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My names Casey. I'm a crazy cat lady who's obsessed about books and doesn't wear matching socks. I enjoy all kinds of tea and sometimes I believe in as many as six impossible things before breakfast.

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Friday night i was at a party with my boyfriend jon of three months this saturday. I get drunk really easily and thats what happened. We were about to be going home and when we got to his car we ended up making out for so long. I think i gave him head. I dont exactly remember but he said he wasnt drunk so im not sure because i was pretty messed up. Im still a virgin and i think he is too. he'spretty shy and this is the first time we did anything besides him going down my pants (fingers only). I want to know what happened without feeling really stupid. How should i bring it up? I also got grounded for a month because i came home late so whatever but hes been asking when im gonna beable to go back out again and stuff. do u think he wants me more now that i gave him head and stuff? i cant exactly remember but im almost positive i did. it wasnt weird at all though but he didnt come? does that mean i was bad?

if you guys weren't together before you gave him head, then i think he just wants you because of that.
and i don't really think that if he didn't stop you when he knew you were drunk, then he is an asshole.

hope i helped.

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how can i get rid of water weight? i feel all bloated and gross. help!!!

try staying in a sweat box for awhile..

you usually loose a lot of water by that..

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I have Ankle Weights and i was wondering if there is anything i can do with them to make my thighs thinner? thanks in advance

well, try wearing the ankle weights during school hours (if your wearing jeans or something). and when your walking up the stairs just lift your legs up a little higher without looking like a robot.

that should work..

hope i helped :)

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how much does an apple video ipod hold...like how many songs.

it says it can hold 27GB...how many songs does that equal to?

thanks

thats around 4,000 songs.

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15 f
Ok so my boyfriend was having a sweet 16. Today and I went with my best friend whose his cousin. It was so hard to convince my mom because I was grounded the day before and so I could go to the party I increased my punishment to a month! So when I got to the party he kissed me and greeted me. That was all. then he went back to his friends. So I also saw him sitting next to a girl and offcourse I got jelous so he came and asked me if I wanted to dance and I said no so he danced with his cousin. I was also with my sister at the party (she's 17) she said she felt unconfterable and she wanted to go. So I called my bf over and asked him where was the train. So he tried to explain and he ended up telling us that he would take us. I got so excied becase finally I could spend some alone time with him.So when we were leaving we went outside and he was about to take us then my friend said "ill go with him to walk you guys" then someone called him inside and he went and came back and said he wasn't going to walk me anymore. So I ended up going with 2 of his bestfriend and my other friend. I'm thinking about braking up with him because he left me and didn't take me to the train it was like he didn't care about me. Why were his friends walking me? He should of? I am really mad. Am I just overreacting like maybe he didn't want to leave his guests alone? Should he have taken me to the train station? But in the party I didnt feel like he was paying enough attention to me. Should I brake up with him? Please tell me if I am overreacting or not? Thanks! Sorry if it was long!

i would sleep on the breaking up part for now..

you are overreacting a little bit but its understandable. I think he just didn't want to leave his guests, because it was his birthday party, after all.

hope i helped :)

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can u put two condoms on for double protection>>>????lol

two condoms won't do anything..its more likely they would tear, as others said below me.

if you really want double protection, try using birth countrol (if your a girl) and get the guy to wear a condom..

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im going out with this guy for like 3 weeks now.i liked him like in the begining of the school year. sow now that were going out he tell me he loves me and stuff how can do i no if 2 believe him??

he might mean it back..easiest way is to ask him

most over used advice in the world..but it works :)

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Hi.
http://i14.tinypic.com/4bfso4k.jpg
So here's one of the most recent pictures of myself I've got.
I've just gotten to feel fat anymore. =)
I'm about 4'9' and about 110 lbs. I'd asked a question earlier, and got a few responses saying I should lose some weight, so I was wondering how people thought of this visually. I've really gained alot of weight lately, and I'd like to get back to 90 lbs, maybe even eighty?
I don't want to be super skinny, just skinnier than I am now.
The problem I've got is my stomach. I seriously look pregnant or something in all my shirts, anymore, if I'm not wearing a jacket, and it makes me feel really unconfident.


So.. help? lol.


no. i don't think you are fat. if you really feel like you need to loose weight, just try eating healthier and go for a thirty minute walk a day..and you should be fine.

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How many Calories are in a pound?

3500 calories is one pound of fat.

i think thats what you mean..

but thats a pound of FAT not regular pounds...

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can sum1 plz help me? i need a new sn
i:
-13/f
-green eyes
-black hair
-play piano & violin
-luv kittens

thanks soooo much!

Black Piano xX

GreenEyedGirl -its like brown eyed girl, from the song..haha. get it?

yeah. thats all i got.

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well this happened a long time ago, but it suddenly came to my mind the other night.

i was in school and the teacher was doing some stuff, and so everybody was talking to their friends. well i wasn't and i was just in my desk when the group of popular guys came to my desk and so they started chatting amongst themselves. then when some of the guys went to their seat, it was just Mark (the popular guy) and his 2 buddies. well all of a sudden Mark says to me "what's up?" and nodds at me. (nodd is when he takes his head and kind lifts it up in the sky and then brings his head back down)

well you're probably wondering what my quesiton is.. well my quesiton is what was i supposed to say in return??? he's popular and well... i'm not. I'm not saying that i'm in the nerdy crowd, i'm more in the middle of popular.

I think i said something like "good." and then i looked away.

well yeah what was i supposed to say? i get really shy around guys, so how do i get more comfortable around them? oh and was he flirting with me?? i highly doubt it but i just wanna make sure.

thanks to those who answer!!

he probably just saw you sitting there and was trying to make a conversation, like what the others said before me.
i think what you did was fine..

i probably didn't help much, but..

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does anyone know a good deoderant brand that really works and holds back oder and smell?

try BAN.

i think thats how you spell it.

it comes in a green-container-thingy.

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hey.

i like this guy, but the only reason i started is cause i thought he liked me.

question: can someone give me a few tests / quizzes of like, if he likes me? but really elaborate, & not from like quizilla cause i want a reliable one.

thankss ♥

okay...quizes are seriously bull shit. i'm sorry, but i hate them with passion. how can an internet result tell you your future? they know nothing about the person you like..or you. so whats the point?
if you really want to know. JUST ASK. cuz chances are, even if these quizes do tell you if he likes you or not, he won't know you like him because you wouldn't have the nerve to do so, because you already know.


yeah..i think that was probably confusing.

but just ask him. way easier.

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my best friend is 12 and shes turning 13 in may.she asked me for some ideas for her b-day party and i can not think of anything.i don't wanna b like"i dont know ask someone else"bcus shes my best friend and ya. so any ideas?

well, for my 13th birthday i had a bunch of my friends come over and had a pedicure-manicure slumber party. My mom got all the stuff for it and such. IT turned out to be a blast.

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I'm going for the first time to get a hair cut by myself soon. Yay no parents and just friends ! What shape head looks good with side bangs ? Might get side bangs OMG so excited !

heart-shaped usually looks the best.

get the newest issue of seventeen at your grocery store, they have all the hair-style stuff in there.

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I had a scary dream last night:
was looking in the mirror and there was this lil peice of skin hanging out of my face and i thought it was dead skin so I pulled it out then there was more then i kept pulling and pulling til i looked in the mirror and i had no skin on my face just blood everywhere..

Does anyone have a dream dictionary to tell me what my dream meant? I could look online but I don't know what word to look it up..

www.dreammoods.com

thats a good site to look at.

type in "mirror" or "skin".

or anything else that was in your dream..

it should be in there..

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how do you find out how long you've had a myspace?

Click "veiw your blog" and it should say it on the same column as your picture, age, sex, etc.

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This past week, I've had two dreams with basically the same basis. Fire. And I'm not exactly sure why.

The first dream happened around Saturday-ish. I had a dream my aunt's next door neighbor's house got caught on fire. And then I was at the corner of the street with my car [and I don't even drive yet] and my car started to be caught with fire. So I ended up miraculously putting it out, and my parents just came out of nowhere. Then we were driving, and my dad's seat caught on fire [he was driving], and I told him to jump out of the car. So he did, as did my mother and I [where my brother was, I've got no clue], but then the car blew up. And we were on the corner of a pub near my old house. And then I woke up with a feeling something bad was gonna happen. I have a little bit of an ESP power because I know when someone's gonna die, or when something bad is gonna happen. My feelings usually are right. But nothing's happened yet.

Now just yesterday, I was taking a nap, and I had the most horrible dream. My cousin who's my age just had her son in January [I'm 16, she'll be 17 in June], but anyways. My cousin, her sister, her parents, and her son were in my dream. I dreamed they were living in the house I moved out of 7 years ago. The house caught on fire, and the only person I managed to get [I was sleeping over in the dream] was the baby, and I tried getting everyone else, but they just wouldn't wake up. They weren't dead because they were snoring, but I just couldn't wake them up. My cell phone wasn't with me in my dream, and it took me forever to find a phone to call 911. They were all okay even though the house was in a horrible fire, and they were breathing everything in. I woke up with a bad feeling about that too.

I feel like something bad is gonna happen, and I'm not sure what it is yet. I've never dreamt of fire before, so this is quite the eye opener, and I'm scared of fire so maybe I'm just trying to face a fear in my dream, but I honestly doubt that's it. Because of these bad feelings, I've turned off everything that can cause a possible fire, and I've kept my room clean so nothing can spark a fire. I'm extremely cautious of it. I don't want my house to set on fire, because I value my things, but I can't help but to feel something bad's gonna happen.

Why am I dreaming of fire, and why am I so paranoid [though I suffer from it]? I don't want my house to set on fire, or my aunt's neighbor's house to catch fire. She's a lovely woman & she's been friends with my family basically since my aunt was a little girl. I don't know what's gonna happen, but I keep having this feeling. =/ Sometimes I hate knowing when something bad is gonna happen. I've been trying to warn people to be careful because something bad is gonna happen, but when they ask what I can't tell them because I don't even know myself. I'm hoping my dreams can lead me to something, but all they lead me to is a bad feeling, and bad thoughts. =/ Ugh, help?

you dreaming about fire may just be a metaphor there's a site that can define what it means.

http://dreammoods.com/cgibin/searchcsv.pl?method=exact&header=dreamsymbol&search=fire

there should be a list of things of what could be in your dream, and you just have to find one that best suites what you dreamt.

i don't know if that was confusing or not, but if you need help on how to use the site just message me.

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Im 14/f and he is 15/m

Well, lately My boyfriend and i haven't had anything to talk about on the phone. It seems like we have drifted apart. We have been going out for 5 months and 9 days. I love him, but im not in love with him. He has a low self esteem and thats a major turn off for me. Just because me and him are so different. But, i dont know what happened? I mean this just started getting this way. And we fight constantly about the most stupid things ever. And every little thing he does annoys me like crazy. And he'll get mad over little stuff. And to be honest he acts like a girl. Always whining and getting upset about something. I dont want our relationship to end, but in a way i do. But for now since i am in doubt, i thought i would just get advice to see what people think about this. And i guess i kinda just dont want to hurt him anymore.

i dont know.. any advice would be nice =]

talk to him about it.
if you guys have nothing to talk about, you guys are probably slowly drifting apart. people change. its part of life. and you and your bf are only 14 and 15..like i said, people change in that time.
if you don't want to split up with him, at least try talking to him about it. part of being in a relationship is being able to trust eachother.

hope i helped.

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I'm 5'2" and 170 pounds.

I know I should weigh about 130.

I have dance classes 3 days a week- but I'm still 170. I really don't eat too much (at least I don't think I do). I want to develop and stick to a regular exercise program outside of dance classes but I don't know what to do.

I have a treadmill and an elliptical trainer.
How do I develop my stamina so I can run a mile without stopping?

The MOST I can do is 5 minutes (about 1/2 a mile) at 5 mph without stopping... and then I have to walk for a while.

use the treadmill for around forty minutes a day. start with a 15 minute warm-up (which is walking), then slowly start to break into a run. do that for about...twenty minutes. then do a 15 minute cooldown. if you have a calorie tracker on your tredmil, try burning at least 400 calories when your doing this. your supposed to burn 3500 calories of what you eat a week. once you start burning more than that, you'll start to loose weight.

as for eating..even if you don't eat that much, it really depends on what your eating. if your eating just cookies, chips, or other junkfood, of course your not going to loose any weight. try replacing these foods with carrots, celery sticks, and even some fruits. eat five times a day. breakfast, in-between snack, lunch, another snack, and then dinner. Try not eating more than 2000 calories a day. and don't eat less then 1200.

i'm not sure if i helped or not. but i hope i helped some-what. :)

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