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i know i already post this but i need answers
im such an idiot. Ive quit smokin even though there ciggerates in my locker and i havent have a shot or any liqur in like 2weeks. ive stop cuttin and everything. Until today. my mom wont quit yellin at me for stuff that i did do or didnt so i cuttin my side it really bleeding. Im like on my 6th paper towel but its slowing down. My life is screwing up again i dont think i can survive another downfall. Thanx for listenin bye
*dead soon*
p.s. ive seen a consular and they sux, they make life worst
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Okay well try to find some other way to put all ur anger to, like um..anytihng idk try somthing like nextt time u go to cut urself take like somthing else...stuffanimal rock pillow if needed, and dont get into doing shit with guys just for fun N all yes i know fun! sounds cool, just get a bf just make sure therers no STD's and all bekuz i dont think you wanna gothrought that...um...here are some things that you could go to to get help, i think u dont like consulars because they are talking to u bout somthing they ahvent went throught, soo here are some places where ur talking to N stuff wit people that have been in ur situation, [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
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Hotline for Teens who Cut: 1-800-366-8288
National Teen Emergency Hotline: 1-800-448-3000
there i hope i helped even a little bit...if u need anything just ask! **Sara**
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Going into prostitution is even WORSE...and you said that you dob't want it to go downfall anylonger. Sex is not something to play with.
You must know the man long enough to have sex with him. And even if you THINK you know him, you might know. He might hvae a diseases that could be contagious...like AIDs.
But first, don't lower you selfesteem. You should be proud of yourself and make better changes for yourself, even if other people don't see it. You grandparents should support and help you, and clearly (from what you said), they don't.
A lot of guys/men have such perverted minds...you must take care of yourself. They don't care if your prostituting yourself, as long as they have their fun. And really, it's just another hole in your life.
And yes, you can last a virgin. I even saw a few interviews yesterday on people that ar still virgins...and some were 35!
It just depends on how far YOU WANT to go.
Make things for yourself...the best thing. Don't screw around if you want to go uphill.
For more info or some hotlines:
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It's great to hear that you've quit drinking and smoking. I know that that must have been hard, but don't get into the habit of cutting yourself. Soon you'll be getting more questions like "what happened!?" and "What did you do!?" life sucks, I know. Just don't go killing yourself, there are still a lot more pleasures in life that you may have not experienced.
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Your home life sucks and so does mine. External help is not always the answer. I hate to preach, but have you looked into spirituality, meditation, or some way of expressing your spirit? I am not talking about church or "getting religion" because that isn't always the answer. If you have some quiet time to yourself, I suggest you find a private spot outside or some where you dont' have bad mental associations. Take a candle or a marble or something you like, a little trinket that makes you feel all right, and just think about it. Think about nothing, or about wind, or about how spring is moving around, the feel of your clothes on your skin, or sleep, or talk to yourself quietly about the things you like and what you'd like to do someday.
This is what got me through the worst years of my life. It hasn't improved much with my family, but my mind is much stronger because I have trained myself that my destiny is my own, and the negative hateful things my family say to me have no base in reality.
If you'd like any further guidance on things of this nature, considering I can't change your family's perceptions of you; only try to help you change your own perception of yourself; contact me if you'd like some sites about things to meditate on, or various spiritual sets of ideas that may make you feel better.
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I am very proud of you for quiting. Don't take your own life because if you do then you don't get another chance to go back and tell the people you care about them and love them. Giving your life isn't the way to solve ANYTHING and you know it.
I love you and God loves do the smart thing!
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