BitsandPieces answered Thursday October 19 2006, 12:50 pm: He is only random, because you have not talked and gotten to know him yet. We all start out as random strangers and it takes effort! Feeling scared is fine, but don't ever let a feeling rule over your life and keep you from what you need and want. How do you know what he will think of you given the opportunity. Don't let a chance go by without going for it. Even if this one does not work out, you will regret it more if you never tried!!! [ BitsandPieces's advice column | Ask BitsandPieces A Question ]
coreymatthews answered Thursday October 19 2006, 12:04 pm: Tell him. It might sound like the 'obvious' answer, but if you don't tell him you're going to regret it and you'll keep posting questions on Advicenators. Think of it this way-you tell him and one of three things happen:
A) He's cool with it and everything turns out great.
B) He's not sure how he feels and everything will be worked out eventually.
or
C) He doesn't like you and everything stays the same. <----- So even if the worst possible thing happens (C), is it really going to be any different than it is now? You have nothing to lose at this point. [ coreymatthews's advice column | Ask coreymatthews A Question ]
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