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Can too many fruits a day be bad for you. I am always finding myself picking up an orange and eating it as a snack. I end up eating about twice as many as ur supposed to. lyk 8-10 a day.

Hi. i dont think it's bad for you...you actually get alot of calcium and everything yah kno? it's also beats eating alot of chocolate and stuff yah kno...anything esle let me kno! Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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how old were u when ur got ur belly button pierced..?

Hi. I was 13 in 7th grade....are you getting yours done? Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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Ok, my school has a dress code, not exactly a uniform. We have to wear knee length skirts of solid color (no specific color) so they can be pleated, have bows, etc...We also have to wear polo shirts, sweaters, stuff like that...what are some ways to spice up my school uniform to make it cute and in style??

Hey. Add your own special accessories...like a good necklace that matches and earrings...hmm wear funky colors that suit you best and add things that you think will go good with it...anything else let me kno. Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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Hi,
im in 6th grade and havent had my period yet but have a feeling that im going to SOON. are there any signs that i will get it soon?

Hey. if you have a feeling that you are getting it soon then you might get some clearish discharge on your panties when you use the bathroom...it's normal it means that you are getting your period soon...but it can last for a while tho too...like you can have that and you can not start til maybe a year or so later. but to be prepared then get some pantieliners [$5 maybe] and have some light pads with you in your purse [Always Light with wings $5 about]. anything else you want to kno let me, i'm forever here to help. Take Care..Hope I helped x3 SweetStar.

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how do u girls keep ur hair down like i have straight hair but liek 10 mins after brushin it it get tangled up all messy can yall help me out

Hey. it's not hard lol haha okay anyways get some detangler for you hair...[Johnson and Johnson Strawberry Scent Detagnler $4 at Walmart] is one of my faves...use it when your out of the shower after washing your hair and before school spray some on and brush. and then after detangling add a little bit of hairspray [Herbal Essences Hairspray $4 at Walmart] and it should hold and not get all messy. need anything else let me kno Take Care..Hope I helped x3 SweetStar.

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I have a Nokia 1220 Tracfone.. I need help with my ring tones.. I know how to use the tones that came with it.. but i want to download some off the internet.. but i dont have a browser on my phone. I also need to know how to make my own tones. i tried emailing tracfone.. but they didnt help me any. they just gave me a site to go to so i could download them...

Does anyone else have this phone and know how to download ring tones onto it..? And do u know how to make ur own tones for it?

AIM --xoxjeaninexox08

Jeanine

HI. contact me if you want the sites but if you dont have a browser for it you have to call and pay to use it...and it depends on whos ur service provider too. i'm a tomobile user...and some sites you can get free tones too. IM me or something for more info. my contacts are on my column page. Take Care..I hope I helped x3 SweetStar.

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There's this girl in my school, I'm friends with her and all, and we still talk sometimes when we pass each other in the hallways, but everytime I call her name, she keeps ignoring me! By the way, her name's Shannon.

Hi. dont get me wrong but are you sure she goes by THAT name? i kno alot of ppl that uses their nickname then their normal name..maybe you have to go up to her and tap her and ask her wut she goes by now since she's not answering you. or sit her down one day and ask her why she ignores you. anything else contact me! Take Care..I hope I helped x3 SweetStar.

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Ok i failed a regents in june and i dont get the math. i ve been pracicing all summer and now on the pratice i can get up to a 75 . thats no good enough for them But i dont care ! i treid to tell my parents but they wont listen ! it not like i need it to graduate (its math b ) i dont know what i can say to them to make them understand that id be happy with a 75 n the retake??

Hi. i totally understand. sit them down and tell them that you are happy with it and that you gave it your best shot and thats all it matters. tell them that your not a math wiz and you probably never will be and so tell them to just accept the fact that you like the 75 and everything. try to make a promise that you will try better next time or something and see what they sa. anything else contact me..Take Care..I hope I helped x3 SweetStar.

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I really like my best friend. He is perfect..I think so atleast =). I think he likes me too. But I'm really shy and I have decided to tell him how i feel. B/C not tellin him isnt an option nemore. My feeling are too strong. So..how should I tell him? I'm j/ really worried we wont remain friends if I tell him.. Like if he ends up NOT liking me. Thanks for your help! =)

Hey. i feel so speical that ur asking me! lol anyways okay call him or however you can get him to come over to your house or ask him to hang out just be you and him and tell him over the phone that you want to tell him something and that you have to do it now...i perfer somewhere quite like maybe if you live near a harbor/dock...someplace romantic and quite too..and be like [lets call him jim] jim i was just wondering...as friends...if i told you that i liked you how would you react? [dont say it like your nervous so it wont be obvious is you can okay?] and see what he says. and if he likes you back then congrats and you guys can kiss lol and if not then just be like ohh okay cuz i was just wondering...and see what he does then..if you need anything else let me kno. i'm forever here for yah! Take Care..I hope I helped x3 SweetStar.

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Hi,my dad confiscated my cd, and I want it back, but he won't give it back to me. What shall I do???

Hey. FIGHT FOR IT!!! or see if you can find where he put it and take it back without him noticing...haha [it's raining again ROLF!] hehe anyways yes and if you still cant find it throw a fit and get it back. cantact me if you need more help... =D Take Care..I hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.

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I have very bad acne and i really want clearer skin. what types of things i can use to clear this up. thanks!

Hi. try using acne medicines or ance cleansers. Oxy Pads work very well [$4 at walmart] you wipe it on your face 3-4 times a day and it gets rid of alot of acne...phisaderm works very well too [$5 at Walmart] and it dpends on what kinda of product you choose... also Clean n Clear works goo too...[products cost between $4-$6 at Walmart depending what kind of wash or lotions you get.] i perfer the ance cleanser and the gel. Take Care..I hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.

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okay heres my story..what should i do?

i have this best friend named Jerra..and last friday we went bowling and met these guys n hooked up with them! and then she promised me that night that me n her would go again this friday with the same group of guys..and that it would be JUST us..no one else! just me n her..and then the guys! well she went to camp for a week and came back today and called me and was like "well i met these girls at camp and they became some of my best friends and they are gonna come with us tonite bowling!" i was soo FURIOUS! i started crying and everything cause i worked so hard to earn the money so i could go bowling tonite..but now my plans are ruined! and i told her that if those girls she met where there that she would ditch me and she was like "i wouldn't ditch you completely" but here's another thing..i like this guy named charlie..and me n him were suppose to hook up tonite and makeout maybe..well guess what..she's bringing his EX girlfriend! and then she told his ex g/f that i liked him and was gonna makeout with him! some best friend huh?! well i don't know what to do! PLEASE HELP ME AS SOON AS POSSIBLE BECAUSE THIS WHOLE THING IS HAPPENING TONITE! I'LL RATE YOU A 5! thanks!

Hi. tell her how you feel and ask her why all the sudden that shes doing this...and point out that she made a promise to you that it would only be YOU AND HER...amd if that doesnt work then just dont go and call up charlie and tell him that you dont want to be there with all the extra ppl there including his exgf if you feel this way...and then after tonight i guess you can go and call her friend up and talk to her more about and ask her that how would she feel if you invited her to go somewhere and said it would be you and her and you brought your new group of girlfriends and see how mad she would get...if you need anything else let me kno..Take Care..I Hope I helped x3 SweetStar.

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ok well i have this one friend well she's more like my best friend but anyways there was some bad shit going on in my family and i didn't know how to handle it and well so i cut. and i meen now she's soooo mad at me for doing that when i told her i would neevr do it again like 50 times. but it just helps you feel better! what should i do i really don't want to loose my friend anymore then i alreayd have!

Hi. i understand what you are going through. let her kno that you didnt mean to tell her and hurt her feelings...i kno that i would get mad if my friend cuts but she's not mad at you...she's mad at herself for not being able to help you. talk to her about...ask her why she feels that way so you both kno whats going and see how it works...and promise me too never do it again too...i'm sure there are other ways to make it feel good then to cut...eat candy! lol jut dont cut..Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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if you are reading this again...why can't you promise not to do it again? even tho i dont kno you i dont want you to end up cutting and then hurting yourself more...it hurts to hear that you are having a problem and i cant and dont kno how to help...find something else but cut...let it out and cry dont cut..please...if want we can talk...im me inbox email wutever..talk to me... =/

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Ok my friend is 12 years old and she's drinking and i don't know how to make her stop. she just started because she thinks she 'needs to' but i think its because this other girl does. please give me ideas or help me or something

Hi. wow thats bad for her. talk to her and let her kno that it's bad for her and she shouldnt do it no more...tell her it doesnt change who she is if shes drinkin or not and that she always have you and let her kno how you feel and talk to her about everything that you have questions about. i'm sure will understand. and if that doesnt work i suggest you tell her parents so she wont hurt herself. anything else you can contact me. Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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My hair is too plain and i am going back to school soon and i want something different then just in a pony tail does any body have step by step hair tips to give me a better look?
i am desperate!!!!

Hey. you can twist your year and have the ends of your hair flipped out.. you just put it up like a ponytail and instead of having it downward...flip it outward.. you can always curl your hair and make it wavy or straighten it if you already have wavy hair. you can even have your hair straight and just flip out the ends a little bit if you have medium length hair. if you are looking for a speical style let me kno and contact me if you need to. Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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Hi well ok see me and my friend were the bestest of friends then all of a sudden I start liking this boy , and he likes me but my friend said that she wouldn't get mad at me, well I called her and told her the news about us going out and she threw the phone across the room......
What do I do?>?? Plz Help me.......And Fast

Hey. let her kno that she was the one that said she wasnt gonna get mad...point that out to her so she has no rights to be mad at you even tho she likes him too...tell her that and how you feel and hear her point of view and everything. anything else you can contact me..Take Care..Hope I helpe! x3 SweetStar.

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okay so im a 15 year old female
and i have this huge crush on
one of my brothers friends
his name is wesley..but hes 21
and in the marines..hes leaveing
for iraq in 8days..but i like him
allot and dont no how to tell him
or how him being in iraq and me
being 15 and in pennsylivania er
w/e my state is spelled would work
but i saw him at the mall tonight
and he was at my house tuesday and
at my brothes game..and when i saw
him tonight we stared at each other
for a longgg time..and we talked at
the game last night..and for like
an hour when he was here tuesday
so i really am starting to become
attached to the kid but im not sure
what to do ya know? well i hope some
one can help me

Hi. tell him...theres nothing more you can do but that since he's leaving soon and then you guys can spend the last few days together yah kno...the sooner the better so you have more time. i'm sure he likes you too but thinks you think that he's too old. just tell him...you have nothing to loose...and if he does end up tuning you down..he's leaving soon...so just talk to him =) Take Care..Hope I helpe! x3 SweetStar.

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My BESTfriend.. Let's call her *Liza. She is anorexic, i didn't know this before.. i just thought she was super skinny. But she left her diary over my house, and i just read some of it. She's been anorexic for almost two years, it's crazy. She doesn't know that i know yet.. so i'm scared to try and help her! Do you have any ideas on how i can tell her that i know and try to get her to stop. Cause i'm soo scared that something bad is gonna happen to her, Please, pretty please.. someone help me. Thank you so much, sorry it's so long.

Signed,
Very Scared!

Hi. i understand how you feel about helping your friend...have her over and just talk to her straight up about it and that she needs to get it cured...she might be mad at you for reading her diary but its better having her being mad at you then her dying in front of you yah kno? tell her that! and how you feel and how much you want to help her and i'm sure she'll understand your trying to help. let her parents kno too after you've talked to her and all of you can help her...and make sure he's alright. need anything else contact me...i'm forever here to help! Take Care..Hope I helpe! x3 SweetStar.

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Okk I have really small boobs, and i just wanna know what kinda things to wear to distract people **guys** from that.. i mean im comfortable in my body but all my friends have like Huge boobs..soo what do i do?? help!! i rate high!!

HI. i say you dont do anything...it's doesnt matter how you look but how your peronality is...it doesnt matter if guys think you have small boobs just as long as your confident with what you have then your sexy. so it doesnt matter...as long as you are happy is what counts. Take Care..Hope I helped.. x3 SweetStar.

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My mom always complains about me never being home. She says that she thinks that i dont love her and only want to talk to her when i want something. (im sure everyone is gonna say that their mom is like that too), but are there any ways that i can 'hang out' or spend time with my mom with still being able to be as social and hang out with my friends as much as i do? please give me some ideas to have fun with my mom (i know that sounds lame) but i know it would help me to be able to do more stuff.

Hi. i'm glad to help yoU! haha anyways maybe one weekend you can hang out with her at the mall or something...be like mom i'm sorry so why dont we bond and go to the mall...you dont have to get me anything...(well...for now lol jk)but we can just shop around and give eachother fashion tips on wuts hot and wuts not...dave up money and take her to get her nails done...manicure...pedicure...nails wutever u can afford...maybe a spa treatment...wutever you can think of invite her to it...i'm sure she will appreciate it all..but if you hang out with friends during the weekends open up friday afterschool and spend some time with her...also it doesnt have to be anything expensive either...i dont kno read a book with her...talk to her about how things are in school or bake some cookies with her..she will love it all since she only also wants a little bit of quility time with u. i'm sure she will love u to death! lol Take Care...Hope I Helped x3 SweetStar.

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