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do u know what other changes there are from jr. high to high school..other then teachers, homework, classes and people? (link)
heyy .. umm besides teachers, homework, classes, an people they are body changes that people go through there are also different people that you start to hang around with another thing is what you eat example when you were little maybe you didnt like fish but now that you are older you now like fish uhh the last thing that i can think of is matureness example you werent very mature in jr.high but now you are in highschool well i did the best i could

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Hi, I need to write a 4 paragraph essay on changes..and ect threw the different of jr. high and high school ...the 1st and 2nd body, and the conclusion I am done with..I just have to do the into which is to put a general statement about "changes" can someone help me out please? (link)
heyy .. you can put like "at first changes are the worst thing in your life but once you get used to them they end up being better for you in the end" or "changes are something we all have to go through and sometimes changes can be good or sometimes they can be bad" im not sure if those are the best statements but you might like them

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I have a friend that has been drinking and stuff. I've told her not to but i know she doesn't care. And now everybody is all like yeah i drink a lot and i've gotten drunk and smoked that. It seems like everybody smokes and drinks! it's crazy we're all still young! I don't do that kind of stuff and I feel weird like ppl think it's no big deal drinking and i say it's wrong and they think i'm weird. I'm so confused! does everybody do the drugs? i'm not going to start doing them but should i still speak up and say they're wrong? (link)
heyy .. no not everyone does drugs and you are not an outcast and yes still tell them that it is wrong and if they ever try to pressure you into doing drugs or smoking say no because someday they will die for an overdose or get shot by a drug dealer because they owe them money or something doing with drinking and smoking and you will never die from those kinds of things

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i have naturally curly hair, and i want to straiten it. i have a revlon flat iron and it works ok, but it makes my hair look dry, and burned...i use silk therapy, but it still looks dry. do you know any straitner under 50 dollars that will straiten my hair, but not burn it? thank you so much! (link)
heyy .. i also have natually curly hair and i straighten my hair also right now i have a 100 dollar straightener from sally beauty and it works great but since you ssaid under 50 dollars thats okay too because sally beauty still ahs great straighteners under 50 dollars because i used to have one also so go to sally beauty and get one and also for ahir not looking dead try some aussie products they work great on my hair and i have curly hair also

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I was talking to this girl from my class on the phone today and I realized that she is pretty cool and I want to be friends with her. The thing is that she is not very popular and I'm afraid that if I start hanging out with her, my other friends won't want to hang with me and might diss me. Am I being shallow or stupid? And what should I do? (link)
heyy .. i am the same way there are some pretty cool people in my class but they arent popular like me so i just talk to them either on aol or the phone and they dont even know and they are cool with me doing that so try it

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ok i like this guy ALOT and were going out but my friend also likes him and shes not talking to me because im going out with him but she also told me over and over again go out with him he really likes you and i kept telling her no no because of you and he told her before we were going out that he didnt like her he liked me so now im going out with him and i dont know wbout my friend...

i need help! (link)
heyy .. just tell her that she said it was okay and that you werent going to but she said it was okay and that you really thoght it was and that ts her own fault and its not your problem and if this is going to ruin your friendship then thats sad

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i crack my neck and my friend thinks that it will make my neck all messed up when im older...is that true? i dont wanna be messed up when im old!!! lol
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heyy .. yes it is true because i have seen it happen my cousin used to crack her neck and she started to at about the age of 12 and she is now 28 and her neck is all messed up and gross so stop while your ahead so your neck wont be messed up

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Is it possible to be in love when your 13? Im turning 14 in July but still....his mom wont let him date until like a 'year down the road" (thats what she told me) and we are both willing to wait until his mom 'allows' him to date....ive never liked somebody so much in my life! And hes not even the hottest thing in the world hes the sweetest, funniest, adorablest guy in the world....and ive NEVER felt this way about ANYBODY....i LoVe him....but still is it possible to fall in love when your 13? (link)
heyy .. no its not possible because when your 13 its only puppy love its not real like for example your not going to get married to this boy or have children with him and as you get older you will have a differnet taste in boys then you do now adn at the age of 13 boys are pretty inmature and not mature enough to have a relationship with just one girl so chances are he is probably going to break up wiht you and make you cry somewhere alone the line sorry you didnt hear what you wanted to hear

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ok... so i have been playing defense (soccer) for awhile... almost a year or even two... but i have been playing soccer since i was in 3rd grade and im a sophmore in highschool now... i have played every position before mostly mid... but i have a game sunday and my friend's friend came to one of our practices and told my friend that i have a nice kick, like shot on net... and my friend told me i should forget D and play mid but the thing is my couch wants me to stay back... i don't know what to do... should ask my couch or should i stay on D... i rate pretty high

Gomesy (link)
heyy .. i would ask yout coach because you never want to stay back trust me it is the worst thing you will be with people littler then you and its just awful so ask the coach

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I fancy this boy in my year but I never talk to him at all I know all you people out there are just going to say that I'm a looser and I should forget it but I can't .
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Help! Zoey (link)
heyy .. well really the only thing you can do is forget about him unless you want to try to talk to him you could also send him some eye contact and smiles and who knows maybe he will talk to you first you could also try flirting when you feel a little bit better about the situation

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Okay, well i have to do a speech, and im doing it on how girls are just terriably mean to eachother with the backstabbing, and the calling of names such as "whore, slut, skank.. ect" and everything else that has to do with bullying. if anyone has any stories about their lives and being bullying by other girls please comment me. or e-mail me on xobabicakesox@hotmail.com
thanks so much
ashley (link)
heyy .. well i am one of those girls who call people sluts whores and skanks so i think i would know why we do it we do it because all of the other girls that are in the "group" hate us because we are all friends in the group and they call us that stuff first and then we call them that because they called us that and we are the ones that get in trouble and have a bad and mean reputation just because we hang around with each other in a group well i hope you get our point of view and you now have the girls that get bullied and the mean girls side of it

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my partner wanted a car fom yes car creadit he asked me to go becouse i had a full driveing licence but i only went cos the company would not let him drive it out without insurance so i done that for him about 5days after my dad was reading all paper work and said i was on the contract as well so my partner called them and they said they would take me off it. but a few months later i was still on it now me and partner have parted and the car has been taken back by company and nowwant 7,606 pound off me and dont know what to do my partner has told the company many times he is responsibel for the dept as i only get 44 pound a week as i look after my mum pleass get back with some advice for me manythanks wayne richardson (link)
heyy .. i cant understand your question and i dont think the other advcenators can either because you posted this at 11 something and no one has answered it you should try re-submitting it in a differnet typ eof way so that i and the advicenators can understand the question and help you out


okay well my so called best friend has been ignoring me and talking a bunch of shit and calling me a bitch and everything like that and she's been doing this for like 2 weeks now. and i asked her why she called me a bitch and she started spazzing out about how me and my other friend ditch her all the time but i couldn't have been ditching her because she won't give me the time of day to do that she does this to me every year she can hang out with whoever she wants but when i start to hang out with someone else she gets all pissy about it..i don't know what to do anymore? i rate good/ (link)
heyy .. just tell her that if she is going to ignore you all the time like that then your going to start hanging with other people besides her because she is not treating you good or fairly and that if she wants to hang with you she can but she cant treat you like crap all the time

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My webcam comes out a little blurry, is it just my cam or can i fix that.. (link)
heyy .. mine used to be like that also i didnt know what was wrong with it so i brought it to the computer store and they fixed it im not really sure what they did to it but they fixed it so you should try taking it to a computer store also to prevent the blurryness of your web cam

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A week ago today, I accidently poked myself in the eye with mascara in the morning. Since then, the bit which I poked has been red and blood shot. My Mum said it was like a bruise and would probably go soon but it's been a week now and it seems to be getting worse. What is wrong with it? What should I do? (link)
heyy .. im not reallt sure what is wrong with your eye but i know that something is because if it is getting worse and not better by a week theres something wrong you should go see an eye doctor and he/she will most likely tell you what is wrong and give you some medication you should also keep an eye on it to see what the update is with it daily so that you can tell the doctor

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sorry if the subject doesnt relate to what im talking bout,but none of them matched what i needed help with!!!
so anyway,does anyone know how to get cash if you're too young to get a job and your mom wont let you sell your stuff? (link)
heyy .. umm you can do alot of things to mkae money without selling and getting a job you could babysit* walkdogs* mow lawns* clean like people backyards such as raking* newspaper route* or you could even try to do some more chores around the house like the stuff i just said up there and maybe your mom or dad or guardian will pay you like a certain amount of money once a week but at the arcade part of fye i saw like a 14 or 15 year old boy working the counter so maybe if you are around that age you could find out if they would let you work there and i also saw a sign outside of stop and shop that said looking for 15 year olds to work and im pretty sure the youngest you can be to get a job is 14 this might not get you alot of money but you could also have a yardsale

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I was wondering what the day 4/20 meant?

Thanks (link)
heyy .. its weed day lol iits when all the weed useers get stoned

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Hey

i want to know some good songs...
the stuff i like is like:
Taking back sunday: youre so last summer
": this photograph is proof
Papa roach: scars
Story of the year: Sidewalks
": until the day i die
the killers: mr. brightside
green day: good riddence...

stuff like that
if anyone has any ideas on some other songs i would like please tell me...thank you (link)
heyy .. you might like the song "holiday" by greenday .. or the new kelly osborn song "one word" try them

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what is 420? i know it has to do with weed and ect but whats is 420? (link)
heyy .. lol it has to do with the date get it january febuary march APRIL its the forth month and the 20th day of the month

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Is there a site where you can go and type in a word or a phrase and then it makes it like in a cool like neon font? like better than word art!

or how to make your own icon things?

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heyy .. for the neon font go to www.flamingtext.com and for the icons www.iconfun.com or www.dollisland.com are good places

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