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how do i tell him no?
so there's this guy i really like... but i don't really want to have sex with him... but i already told him i would... so now i don't know how to tell him that i kinda don't want to... should i just tough it out and do him or what? please help
P.S. i've already come off really slutty and stuff....even though i'm a virgin...
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OK, well if he will only be your bf if you have sex with him, then he won't like you for who you are. He will only like you because you gave yourslef to him physically. Tell him how you feel, if at that time doesn't want anything to do with you anymore, then he isnt right for you, If he's like "OK", then you know that he likes you for you are. Not because he gets to see your goodies.
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no just forget about it and never act that way around guys again or theyll think your a hoe.Just forget it and if he tries to do anything with you DONT.
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No, no, no, no, no. Don't have sex with him if you don't want to. Really.
I know this probably sounds really cliched, but just tell him you aren't ready. If he gets mad, he's probably an asshole. You need to be with a guy who respects your wishes. I suppose that in a way, this situation will really test your relationship with him; you'll be able to see his true colors.
It's your body, and you get to choose what to do with it. You have no obligation to sleep with him...I think you'd regret it if you did.
Good luck...I hope I helped!
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If you don't wanna do anything with this kid, make sure you tell him that NOW. If he likes you back, he'll respect your choice, and if he doesn't respect you, knee him.
Sometimes you've gotta learn to say no, and this is why.
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Hun, I'm sorry to be blunt, but this isn't a "Should I go to the movies with him" kinda thing. This is a huge, huge thing.
If you dont' want to do anything, even if he already has the idea that you want to, you need to talk to him.
If you two like each other enough to be considering this, you should be able to talk this over. Just tell him you don't think you're ready yet. If he really likes/loves you, he'll be there for you, and not pressure you.
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