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Not much to say today. I only know I should be getting to bed because it's late. Oh snap. Here comes another calender day.
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i want a lion 4 a pet
how do i get it without joinin the circus
Steal it from a zoo. Woo-hoo! That's how I got my panda...that panda...
And i think you can have exotic animals if your rich. Or like roy from las vegas. I bet you heard about him?
anyway, i was just joking about the zoo thing. closest to a lion that you CAN have for a pet is a cat.
Buy a cat...it feels so nice when the lean on you and pur.
puuuuuuuurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!
I asked this guy named sean out and he didnt answer so just the other day i wrote him a note and it said "do u have a answer?" and she still didnt answer but everyone is telling me that he dosnt want to go out with me. i think i am in luv wut should i do? p.s. i told him i felt realli comfortable around him. but i try to avoid him each time i see him iz there something wrong with me? other ppl say we look realli good together should i just go and tell him again how i feel?
....and if what they said doesn't work, and Sean still doesn't reaspond/like you, then he really isn't the one.
i know your all going to call me a liar but i'm not. well, my freind is 12 and has had sex 13 times with the same person. here's the story...when she was 10 she was dating a 14 year old guy, their parents met and got married, then they were dating other people since they had become step siblings, then they wanted to be together so they had sex, just rcently she got pregnant and had an abortion all from her step brother. then a few days a go she gave head to and 18 year old!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i think it's rediculous! but she loves him and when she turns 16 her parents are signing something so they can move into an apartment together! she calls him her "husband!" i think it's real slutty. what should i say when she brings it up around me?
Oh no...almost everyone at my middle school just thinks of sex...and i sure that most of them already had sex. As a sixed grader said last year "I had half-sex"...but really, there is NO such thing.
BUT ANYWHO...
Your friend isn't very well educated on this.
"then they wanted to be together so they had sex"
You mean her step brother and she had sex?
Anyway, she can't "love" him. She is too young and especially to understand "love." And he is 18...i bet he dosen't care about her, and can throw / push her away whenever he feels like it. If she coontinues, then she is just going to screw up her life and die of AIDs.
"parents are signing something so they can move into an apartment together"
Her parents are signing a thing so that the 18 year old and they can have a place to live at when they are older? :-/ well looks at the people who are teaching her...how smart.
Anyway, he can't be her husband for they haven't married yet, and i don't think he wants to. he might be cheating on her since of the different schools, etc. he just wants to show off or just use her.
And she cann't have an abortion every time she gets pregnant...she could die, etc.
^
things you can tell her. just more kid-friendly.
smart dude
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what is giving a boy a head?
People, she was the one that ASKED. so maybe just say "It's a good thing you don't know, blah, blah, blah. But if you really want to know the meaning [a few space enters]" and then define the damn thing.
But i think someone already else did.. good jorb! *pat on the back.*
why did I responed to the question? Becuase i get confused on the "head" thing, sometimes.
I thought that definition was of a "blow job"...but i might be wrong. Or could be both. Either way...
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Here we go...!
"Giving head" is a slang term for performing oral sex on a guy — one partner stimulating another partner's penis. Women and men can both "give head." Oral sex on a man is also called fellatio. And oral sex on a woman is called cunnilingus.
The more you know.
http://www.teenwire.com/
if guys says that you remind them of his ex-girfriend is tht gd or bad thing?
A guy once told me that...and I knew that he meant I was being annoying or pushy. So...it could be a good thing, it could be a bad thing...he might still like her, he might not.
what is a pyro????????????
Someone who gets sexually arosed by fires?
Doing stupid things with fire?
A cool person on X-men?
Wow...those are just weird. I love to play with fire, and the candles wax...the wax can be used for artistic things! ...
Anyway:
pyro:
1. The art of manufacturing or setting off fireworks.
2. A brilliant display, as of rhetoric or wit, or of virtuosity in the performing arts
3. A person who has a compulsion to set fires
I love fire. I like to play with it sometimes...but do you think i would REALLY set someone of fire? I never even used the KKF image* on spacefem.
*a tiny-wee animation of a stick-girl setting a stick-guy on fire...like stickdeath, if you ever heard of it.
im such an idiot. Ive quit smokin even though there ciggerates in my locker and i havent have a shot or any liqur in like 2weeks. ive stop cuttin and everything. Until today. my mom wont quit yellin at me for stuff that i did do or didnt so i cuttin my side it really bleeding. Im like on my 6th paper towel but its slowing down. My life is screwing up again i dont think i can survive another downfall. Thanx for listenin bye
*dead soon*
p.s. ive seen a consular and they sux, they make life worst
Going into prostitution is even WORSE...and you said that you dob't want it to go downfall anylonger. Sex is not something to play with.
You must know the man long enough to have sex with him. And even if you THINK you know him, you might know. He might hvae a diseases that could be contagious...like AIDs.
But first, don't lower you selfesteem. You should be proud of yourself and make better changes for yourself, even if other people don't see it. You grandparents should support and help you, and clearly (from what you said), they don't.
A lot of guys/men have such perverted minds...you must take care of yourself. They don't care if your prostituting yourself, as long as they have their fun. And really, it's just another hole in your life.
And yes, you can last a virgin. I even saw a few interviews yesterday on people that ar still virgins...and some were 35!
It just depends on how far YOU WANT to go.
Make things for yourself...the best thing. Don't screw around if you want to go uphill.
For more info or some hotlines:
http://www.spacefem.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=10181
i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and we love each other so much,(we are both 20) we live together now and we are very happy except he recently got a p.c for our room and in the evenings he likes to download porn, while im asleep he often masterbates to it too.wev'e talked about it and he knows how i feel about, it even brought me to tears one time, i got that upset about it. i just dont like the fact that he would rather watch girls on the p.c then snuggle up with me. our sex life is good, for me and him so i dont understand why he loves it so much and its damaging our relationship. i dont know what to do, pls help!!!
p.s. im female!!!!
I read somewhere that porn was good for you about two years ago, but i forgot WHY...so...yeah.
But either way, it's gross. You already talked to him about it, so...try it again? I really don't think that little thing can damage your relationship that badley. It's not like he was having a threesome with you and about girl...but it could lead into that direction, depending on his own little world.
And it might not. But I would keep a good eye on him. TWO EYES!
I've never used an advice forum b4 but i guess i'll give you an over view of my situation first. I've been with my boyfriend for about 18months, he moved in to my house about 4 months ago, which was his suggestion. Everything was pretty good for a month or so but then we started to notice certain bits about each other, which is obviously going to happen. Silly little things like how we cleaned a room or when the washing up was done...silly little things. I, at the time, was going through a bit of a rough patch with my job, quite stressful and wasn't super happy or bubbly. My other half started to moan that I frowned too much or that i left the room in a mess etc but after doing a 12hour day i was tired and wanted to chill out. He works away on weekends so every weekend i did a full clean of the whole house, but this isn't the way he'd likes it doing. he is very particular about the way he likes things to be done and i'm trying to adapt to these ways but i know, he doesn't, that this isnt going to happen overnight.He's never been in a serious relationship b4 and seems to get very impatient when our relationship doesn't seem to be getting anywhere (where he wants it to go i'm not sure as he doesn't agree with marriage or kids and we're already living together) he's very good at pointing out my faults but can't take me pointing out any of his, he says he won't change for anyone and doesn't believe in comprimise. We're getting to the stage where we either do something about the situation we're in or we spilt up. I really don't want this to happen but I'm running out of ideas on what to do. He's got himself in a negative frame of mind and i don't know how to get him out of it. Please help?
Ps. I'm female and 22, hes 26 and obviously a guy!
Now you know how he is like better than when you didn't live together...Try to alk things out. if you already did that, do it again. If he just doesn't get it...too bad, so sad, but he just isn't the one.
That's why you date, peoples! To know the person better, not to have sex with them after dinner :-/.
(not pointing at anyone *here* that i know of, even if i said "peoples")
hi, it's me again who wrote before, "wat do u think" well bascially i have this male friend in college and his quite older then me, the thing is we have a good times by ourself or in groups but the thing is sometimes i'm confused in what things he say's to me and why? he say's thing's like it's just like being married to you? i mean wat was tht all about?? and he also said this in a joke way before that he said "you need relationship counselling i think" as in a jokey way though, then i replied and said; well look who's talikng when you are then one had lots of breakdowns in your past relationship and being dumped ny your ex-girlgriends then he say's; i actually dumped them when only he was trying to deny himself but when i said that he had a grin on his face and went red.
As in the other hand i'm single and i havn't been out with any one for a long time even though i had lots of guy's askin me out in college and out of college but thats not the point i didnt say this to him though because he was saying to me in a joke way and saying are you trying to play hard to get? wat was he on about there! not only that he say's that he has a great sociable time with me when were alone and has called me "you'r such an sex symbol" and no wonder why older guys prefer you more is because you are so attractive and nice/very mature and loving caring person etc...
He also said the other day i can imagine already bumping into you in 8yrs time having lunch with you while you tell me everything about your life.
i mean he does talk to me alot and has a happy smile when i say something to him or make him laugh alot and sometimes he goes red, i'm just confused when he says things tome and why does he say it and what does he mean about it's like being married to you. Recently he has been in a funny mood blanking me then talking to me and sayin is everything ok and how r u etc.. but then agian he makes me be the last perosn to be looked at while he takes his time talking to other girls but i don't mind it's just that why doe she keep me the last one to be listned to is it because he is trying to get my attention or what? and when he talks he looks deep down m eye even thogh my hair is in the way it's like he is trying to serach them and when he talks to teh other girls he always try to glance at me every now and then if i'm looikn or not or wat am i doing? also he does tease me alot and jokes with me alot and winks at me when ever he see's me and say's frount of people it's like being married to you, and he does say hi all the time or if i don't reply he will say it continously and tells me at least you can smile back at me or say hello! and not only that he said i remind him soo much of his ex-girlfriend as he was laughing but he used to say nice thing about her, even though it's his x and he said i also remind him of somebody else with a happy face but why does he mention these peculiar things to me or says it to me then somebody else and he always takes me as a game or a joke and somtimes not taking me seriously or listening to me apart from mirroing me with his face expression or when i say something he is trying to make laugh and always pull his eye-brow up and down but why it's really annoying and embrassing, but we are only gd frineds though we only known each other for 6/7 months. SO PLEASE HELP ME OUT I'M REAL CONFUSED LIKE HOW THIS PERSON IS ACTING AND SAYING THESE THINGS HELP ME UNDERSTAND WHY OR WHAT IS THIS PERSON TRYING TO SAY? ansd i never know what he means it's like being married to you he was realy laughing and having a grin on his face when he said that. well srry about this long essay and thanx ever soo much 4 ur reply tke care! bye sweet facex
Age doesn't matter. It really doesn't. As long as you two know eachother well enough, love eachother, and can bare eachother for millions of years to come, then there is no problem at all. Unless he wants a piece of your arse! =0!
I think he is trying too hard asking you out. Hehe...just ask him what's up.
*Reads further*
He could be joking...trying to play with your feelings, even if he doesn't know it. I wouldn't like it if a guy did that to me and then go look at other girls.
I was the one who wrote about being out on strike. I had to pick a different category because I was afraid it would erase my question. Anyway, I got a job at a pizza restauraunt, and I like it. The people are nice, and the job seems fairly easy. The problem is, I have to take a bus there, and some of my family are worried about me. I wouldn't take one after dark, and it's only a fifteen-minute ride, so I don't know what the big deal is. They think that I should go back to the store, since the strike is being settled. I'm supposed to vote on what they settle on, but I don't see the point if I'm not going back. I was unhappy there for 6 years, and was not being promoted. I don't think that the company is going to give us a fair deal, and even though I get insurance from my husband's job, and it doesn't affect me, I still feel I don't want to work for such an unethical company. My sister understands, and says I don't have to go back. I will apply at a drug store as soon as it's finished being built that is close to my home. This job is only temporary, and I really like it. I think I should stick with it. What do you think?
Stick to that jorb you heart.
how do you make your own advice column so people could ask me questions and ill give them advice
just answer as many problems as you can. [/quote]
oh wow...
question: "i need help...blah, blah, blah"
responce from some random memeber here: "YOU T*I*PE LYKE so0o0o0o0o0m muchEDRA. SHUT UP MATHAR fucker!!!"
yes...make sure you hvae meaning to your responce as well. and have a good time being an advicetor.
For the second time in my life, I am dating a virgin. The last time I blew it by letting my sex drive push me to push him away. I need help on how to not get so bent out of shape about not having sex.
I have "toys". I use them. I pleasure myself often. I still want to have sex. Now, I am dreaming about my ex. I hate it. I hate my ex. Even if I met up with ex, it would only be for sex and undermine all the relationship I have been building with my current boyfriend.
I love him so much it hurts. I hope that he will propose to me next year, but I am becoming meaner and meaner. I try to pet myself with shopping or other pampering. I enjoy crosstitching and stuff. I need another clue.
Pssh. They can tell you they love you, you sleep with them and they disapper.
But you are different.
Like the last person said, people are people. Cats are still cats, and pigs can fly.
You don't need sex in a relationship...just try not to think about it...as *impossible* it may seem. Haha...
My parents dated for FIVE years before they got married :-/ people these days...but then again, i don't know how long you two were dating. Just talk to him about what you think or feel. Etc...Etc...
i was wondering...i'm the ultimate good girl...i haven't done anything remotely sexual. i haven't even gotten kissed yet. but i'm curious...about fingering, blowjobs, handjobs. can someone please explain to me how to do those? hah. i know that's rather stupid and could leave u open to lots of answers...but i need answers. and also pubic hair...shave? trim? i'm lost..any help is appreciated. and when you stop laughing at me maybe u can gimme some advice. ;) hah.
Yes, i'm like that too...but DruidX seems to know all...i'll just ask her!
it's late...so...
pubic hair...shave? if you want to...i've heard it tickles or/and itches the first few times...but you'll get used to it.
How do I tell my my really nice friend that she wears WAAAAY too much makeup? She's pretty underneath it all, but I swear she puts on so much makeup nobody knows what her real face actually looks like anymore. I don't want to hurt her feelings, I just want to help her out.
make up can eat the natural colour of the skin...and look oder than what she really is when she is oder and pale...she'll be FORCED to... tell her the truth, that she is pretty, and doesn't need the whole thing...
Hi im one of your fellow advice columnist!
I'm asking this question because i'm desprete! (no offence) My mom has this hatrid for schools and so i'm home schooled but I don't get taught anything! Some of you may think this is great but I want to go to collage and my mom is excepting me have my GED when I turn 16 which is in 2 years. My mom says thats its my responsability to remind her to teach me. Its just that I don't like to remind her because all she does is give me the same stuff to that she has been giving me for the last 6 years. My mother REALLY depressed and I am having a hard time with her. this year when school starts I should be in 9th grade and in high school but I amm really scared about what to do! because if the state knew that I'm not getting any schooling they would take me away. I mean I'm getting to the point to where I'm going to tell the state. Please don't tell me tell my mother to put me in school because I have done that MANY times and trust me my mom isn't pretty when she is mad.
I have taught myself to read and write play the piano and many other things that I could learn to do in school. I am very advanced in piano and I write poetry and I have one that is published and I have storys published in magazines too. i am very good at cooking and baking. sewing.
So you see I'm not stupid but I cant go any futher now. I NEED to be in school.
I really could use your advice! i really would like an aults point of veiw on this but will take anybodys advice.
thankyou you can e-mail me at kutekrushkat@yahoo.com
signed
not stupid
teach me how to cook...i'll pay, i'll pay!
a year ago, i typed in "science standards for seventh grade" in google. here is one of the websites i got:
http://www.nusd.k12.ca.us/Nusd/science-seventh.html
so...go do that, only with a different subject and grade...i'm sure you can find something!
good luck!
How long does it take for a question to post? I am wondering if my recent question dissappeared again.
Once you hit the "submit" botton unless someone has to check it before it gets posted...which i'm sure we don't do. but, it might not be posted if something is wrong with the HTML, java, or whatever that is being used.
i was pregnant when i was young and coming from a strict family i concealed it for 7 months, i just couldnt tell my parents, the childs father doesnt know anything about it,as i was so afraid of what my parents would say, however time went on and i had the baby my parents loved their grandchild and all was well, i told my parents the father was a young lad who they didnt know and i didnt want him to know as he wasnt really a father type. but my son is asking questions now hes 10 im with a lovely man who treats my son as his own but my son is asking if hes his real father ive said yes but he looks baffled as ive been with my partner for 4 years, i just really dont know what to tell him for the best
Sorry i've been pushing this away from me..but now its almost the weekend and feel as if i should answer before i go.
and this makes me think...so...yeah.
The father of the child should pay for support or something like that. you should of told him, or did he figure it out? he doesn't have to take care of the child, but he is still the father and must take responsibility somehow. but if you want it to leave it like it is, then do so, because things seem to run finely without him.
as for your child, i think you should tell him the truth. maybe not the whole truth in one minute...just a simple "no." if he asks who it is, then just say you'll tell him in a year or so. if you lie bout it, he can find out later on, and could turn out into an angst teen thing, but he knows. if later on he wants to meet his father, you tell him your reasons why not if you don't want him to.
i hope this helped you out, and good luck!
What can I do about those annoying idiots online who never bother to spell anything right? (a.k.a. newbies). They're really annoying! Everytime I run into one online I just want to stab a fork into an electrical socket... It tingles, but then you die. Can anyone help?
It's really not that annoying :-/ or maybe i'm just used to talk to my rl friends online...
whatever it is...it doesn't bother me...but CAPs are something else...they give me headaches...
i can't help you...ignore them if you can, or inspire them to write properly?
i have this friend. shes a really good friend of mine. we got on really well. but about a year ago she started to show her true colours. everything i said i liked she said she hated, but then about 2 wks later she would say she liked it having forgotten she said she hated it. ive found she started to copy me aswell. she started to take my friends away. she can be really nice....but she has mood swings. she likes to critisise a lot. she can become very bitchy when she doesnt get her own way. she likes to take control and tells me she hates it when others take control. she seems to contradict everything.
i think that our friendship is deteriorating. i dont want it to. what do i do? i dont want to hurt her feelings? shall i say anything? i feel trapped.
I don't think you need that kind of "friend" but if you do, just talk to her. if she still has a mood swing, stop it. she's just not worth it.