The name is Kayla.
I'm totally cool with giving anyone advice. It's what I love to do. So ask away.
Hm. I'm 16. Brownish - red hair .. green/blue eyes .. 5 ft.
I love life. I've experienced many things in it.
Live it to the fullest, but never regret .. you can never take back anything you've done.
E-mail: KaylaH1303@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Georgia
Occupation: School
Age: 16
Member Since: October 5, 2004
Answers: 277
Last Update: May 23, 2006
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How do you give guys blow jobs? (link)
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haha stick their dick in your mouth and move your mouth up and down and lick it and give them a hand job all at the same time. haha good luck with that! hope i helped!
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ok, there is tis guy at school who really likes me. so he asked me to the school dance, i said yes and we went together. i really wanted him to ask me to slow dance but he didn't until the last song, when i was tired and didn't want to dance anymore. so i said no thx, not maybe next time. now he thinks i rejected him from being a couple, and he won't even talk to me anymore. what should i do to get him to talk to me again? (link)
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well tell him that you really did want to slow dance with him the whole time you were there but you were really tired by the time the last slow song came on but it wasnt anything against him bc you really like him but you definitely want to slow dance with him next time! i hope this helped! -kayla
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Ok well...theres this boy i like and he says he likes me back and all my friends say he likes me back too but idk i just dont see it. lik he laughs with other girls and when we are together..we just lik dont talk that much. i mean i lik him alot. and we're going to homecoming together. so i just dont know what to do..
me- (link)
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well i think maybe that hes really shy to show you how he feels or hes a big flirt but even if he is a big flirt that doesnt mean he likes other girls. but i really think hes gotta like you if yall are going to home coming just ask him how he feels and ask him why he flirts with other girls when it makes you really confused about him. try to hang out with him more too that will probably let yall get to know eachother a whole lot better and it will be easier for yall to talk. try to go out just the 2 of you if you can. i hope i helped! -kayla
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ok it started when me and my mom were just home doing nothing and my two friends were knocking on the door and my mom told me not to answer , but my frrieds saw me so i told her i wnated to , but these to friends arent my nicest friends ,anyways, before i could even get to the door she yelled out "what do u want!?!?" in a real loud rude voice and they answered "oh we're here to collect a book your daughter borrowed from me" and my mom lied and said "no she;s sick" and went back to her T.v . a f ew minutes later she noticed they were still at the door so she yelled agauin "leave!! why are you girls still here? " and they said "ok fine..sorry!" and they left.but they came and said "listen vcould you just give mne back my book!?!?!" and my mom got really p[issed an dyelled at them to egt away . i was inb tears at taht point feeling so embaressed and ii told her how she embaressed me and all ahse did was scream at me telling me taht i should shut up . i just wnat you to help me find out a way to make her change and not to embaress me anymore . please answer me . i'd appreciate it. tahnk you bye. (link)
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omg wow this is a hard one to answer. first i want to say that im sorry about all of that .. she shouldnt do that. just dont talk to her for a few days and when she yells try to ignore her and dont disobey her but next time it happens go out another door and meet them around the front or something and then go back inside. idk if talking would help in this case she seems kind of set in her ways but just try it. i hope i helped you out! -kayla
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Well, my question has 2 parts to it. The first part is, what causes hiccups (sp?)? And what is the best way to get rid of them? I get them ALL the time, like 2-3 times a day. They never go away. Help me out! (link)
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i think what causes them when you have too much oxygen or carbon dioxide or something like that in you and you hiccup and you can stop them by holding your breath or try yawning when you yawn they usually go away. im sorry you hiccup so much my hiccups only last like a minute or less lol and i hardly get them. i hope it gets better and i hope i helped! -kayla
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Okay during the summer i lost my virginity to this guy, well tonite i went over to his house and we are like best friends now but i miss him and i really want him.. it makes me sad to see him cuz he is always talking to girls and never talks to me about what happened should i tell him how i feel or not (link)
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i think you should totally tell him how you feel. youll never know what couldve been or what could be right now if you dont. and even if it doesnt work out then at least you know what he thinks and youve lifted a weight off your shoulders. i hope this helps! and good luck with him and i hope everything turns out good with him! -kayla
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I know I'm not skinny, but I'm not huge either. I really want to lose some weight, but I know its completely WRONG to starve yourself. So I refuse to do that.. and I don't like all of those confusing diets. Is there any way to diet normally without getting complicated?? Help!! (link)
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ok well try exercising regularly maybe start out 3 times and week and then a little bit more ... also try to eat really healthy like not a lot of junk food maybe like a salad and something else healthy for lunch or something. i hope this helped you out! -kayla
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i have this problem right now with my boyfriend... i lied to him about a few things and he found out about it and now we have major trust issues. at first he didnt wanna forgive me but i guess now he realizes he really does love and care about me and wants to forgive me. ok next problem, now my mom says i cant see him anymore b/c hes too old, ive been seeing this guy for 4 months now and she knows how i feel about him, i dont know how to make her understand that shes really making a mistake by stopping our relationship. i mean me and this guy are really really in love with each other. she loves him to death but doesnt like the fact that hes 4 yrs older. im 15 .. hes 19 .. it seems kinda bad but its not. i mean as long as nothing sexual is there he cant really get in trouble. so do you have any advice you can give me. (link)
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of course i have an answer for you! ok well i think its really good that your bf is so forgiving and yall love eachother so much so im glad all thats good. but to get to your question about with your mother. i think that you should sit down with her and try not to yell but talk to her about all of it and how you do think you love him and yall dont do anything sexual and there are plenty of girls dating older guys but usually they lie about it so point out that you did tell her the truth. and after you sit down and talk with her ... invite the guy over and tell her you just want her to see your view and how you feel and talk to her about how much yall do care and even if yall dont last (which i hope yall do) you will still have feelings for him bc everyone that you loved once you will always love no matter what. so just try talking to her about it and pointing it all out to her. you really arent supposed to be dating him but since yall dont do bad things then its not really illegal he can only get in trouble if yall have sex or something or yall get caught. i hope this helps you out! good luck! -kayla
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I'm awkward and shy. I don't know how to talk to girls or tell whether or not girls like me. I'm in my senior year of high school, and i'm turning 17 on 10/10. so i realize this is kinda pathetic. I'm not very funny or spontaneous either. How do i flirt/be funny so girls will like me? I am being myself 24/7, and that isn't really working. (link)
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well i think you should keep being yourself and maybe you should ask some of your guy friends that gets lots of ladies. Some girls like shy guys when they are very outgoing and things. Like me .. im very out going and i LOVE to talk to the shy quiet guys ... its just my thing but maybe the right girl hasnt come to you yet but im sure she will ... you might not meet her until college but there is a right person for everyone. so i think that when a girl is flirting she talks to you a lot and tries to get to know you and she may touch you sometimes or give you hugs or try to hang out with you. just when you like a girl ask her if she would want to hang out sometime like at your house or the movies or out to dinner. dont be too shy and make sure you have confidence! girls love guys with confidence because girls usually dont have a lot just dont be cocky or concited. i hope this helped you! -Kayla
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When I was 17, everything was going great in my life. I had a job, a car, a boyfriend, and family that loved me. But my great life soon turned into a nightmare-I got a phone call, my mom and dad were in the hospital. They were driving when a car had hit them, and they died 3 days later. I'm 20 now, and I take care of my 13 year old sister and 9 year old brother. I have so much stress being a 20 year old parent. Sometimes I just break down and want to die. Of course, that's not an option. I need help, how can I keep up with working full time and taking care of my two siblings. I dont have family that could help me, I'm all on my own! Any advice would be helpful. Thank you. (link)
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Well i think that your sister is old enough to help out and babysit adn maybe sometimes you should take a break and do things on your own like go hang out with friends and things when you get the chance. If you sister doesnt already know how to cook then teach her and she cook like 2 or 3 times a week to help you out. Also they are old enough to do their own laundry and you dont need to be doing that. Ive been doing my own since i was about 8 so i think all you need to do is show them what to do and they can do it. I think what would really help you out with the cleaning is you could have a chore day adn have everyone in the house to one or more chores, such as sweep the kitchen, vacuum the living room, or things like that. I hope this helps you out! I'm really sorry about your situation! -Kayla
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well, a while back my friends all got along, but then randomally they got in a fight and split up. now we are ok but i still feel tention between us and i dont know what to do? how can i confront them and fix it all.
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all the advice that i can think of to give you is for you to just talk to them and see how they feel and what they think. it might just make it a better situation and make yall better friends. i hope this helped! -Kayla
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Okay well met this guy on the internet .. and we've been talking for about a year now . and i really think im in love with him ..and we talk about our fellings for eachother.. and he feels the same things for me as i do him ..He has never saw my pic befor .. bur he said it dosent matter if im Ugly or..pretty .. he said all that matters .. is the way he feels .. and he said ..that it WOULD NOT CHANGE anything if i was ugly .. well what i want to kno is .. if i should just cut it off with him because i kno were never going to meet i mean we might .. he lives in flordia and i go there every summer but ..i dont want my feeling for him to get any stronger then what they already are for him .. what should i do ?
15-Taylor-Gender:Female (link)
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well ... i dont really know how to tell you this ... i dont think you should keep on with your feelings but i do think you should stay his friend. but i think this because when you do meet it might be kinda weird and he might act differently online then he does in person and yall wouldve already told eachother yall liked her and it might be really hard to get out of. on the other hand yall might like eachother but i think you should just lower your feelings and wait until you do finally meet him! i hope this helped! -Kayla
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How should I handle this situation? I am interested in a lady that I went to high school with. The problem is that I used to date another lady from high school and all of us are in a small group of roughly 15 school acqaintances and friends that meet once a year or so. I broke off with the ex-lady friend almost 9 years ago but we remained friends and the others still associate us as being together. The new lady friend feels quilty about dating me even though we do and does not want anybody in the group to know although she knows I told some of the guys. I am for telling everyone. (link)
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I think you should tell everyone your dating so they will stop thinking that you are going out wtih that other girl and you can get everything straight. I think this will help yalls relationship if yall do! I hope i helped! -Kayla
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Is it wrong to like a guy, and love another? Does that make me a hoe?...lol I give advice, but every1 calls me a hoe b-c of that!! But after u r done reading this then check out my site...sExY_LiL_BoO_BeCkY
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i really dont think thats wrong. i mean i think if you really love that other guy then theres a lot more qualities that you like with him then there is with the other guy. but it will be a lot harder to get over a guy that you love then a guy that you just like. even if you do stuff with them it doesnt make you a hoe .. your just having a little fun. who doesnt do that from time to time? i hope this helped! -kayla
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Well there is this guy i liked since i met him ( kind of like love @ first sight ) he likes me too he tells me he loves me all the tiem but we dont go out . Well i liked this other guy ( Dakota ) since last year and when i asked him out he said he had a girlfriend well today he broke up with her and he stares at me at lunch now and there is this other guy ( Brian ) and he has always been there for me since the get go i love them all IM NOT A HOE but which one should i choose ?!?! (link)
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Well i think that you should just stay single for a while until you figure it out. see which one you really like better and hang out with all of them and get to know them all really well. then youll know ... it will just come to you ... until then dont hurt anyones feelings just stay single and see where life takes you. i hope i helped! -kayla
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Sorry it's long, but I need some help
Okay, no offense to this kid, or anybody out there, I'm just describing him.
There's this one realy geeky, kind of overweight kid (I'm a few pounds overweight too, so nothing against him) Well he likes me, and he does whatever he can to talk to me. I know he's trying to be nice, and his best friend said he liked me, but I have a boyfriend, and he doesn't seem to understand that. Today, we were waiting in the commentary during school, and he came up to me and started to act like a real loser (he's a loner with only a few friends) but he made all my friends leave, and when I tried to walk away, he'd get in front of me. I'm stuck sitting next to him in 1st period, I have tried talking to the teacher, and I told her I felt like I was being sexually harassed, because he has tried touching me, but she wouldn't really liste, because she knows hit too well, and he just wouldn't do that type of thing, so I can't move seats, I've tried talking to an administrator, and everything, the only thing I haven't done was talk to him. I'm not sure if he's mentally challenged, and I don't know how to say anything without being mean, He never said he liked me, but you can just tell, and his friends have asked me if I'd go out with him
How do I get it in his brain, I have a boyfriend, and I DON'T LIKE YOU!! I don't want to be friends, I just want him to leave me alone!! (link)
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OK well i think you should just talk to him .. be like im really sorry but i have a boy friend and i dont like anyone else but him. Will you please just understand that. I hope this helps you! -Kayla
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For anyone who actually reads this, thanks.Well, I had a boyfriend, we'll call him "Tod". We went out for about 3 months. Well, all these people were coming up to me and saying, "OMG!Are you going to be okay?!" Honestly, I had no idea what on earth they were talking about. So, I asked "Tod" and he told me that he kissed another girl on the lips! Me? Upset? Yeah, but I could deal with it.I told I didn't care. He told me that he couldn't stand to hurt me again, so he said it was over.Well, about 2 months later, he asked me out again, and I said yes. And just recently, we broke up. Everyone was telling me that he told them it was "another girl". This time, I had it with him. I was through with getting hurt because of his freakin mistakes when I didn't do anything to hurt him! So, I'm never going out with him again. But..I think that there might be "another guy" for me. We'll call him "Justin".He's one of my friends ex-boyfriends.They have been going out on and off like me and "Tod".And my other friends are telling me to not go out with him because she might get pissed at me.Well, first of all, I know she will, but I think I really like "Justin" and just the other day, I told him that I really like him. He told me that he really likes me too. But we're not going out. Yesterday, he was talking to my sister, and she asked him if he and I were going out. He said "yeah" and my sister said "since when?!?!". Then he said "since now". But I asked him if we were really going out, and he said he doesn't know! What's that supposed to mean?!Sorry it's soooo long! -Alex (link)
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hey alex! ok well it was good of you to decide not to go out with "tod" anymore because i dont think its right for you to keep getting hurt. but with the whole "justin" thing, well your friend isnt dating him and tell her that you really like him and you really want to date him and your sorry that you like him but really find out if he likes you and go out with him. see what happens. if your friend is really mad then try to find her another guy that makes her happy. i hope this helps you! -kayla
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