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Q: Okay, so I've been doing piano for like 5 years now. When I first got a piano I really wanted to take lessons, but that's when I was like...10? Now it's become insane. It ruins my social life, and I don't practice so my really mean Russian teacher gets really mad! I've asked my mom to let me quit, but she gets so mad whyen I ask and says no! What do I do? I want to quit!
Trust me don't quit. My teacher was russian to and she was mean when i didn't practice but my mom let me quit. But don't quit you'll regret it I know cause I quit and I miss playing. After 4 years of playing piano I forgot everything.

Q: is it true that if you sleep without ur bra on that you breast will grow bigger faster???
No

Q: ok about what age/grade do boys start to get attracted to girls and start to think more about going out or being boyfriend and girlfriend?
Dating can start in 7th or 8th grade but guys focus on gurls in highschool!

Q: ok, when your birthday comes, does the age on your column automatically change? thx
No you have to change it yourself!

Q: Yeah, usually I give advice, but I figured I'd ask this time. Two of you have already seen this question, but I thought I'd just put it out here for the rest of you to help me with.
Okay, here it goes. I've found my DREAM college. I mean, this is what I've been searching for since, like, ninth grade. I'm almost certain I'd be accepted there.
Problem 1 - CalArts is in Southern California. Now, I live in michigan and my mom doesn't want me to go that far away.
Problem 2 - The tuition. $22,190. My dad doesn't have a job, my mom can't work, and I don't have a job yet. Even if I did, I wouldn't be able to make that much by next year. However, I do have books written, and could publish them, but even with that I'm not sure I'd be able to make the money.
Problem 3 - my parents both think that the only reason I want to go there is because my boyfriend's going to a college down there. That's not why I want to go.
So essentially, I'm wondering what you guys think. Should I try to get into a college my mom doesn't want me to go to, even though it's my dream school AND if I went there, I'd probably have somewhere to live? Help me out...
-Siren
If it's your dream college go, you could get a scholorship

Q: Okay, I'm just a bit curious. Everybody thinks cutting is so freakishly horrible and everything. Well in all honesty, I don't see the harm in it unless you're making cuts deep enough for stitches or something. Otherwise, you may have a mark or a scar - but no real damage done..? When I get extremely upset - it usually helps calm me down, in a BIG way. What is all the hype about..?
It's bad because your hurting your body when you grow you'll probably cut everytime you get sad or mad and that's a lot of cuts. Trust me Violence is not the answer!

Q: okey...i'm gonna be a freshmen in highschool...and i need to get a new pair of shoes that are a reasonable price and that are totally in thx!
Go to DSW they have lots of shoes or you can go to Mashalls

Q: *well my ex boyfriend is coming over tomarrow and i made him a scrapbook of all our memories cause i want him to know how much i still care about him! he has told me 3 times since we've been broken up he loves me and hes said he misses me all the time! but theres also another girl that he likes and im trying to pretty much win him over..but anyways..i was just wondering if you had any ideas on how i could do like a scavenger hunt kinda thing to lead him to it cause i want this to be special!!! please help asap! thanks!*
Um..... Maybe you could like put a map in his room or somewhere he goes often so he could see it or like the front door step and then basically that will lead him over and then you could I don't know put some candles and give him the scrap book ooooooooooooohhhhhhh I got an idea you could like put rose petals on his path
it's soooooooo cute and romantic. Thats all that I could think of sry!
Good Luck
Hurry up go steal the bastard back
lots of luv

Q: Last night I slept over one of my best friend Maries house and we were just talking and stuff, but then we didnt even ask we just started to do sexual stuff and saying dirty stuff, kind of, like half laughing it off. Im a girl. And so we fingered eachother and rubbed eachothers boobs. It felt really good. But, I wanted a guy to be there with us more than anything. Im confused. What was last night? Am I a lesbian? Or bi? Or straight ?? Im confused. And is last night normal for 14 year old girls to do?
Your just bi-curious it's okay it's totally normal!

Q: ok well this year is going to be my sweet 16 (im a felmale) and i want to have a really good party. I live in pittsburgh pa. i dont want to travel to far because with the cars we have we can only hold like 6 other ppl besides my family. my birthday is in dec. so its prob going to be cold out. also i want something that will be somewhat cheap. like i dont have a very big budget at all and i cant afford to rent somehwhere really nice or go anywhere real expensive. The party is prob going to be all girls but im not sure and i dont want something that i have to have a certain about of people because i dont no how big of a party im aloud to have. i no i can have at least 10 depending on what it is.
Sleep over - snowball fight, sledding, make a snowman, makeovers, popcorn, movies and truth or dare

Q: today i had pop rocks and soda and now i'm being told that it's bad for you and i'm scared something is gonna happen to me!! what, if anything, is going to happen to me?!
don't worry nothing is gonna happen
Twistedteen25:D

Q: does anyone know websites with cheap things like to redecorate your room? i already know pbteen.com and their stuff is too expensive. 14/f and going to a huge highschool next year. also i live in new hampshire and was looking for stores to go to also. i need websites. thanks!
ikea.com

Q: Hey everyone. I have started to read a little bit lately, and I was wondering if any of you could list some books that are good. Fiction is the main cateogory that I would like to read. Your help would greatly be appreciated.
Thanks, Caleb
Define Normal
Violet and Claire
Goddess of the Night

Q: I told my best friend something that i didnt want anyone to find out, and she tells someone i dont think i can trust her ever again should i?

rate high
You shouldn't trust her but you could still be her friend.

Q: I'm in a horrible situation. I just left my boyfriend of 10 months the other day. The day after I dumped him I hung out with this guy, Austin, and my friend, Tarra. I had hung out with Austin earlier in the week at his Fourth of July party and had a lot of fun. Well, on the day we hung out we all went to the movies and he put his arm around me. I know, it was WAY too soon to be doing that expesically since I just got out of a 10 month relationship, but something just felt right about it. -- When my boyfriend and I hit about 7-8 months, we started to have problems. He used to call all the time and text all the time. He used to call to say I love you, but now he rarely ever said it when we got off the phone. It felt like to me he just totally stopped caring. All my friends believed that how he was treating me wasn't right. I do believe I was at the early stages of depression when I was sating him because I'd cry with no reason, and I'd cry all the time. I felt worthless and my boyfriend never knew how I felt. He treated me like I was worthless, he stopped trying to explain his feelings and what was going on in his life to me, but then comes Austin. I met him whenever my boyfriend and I were still dating, so I stayed my distance. He cares. Austin makes me feel needed and he acts like he cares for me, and he lets me know that. [Austin] (9:05:03 PM): i cant stop thinking about you... honestly ive never felt this way before. and im here to help not run away
[Austin] (9:05:11 PM): some guys cant handle that but i atleast want to try.
That's what he said, and our whole coversations seem to be this way. Well, somebody told my boyfriend about the whole arm thing. Austin is anything but a rebound guy. I don't know how to explain it, but my ex boyfriend hates me for what I did. I undersatnd I hurt him, but he doesn't believe he changed at all throughout the relationship and I say if he can't see a simple thing like that then it was time for me to look elsewhere. I feel that it took somebody else to treat me right to understand that I was being treated wrong.

What are your feelings on this situation.
I think you did the right thing as you said if he can't see a simple thing like that then it was time for you to look elsewhere. That's how life is though full of problems but you have to think about what it is you want. I think what you did is good. He was dumped so it's time to move on. If he can't tell you what's going with himin a 10 month relationship, imagine what he would do if you got married. Probably abuse or something. I think you made the right choice by moving on.
Best wishes!

Q: What is the purpose of life? like why are we even here?
We're here because we're meant to change the world as many have come before us and changed the world for ex. Harry Houdini, Copernicus and Judge Judy. We're here to make the world a better or worse place. Does that answer your ?

Q: last summer i met this guy..he came to missouri(which is where i live) cause he was visiting his grandma! well we met and had a blast together and i really liked him..only downside was he lives all the way in washington! well ever since we've met we have talked all the time on the phone and internet and hes been saying for quite a long time that he loves me and wants to be with me..i also feel the same way..i just dont know because he lives all the way in washington so we wouldnt really see eachother all that much! he said that him and his friend are coming down here this summer for a week to a week and a half and he wants to spend the whole time with me so im pretty excited about that! and hes talked about after he graduates and goes to college for 2 years coming here and living here so we can be together..he always says he feels like we are suppose to be together and i feel the same way i just dunno what to do! please help! sorry this is kinda long!
Look inside your heart, what does it tell you to do? If you both feel you should be together and you both love each other then go for it.
Wish you the best of luck and hope I helped
twistedteen25

Q: my boyfriends sister is tryin to kill herself bc her used to be boyfriend cheated on her and used her for sex and in the end she found otu he is engaged to one of her friends and she has been wit him 4 about 5 months and noe since it is over she has been puttin neddles in herself and takin pills i have tryed talkin to her and told her to stop and that she is hurtin all the people around her but she still wont stop she says it is makin her happy. someone please help me stop her.. i dont know what to do anymore. i ran out of advice to give her so i need ur guys help.
Tell your bfs sister that it's not worth crying over a guy and tell her what she's doing to her body.
If that doesn't work theirs always a doctor who can help
Best wishes and good luck

Q: I hate the word: diet. Whenever I try to go on one, I always am thinking more and more about the food I CANT eat and then I want it even more. I want to lose 10-15 pounds and keep it off. I started running a mile every morning and eating more fruits and veggies. If there is any more tips that anyone could help me with... that be great!
-xxkissmexx
What I would do is get a copy of the food pyramid off the internet and circle all the things that aren't fattening, so you could just eat those specific foods. Try swimming since it's summer time and you should also try kick boxing, my mom says it's really fun and helps get all your anger out.
Best wishes

Q: has anyone read the book: ttyl ?
is it good? dont tell me about it im just wondering if its really good or not...whats ur opinion on it?
thanx
Yes, it's good and funny.

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