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FACELESS FRIEND........
Your face, your smile, I have never seen I don't know the color of your skin
Your voice and laughter I have never heard I don't know if it is soft or loud
Your hugs I have never felt I don't know the strength of your arms Your hand I have never touched I don't know if it is calloused and worn
But to me you are my friend Dearer and sweeter than many I've found The questions come to me, "How can that be?"
"You don't know a face, a touch, or a sound." But is it the physical nature of a person That causes me to call you "my friend"
Or the feel of a touch or the strength of a hug I don't need those for you to be my friend
You have shared with me words of strength At times I have felt weak and worn
You have brought to me a smile, a laugh Uplifting me and bringing me joy
You have bent your "ear" to me and listened Then gently guided and directed with your words
You have hugged me tight, wiped my tears Then generously gave to me above and beyond
You are more to me than words on a screen For behind those words is a person who cares
A person with feelings, a tear, and a laugh Who holds my mind safe and secure
For even though I don't know your face, your Touch I feel and see you in my mind You have been all to me that I've needed you to be
Now and forever within my heart...My Faceless Friend....
Humm, are you sure you didn't mean this to be in 'writing?' Its very pretty, though some more punctuation [eg 'You are more to me than words on a screen For behind those words is a person who cares'] would be prefered
This isn't exactly a question, but how many people agree that if someone goes to the trouble of answering a question, then the person who asked the question could take the trouble to rate it? I don't do this to be rated, of course, but I would like some feedback for how well I've answered the question, so I can improve any answers I give or see my mistakes. So please, if someone answers your question, could you rate them?
I totaly agree, the point of the rating system after all is to find out who are the good collumists and who are the bad ones, with the intention of getting rid of the really bad ones. How else will this be achived if people don't rate the collumists?
Have a care people.
what is a wet dream?
Further to Cspinoza1's answer, The dream can be so intense that the dreamer's sexual organs start to prepare for sex and lubricate themselfs thus making the dreamer wet in her/is genital area.
Hi i have a comment im friend2all and love answering questions ive also wrote for advice myself. To the people who give a unbleable joke question pls when u ask a question like this u will get some bad comments but advice nators do not aim to do that. If u are bored or wanna talk about anything then u can. Advice nators is not just about giving and asking for advice its finding friendship from all over the world.
Err... Sorry but my understanding of Advicenators is that people ask and we answer. This is also the definition given on the about page. If you want to chat to another advice collumist, maybe you should do it via e-mail. Or I guess we could prod Spacefem into setting up some sort of PMing system, or *gasp* another forum....
ok, my dad hurt his leg a while ago, he twisted his foot all the way around once-falling off our deck, and he lost the nerve in his right foot to pick up the foot (not the leg but the foot). i see him doing this tuff work out side all the time, and its almost like i can see him getting hurt again, he trips over himself all the time, i just dont know what to do. please help.
It sounds like you need to sit down with him and explain you concerns. I'm not too sure what 'turf work' is but maybe you can come up with an alternitive to him doing it.
__Takes my breath away__
Sitting next to him,
I like to say,
that he takes my breath away,
To the Lord,
I pray,
because he takes my breath away,
In my mind,
over and over I play,
"He takes my breath away",
his name is no use,
for all I say,
Is that he takes my breath away,
He's taken, I know,
but be it as it may,
he still takes my breath away.
Crap clique and lame. They repition is boring, the rhyming shows no thought, and the subjet matter has been done buy everyone who has a pen and can write.
Try going for somthing a little more induvidual and imaganitve next time, and I point you http://www.draakchaos.com/forum/ to read some better works and maybe learn how to write better.
i was renovating my house when one of the workman found a sum of money hidden in the wall. Abou this time the previous owner of the house arrived and claimed that he "left something behind" that his late uncle left hidden of whom he inherited the house from. i claim that it is mine. the workman wont hand it over on the basis of "finders keepers". can anyone help give me advice on whom has the better right to the money?
Well it does depend on what contry you are in, but I don't think 'finders keepers' will stand up in a court of law. If the pervious occupant has the will of the late uncle, and it says what the previous occupant alleges on it, then I would have thought the money would go to him.
However, if the pervious occupant has no proof to support his claim, then I expect the money would go to you as the owner of the house.
This sounds like you would be best getting the help of a proffesional on this matter.
Hey, I'm 13 and am having a slight problem. I started dancing when I basically stared to walk. I have been part of the "gifted singers" program for a while, I write poems and short stories, paint, and have gotten leading roles in many theater productions. I have no idea where to invest most of my energy! What path should I choose? ~insanity_will_dominate
I think you need to get opinions on what you can do best and go for that. I don't mean from mates, who might be biased, but from teachers, other aquantances etc.
Remember that dancing, singing and acting go hand in hand.
You might also want to look at what sort of collages/ scholerships/ career prospects are like for each feild.
I don't meant to sound mean, but if a person has flab hanging out, they should not wear tight, revealing clothes that a skinny person would wear. I'm tired of seeing women in particular wearing halter and short tops with their flab hanging out the sides, and their bottoms straining the seams of their tight, low-cut jeans. I'm not a skinny mean girl saying this, I have extra pounds on me and I try to dress in a way that flatters me and hides what I don't want to show off. Do these women think they look good? Are they in denial? What is the deal?
Do you want advice or do you just want to rant? Next tie, why don't you politly ask one of them why they do it, and then politly point out they look quite bad, and then go rant someplace else, not an advice website :)
How do you publish your own stories?
It can be quite difficult to do this, time consuming as well as costly. It might just be easier to submit your manuscript to an agent or publishing house, or maybe even find an indiependant, small publisher.
If you are serious, you need to do your homework. I did a google search [http://www.google.com/search?q=self+publishing+
guide&sourceid=mozilla-search&start=0&start=0&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8] and came up with a lot of results. I think a lot depends on where you are [US, UK etc] as to what to look out for in terms of legal requierments. If you are in the UK, see if you can get hold of a copy of the 'artists and writers yearbook'. this has loads of really usefull stuff about everything an artist or writer could need, including your query.
A well known Sci-Fi author, Neal Asher, started out by just printing a collection of short stories on a Lazerjet and purchasing an ISBN number.
But like i said you need to do your homework, and go to better scources than here. Good luck :)
As the question says. :) Not to toot my own horn or anything like that, but I consider myself a good writer, as do my teachers. Essays, articles, parodies and reports get consistently excellent marks. However, I've desired to write creative stories, specifically fanfiction, for a long time, but I'm having trouble writing anything. Last time I've written fanfic was at 14; now I'm 17, and I'm afraid I've lost any spontaneity and skill I might've had. I don't believe imagination to be the problem, but I have trouble writing them out onto paper/computer, and I also have the problem of being too self-critical, so I'm constantly editing and deleting things (which doesn't do much for progress!). Does anybody have any suggestions to help?
Have you tryed not writting fan fic? And have you tryed wandering somewhere to get inspiered? I Doubt this will have you suddenly writing novels but my best advice is, go somewhere and people watch. Make up little paraphraphs about people.
As for the being self critical, just try really hard to write something short without edititing anything, then tell yourself 'once I have finished, I can edit it'.
I would also point you towards http://spacefem.com, or http://www.draakchaos.com/forum/index.php where there are many other such buding writers who ca offer you critiquie
Goof luck :)
I wana a 6-pack! How do I get it? Waht do I have to do to get a 6-pack?
Depends what sort. You could either go to a shop and buy one or you can excersise you stomach muscles. try joining a guys and asking one of the staff to help you get one.
i can't help myself especialy when i get nervus & i end up sniffing & getting high. the last time i did was befor my skool play. my friends got scared. they prayed & cry for me. i wanna stop getting high but i cant help myself. wat should i do?
You need to go and see a doctor I think. S/he can reffer you to an addictions specialist.
Good luck :)
there is this guy at school who i really really like and we talk alot and hangout together and act like were going out but were not!! im scared he's going to ask me out and i would really want to say yes but my mom and dad told me i couldnt go out with him because his brother drinks and does drugs and everything!! what should i do???
Just becuse his brother is a bad person doesn't mean he is; 'Judge not the son by the sins of the father'.
Also, your parents do not nessisarily hold sway over every aspect of your life, but its possible that they are concerned that this guy is going to become like his brother, and they don't want thier daughter to get hurt.
So, talk to your parents, and you prospective about your concerns, and take it from there.
Good luck :)
i fell in luv with a guy n he doesnt feel the same for me now were no longer 2gether and he has a girlfriend yet i cant even look at another guy. how do i get over him?
A good cry, a lot of comfort food, a good night out with the girls is what I would recommend. You have to rember, that all people are different, and thus it takes different amounts of people differnt amounts of time to get over their loves. Just give yourself a bit of time to realise that maybe you weren't right for eachother or whatever, and that you probably don't really need him :)
This is really embarassing for me to ask but oh well, here goes...
When I go swimming I wear a bathing suit (duh). But I notice that my pubic hair pokes out through the material (in front). It isn't that noticeable but it's embarassing and you CAN see it. I don't think shaving would help, I think it would just make ot worse. I tried trimming it a bit but that didn't work either! What can I do to stop this????
Humm, I'm not sure there really is anything you can do, other than trimming or shaving it. Is it possible that your swimsuit is a little threadbare, making it easier for your hair to poke out?
Sorry I can't halp much :(
This is a site for people who want to ask real questions right? Or, is this a sight where people make jokes and write meaningless things? I'm confused!
This is a site for people to ask questions, hopefully in a sensible and well written way, and for other people to answer those questions, hopefully in the same style.
i have a sex parner. We practice safe sex dont worry!!! We met up ever so often and he buy me toys we use on each other. I wanted to find some new toy we can try together but i dont no what websites they are i heard that if u type itt on in the web search then its just porno. Ne 1 help ??
Try putting the safety thing on google on when you search, and include as many key words as you can, so you don't get pr0n. You could also try going to a shop and finding some.
y r people always being rude and reporting me whan i dont do anything to them i love to help not caz problems
the missunderstude girl
One little point, maybe you could brush up on your typing skills/ english. There are allways going to be horrible people out there, maybe you could try leaving AOL and joining a website community, such as Spacefem.com, where people will treat you as you wish to be treated, and how you treat them.
good luck *hug*
[Yay for shamless plugs :P]
I have two questions, and they are very important to me.
1. How can I remove the hair along my bikini line? I've tried shaving, but everytime I shave there, I get a whole bunch of little itchy painful red dots EVERYWHERE! I don't really want to involve my mother in this, so maybe you could just tell me a way I could shave without getting them? Because I'd really like to be able to wear a bikini bottom this year and not boy shorts.
2. Today is Sunday, and I was expecting my period on Thursday. It has not come yet. Usually it is totally predictable, but it might be screwed up still because last month it was about a week late. I'm not sexually active or anything, so it's not something that's wrong like that, but do you think I should be worried?
1. Ooh, shaver rash is nasty. Some ways I have found to combat this are don't let anyone else use your razor, make sure it doesn't get rusty, and make sure its clean after each shave. You could try using a gell or foam to shave with and mosturise the shaven area afterwards.
If you don't want to shave at all, there is always waxing [*winces for you*], or hair removal gel. I don't really know how well this works, but you should be able to pick up a kit at your local chemist, supermarket or drugstore [if you happen to be US]. I don't have any personal experience with either of the last two tequniques though.
2. I wouldn't be too worried as its only been 3 days. Change in diet, sleeping patterns, excersise and fluid intake, stress, new medications and many other things can affect your period. If it hasn't come within two weeks I would go and have a chat with your doctor/ practice nurse, just to make sure everything is fine. Always remember to consult a doctor if you are ever concerned about your sexual health.
Good luck with everything :)