HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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i think i have a funny and enjoyable personality.
but compared to my friends, i feel like im boring and stuff. but when im not with my friends i can tell that my personality changes..
why does this happen, and what can i do to be the same.. ?
help is appreciated (link)
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its completely normal to have a multi personality and its not hippocritical or two faced to be like this.Were all like this.You cant possibley have the same funny outgoing personality when you talk to your school principal like the personality with your freinds right?And you cant act the same way you do exactly around your freinds the same way you act infront of your boyfreind right??Its totally normal everyones like that.Your not boring and you do know how to have fun but for every fun outgoing person there is a funner and more outgoing person, therefore although your fun you feel boring around your freinds cuz theyre more hyper then you.And some other fun people might feel that theyre boring around you because your more hyper then them its completly normal
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when you walk together he/she walks close to you than your other friends, talk with a teasing soft voice, laughs at you when you make a fool of your self, text message you when they are at their firends place and they said thier bored and you text for two hours, leans on your shoulder or has thier arm around you and calls you cute funny animal nicknames.
so what do you think if your friend does that to you? (link)
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if its a guy hes so hittin on me and likes me and if its a girl she is so lezbo is what i would think to tell you the truth.But mabey with you its different if its a girl mabey she just loves you too much.....but you still gotta be careful man around the girl even more then if its a guy.
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i get jealous of people easily, and it's really annoying. i wasn't like this before and nothing really happened to make me jealous of people. if my friends get a cute expensive purse from their parents, or if my friend gets a ring from her boyfriend, i'll get jealous. i'd want to go shopping and find something that nobody else has that i know they'd like. same with looks, if i thikn i girl is prettier than me, i get kind of upset and i wish i were her. it's seriously super pathetic and i dont' know why i'm like that now! how can i stop being jealous? (link)
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The cure to your problem is two things:CONFIDENCE AND SATISFACTION.For every pretty girl...there is a prettier one.Youre alot prettier then alot of other girls.And there are alot of girls so much pretteir then you.Your alot richer and then others and others are alot richer then you this is life and reality you have to understand that or youll never be happy.You have your times where you get things that they dont get,why arent they mad jealous?You need to be satisfied with your life or one day God will take it away and there will be nothing you can do to get it back.Jealousy is an awful thing that kills your beautiful feelings and turns them to hatred.Itll ruin your life.oh beware of jealousy!it is the green eyed monster that doth mock the meat it feeds on!meaning that jealousy wll make a fool outa you infront of others and its like a monster it keeps getting bigger and bigger.
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i am a really insecure person and i am always getting teased about the way i look kids say things like what you looking at fatty and stuff like your never gonna get a boyfriend and if you did i feel sorry for him.and i have pimples anyway i can get rid of dem help me plz. (link)
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First of all YOURE the one that allowed them to treat you this way.Even if you lose your pimples they still will be mean cuz you gave them the chance to do this.You have to stand your ground and be a bitch to them people that talk shit bout you.You cant just walk away when they make fun of you becuase if you do then theyll go laughing about it to their other freinds making even MORE people make fun of you.Anyway if you want to lose your pimples you should stop using so much makeup if you do and get pimple removing facial masks which you can find at pharmacies.
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hey
my name is israa,. is that clear ISRAA Lol haha hey sara im just gonna aks u a quesrtion so i dont get banned i need help my hair frizzes alot what do i do! (link)
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yes its clear lol ok well i found you a website that has the answer to your question and i advise you not to dye your hair if your young because it damages it severly.
http://www.stretcher.com/stories/03/03aug04a.cfm
hope this helps you^_^
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if a word ends with an "s", & it's possessive, do you
put an apostrophe or not?
is it
jess' house
or
jess's house
please help. thanks in advance
oh & if there are exceptions, pleasee list them or a few
of them (link)
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jess's house
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The lyrics to How To Save a Life are this:
Step one you say we need to talk
He walks you say sit down it's just a talk
He smiles politely back at you
You stare politely right on through
Some sort of window to your right
As he goes left and you stay right
Between the lines of fear and blame
And you begin to wonder why you came
Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Let him know that you know best
Cause after all you do know best
Try to slip past his defense
Without granting innocence
Lay down a list of what is wrong
The things you've told him all along
And pray to God he hears you
And pray to God he hears you
Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
Lyrics
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
As he begins to raise his voice
You lower yours and grant him one last choice
Drive until you lose the road
Or break with the ones you've followed
He will do one of two things
He will admit to everything
Or he'll say he's just not the same
And you'll begin to wonder why you came
Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Those are the lyrics to the song. What is the song trying to say? Why does he want to know how to save a life? Thanks in advance. (link)
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its between a couple that are having a confrontation at one of their houses,at first she tells her guy to sit down and theyre just gonna have a talk then it starts getting stressing and they start blaming eachother for some mistake that happened then "you begin to wonder why you came" this person thinks that the whole confrontation was pointless and that they shouldnt have came in the first place.And they start to think and wonder what they did or said wrong which made them lose eachother.Theyre losing eachother because the guy changed like it says here "He will do one of two things
He will admit to everything
Or he'll say he's just not the same"
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13/f
my mom won't let me make my own decisions. I realise that if I screw things up, it'll be my fault & I'll have to suffer my own consequences. My mom explained that whole thing to me and I said I was willing to do that, but then at the end she's all like "ah I'm still not letting you. that was hipathetical" and I'm like WTF.
She thinks that I'll get pregnant or have sex or do drugs. and I already told her that i'm not stupid & i won't do that. All I want to do is go over my boyfriends house, and i'm not even allowed to do that. My boyfriend has been over my house every single time. Now my boyfriend is mad at me because I'm never with him, and everytime we're over my house we're being watched over like a hawk.
I know I'm only 13 but i'm not stupid. And everyone else is allowed to be with boys. I'm even interested in having sex, and my mom says that all boys this age are. Even if it's true, he won't be anywhere near me. My mom is ruining every single relationship I have. (link)
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well you MIGHT need a LITTLE space but i think your mom is only trying to protect you.I respect your mom so much for that because other moms give their kids a little TOO much freedom and they end up getting sexually transmitted diseases and addicted to drugs.Your waay to young to have the freedom of a 18 year old.And your mom is right,almost all 13 year old guys think about sex,sex,sex and he might pressure you into it and there will be nothing you can do when you lose your virginity to bring it back again.You might not be interested in having it now,but if he pressures you just a lil bit you will give in.
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my daughter is 13 is she to young to get caught by me kiss with a guy but hes her best friend. shes never had a boyfriend. also she cusses and flips people off and just talks with her friends about sex humping and rapeing just perverted. shes just turned 13 shes shy and gothic which i hate it what should i do for her and all that stuff should she be doing. (link)
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omg!!!!!your her MOTHER and your on this website askin teenagers what you should do?ok...look shes your daughter,you have all the right to do anything you want to her.You talk to her and tell her not that you dont like it when she does this stuff but that you dont WANT her to do this stuff.Your daughters gonna end up losing her virginity and its gonna be your fault for not talking to her.The problem with most teens nowadays is that they think that NOOONE understands them or cares about hearing their problems.The way your daughter dresses all dark and gothic resembles the way she feels inside,how can you not notice that.You need to be like her best freind,ask her who her freinds are and what they talk about.Go down to her age and be like her if you want to communicate with her.Your daughter probably doesnt tell you anything because you dont even care to ask.You gotta change before its too late,one day your daughter will do something really bad and itll be too late for you to stop it.
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I know it sounds really lame, but I realy do! I don't know if he likes me back, my friends say he does, and he's really protective of me, but I'm too scared to ruin our relationship to do anything! Somebody please help me! (link)
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try playing this game called open book and ask him if he likes anyone.If he likes you the tell him how you feel,if he doesnt say that he likes you then dont mock your dignity by telling him that you like him cuz itll ruin your freindship and make your dignity go down the drain
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All of the "cool girls" at my school do drugs. All of the guys like them b/c they are easy. This guy I like only likes easy drug girls and I don't kow what to do to make him like me! Help! (link)
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Well your not changing for noone.Your not gonna be a easy whore just for them to like you!Guys like easy girls so they can get into their pants without having to argue too much.Dont ever change for them theyre not worth it.Cuz theyll come to you if your easy then leave you for an easier girl.And theyre not cool, theyre just popular for being whores.
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Does anyone know any deep love questions? like for example:Do you believe in love at first sight? like that questions if u do know a lot please share or share a website that has that.sorry if my grammars are wrong im an exchanged student from japan (link)
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If a rose symbolizes love,why does a rose always die?
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hey ppl! well, i'm 14/f. and my 8th grade promotion is coming up and i need a new dress. see, in January, i got this dress, but now i'm just getting tired of it and want something a little cuter. the dress that i had was really cute. but i think i just want a diffrent one. my mom said that we would go get a different one tommorow, and take my other one back. but i'm not quite sure what i'm looking for exactly.ok, i'm exactly 5 foot tall, weigh 170 i wear a size L or XL in dress ( i think) and i want something pretty. like a rose color or something. i have dark brown hair, so anything that will look good on brunetts. i don't think i'm missing anything, but if i am i will add more info. thanks so much everyone!!!!!! (link)
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well you should always pick a dress to suit your bodyshape,for example if your kinda chubby you should wear darker colers to make you loook thinner.I think this dress would make you look great...pink might make you look chubby cuz its light and this one is long and will cover you up and make you look great
http://www2.jcpenney.com/jcp/Products.aspx?DeptID=40380&CatID=40628&CatTyp=LFS&ItemTyp=G&GrpTyp=PRD&ItemID=114c4d6&ProdSeq=25&Cat=dresses&Dep=Juniors&PCat=Prom+Shop&PCatID=40566&RefPage=ProductList&Sale=&ProdCount=32&RecPtr=&ShowMenu=&TTYP=&ShopBy=0&RefPageName=CategoryAll.aspx&RefCatID=40566&RefDeptID=40380&Page=3&CmCatId=EXTERNAL|40566|40628
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Heyy. Well I'm really trying to get a 4.0 this quarter, so does anyone have some available, working study tips in mind? I would really appreciate it.
ps-oh yeah, I'm 14/f if that's of any help. thanksssss. (link)
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Make sure you get enough sleep,have a good breakfast and clear your mind from everything.If your studying science or biology then you need to read it and understand it first then make questions out of what you understood and have the answer.For math you need to memorize the rules and solve alooooot of questions to what your taking.The rest isnt really that hard,the main thing you have to do is read it clearly and understand it then memorize the facts
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About 5 or 6 months ago I had sex for the first time and did all the foreplay and stuff, but with a friend of mine.[we werent going out]
Ever since, Ive wanted to do it so badly again with him and I think about it all the time.
We dont really talk anymore at all, and he now has a girlfriend.
But about 2 months after we did it, he brought it up and said he would do it again.
It was his first time too, and I know him and his girlfriend havent done anything.
Do you think he still thinks about it?
or what?
Its driving me crazy! (link)
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first of all PLEASE dont tell me your another 13 or 14 year old cuz if you are then EW.Ill tell you exactly whats happening here.Hes using you!!sooo obvious!AND hes immature and doesnt know what he wants!Whats happening is you made yourself maaaad cheap and he doesnt care about ou at all what proves that is that he has a girlfreind.He loves his girlfreind but mabey his girlfreind doensnt want to have sex with him so he comes to the person he KNOWS isnt gonna say no to him which is....guess who!Stop making yourself cheap.Girls should be modest.
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Recently my boyfriend introduced me to his good friend say...'D'. Now D and I became friends but we aren't that close...I mean all we do is just say hi... Now I think D likes me because he just tries to avoid me and my friend told me that its because he likes me and doesn't wana hurt his friend... Fine...that didn't bother me so much..but now like im always on his hi5,myspace profile...Looking at his pic... leaving comments...he doesn't reply to any of my comments... BUT I LOVE MY BF LIKE ANYTHING...I FEEL SO ... IMPURE...wat SHUD i DO?? (link)
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I think that if your not commited and mature enough to be in a relationship then you shouldnt be in one,im not saying this at you directly but in general.I think you should just avoid your boyfreinds freind COMPLETLY.Your already making yourself cheap by sending him all these messages and he doesnt reply.You shouldnt let your dignity go down like that.His freind is trying hard not to hurt your boyfreind and thats a great thing hes doing,now leave him alone because in the end you AND this guy will end up hurting your boyfreind and im sure you wouldnt like it if that happened to you.OR youll end up losing your boyfreind and this guy too.
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Hey i am a 13/f and i have a an ex boyfriend that i at least thought was a sweet guy untill he dumped me for no reason i mean we have never ever been in a fight and so tuesday i txted him and said " i LOVE you baby sooo much!!!" then he txts me back and says your a bitch and ur ugly we are over!! so i started to cry but all his friends say he still like's me and i still like him so what i wanna know is how can i make him jelous (link)
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flirt with other guys infront of him and look your best all the time and make sure you dont give him the feeling that your sad over your break up,Itll KILL him knowing that you moved on so quickly,your a pretty gurl and im sure you can get any guy you want.You need to make him feel that!And watch,one day hes gonna come back begging to come back to you and when he does say"aww come on i KNOW you dont wana get back with a ugly bitch" and tell him that you wouldnt go back to him cuz your not that desperate.Tell your freinds and his freinds that your over him completly!Thisll probably work!
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Ok.. So this guy wants me to go to his house after school.. should i go or not! (link)
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if your sure your not gonna mess around and do anything your going to regret then i GUESS its ok...
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I'm going shopping with some of my peps and I want to know some good stores thanks
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drjays,hottopic,nordstrom,macys,neiman marcus,saks5thave,wet seal,abercrombie and fitch,
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so there's this guy i really like... but i don't really want to have sex with him... but i already told him i would... so now i don't know how to tell him that i kinda don't want to... should i just tough it out and do him or what? please help
P.S. i've already come off really slutty and stuff....even though i'm a virgin...
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no just forget about it and never act that way around guys again or theyll think your a hoe.Just forget it and if he tries to do anything with you DONT.
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