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Sex.Help.
18/Female
so my boyfriend and i have had sex about 10 times or so and I have not orgasmed yet. He is my first. I have never orgasmed with him before either when he has fingered me or massaged my clitoris. In fact no guy has ever made me climax. The only time I can orgasm is when I am by myself watching porn...and I do this by stimulating my clit while watching. I love my boyfriend so much and he would love it if I could finish with him, and I would too!!!
Please help. any advice with positioning? anything? AHHH HELP. lol
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Ask him to go down on you, that usually does the trick! Or maybe he's not fingering you the right way. Since you're able to get off using your fingers, show him exactly what you do to yourself. Guide his fingers to where they're supposed to be and make some noise when he's in the right spot so he knows where to stay!
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It usually takes more than vaginal intercourse to get a girl to orgasm. Sex alone will not do the trick. He can stimulate your clitoris with his finger all he wants, but it doesn't mean anything will happen.
Has he ever performed oral on you? Most times oral does the trick. I think I've only orgasmed once or twice from having sex normally and every other time it's been through oral stimulation.
Try that. I hope this helps.
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Have you tried watching the pornography with your boyfriend present? Are you feeling self conscious about orgasming in front of him? It might be helpful if you allowed him to watch what you do so he can learn.
Also, someone mentioned "missionary position" and got it wrong. Missionary is when the man is on top and the woman is on her back. What the person before me described is called "woman on top", or if she's facing away from him, "reverse cowgirl".
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it is very difficult to get a girl to climax . there is not way to actually explain how to do it as every girl is different . if you watch porn , maybe watching it with your boyfriend might help , unless that is just embarrassing for you . talk to your boyfriend and figure out what you can do . also you could talk to your doctor . there are many websites that your boyfriend can go to , to get helpful hints as to things he can do that might work . but in the end its all up to what your body likes best . it might take a while but if that is his main priority he will work to it . (:
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there is a stimulant for females in dietary supplement form. you could take this ahead of time, but talk to your doctor first. also, while you're having sex, get him to massage you while penetrating, that should get you more excited. oral sex is also a great way to get a girl going. and a position that is best for female satisfaction is missionary position: this means that the guy is laying down, the woman is on top of him, and his legs are in-between hers. it rubs the sensitive part of your vagina more, and he's getting pleasure, no matter what you do lol.
try some of these, or use warming lubricants or something. you're 18, so i think you're aloud to go into a sex store. :) have fun, and be safe
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