be alright either way. Just make sure to cover your tracks. Good Luck with everything!

Q: Is there a website where I can find some of the script for certain plays???
You would probably get the best results if you gogled specific plays. For example, say you are looking for the script of romio and juliet. You could go to google, and type in "script Romeo and Juliet Play" and there would be websites where you can see the script to the play.

[Search]script "Romeo and Juliet" play[/search]

But you could also try these websites. It is difficuilt becasue you didnt specify which type of play it is, so you may need to try different sights1
http://www.singlelane.com/proplay/
Or
http://www.storiestogrowby.com/script.html
Or
http://www.aaronshep.com/rt/RTE.html
Or
Www.Stageplays.com

Q: my friend got caught for shop lifting while we were with her she was on camera, me and my friend steph didnt want to stop her or say anything because of her family problems, (her dad died) THe police caught her and searched stephs bag at the time but no mine, they let us go while they took ashley to the shop to return thwe things shes stolen. Ashley told her mum that we were with her and did it aswell, i spoke to her mu and told her we didnt but she said u must have ashley wouldnt of done it on her own, and asked for mine and stephs phone numbers! she phoned both our parents it all ended in a big mess and stephs house, Ashleys mum said steph and i have done something, and will not get away with it! mine and stephs parents kind of believe we havnt stolen, but dont trust us as much anymore and say we should of stopped her. Ashleys mum has given our names forward to the police even though at the time they said we can go, so im not sure wether the police will come knocking at my door at anytime im so so scared and feel really bad, i feel as though i have nothing to live for and my live has ended! i no to tell the truth but what else help! ?
what your friend did is her own action. if she shoplifts, you should NOT need to take responisbility. true, you could have told her not to, and you shouldnt feel bad because she lost her dad. Losing her did could be the reason for her behavior, and she needs to get help. I wouldent consider her a friend anymore, because she lied to her mom and said you stole. Her mom is only trusting her daughter. Your shoplifting "friend" is not very much of a friend. She got in trouble so she tried to drag you down with her. I know she lost her father, so its difficult but stay away from that girl. She is bad news. She ratted you out. Shes not kool. They cought the whole thing on video, so you cant get in trouble. There is video proof that you did not shoplift. It is not your fault, you cannot get blamed. In time, your parents will trust you. Time will help everything. Just hang in there. Its absuloutly not your fault; i doubt she wouldve listened if you try to stop her! Dont blame yourself. Your a good person.

Q:
i like this guy but i'm scared to tell him,because it's a really random guy and he probbaly doesn't like me.
what should i do?
tell him!! if you love sombody, theres no use in living a lie. you need to face the reality, maybe its a harsh reality but you need to face it. tell him the TRUTH.xo

Q: this boy,
we had a summer fling thing,
we started school , he became a total jerk in front of people.
Online, he was fairly nice.
Then i noticed how he would try and find reasons to talk to me
and he would even remember exactly what i say
and do, and remember stuff and information about me that i would NEVER expect him to remember.
So whats this kids deal?

btw he has a girlfriend but still does this.
he likes you! hes mean around people probably because people found out about your summer fling, told the girlfriend and now he gets made-fun of for it, and for liking you. so now he has to pretend like he absuloutly dosent like you, so that he does not geet into like trouble with his friends and his girlfriend.. just flirt with him. hel come around soon.
xo

Q: Hi! Okay. So my problem started at the end of the last school year. I really like this guy in my class and all of my friends knew that he liked me. On the last day of school, he asked me out. I really would have wanted to, but I can't until I'm 14. (I'm 13) We still liked each other A LOT though, so it was all good. This year, we liked each other as much as last year, and everyone knew he was going to ask me out again when I turn 14. About a week ago, my school had a half day and everyone goes to the center of town. I didn't see him there, but I didn't think much about it. The next day before school, my friend tells me,"I heard he went out with some 9th grader yesterday!" I was like, whatt? but I didn't really care because I thought he'd NEVER do that to me. Yeah, so I find out it's true. He talked to me every single day before this whole thing, but has not said a word to me since the half day, and the relationship between him and the 9th grader ended like yesterday. I think we'd be okay friends, but I'm not sure if I should say something to him/try to make up with him. Thanks!
ask him about it!! thats so strange that he asked out a 9TH GRADER...there needs to be somthing behind it. so talk to him about it! im sure he has a good reason. also though, since you guys didnt communictae and state out what the rules were, he has every right to ask out this 9TH grader. he might have had wierd reasons, or, he might not have known it would bother you. you just need to talk to him. he should give you all of the answerss that your looking for.

Q: what are the bases from 1st to last
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=156350
those have a lot of answers but basically, there are a lot of different opinions.

baseball as a sexual metaphor
Going up to bat: Attempting
Bullpen: Foreplay
1st base: French kissing
2nd base: Above the waist
3rd base: Below the waist
Home Run: Sex
Grand Slam: Four times in twelve hours
Foul Ball: Ass sex
Strike out: Not getting it up
Line Drive: One night stand
10 Run Rule: Finishing on your own
Pop fly: Stealing virginity
Bunt: Pre-mature ejaculation
Gapper: Easy lay
Bases loaded: Threesome
Third base coach: The person who's filmming
Stealing bases: Rape (rape is bad)
Double/Triple play: Multiple Orgasms
Cup: condom
Steroids: Birth control
Error: No Orgasm
Broken Bat: Broken dick
Extra Innings: Four times in a row
Bench Warmer: Peeping Tom
Bat boy: Fluffer
Field: Heartshaped bed
Dugout: Back seat of a car

first base-making out
second base-gettin felt up
third base-giving head,hand job,etc
home run-sex

the fours Fs
1. French
2. Feel
3. Finger
4. F*ck

Theirs many verisons but all together they usually come to be the same at one point.
First Base- Frenching
Second Base- Feeling
Third Base- Oral sex, Fingering, Giving Head, Hand Job,...Etc...
Home Run- Sex

THANK YOU VERY MUCH TO URBAN DICTIONARY http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Bases

Q: I'm 13 year old that just got a New boyfriend... If you think I'm really moving fast in this relationship . it the third day already he feel on by butt . i tell him to stop. next thing he ask's if i would give up my virginity , I said maybe , let me think about.......
I thinking and i need help
yes, i think your sort of moving fast and here is why. if after three days, he already asks you to lose your virginity to him, heres what im thinking. he might be using you. because youll do stuff with him. that dosent mean hes not attracted to you, because remember he picked you over every other girl in the world, but that dosent mean that he wants ameaningful relationship. if you want, you can keep going with this, and lose your virginity to him. but you might get heartbroken. ive heard a lot of stories and the girls got dumped once they gave it up. or, you can dump him now, and spend your time with a real nice guy who is worth your time. its your decison
xo

Q: what do you do if your guy friend tells you that he likes you? are you supposed to act the same, or like ignore them kind of, or flirt more? i guess i like him, but he is not really that hot so i dont know. but what should i do
if he likes you, and you dont like him, you have two options:
1. set him straight. tell him that you only like you as a friend. Stop all flirting all-together.
this one sounds boring
or, you could have fun with it and
2. dont answer, but continue flirting. he might get hurt this way, but what do you care? hes not that hot anyways right?
all that matters is that you have a good time.
so play with it!
lol xo

Q: what the fuck is this!!!!!!!!! u all suck !!!!!
go to battleon.com you'll really get fucked up there...
your not suposed to use bad words on here. look, if you dont like it on here, then dont log on, but i know ive gotten a lot of great advice, and there are a lot of amazing columnists on here, and if your not one of them, and you cant benifit from this sight then dont log on, but dont trash on it because it really is a good sight.

Q: As a columnist I wince asking this question. But...

I just bought two pairs of shoes and, being an extremely indecisive person, I am unsure whether I like them or not. These are the shoes:
http://www.payless.com/Catalog/productdetail.aspx?ItemCode=56560&ProductColor=Black&Width=Regular&TLC=&SLC=&BLC=

http://www.payless.com/Catalog/productdetail.aspx?ItemCode=55575&ProductColor=Multi&Width=Regular&TLC=Womens&SLC=WomensCasuals&BLC=WomensCasualsTrendy

What do you think? Cute? Ugly? Be honest please. And outfit ideas for the camo flats would be great, too.
Nah, dont stress about it. we all need a second opinion somtimes right? okay lets see...
The first pair, the black ones, i like them. my best friend has them, but shes 13. i dont know how old you are, but on a 30 year old i might not like them so much.
The Camoflouge ones, i absuloutly ADORE!!! theyre adorable lol. wow i guess thats where the word comes from. you could wear then with a brown shirt, a green shirt, an off white shirt, anything earthy with jeans. with brown and gold jewlery.
you have awesome taste!! i love love love love the camoflouge flats. im actually going to buy them now so thank you so much! im going to wear them with this adorable shirt that i just bought from Forever 21.
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=Dressy+Tops&product%5Fid=2035498230&Page=1
you could try it with this shirt its a little maybe not your stlye? its a little stuffy maybe. but i like it. its sort of out there. you could wear that with Ironed hear, light, tight jeans and your new shoes!
or, you could wear it with this shirt
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=Dressy+Tops&product%5Fid=2036713410&Page=all
and totally crazy, out of control wavy hair. and maybe long earrings and layered nclaces. in gold. i wouldent wear these shoes with skirts so much, it might look boring because i personally like skirts with heels. but if you wore them with a jean skirt ir would probably look really good!
definately try to stick with earth tones. look at some of your favorite stores, and find a good fit that you like because you can get earth tones almost anywhere. Just keep an eye out for them. especially look for lightish browns. You should wear nautral make-up with it too. like greenish eyeshadow but really light. and brown eyeliner pencil so its not to dark and brown mascara but dont clump it on. and then soft pink blush. you know, really nautral looking. i have a green eyeliner from sav-on and im obsessed with it you might want to try it. and dont wear to dark of a wash jeans with a dark colored shirt. but i bet you can tell which jeans look good with which shade shirt. just keep it in mind that when they are both dark, they might clash. if you want to send me outfits, i can give you my opinion on those too, but you might not want my opinion because i know i keep going.lol okay thats enough out of me for now. xoox

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luvbug555
FRIENDS ARE LIKE ELEVATOR BUTTONS. THEY CAN EITHER BRING YOU UP OR TAKE YOU DOWN. CHOOSE WISELY
A friend will let you borrow their umbrella but a best friend will take yours and scream "Run Loser Run!!!"
we are all angels
with one wing
and we can wonly fly
with the help of somone else
my friends are my wings

TRUE FRIENDS
THEY ARE HARD TO FIND
DIFFICULT TO LEAVE
AND IMPOSSIBLE TO FORGET!

you can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose! but you cant pick your friends nose

killers stab you in the head
Frenemies stab you in the back
boys stab you in the heart
but best friends dont carry knives

a best friend will never ever come to bail you out of jail so never use your one phone call on them
i tried that, but she wouldent pick up. when i got back to our jail cell, i asked her why she wouldent pick up her phone.

theres no thing as strangers. there are only friends we havent met yet



ill give you advice the best that i can
im only 13 so the advice i give you may not be the best
but ive made tons of mistakes so i can relate
and im obsessed with shopping so anything with clothes i can help
and im always here if you want to talk or hang out or anything
im giving you the truth straight up
i am a brutally honest person
Im also fun-loving and adorable
I consider myseld a happy person
I just happen to love black
Do not call me gothic or ill kill you

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