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I use to be on this site all the time. Got sick of reading the same exact questions and basically copying and pasting my answers because no one cared to read questions asked before them. So I left and haven't really been on here.
Ps. I'm not perfect and my advice isn't always right. & sometimes I choose to make it sound like you will get hurt more than you actually will to prevent people from doing stupid things. Like if I get drunk what can happen? Well i might just say you can die.....stretching the truth but I think its better than having people go out and get drunk. Plus you can die but you would have to have alcohol poisoning.

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I've had this really cool outfit I have planned, and it includes a skirt I bought last spring. Now I'm just wondering if the skirt is still in style? It's a jean skirt with the ruffles, the creases in them, you know? Or are those crease/ruffles out of style and should I buy a new skirt to wear with my shirt and shoes? Thanks for the help!

Like omg I have this thing and I don't know if I should wear it because I have to be in the "In" crowd and wear things everyone else is. I can't wear something as long as I look good in it. Give me a break. If you like the thing and it looks good on you why do you care if it's in style or not? Don’t you want to be your own self and not wear what everyone else is wearing? Maybe you should get your own identity.

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I'm 15, a virgin, I've never had oral sex, I've never even made out with a guy before. Sometimes my vagina has been itchy and sometimes I have alot of clear discharge (or sometimes it's a little yellow) and sometimes it smells a bit funky. I'm not sure what's the matter since I've never had sex before or ANTYHING. If this there is anything wrong with me, does it sound like it could lead to me not being able to have a baby? I've been really worried ever since I've seen a movie like two months ago and that's got me wondering. So as you can see this has been for like three/four months problem. Is it even a problem? PLEASE HELP!

Calm down it's not that big of a thing. It sounds like a yeast infection, just tell your mother and then go to the doctor have them check it out and give stuff for it. I know a lot more about it so if you want you can ask me.

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Ok my Mom says I'm to young to fall in love and have a boyfriend and my Dad does as well..but she found my journal thinger and found out Im dating normally she flips out and is all your way to young..im 15 years old..and I've been secretely seeing this guy behind her back for about 3 weeks almost..and she just now found out..she wants to meet him and he says he is christian and she is really christian like really christian..and I'm scared of what she might think of him..if she dont like him..what do i do..where do i let them meet..where i can be...and how do i meet his parents...HELP ME!

They just have to relize that there little girl is growing up. He can come over your house and meet your parents. It sounds like they will ask him every question there is so just make sure he knows what he is in for. Ask him what his parents are like and then just meet them.

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ok me and this guy, jeremy have been hanging out. he's a year younger than me (school-wise) because he failed, and we met through my best friend.she and him are good friends, so yeah ;) well jeremy has a friend paul, that likes my friend ewelina... making sense? well the guys drink sometimes. everytime we hang out they are bored because they are sober and vodka gets them to express themselves?! haahaa... weird i know. well the i heard jeremy likes me so i startedmaking small moves o him, like laying on him and stuff and well yesterday he didn't do ANYTHING, AT ALL! then later on he called me while i was at my friends house, and i was hey who is this, he's like your're boyfriend. i was like oH the one that ignored me today? he saoid he didn't ignore me today and that he really likes me and he's nervous AROUND girls he likes. the only reason he said all this was because he drank a little. and then he calls ewelina, and they talked for 73 mins, exactly, haha. they talked about me. he likes me a lot, and he wants to change supposedly . he wants to get serious with me and his friends told me the same thing. today i heard they're going out to drink again and i called them and we talked then went to his friend paul's house. they were sober and we didn't talk at all, we just sat there (me,paul, jeremy, ewelina!) and then me and ewelina left and went to her house and then all of a sudden the doorbell rings. we answer it and its jeremy with 2 of his friends. then ewelina leaves and me and them go to the park to talk. they ask why we don't want them to drink, and i couldn't think of a good reason. then they were like to jeremy (his friends said) ok how about u dont drink on mon, tues, wed, thurs, and friday saturday sunday you can? how does that sound lisa(me)? and i was like i dont control him and he's like dude ill drink whenever i want. i really like the guy and i know him and my friend ewelina have had feelings for each other in the past and paul likes ewelina so thats why jeremy ANd ewelina never went out. one of jeremy's friends today metnioned that if paul was a good friend he's let jeremy go out with ewelina. she's my best friend and i loove her to DEATH but i don't know what to do anymre. she's not gonna go out with paul and i want to go out with jeremy and he knows that. so how do i get jeremy to stop drinkinking and how do i tell him and good reason to show that I CARE!!!!!!!????? and should I worry about jeremy and ewelina? i rate 5's for good answrers. thanks babes!

wow that was long but ok.
1. You can't control him and tell him to stop drinking. If he cares for you a lot and sees that it is bothing you he should be willing to stop him self other wise guys end up using the word "wipped" haha sorry that work make me laugh..anyway. If your friend isn't going to make a move on eather one of them then you should make a move.
2. Talk to your friend and tell her your feeling for this guy and see if she would mind if anything would happen between you two.
3. If he doesn't stop drinking make sure you know what you are getting your self into.

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Okay so here is the deal, I think I like this kid in my class but I have been trying to make him say that he likes me because I am like way to shy just to ask him because this is my first ever true crush and I am like really sure he likes me back but I am not quite sure.So how do I either ask him if he likes me or figure out if he likes me before telling him I like him?And do not say ask a friend to ask him because I am the shy and mean bad girl type that has trouble making friends!Any help will be greatly appreciated and I will rate fives to anyone who will give me a helpful answer!

umm try flirting with him and see if he flirts back. Hang out with him and see what happenes.

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Hiya.
I fractured my ribs a little over a year ago (and on two other occasions before that) and, before they were properly healed, I was made to swim by my P.E. teacher. They still hurt occasionally - do you think it's connected to the swimming, or just to having had rib problems in the past? And what can I do about it? Should I see a doctor? Has anyone who has injured their ribs had these problems?
(The pain is just like a pulled muscle, if that helps)
Thanks!! xx

seeing a doctor could never hurt just to be on the safe side.

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Hi guys,
Me and my husband have just moved into a new house...well, I say new, but it's actually ANCIENT. So ancient that we have no heating whatsoever!! The place was so expensive though that we can't afford to install heating for at least another year. The windows and doorways are all draughty too. So, my question is, as it is so cold at the moment, any tips of keeping warm other than the obvious 'put on another jumper'?

Try buying one of those little heater things that plug into the outlet. Also maybe turn on the oven and bake something since you don't want the oven to just be on. Your feet have to always be warm.

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well theres this girl that i have gone out with before and she broke up with me and now she likes me again but she has brokin my heart more than once should i ask her out?

how about you go out with her and break her heart and make her see what it feels like? i mean you can ask her out but most times when you break up with someone there are reasons for it and it will most likely happen again.

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While I was dating another guy, I told my ex-boyfriend I loved him. He said he loved me. I broke up with the other guy just yesterday. My friend told me that she heard my ex-boyfriend say that he doesn't want us to stop being friends if we go out again. My question is "Do you think my ex-boyfriend will ask me out."

probably

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i just won a coke contest for a lot of coke from my coke lid. how do i get my prize??

By reading! Yes reading what the bottle says. It’s amazing what you learn when you read and try to find things out for your self before asking others.

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A couple of weeks ago I got caught smoking pot on school grounds. and Now I really regret it. Its going to fuck up everything and I completely lost the trust
of my parents. Is there anyway I could get their trust pack. Thanks
XxBrookexX

If you are going to smoke (dumb ass) why are you going to do it on school ground? So you can go to school high and make your grades drop oh so smart. Why should they trust you? I guess you can talk to them. And say shit like it was pear pressure. That you learned your lesson and will never do it again. Keep it clean and show them you won't do something stupid like that again.

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hi i live in michigan and over spring break my best friend and I are going to los aggeles, california! we're realllllly excited any everything but we're worried bcuz some of our friends are jealous and we don't want them to feel bad. what should we do?

thanks

umm nothing. they just wish it was them. they will get over it. maybe buy them something while you are in californa.

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we dated earlier this year, very breif.
i love him so much and value his friendship so much, problem is, i still have feelinsg for him as more than a friend. i havent acted on them and wont right now but i really want to get together with him again.
hes currently dating a girl who i dont like and he knows im not a fan of the situation but i'm still supporting him.
hes helped me deal with other boys and stuff like that so we're able to talk openly about other relationships, however, he admitted to a mutual frined that he still liked me a little bit, he doesnt know that i know that.

what do i do, is there a chance we could get together in the future again....do you think he really does still have feelings for me a bit??

what do i do right now?
any suggestions to change his mind (hes not head over heals for this girl, we're 15 so its just basically a "ooh shes the flavor of the week for me" and all his guy friends dont really like the girl either.

i love when people answer there own questions. you just said your self that he told someone he liked you a bit. let him be happy with this girl it's most likely not going to last "flavor of the week". yea so then when thats over, flirt and stuff with him and see if he responds. if so then yea he likes you if not then i guess he doesn't.

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1. If you stop seeing her, she will not trust people even more.
2. You can keep seeing her but after you are done with your rotation I would try to continue seeing her. Even when she isn't your patient just as a friend.

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Where can i find music to upload to my myspace like you told me to?

here are some sites you can look at.
http://continue.to/videos
http://www.starlightmks.com/main.html-not sure if this one is working right now
http://www.musicvideocodes.com/
http://www.grumby.com/videos.html
if you don't find anything on any of those. I'll look for some more.
have fun!

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I'm in my 2nd semester at a jr college and was going to go to SDSU, but now I really don't wanna go there anymore. I wanna go out of state or upstate. Also I could stay at the jc for another year. I have no idea what I should do. I'd like to hear some ideas and please no rude comments.
Signed,
going nowhere

it all depends what you want to do and what school you feel is right for you. Compare what each school offers and why you would want to go to which ever school it is. Also think of why you want to go out of state or stay in state the possitives and the negatives of each.

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I like this guy and he likes me, but we both are too shy to ask each other out. I have decided to make the move-how can I ask him out? When should I? What do I say!

Go up to him and say "do you want to go out on saturday or something?". When ever you have enough curage to do it make the move. If you can't do it to his face theres always a note or aim and you can always have a friend go and set stuff up if you are that shy.

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whenever i get my monthlies *i'm a girl* when i sleep i can't sleep with my back on the mattress because i'll get stains on places where the pad doesn't cover. so, my question is wut can i do to ensure that i won't get stains when i wake up like how i can position the pad or w/e stuff like that please help this is getting really annoying thanks

Why not try using a pad and a tampon. As well as putting something on the bed so it won't stain your sheets if anything does go through.

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okay here we go...last year, in 8th grade, this girl and i liked the same guy, idint know she liked him and he asked me out. i said yes of course. well thats when everything started the same fat girl has been talking crap about me ever since then that was last yar! it was over something i couldnt help! he picked me ov you get over it!!

and the question you are asking would be...?

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mp3 files are music files, and you can put those on cds. You can also put mpg or mpeg files on CD's and view them in your DVD player as videos/music videos, etc. What are wmv files? What can I put them on to view it on my DVD player. I downloaded a bunch of Degrassi episodes and they're in wmv mode and I don't know what to do with it. Can I use a CD rw or do I have to use a DVD rw?

Convert them into another writting format like mpg

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