Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
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Location: Nashville
Occupation: Chimney sweep
Age: 17
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Please take note I'm no the bigger side.
Here are a few pictures of me so you can get a better descision on types of clothes that would look good on me.
I love plaid shirts and babydoll type shirts.
I tend to wear lots of sweatshirts in the winter.
And I only wear converse, flipflops, or Uggs.
Fyi.
Orange hair, more strawberry blonde-ish. Orange really comes out in the sun.
Pale skin.
Mad freakles in the summer.
Green eyes.
One - http://tinypic.com/r/sy36kw/5
Two - http://tinypic.com/r/4h32nc/5
Three - http://tinypic.com/r/2yyxeu8/5 (link)
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before i give you an answer, let me just say, you're very pretty :)
now, onto clothes. you look like the type that would look really good in skinny jeans. not like techno colours, but more of just plain denim or black. and for tops, have you ever tried the layered look? it is a longer shirt underneath, with 1 or more shorter shirts on top. even when its piling layers on you, it'll make anyone's figure pop out. your main colours should be green, baby blue, and black, in my opinion. and plaid shirts would look good too.
i hope i answered correctly, or gave you what you're looking for. :) take care.
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18/Female
so my boyfriend and i have had sex about 10 times or so and I have not orgasmed yet. He is my first. I have never orgasmed with him before either when he has fingered me or massaged my clitoris. In fact no guy has ever made me climax. The only time I can orgasm is when I am by myself watching porn...and I do this by stimulating my clit while watching. I love my boyfriend so much and he would love it if I could finish with him, and I would too!!!
Please help. any advice with positioning? anything? AHHH HELP. lol (link)
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there is a stimulant for females in dietary supplement form. you could take this ahead of time, but talk to your doctor first. also, while you're having sex, get him to massage you while penetrating, that should get you more excited. oral sex is also a great way to get a girl going. and a position that is best for female satisfaction is missionary position: this means that the guy is laying down, the woman is on top of him, and his legs are in-between hers. it rubs the sensitive part of your vagina more, and he's getting pleasure, no matter what you do lol.
try some of these, or use warming lubricants or something. you're 18, so i think you're aloud to go into a sex store. :) have fun, and be safe
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hi i am a 19/f, and i recently befriended an older boy in my class. he's 24/m. Well we started talking in class,and we would talk about the class or i would ask about him. well anyways we started talking on facebook as well cause i added him. and outside class when he saw me he would smile at me. So i thought maybe he liked me but was too shy to ask me out. In class one day we were talking, and he told me he was a fitness trainer and i didn't believe him so he gave me his business card, and it had his cell phone number on it. i texted him a few days later and he didn't recognize my number, and i told him who i was and then he said that he didn't think anyone would text him that late, and i said i hope you don't mind. And then he said that he did be cause of his girlfriend, and also because he said he uses it for business purposes. I was very disappointed because i thought he liked me. i told my therapist about how i liked him and she told me since i am not allowed to date, to only make friendly conversation with him, but instead i ended up calling him and making a fool of myself. And when i told her what happened she said that i shouldn't have texted him so late or even at all since i wasn't even allowed to date. She also said that he was only trying to be friendly, and that he wasn't shy like i thought he was, but he was never interested in me. And if he was he would've already asked me out. She assured me everything would be fine and im just a little naive. I really wish i wasn't so how can i change this? Also how do you know if a guy really likes you and isn't just shy? Because im super embarrassed, and i plan on sitting with my other friend for the rest of the semester. please help!! (link)
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ok first of all, you sound WAY TOO obsessive. you're blowing everything out of proportion. it doesnt sound like he likes you, i'm sorry. some guys just want to be friends. and you shouldnt call/text him everyday because its just going to annoy him and drive him away further. your theropist is right, no matter how much it hurts, you have to let go or it'll just get uglier. just stop.
take care.
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Please dont say anything mean.
18/f
i come here from the phillipines. for those who know the phillipines we are not the richest country. i moved to washington just this last summer. my family comes from proverty so much so that we didnt own a tooth brush. so thats why my teeth are yellow. i was wondering is there anything other than brushing my teeth that will whiten my teeth. (link)
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chew either dentene or trident whitening gum, there are some mouthwashes that will whiten your smile, and you could also go to a dentist and they could give you a few tips or some flouride. i wouldnt recommend trying whitening strips. they are very uncomfortable, taste horrible, and are just a lot of hastle to deal with.
hope i helped :)
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Last Tuesday my boyfriend of a year and 2 months broke up with me. But, the day after he spoke to me and said how depressed he has been all day and he only wants a break for a while. I agreed with this - but this has got to be the most hardest thing I've ever gone through, he doesn't even know if we will get back together or not. One of the reasons why he did this is because I never show how happy he makes me an I'm just always sad when I'm around him. I've just been thinking all this time and I know I can do all the things he's told me htat I don't do. But just today I've been thinking about how to show he makes me happy and I realised it isn't something that I can do.
I used to be a big attention seeker, but being with him made me just grow up and be mature. I don't quite know how to explain it, but I.. show the opposite emotions? Like not just around him it's around everyone. I just don't like attention on me any more. So when I'm happy I just don't show it because people will be all like 'oh what's put you in a good mood' then if I'm upset it'd just be the exact same. I really don't know how to explain it properly though. I think I'm going to speak to him tonight about this as we have agreed to still speak and be as close as we were as friends - but I don't know if attempting to explain this will make a difference or he thinks I'm just making it up to get him back. I mean, obviously I do want him back and he knows I do, but he has told me he needs time and I completely respect that. I just don't know if I should bring this up or I'll just sound pathetic? (link)
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this sounds all too familiar to me. i'm the exact same way, and no, you can't explain it. my boyfriend took a break from me for almost the same reason, i'm guessing.
what you need to do sometimes, even if you're not in the best mood, you need to let him know that he's doing his job of making you a happy person--on the inside. like maybe smile more often, laugh sometimes, or just tell him in some body language; give him a hug or a peck on the cheek. hold his hand, kiss his neck, etc. any of these things will let a guy know that you're happy, even when you're really not. but it does let them know that you're happy, mentally, with them.
try some of these things. he'll start feeling the love eventually.
and as an afterthought, try to talk to your doctor about anti-depressants or something. i found out i was this way because i'm depressed. it might be the same with you.
i hope i helped :)
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17/f
so i dated a guy for 14 months. we were really serious and we spent alot of time together. we broke up because he wasn't treating me right, i was soo devestated over it. like i thought i was going into depression :/ he turned out to be a jerk in the end and i was just too blind to see it but now that we aren't together i'm starting to see his jerk side perfectly. and if i ever get feelings back for him i would never get back ina relationship with him. i should also mention we were each others first loves and he was my my first real boyfriend, my first real kiss, and the first person to do sexual things with ya know. but we didn't have sex, that's something i want to save. we've been broken up for 4 months. i still think about him alot and i feel guilty because i have a new boyfriend who i might be starting to fall for.
so i just started dating this new guy. he treats me really good and he's so sweet to me. but i don't feel those "sparks" that i got with my ex when we kiss. do you think its just because he was my first love and it was new to me? or because we just started dating and it just needs some time? i mean i really like him and we have fun together, but i don't know if i should continue the relationship or not because of that. i DO feel something with him, it just isn't as strong.
oh and one more question. me and my ex didn't start doing sexual things until we were dating for like 5 months, me and my current bf started the next week. is it true that if a guy really likes a girl he waits longer? is it that just a rumor? (link)
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with the sexual question, it all depends on the guy. sometimes he waits longer because he doesnt want to pressure the girl. sometimes they do it sooner because they feel such an attraction to them. but if you do do sexual things too early, it can ruin things. he could get bored or lose interest too soon, if at all. thats why couples usually wait. so that when they find the right time to start having sex, it feels all the more special. (cliche answer, i'm sorry)
and with this new guy, i think you don't feel sparks because you keep thinking about and comparing your old boyfriend to him. like "oh, he doesnt kiss me like so-and-so did." or "hmmm, so-and-so said that, too, and he was a jerk." so i'm going to tell you to do something that is probably going to be really hard, given your condition after the breakup, but you have GOT to stop thinking about him. i know you don't have feelings for him, but no matter how jerk-faced they are, or how much you start to hate them, the spark you had with your first lover never fully fades. i would know, my first love and i talk every now and again and it feels like i'm falling for him all over again. so, you need to get him off your mind. if possible, start spending more time with your new boyfriend just to busy yourself.
and also, sometimes the spark doesnt happen until later in a relationship. you need to give time for the spark to grow. the relationship wont bloom into a full-blown flame automatically. it probably did with your ex because having a real boyfriend excited you and so you started feeling something for him immeidately. with this other guy, again, just give it time. and in the mean time, keep your ex off of your mind. it could ruin a lot of things with your current love-interest. :)
take care.
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I saw this ad on TV about a cheap electric toothbrush for $15 and I've been thinking about buying it. I heard that electric toothbrushes are better for your teeth for some reason but then my friend said that they aren't and that they will damage the teeth. I am confused and don't know what to think. I don't want to damage my teeth. Which is best for my teeth? (link)
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the only reason i can think of that electric toothbrushes would be bad for your teeth is because since the bristles spin using a battery, sometimes the toothbrush will bump against your teeth, which can crack enamel. but they are good for you, too. they get rid of more plac than manual toothbrushes, and just all around give you a deeper clean. its like the difference between using your hands and using a loofah to wash your body.
hope this helped.
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I am a cashier at this little store near my house and this guy gave me a two-dollar bill today. He told me to act just like it was two one-dollar bills and that it's real. I took it and put it in the till but now I'm nervous that I took fake money. Are two-dollar bills real or did the guy lie to me? I'm so afraid I'm going to lose my job if this is like a common sense thing! What should I tell my boss as to why I took a fake $2 bill?! :( (link)
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there are some money factories that actually make $2 bills. they're real, all right. but if someone has one, usually they don't use it on anything, let alone at a convenient store.
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President Barack Obama has been in the white house office for more than a year now but I don't know anything he's done for the country yet. I know he was talking about fixing our health care but he hasn't done anything with that idea that I am aware of. He also promised to get our troops back home and they're STILL overseas fighting. I want to know what Obama HAS done though. I want to be proud of our president and not confused or unsure. (link)
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they just signed a health care thing sometime last week, but in my state they're fighting against it because most people here don't agree with this method. i have no idea what it does, though.
the only other thing i can think of is that he's gotten rid of the selling of clove cigarettes, since they're "sweet" and "encourage" children to start smoking. which a lot of people also don't agree with, mostly smokers though. ^.^ thats all i can think of, sorry. i don't know of much that he's done either. i'm glad you want to be proud of him, though, because everyone i talk to is already sick of him. have faith!
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hi...Im really in to sad piano songs, like Chopins "raindrop prelude"... I also like Claude Debussy's "Clair De Lune" can anyone recommend similar? (link)
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moonlight sonata by beethoven is very depressing but beautiful. also, i don't know if you could find this anywhere, but its by clint mansel and its called lux aeterna. when listening to it, its mostly violins but you could also find a piano piece for it. :)
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My boyfriend is going bald but he doesn't seem to have a problem growing facial hair on his chin. Why do guys seem to do that? My principal is REALLY bald but has a beard, too. Is that normal? Does their hair just stop growing on their heads and grow more on their face then? (link)
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the difference between the hair on your head and the hair on your face, (when it comes to males) is that even if they don't do as much with their hair as girls do, they still fool around with it a lot. and as they get older, the hair follicles become weaker from age, especially with men, and they eventually give up and stop growing the hair. with the hair on their faces, they don't mess with it a lot. they don't shampoo it and comb it and gel it. and even so, the hair on your head is a lot more fine then the hair on your face. thats why when they havent shaved in a while, its really prickly and almost painful.
hope this helped. :)
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Dear Advicenators,
My son is 25. He has a BS degree in electrical engineering and a decent job. He has some student loans he is in the process of repaying. As caring parents we told him he could stay at home after graduation to get a heads up on paying extra on his loans and we would not charge rent or anything like that. It has been one year now and I am finding it stressful that he is home. He is very unappreciative of anything I do for him. He is also rude to us and disrespects our rules and wishes in our own home. Needless to say, he isn't paying any extra on his loans and I have to constantly remind him to pay them on time. He has lived on his own at college and I feel like it's time for him to be back out on his own but how do I really know when it's time to tell him to leave? Signed a concerned mother (link)
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now, first off let me say, i don't have any children of my own, so this is purely opinionated, you don't need to listen to my advice, but this is what i think:
A) he's a 25 year old. he's been an adult for 8 years. he should be ready to move out on his own.
B) he's graduated college and has a decent job, again, he could be on his own.
C) he doesnt respect you as a mother, as most men dont when they live with their parents over the age of 23.
the thing is, its time to stop mothering him. he is a fully grown person and he needs to move out. if he doesnt pay off his loans on time, well thats just tough. thats life. if he doesnt learn to be responsible about this kind of stuff, he never will learn it and before you know it, he'll still be living with you when he's 40. i know you're his mother and you love him, but it is not your job to tell him when to pay off his debts and remind him to do so. really, all you're doing right now is spoiling him so he thinks he can slack off since he doesnt have to pay rent.
i say, you get him started. find him a decent, cheap little place and tell him that its time for him to leave, but dont be harsh about it. be sure to let him know that you love him and you'll always be there when he needs you, but you wont be around forever and he needs to start building up responsibilies. it will certainly make him more appreciative of all that you've done for him. i still live with my parents, and i'm not going to college. but i told them i want to be out of the house by the time i'm 19-21 and i DO NOT expect them to loan me money or baby me around as an adult, just because i need to learn the harsh realizations of living life on my own.
honestly, there is no better time then now. you know he needs to, so tell him. don't put it off any longer or you'll just never get around to it. just do it now. he may be a little pissed at first, but in time, he'll appreciate that you cared about him so much and prepared him for the future. and that's your job.
i hope this helped. :)
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my boyfriend and i are having sex but i can't get on birth control because i know my mom will find out!
We are using condoms but they only work sometimes so when is the worst time for getting pregnant so we can not have sex when there is the most chance of getting a full belly? (link)
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i'm sorry to say the only 100% affective way to NOT get pregnant is to not have sex. even on your period, since semen can stay alive in the vagina for up to 5 days.
there is no absolute date that getting pregnant would be least likely. just stick with using a condom, and be sure he pulls out. NEVER let him ejaculate inside you, even with a condom on.
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i'm 17/f and my bfs 18/m.
to start with, we have known eachother for almost a year now but only recently did we start dating. when we first met we liked eachother but we argued so much so we stayed friends. idk about him but i REALLY liked him, i was so upset when we argued and i always thought about him. now we have stopped arguing and were getting along really well, but it doesnt feel right to me. we havent argued at all since we have started dating, do you think im just used to arguing with him so thats why it feels weird??? i mean i dont think about him most of the day like i used to :/ dont get me wrong, i still really like him but idk..it just doesnt feel right. (link)
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you were too used to the arguing, like siblings. and it doesnt feel right to you because to your subconcious, it feels like you're dating your brother. you guys seem better off as friends, to me. :\
take care.
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Ok so whenever I am with my boyfriend my hands are all cold and clammy. Is there some way to fix this? Sometimes it happens while I am at work and the last thing you want is someone with cold sweaty hands bringing you your food, right?
Please help! (link)
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try this: when your at your boyfriends house, go to the bathroom every couple of hours and wash your hands with WARM WATER and soap. warm water gets rid of sweat and bacteria, unlike regular cold water. and likewise at work. this works for me. hope i helped. :)
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Sunday June 28 2009, 12:42 am...thats when you answered it about the whole ex coming back thing. i thought you gave really good advice and wanted to ask you more. well after going on the date with him we started hanging out alot and basically, i slept over his house..didnt have sex but hooked up alot. anyways, the next day he made sure i understood that he wanted no kind of relationship. i was crushed. honestly it sucked. but it made me recover quickly. a boy came into the picture and was a friend first so he helped heal alot. we began dating and 4 months into it started being sexually active. the boy is great and i really do have STRONG feelings for him. maybe even love. but everyonce in a while i think about my ex. and the new boyfriend had a bad problem with pills and lied to me about them at first. i found out when we started getting serious because he tried to quit and was going through withdrawls. he has successfully quit now. but now my ex knows and has been saying he wants better for me and recently confessed to the fact that he wants me back. and the stupidest mistake was breaking up with me twice. i just am so unsure on how i should feel. it feels so good to talk to him but i feel guilty. we have awesome conversations. but i love my new boyfriend and dont want to decieve him. my ex could just be playing games again. its just lately ive been liking the attention my ex is giving to me and remembering how he was always there for me which my new boyfriend is kind of bad at..idk just try to give me some words of advice. please and thank you!!!!!!! (link)
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wow that is a tough situation to be in. on one hand, you have a new boyfriend that you may love and you guys really communicate. plus, he helped you heal from your other breakup, which means he truly cares about your feelings and emotions.
on the other hand, your ex, whom you DID love, wants you back. you mentioned the fact that you said he might be playing games again. exes do tend to jump back to their old girlfriends if they get into a new relationship and start comparing the two girls, or if their old girlfriend gets a new boyfriend, especially if the new boyfriend has faults. then the ex will get jealous and start using phrases like "you deserve better" and "he's not good enough." but most of the time, from past experiences, its just pure jealousy. even if he dumped you. he may not even still love you, but he'll just feel better about himself.
what you need to realize, is that its too late for your ex. he basically used you when you stayed the night at his house, and you don't seem like the type who would go for a "friends with benefits" deal. i'm not either. he missed his chance, and now that you're finally happy again, he's trying to get you confused and to dump your bf to try things with him again. but what if things don't work out with him? what if he IS just playing you? then what do you say to your current boyfriend? "hey, sorry i just wanted to see if he still loved me and he didn't, so you and i can get back together now!"? its not fair to the person who has been by your side since you and your ex broke up.
what i would do if i were you, is stay with who i'm with. he truly loves you and doesn't seem like he'd ever do anything to hurt you. he helped you heal from your terribly breakup, and now you guys seem really close, and that's healthy. what ISN'T healthy, is keeping yourself guessing with mr.-on again-off again. you'll get confused, and end up getting hurt all over again. you can still be friends with him if you feel necessary. but i wouldn't go back out with him. you never know. things may change, and you and your bf might break up, and your ex may still claim to want you back. and then it would be okay to slowly develope another relationship with him. but right now, be happy with the guy that makes you happy. :) and feel free to message me anytime with any other questions. good luck.
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I just want to know is the guy from The Troop Nicholas Purcell dating Victoria Justice? (link)
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ask them yourself.
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i had a dream last night and i only remember a little bit of it, it bothered me. ca anyone tell me what it means? 17/f
i was dropped off at my house by my bus with my brother and sister. we were walking up to my doorstep when in our driveway, we passed a green car that didnt look very nice, and in the passenger seat there was a lady with a little gray dog, she had on a fur hat and stuck her nose up at us as we passed. i got a weird feeling, like i was scared and i speed walked to my doorstep where my sister was slowly opening our door. my brother was also infront of me and i was telling my siser to hurry up and open the door, i looked behind me and the lady and a man were running towards us.. finally my sister opened the door, and i made sure her and my rother were inside before i shut and locked the door qucikly. my brother and sister went upstairs and i crouched down by the door and the lady was looking through the little window on my door rubbing the glass, and trying to see inside, so i laid flat on m stomach and crawled into the kitchen where i got up and saw my sister, i told her i was scared and i was going to call the police and she was like, okay. so i tried calling th epolice but i would dial 988 or 998 0r 991, and then finally i dialed 911. the ohone rang and finally the line collected, i told them my full name and whee i lived and what ewas going on, and that there was a woman and man lookinginto m house and screaming at me through the door.. when i finished telling my story, i started crying and a man on the other line said, WHAT? and i hung up, then i dialed 911 again and a lady picked up and asked me what ws wrong and i told her my story...
then i think i woke up, because i dont remember anything else. does anybody have some ideas? thanks so much! (link)
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sometimes dreams where people are watching us is our subconcious telling us that we have a secret we don't want anyone else to know. maybe this lady is meant to be someone you look up to that would be greatly disappointed in you if she found out something about your past. have you done anything you probably shouldn't have lately? picked up any bad habits? if so, you might want to consider stopping, or coming clean. this is all that comes to mind.
hope i helped, and if this doesn't hit home in the least, i'm very sorry for wasting your time.
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Raven-Symone was on the Wendy Williams Show today and she said Wendy embarrased her on her radio show by asking her when she was 15 if she was a virgin in front of her parents. Does anybody know her answer? (link)
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that is raven's personal business. ask her.
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is tap water the same as bottled water essentially? (link)
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essentially, tap water is healthier. but in the end, its all water.
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