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jealousy
i get jealous of people easily, and it's really annoying. i wasn't like this before and nothing really happened to make me jealous of people. if my friends get a cute expensive purse from their parents, or if my friend gets a ring from her boyfriend, i'll get jealous. i'd want to go shopping and find something that nobody else has that i know they'd like. same with looks, if i thikn i girl is prettier than me, i get kind of upset and i wish i were her. it's seriously super pathetic and i dont' know why i'm like that now! how can i stop being jealous?
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you will make yourself look like a complete idiot if anyone catches on. They are probably wondering why you copy everyone esle. The reason you are doing it is probably because you dont feel you are as good as them and ur always comparing urself to other people.
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The cure to your problem is two things:CONFIDENCE AND SATISFACTION.For every pretty girl...there is a prettier one.Youre alot prettier then alot of other girls.And there are alot of girls so much pretteir then you.Your alot richer and then others and others are alot richer then you this is life and reality you have to understand that or youll never be happy.You have your times where you get things that they dont get,why arent they mad jealous?You need to be satisfied with your life or one day God will take it away and there will be nothing you can do to get it back.Jealousy is an awful thing that kills your beautiful feelings and turns them to hatred.Itll ruin your life.oh beware of jealousy!it is the green eyed monster that doth mock the meat it feeds on!meaning that jealousy wll make a fool outa you infront of others and its like a monster it keeps getting bigger and bigger.
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that happens a lot to me 2. i just start 2 forget about it, though. like- maybe i'm not supposed to have that, or i can find better things than her. but i have the same problem, but its just because all my friends are spoiled. not all, but some. when you think about something they have, compare it to the best thing you own, and try it from there.
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That happens a lot to me. You just have to accept it for what it is. Jealously is just a waste of time, and a bad habit to get over. The more you be grateful for what it is, or who, the more you can accept things for what they are. Not just thinking "Oh I wish, I could have this, or that". Why don't you just be happy for who you are and you never know some people might be so jealous of you, it just doesnt seem like that to you sometimes. Also for some reason the more you become jealous of things, sometimes it may be easier to get over being jealous. You will just get sick of being it, that you really just DONT care about whatever is going on at the time. So whenever you see something like a cute out-fit or a guy you like, just think you are just as good as they are and you have nothing to worry about. Because you are a unique person in your own way, who people admire. So just think jealously is just a waste of time. Have fun and be grateful!:)
♥KASSIDY
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I agree with ygsgirl. Material things aren't everything, & they won't buy you happiness. They can make you happy for a certain amount of time, but then they become just another thing. Money can make you happy, but it can go awfully quick & when it's gone, so is the happiness it brought you. I like getting new things, but they don't matter to me. I rather have the love of my family & my friends than have a new purse, or some new shoes. New purses & shoes are nice, but I've got tons of purses & shoes I can wear.
Someone may be prettier than you, but they won't be that way forever. This is probably really horrible of me to say, but just think about her face getting all messed up. Then you'll be prettier. Haha, sorry. No, but just think of how she might not be so pretty a few years from now. Besides, the ugly duckling can always turn into the beautiful swan. =)
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The only thing I can think of to tell you is that you need to stop and realize that just because somebody has awesome material possessions, you can't buy happiness.
Somebody may be prettier than you now, but she will age like the rest of us, and maybe not as gracefully as you.
I don't know if that helps, but hopefully it does a little.
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