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Q: I'm 13/f && I'll admit it, I have a big nose. I know I'm too young for plastic surgery but I'm really self consious of it so is there any way I could minimize it? Like is there a way I could do my makeup to make it less noticeable?

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OMG i have the SAME problem. well a lot of people say i dont have a big nose but i very self consious of it. afraid to say but there is not way i suggust that you wear your hair down though. when i am 17 i will get surgery. just love who you are.

Q: I spend about 3 hours in the sun every day, and I want my skin to appear tanner, but it doesn't get that much darker each day. It's barely noticeable! How can I get my skin to tan faster?

well dont stay in the sun that much without a lot of sun tan lotion. just give it time it will become tanner or you can go to a tanning salon

Q: So I have the worst stomache in the history of man. Now, thinking back to elementary school, the Nurse always recommended a saltine cracker or two. QUESTION IS: WHY was that? Was is something SPECIFIC about the CRACKER? And is there any other food the average household stocks that can beat this intense pain? I will be soo thankful of helpful answers - this pain is sooo bad it could ultimately take my life. =/ gr.

wait before that you need to go to a doctor not trying to scare you if it keeps coming back it could be your appendix no biggie just got to make sure it not. and saltine crackers help cause the salt in them

Q: okay well i got my period on friday, and i'm going swimming like saturday or sunday probably. my period lasted a week last time i got it and that was the first time. so should i be worried? because i know if i use a tampon there probably wouldn't be enough blood or whatever.. and can't that cause tss? i'm just scared if it will happen in the pool or something

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dont do it just like dont worry is it bad cause then use a tampon dont worry i was scared of the same thing till i tried it it is not that big deal. but if it not heavy dont use a tampon just be careful u no.

Q: okay well... i really like this kid.. and he owns a campsite right next to me.. he sold it.. but i got down there right in time.. and wrote my number on a piece of paper and stuck it on the door... was that a good move? or is it kind of obsessing.. and i told him to call right away.. and i dont' know if he's gonna call or not.. he was supposed to call last saturday.. and he didin't.. and im really bummed...

so i guess my question is.. did i do the right thing.. by putting my number on his door.. and how do i try to get over him if he doesn't call.. because i really incredibly like him.. like i never liked someone like this in my whole life..

well i think it was a good idea. sometimes there is no way to get over someone just start liking someone else or just try to slowly forget about him

Q: I have a best friend, and we have always had each backs..But, she got this boyfriend, that she had a crush on for a long time. I didnt like him, when she was crushing on him, but now that i really know him...i really really like him. I've been flirting alot with him..and kidding around with him. I wanna know, if there is anyway i can tell him? OR at least tell my bff, without her over-reacting.HELP!

i think u should tell your bff the truth. try to get over the guy if you really want to keep your friend. it is your decision the guy or your bff

Q: I have been truned down by girls so much, I have even given up onlooking for a gf.I mean I look a little but im only searching for the right girl.Any advie that i can get from a girl who loves to give advice?

well i the perfect girl . well first of all dont give up looking. just be friends with tons of girls and after you get to know someone for a while just ask them out and see what happens

Q: im 14 and i go to a highschool in plano texas ,
my case is a little bit different i suppose
my shrink diagnosed me with a mild-severe social paranoia meening i afriad everyone is always judgeing me and watching me , like im some zoo animal, even if sum1 isnt around.
iv also got mild social axiety bah like i know what that means for sure
i have "hyper-hydrosis" wich is a condition i was born with where my hands are always moist wich makes it wierd to hold hands with girls
iv liked this girl since she moved to the school, shes always been reay nice to me and iv always been nice to her, just recently iv been realy wanting to be in a relationship with this girl but i cant bring myself to ask her out in fear that she would say no in fear that i might make an attempt on my life (this is i guess social anxiety?) , i dont think she even knos i like her and she doesnt seem to even realy i know i exist sometimes
she tells me about all the guys that she likes and that realy hurts my feelings becuas im not the tallest (at 5'1" im far from it) im not the fit-est or the most handsome , i have acne and a steryotypical "Jewish Nose" wich many predjudists remind me often about.

i just cant help but feel that she wont accept my offer to start a relationship

this girl is truely beutiful in every sense of the word ,in class since i sit behind her i just stare at the back of her head and go off into "lala land"
on several times iv tried inviting her to movies or something but she always seems to have something else to do

any and all help wud be most appreciated

if u want to talk to me just chilling and stuff y AIM is forty5calpsyco

Thanks So Much

hey well first of all forget about your fears if you like her much go ahead and ask her nothing bad can come out of it. if she says no just try to move on that is the only way. and dont feel bad about it.

Q: My girlfriend has lied to me several times... nothing EXTREMELEY serious, but about a lot of little things. I have threatened her with a break up, and she gets very emotional when i mention a break up. Recently she has lied to me again and i broke up with her... She is begging to get back with me and i want to be with her..... what should i do?

well if you want to get back together with her then do. but tell her the only way to have a good relashion ship is to not lie and never keep any secrets. but if she wont stop then break up with her she is not worth it

Q: I have a thing with the dark. At night if i go downstairs while everyone is asleep or upstairs in the rooms, im always scared someone is watching me. I dont go downstairs that often but i need help. Is it because im weird or am i going crazy. Please help.. 14 female..
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well no a lot of people are afraid of the dark (including me) well you are not crazy you just have to get over your fear

Q: this might sound really bad but how do you get a boy to break up with his girlfriend. i like this boy a lot and i really think he would like me if he broke up with this other girl. what can i do to make him break and get him with me? please help!!!!! i rate high for anything!

well first of all right a note to him saying that you like him or something. also i think you should like talk to him a lot to make sure that he pays a lot of attention to you

Q: 14/f....Ok people this is like serious so dont be like rude about this...
Well my dad is very sick with an illness and like today is fathers day and everything and he was talking to me and was like "you know my medicine isnt working anymore...and like this is the last fathers day that i will be with yall and he was telling me how he wont be able to see us graduate or see his grandkids.and like i looove my dad so freakin much and like when me and my siblings were younger he wasnt really in our lives and then he came into our lives again about 2 years ago and liek when he wasnt in our lives i hated it i hated myself.....and i could never imagine being w/out him again..i dont know what to do i meen i cant talk to my family or anyone about it becasue im just not that kind of person it feels waaaaay to wierd to me...like he always tell me stuff liek "when he dies he wants ...blah blah blah" and like i cant freakin take it this is soo muc pressure of me and i think about it every single day and like earlier today i was balling my eyes out thinking that this was the last fathers day wioht him...i wish that this big nightmare would just go the freak away! i really dont know how to deal with this guys and i have no one to talk to it about..i love my daddy so much and i dont ever want him to leave.and liek i know its kinda stubborn but im like always kinda rude to him..you know how every teenager is..but like he is always liek do you hate me and i just wat to say "HATE YOU OF COURSE NOT DAD I LOOOVE YOU SOO EFFIN MUCH" but i cant.and like does anyone know sumthing special i can do for him like not today cause its already late but like another day..for fathers day..and also can you help me with the whole not being able to see him again...
Thanks soo much guys !

well why dont you spend as much time as possible with him. also why dosnt he go to a doctor and try to find another kind of medicine for him. also as hard as this might be for you i promise "everything happens for a reason" but there is still no way to take away the pain of losing someone you love. i no how you feel.

Q: ok i babysit almost 24/7. my sister has cancer and she just found out sh eis pregnant, she has to give the baby up.well she's going home to her family in texas and she's leaving her kids that i watch all the time anyways with me. my frinds tell em i should tell her to watch her own kids because i never have time to be a kid, wat do ya'll think?

well how old are you that is a big part of it. also i dont think it is fair that your sister is leaving you with so much reasponsibility but cant your parents take care of her kids with you. also i think you should ask you sister to take the kids because think how hard it would be for the children to leave there mom.

Q: Im 12..13 in september female. My parents are very strict and wont let me have a boyfriend and alot of guys have asked me out. They would neveer let me go to a movie with a guy. and also they wont get me a cell phone....and they banned me from AIM!! wat should i do?

well that is not the worst that could happen i would first of all if you like a guy just pretend your going to the movies with some of your friends and meet him there and about the cell phone thing a lot of people dont have a cell at your age so dont worry it is not that bad also about the AIM that sucks but there is nothing you can really do about except (write an essay to your mom) about how much fun AIM is and that might work

Q: I am 13 and female. My crush is 13 and male. I have been having a crush on the same guy since 5th grade. I made it clear that i liked him in 5th and 6th grade, but he clearly told me he liked me as a friend. This year I am going into 8th grade and i still have a crush on him. The only problem is is that he is going out with my best friend, Sarah, and i am going out with another guy, so i could try and stop thinking about him. By the way it did not work at all. Now the guy i like is thinking about breaking up with Sarah, and talks to me everyday. He is my best friend and i am his. We have some of the same problems and have similar interests. Does he like me? What should I do??

by the way your explaining it it seems like he totally likes you he is just nervous to tell you because he doesnt want to ruin your relashionship. i think you should tell him agian that he likes you and see what he says. if he says your just friends let it be that way cause i dont think you want to ruin your relashionship

Q: ((( PLEASE ANSWER THIS QUESTION--- ANYONE WHO ANSWERS DECENTLY RATES A 5 )))13/f Ok so heres the deal----i got out of school on wednesday (it's Friday)and i'm already bored. My dad gave my PS2 away to my stepbrother (not fair), I only have one DVD to watch and I've already watched it about a million times (Save The Last Dance), my bike is at my dads house (i live at my strict mother's house), and i'm not allowed to use the computer because my mom thinks i download too much. I'm also not allowed to go to my friends house on weekdays (its summer anyway---but she wants me to go on weekends only)and most of all, I'm not even allowed to leave the house to play with my friends in the neighborhood. (if i wanted to go outside, my mom would know, because she calls me every hour to make sure i'm home and make sure i'm ok. she works every day from 9:00 to 5:45. Is there anything i can do????? There are so many rules living with my mom, but my dad is going on 5 buisiness trips this summer, so he dosn't have time for a teenager (i only see him on weekends.)

ok well first off all tell your mom your old enough to have some freedom and that she shouldnt worry about you so much because you are ok and you can always do art projects and watch tv secretlyl

Q: hay I've got this frend and we stoped being frends because she started acting like a majer jurk but that is not the problem. We were both frends with this other girl and I think she (the jurk) might have told her (the girl who is both of our frend)that I am the jurk and I think she (the girl who is both of our frend) might be avoding me but I am not shere. what should I do?

ask the not jerk if she is avoiding you and tell her what happened dont worry it will all work out

Q: All right, when i was younger my mom had hit me with a belt and hurt me pretty badly, then a few days ago she kicked me and she hit me with a box and let a cut on my left arm. ANd a few years ago my mom punched me in my chest. And recently she said she wish she could kill me. What should i do. U can not tell ur parents or anybody.

i wont but u should i mean she could and SHOULD go to jail for that that is so sad and i feel so bad for you and hope i can be a good friend to you but if i were you i would run away to my friends house and tell the police

Q: im a lesbian and im ashamed of it......but i cant help it..wat should i do?

dont be ashamed it is ok some people might think you are weird but that is there problem dont worry you will find some one and dont listen to what any one has to say

Q: My parents and my friend's parents are not getting along at this current moment. ..and well ever since 2 weeks ago, the phone calls have stopped...and I guess I miss talking to her..usually, i would call her constantly..like everyday..and like my mom told me to stop to give her some time to herself..well it's been 2 wks..what more time can she have?? I have too much pride to call over now because it's been too long and it'd be awkward..she only calls me if I call her first..so idk what to do because I wanna talk to her..should I give it up and get over myself or wait for her to call or put my pride down? Thanks

well i no what you mean that happened to me. i think you should call her like when your at your friends house or something

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13/f! wow i just luuuv answer questions. heres some stuff bout me so u can get to no me betta. i in middle skewl have tons of friends popular 3 kittys and love boys. thats sounds cheesy but w/e. also i am bootyful inside and out and love helping people with there prob. such as mackeup and all that sheeawt haha well i am always heer if ya need anything and u culd always e-mail me @ PerfectPrep13 @ aim well kissesss oh PP.SS hah (inside joke) if ya need anyhelp with boys i am your girl to ask cuz i have only had my share of them!!!