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sexual frustration
For the second time in my life, I am dating a virgin. The last time I blew it by letting my sex drive push me to push him away. I need help on how to not get so bent out of shape about not having sex.
I have "toys". I use them. I pleasure myself often. I still want to have sex. Now, I am dreaming about my ex. I hate it. I hate my ex. Even if I met up with ex, it would only be for sex and undermine all the relationship I have been building with my current boyfriend.
I love him so much it hurts. I hope that he will propose to me next year, but I am becoming meaner and meaner. I try to pet myself with shopping or other pampering. I enjoy crosstitching and stuff. I need another clue.
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i hear ya on the sexual frustration bit i get so sexually frustrated i could scream and i do also get really mean at times from lack of sex even tho you have toys they are no substitution for the real thing trust me and if he dont wanna give it up then you have to make a decision if he is worth the wait if so deal with the possiblility that you may not get sex or anything else you may need from him like a proposal i would let him know your feelings you have given him ample time to make up his mind then you have to make up yours is he worth it or not if not let him go if so wait if you feel you must go to your ex for a sexual encounter then be honest with him and yourself that is what it is and nothing more take care and good luck
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Pssh. They can tell you they love you, you sleep with them and they disapper.
But you are different.
Like the last person said, people are people. Cats are still cats, and pigs can fly.
You don't need sex in a relationship...just try not to think about it...as *impossible* it may seem. Haha...
My parents dated for FIVE years before they got married :-/ people these days...but then again, i don't know how long you two were dating. Just talk to him about what you think or feel. Etc...Etc...
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Dating a virgin isn't much different to dating someone who isn't -- you just have to take it slow. I wouldn't jump into bed with someone i liked after only a little while of dating them, virgin or not. You MUST talk to him about this. Ask him if he's secure enough to take the next step. Tell him you love him. If you don't tell him he's not going to know why you're becoming meaner. Whatever you do, DO NOT go back to your ex.
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