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my boyfriend loves porn
i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and we love each other so much,(we are both 20) we live together now and we are very happy except he recently got a p.c for our room and in the evenings he likes to download porn, while im asleep he often masterbates to it too.wev'e talked about it and he knows how i feel about, it even brought me to tears one time, i got that upset about it. i just dont like the fact that he would rather watch girls on the p.c then snuggle up with me. our sex life is good, for me and him so i dont understand why he loves it so much and its damaging our relationship. i dont know what to do, pls help!!!
p.s. im female!!!!
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I read somewhere that porn was good for you about two years ago, but i forgot WHY...so...yeah.
But either way, it's gross. You already talked to him about it, so...try it again? I really don't think that little thing can damage your relationship that badley. It's not like he was having a threesome with you and about girl...but it could lead into that direction, depending on his own little world.
And it might not. But I would keep a good eye on him. TWO EYES!
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If your boyfriend truly loves you, then he would stop if you asked him to. Masturbating is very disturbing but you have to remind yourself that every person has a little pervert in themselves.
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It is a fact of life that guys maturbate, even if they have a good sex life. So you can't get too upset for him doing it. Although doing it while you are in the same room is disrespectful. Try to be more understanding with him. Let him know that it is ok to masturbate, but just not while you are at home.
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Wow, that is sad. Porn can be addicting, especially to males, and if you don't stop him now or get him counciling you two may not have a normal sex life. Try passwording the computer so he can't look at it. Threaten to break up with him, then maybe he will come to his senses. The fact that he likes porn more than he likes to have sex with you is sad. Hope this helps!
Good Luck - QBillion
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just watch it with him?.....or seduce him
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Well, I know if I ever met this guy I'd probably be kicking his ***! That IS truly despicable! If I were you I'd probably... well, you said you love him, so threaten to break up with him. Don't actually do it, just make him realize exactly how you feel. Secondly, mess with his computer so he can't use it if he keeps trying. Don't let him in bed with you next time as well. Make him sleep on the couch. And yes, he'll also need counseling if it's so serious. This is an addiction, and a problem you can't just make go away. It's like an addiction to alcohol, you need to receive professional help.
Speaking of help, I can only hope I did. Let's see if anyone else can say something better.
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I think the fact that this is going on in your bedroom while you are there in bed is awful. No wonder you were brought to tears by it. Ask him how he would feel if you used a vibrator and magazines with photos of good looking men while he slept next to you.
Also, I would want to know what exactly causes his fantasies to be more appealing than reality.
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