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13/f and my friend is 13/f
My friend, alex, lost her virginity last week. I got really mad at her. I don't know what to do. She moved to Indiana too. I don't feel like being her friend anymore because she lost her virigity at 13. First, she started smoking, then she gave bjs, now she's lost her virginity. I feel so weird. All my other friends are virgins. I really don't like my friend anymore. She used to be nice, happy, and cool, but now shes... gross, rude and... Virginityless... Not a word, but ok. I wish my friend could've been smarter. What do I do?! Plz help!
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i`m a 16/f.. almost 17. i have sex with my boyfriend, and we use condoms, and he even pulls out. my parents have no idea we're having sex & would completely flip out if they knew. i want to go on birth control - because i have really long periods & because i get very very bad cramps. will birth control help with those? & also, if i tell my mom i want birth control for just cramps, and the doctor asks if i`m having sex - what should i say? if my mom is in the room, i don't want to say yes.
so, what should i do? also, does birth control make you gain weight?
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me and my boyfriend have been together for a couple weeks
but weve been talking for like 2 months. i trust him and everything but should i have sex with him?
or should i wait?
im not a virgin so its not like my frist time.
what should i do?
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When you give a guy a blowjob, does it matter if your eyes are open or closed?
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hey 13/f
all my fiends that i hang out with have all kissed a guy at some stage i feel really left out and stuff sometimes and they treat me like a baby..i just want to get it over and done with but want to like the guy as well
Please help me!!!
thanx mwa
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15 f
I've been looking somewhere for birth control pills, I've done a lot of research and all I can find is planned parenthood, but there isn't one where I live, is there any other place where i can get birth control without my parents?
(I don't get along with either of my parents. it's a long story, but PLEASE don't judge me or call me a whore. I know what I'm doing)
thank you
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what helps you remember what you read? (classic novels for school and stuff) i use sparknotes to refresh my memory. also i try to summarize what happened after every chapter. too hard though. what else can i do?
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when a guy is in a friend's with benefits relationship do they have absolutely no emotional attachment to the girl or do they normally like them a little. also what about girls? do most girls get a little emotionally attached in a friends with benefits relationship? i just broke up with my friend with benefits i guess you would call it and i told him it would be hard not being with him even if it was just for sex, and he said he thought it would be easy not being together because there were no emotions involved. i was shocked that he felt absolutely nothing...then i remembered he had a dick and was just another guy. so what do you guys think...is it normal to have some emotional attachment?
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ok so, i don't masturbate or anything, and i'm a virgin, i have no bf or anything like that, but when i TALK about sex, like on the internet or something, or when me and some of my guy friends are just joking around, i feel as if, IF i were a guy, i'd have an erection. what's this called? i', very uninformed about sex, because i plan to stay a virgin until i'm married, hopefully, and my family doesnt talk about masturbation or anything like that. so i'm just wondering what this is called when i feel as if i were a guy i'd have an erection?
14/f.
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okay so i really like this kid named alex. he likes this other girl named macie prolly cause she has HUGE boobs. my boobs arnt really "big".and i think he kinda likes me cause macie has a boy friend and i IM him a lot. and i have invited him to the movies but he couldnt go. i have never felt this way bout him. what should i do? i really like him:/
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So, there's this guy. We don't really know each other but we talk on AIM sometime and I even went to the movies with him once. But I don't know if he's really that into me. His friends say that he's really shy and he told my friend that he thought I was cool. I don't really wanna pursue someone that doesn't even like me. I'm always the one that IMs first. So, should I just move on? Or keep talking to him and pursue him further? Maybe I should make it more obvious that I like him, cause right now I'm playing it sort of cool?
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16/F
To put it simply, I have a fake boyfriend. His name is "Nick." The reason I did this is because all my friends have boyfriends, and I really want one too. Problem is, there are no guys I am even slightly attracted to where I live. So "Nick" has been pretty great for me. I get to brag about him and everything, but I'm still lonely.
Reccently, I started talking over Instant Messenger with this guy, we'll call him Cameron. Cameron lives in South America but is pretty much fluent in English. We talk almost every day, he's so cute, and he actually seems like he cares about me. I know I will probably never meet Cameron, so don't tell me that. I already know.
I'm just so upset that every guy I'm interested in lives so far away. And here, I know everyone at my school, and I'm not interested in any of the guys here. Yet I want a boyfriend so badly, which is why I have a fake one.
What should I do? Should I "break up" with my fake boyfriend? Should I stay with my fake boyfriend even when I am talking to Cameron? Or should I try to look harder for a guy here when school starts back up again?
And don't tell me that being single is okay. Because for me right now, it's not. And also do not tell me that I will "find someone eventually."
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my 1st question is!
1. ok are u supposed to wash ur vagina? i do but is it safe?
2.bjs my bf has been asking to give him one but im scared one b.c i dont know what to do. and two if i do that will he like me less? is it just to use me or something so i kept on saying no to him. he says he loves me ive been with him for almost 7 months now. but im scared if i do this he will eventually find nothing else to do with me and break it off. will he get bored is what i mean?
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okay so i have no clue who is right in this situation. please help! okay so i saw this guy in my summer school class yesterday and i thought he was really cute but he was also very familiar. so i asked his name ad found out it was one of my best friends good friends that she met at the mall one day. so i guess she called him that night and asked if is was him in my class and he said yeah, so then se asked hmim to a movie on saturday. and after she got off the phone with him me and her were talking and i said he was cute and she told me to back off. now i would have been totally fine with this except for THIS part of the story. she liked him for like a week when she met him but after a while they stoped talking cause he was ignoring her calls and all.so she just called him last night after like thrree months of not talking..... he isnt her property and i mean i never even said that i liked him!!! i dont know what to do. it really pissed me off that she said that. am isupposed to be lie whatever and forget about him? or talk to her about it????? pleeezeee help!!! thanks
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14/f.
I like this guy, on a scale of 1-10 i like him about a 7 or 8. We'll call him "ben". K, i have NO IDEA how he feels about me. I'm a terrible flirter, I'm not exactly pretty, but there was a myspace bulletin about telling the person who posted it exactly what you felt. I tried to be as honest as I could manage without absolutely embarrassing myself. So I said:
"i think you're funny, cool, cute, and i think you're musically intelligent.
uhm, i think you're absolutely amazing.
and i think you think i'm a total freak now,
and you're going to laugh at this."
So I reposted the bulletin that way he would reply, and he did :]
he said "well... i think ur...
hilarious
cute
and.....the best writer i know:]"
idk if he was saying "cute" to be nice and not make me feel bad, or if he actually thinks i'm cute?
&& when I posted a pic of my new hair color [i got pink highlights] he said "cute:]"
so i don't know if i'm just supposed to sit back & kind of let him chase me, and play hard to get, or ask him out, or at least tell him i really like him. ick, help? thanks.
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if a girl like never stops talking to me on msn and facebook sometimes until 1am or later does that means she realy likes likes me and wants to go out?
( i have already asked her out and she said she needs to think about it. but i can tell she has some strong feelings for me.)
what do i do?
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So a few weeks ago i get a pic cmmnt from my ex bf ( i thought i loved this kid) and we broke up over a year and a half ago, and him and his gf just broke up (they were dating right after we originally broke up, so they were dating for the year and a half) and weve been iming and he came over one night (but i had snuck out so i had to send him home) and stuff and so i tell him ill always have feelings for him and he told me he thinks about me too, but he wants to see what his options are (ass) and that our parents would prolly disown us (cuz they kinda hated us dating) and stuff and i was all idc what they say, and then he said whatever happens happens, but today he was talking about some lame freshman girl..
ugh. what do i do to make him see things my way?
i never even noticed how much ive missed him until now.oh yeah and by the way, he like reads all my bulletins on myspace and stuff. so does he like me or not? and what do i do?
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ok
15/m
i have a bit of a problem
i can't talk to girls to save my life
i try, and i fail...miserably
like...i'll post on her wall or something, then she'll say something back and i have no idea what to say next so i just post something like "yea..." or "uh huh..." and i know i sound like i'm completely uninterested in the conversation but i actually want to try and talk to girls i'm just really, really bad at it...i cant keep a conversation going! it happened all the time at events like football games throughout the school year- i'd meet someone i liked, but i wouldn't be able to hold a conversation to save my life! so can anyone give me some tips or something to help me out? i just need some help...there's this girl i really like and wanna ask her out eventually but if i can't hardly talk to her then that will be impossible!
thank you so much in advance!
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okay well me and my boyfriend like 2 days ago had sex twice but we didnt have a condom either time cause we ran out and couldnt go get anymore at the time. well the first time he cummed in me but i went to the bathroom and try to clean myself and the second time he pulled out without cumming. and this kinda happen before but i wasnt preg. last month. and i should start my period at the end of the month like the 30th, now how much should i be worrying now?
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