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ok, i know she isnt really really well known or anything but does anyone knoe if you can buy Regina Spektor CD's at places like FYE or Best Buy? but any way...do you have to buy them on the internet or can i buy tham at any CD store?
Thanks...i'll rate!!

Go to the CD store site www.fye.com or www.bestbuy.com and type it in and see if your local store carries it or try calling the store up and asking them?

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i convinced my cousin to introduce me to some of her friends, and she did lol. so..we met on the phone and my cousin got jealous and told me not to ever meet them in person. we went behind her back, tho, and met at the mall and had an awesome time. but my cousin found out, and shes jealous and mean and thinks that im a backstabber..shes so controlling and protective over her friends. what should i do? oh, and my cousin hates me now

I am not sure what to say, but it sounds like she doesn't want you to meet them because then it will feel like that they are inorging her to see you and such. Try explaining to her that your not trying take her friends away from her you just want to meet new people, try suggesting her to meet a few of your friend so your both even?

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I want to get a mystic tan from one of those spray things before I go to Florida (in 3 days) My mom says I could but I was wondering - when I go out in the REAL sun ..will anything happen (like color of my skin wise or health) if I already have the mystic tan on? Im only going for 5 days - Do you think I should even bother w/ the mystic tan ..ah what do i do?!

Ewww don't fake tan!! Last year I went to Florida which was last week we came back yesterday of last year..and I got really tan..and yet I am mostly pale and ect...I had one part of me cover from a wash off tattoo and after my last day there in the sun before going home the next afternoon, I took it off and there was a HUGE difference..so don't get a fake tan by the tanning bed or sprays that are cheap and last for a few days, get a real one that last for 3-4 weeks!!!! Have fun!!

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hi! My friend has been absent from school for 3 months and has been in the hospital, most likely with cancer. I really want to visit her and cheer her up...the problem is that I don't know what to say or what to get her as a get-well present. By the way, she isn't coming back to school...she's homeschooled.

I am sorry about your friend. Just be yourself around her.. bring her flowers, balloons and a bear or stuffed animal of her favorite animal, you can write her a poem about your friendship, make a photo album or have your friends all sign a big card for her. Just be creative! The creative things always mean the most!!

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God Bless,
you, your friend and her family.

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What are the benefits and bad things about eating sunflower seeds?

Benefits- no fat I belive
and the
bad things- high on salt

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Hey, Im 15/f and I have been having some problems with my breasts> (Yeah, I'm sorry...it's sorta ugh). Anyways, recently my breasts have started to hurt. It's not major pain or anything or severe. They've just been feeling like their stretching or something.... Also if it helps, I'm not exactly well- endowed right now....Thank you so much! ~West

Well your right when they say "They've just been feeling like their stretching or something...." because they are growing, so yeah they are going to stretch. I suggest buying Palmer's Coco Butter because you may come across strech marks on your breast. I know I have and so have many others.

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hi im 15 and my boyfriends 16. although many adults say that us teens dont know what love is teens know when their in love. i just want peoples opinions (teens and adults) on if teens know what love is and also me and my boyfriend are really in love and its NOT lust. we know it. anyways we decided we were going to have sex (no my boyfriends not like that hes never pushed me into sex ever) but were not having sex for the fun of it we really do love eachother. please give us ur thoughts and please dont be mean thanx!~Kelley

It could be love...everyone's emotion are differnt, everyones feelings and point of views are different. I don't think anyone will be able to define the word "love" till it actually happens in their own 2 eyes. There have been people who gotten married at 18 as well known as "high school sweethearts" you don't see many of those. Yet you can make your graduating year something special knowing there were high school graduates that graduated that year.

Just what ever you do please don't screw up!!

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hey im reese and i weigh 130 and im 15. well ive been a lil "chubby" over the years and it never seems to get any better. i see everyone at my age with different builds but their skinny. but im 5'5 or so and my stomach just never seems to flatten out. and i come from a family whos really skinny. please help. is it because i havent lost my baby fat yet? i would think im sorta underdeveloped at my age but i need others to help! thanks so much! *rEeSe* :)

Sorry that you think your chubby. You probably aren't, I recently turned 15, 2 weeks ago and I am like 145..with some fat as well..yet I am only 5'3. It's most likely your baby fat. I have seen girls who are more then 150 and they are shorter...I have tried to get a flat stomach as well..and for me it's slowly going it..not really but a little every few months..it can just be your muscles (sp?) as well...you may seem like your fat but it can just be that instead..try running up hill and doing 25-50 sit-ups a day, and by summer you should look good.

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I have the bestest friends in the world. but i cant help but feel left out sometimes. i know im just been stupid half the time but it really bugs me. I know that having 3 best friends will always be hard but its so awful been left out. Like they will sleep at each others house etc. I told my friends about this and my other friend said sorry i just feel more close to her than i do to you. and that just made me upset becuase i have known them both longer than they have known each other. So i dont know what to do, they will think im trying to split them up or something which im not! so what can i do because i have already told them but they just carry on. thanks
xxxx

I feel the same way, 2 of my friends I have known one since 2nd grade and one since like 6th grade..and they both became close and 1 said that she is comfrontable saying stuff to the other one then to me, they would go for bike rides, and to the movies and say that they called but my sister never told them... which I don't belive but yeah. Then recently I had the same thing with another 2 of my freinds who don't know each other they only talked on-line a few times, but the one I knew for a lil over a year got annoyed because I was telling the one I only knew for a few months more personal stuff, bc I knew he would be there for me when I need someone to actually talk to. I know how it feels being left out of a triangle, I also know how it feels when you know one feels like they are left out. (such like I knew my friend was getting annoyed bc I couldn't be as open to him the other one)...What I am going to say is sit down with both of them and talk about how you feel and maybe have a day with just the 3 of you to have fun like old times, I know it wasn't the best but if you need anything else feel free to drop on in.

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ok .. this might be a little confusing but im sorry! lets say im lydia and my sister is brittany. There are 3 guys involved in this. Lets say their names are billy, mitch, and john. Well i used to go out wiht john but we broke up like 5 months ago. Long story about us but to make it short, my dad didnt like him adn told him to never talk to me again. So of course he hasnt. Well now my dad said i can talk to john again, and i really want to because i still like him! billy and mitch are both of his friends. Well over last summer, mitch liked my sister, then when me and john broke up, mitch started liking me. Now mitch likes me and my sister. i like mitch, but not as a boyfriend, yet im jealous when he likes other girls. About billy, Billy likes me, but he doesnt know that i like him. The other day one of billy friends called me and said billy liked me and asked if i liked him. I said no even tho i do. Now billy thinks i dont like him, so he said he doesnt want to go out with me. He now says im hott and he likes me but doesnt want to go out with me. (because i said i didnt like him). Its all really confusing but i dont know what to do. Wednesday i am going to try to talk to billy and john but should i tell both of them i like them? I like john way more but i think john has a girlfriend. Please help the best you can. Any advise is welcome!! thanks so much!

Wasn't this question already asked? Since I had read one with a girl name Lydia and her sister Brittney and these 3 guys or so.

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last month i got my period on the 9th ..it is now the 11th and i still havent gotten it for this month .. is there any way to not get my period after exactly a month ...and is there any way that im still going to get it for this month?

I agree with assuager. A period isn't exactly a month, it's 28 days. If you are just starting out then yeah it can be late, because your body is just starting out it has to get on a track of it all and your body growing, which means it can be early or it can be late. If you just recently just had sex then you may be pregent if you don't get your period within a couple of days.

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Lately my zits have gotten really bad. I try various face washes, alcohol pads, etc. Nothing works and they're getting worse. I don't have the money to go out and buy expensive treatments. Are there any ways to make them go away faster using products I could find at home or products I could buy for not too much money? Thanks I rate 5's.

I am not sure on what for to say on that, because I have the same problem but since the summer is coming...I suggest get out to the sun more and don't wear make up when your not in public and wash your face 3-5 times a day. It should clear up fast that way.

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ok well i feel that "down there" on me looks different from other people's for some reason it looks loose .? i've only be fingered twice and it looks like i have like 45078 times! im just afraid a guy will talk about me if they see it.

All girls look different so don't worry about it. If he does start something and does start talking about it you can inorge is his comments and cross him off the mature list! lol

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(sp?) what does that mean?

it means spelling as if your not sure if it spelt correctly you can say (sp?) as in your not sure lol

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Ok,yesturday i went to the bathroom,did my busness[sorry sp].Like anything normal,of course.Then today my area smelled really bad after i took a shower. It smelled all day and other people could smell it to!I was so embarissed but they didnt no it was me.I didnt no what was wrong!! I havnt had my period yet[i dont mean this month,i mean i NEVER have] [i turned 13 a couple of days ago,and obviously,im a female] Dose anyone no whats wrong?
i rate VERY high.

1- Con gratz on finally becoming a teen
2- it most likely means your about to start
so i suggest wearing panny (sp?) liner till your day comes then switch over to pads

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I really want to buy a vibrator... but I don't know where to go. I am 16 years old, and do not want one shipped to me, I want to go to a store. I was wondering, do I have to go to a sex store or are there any other stores that sell them?

~Kristin

Just like everyone else said...go to Spencer lol

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I was just wondering how long it takes for your boobs to grow in after you get your period.Dose it happen right away?
i rate high. thanks :)

It varies, I started developing 6 mths - a year till I got my period and they don't stop going till you become an adult I belive so about 18-19 year old.

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ok so i really like this guy and i perposly try to walk by his and stuff so he'll notice me.. i dont talk to him in school and im not sure if he knows me...but i talked to him on aim a few times. and the other day my friend imed him because she got the sn from looking off my buddylist.. and she asked him if he was friends with me.. and he said yes. its really weird because i didnt even no he knew who i was...and im really scared to talk to him in person so do you have any advice other than that?

I am not sure, if I would you I would just start off with a casual hi in the hall or say on-line "hey, how come you dont say hi in the halls and stuff" and if he says something on the hand of how he'll start saying it..that should eventually bring up a convo or something in school or in person.

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Hey!

I don't know where else to get some advice for this but I was just wondering what color of eyeshadow/eyeliner would look good with a light turquoise blue dress?

I have red hair, blue eyes & I'm somewhat fair-skinned.

Thanks so much!

I'm not a beauty expert (sp? (lol)) but I guess sliver eye shadow and brown/black eye liner?

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this is embarassing to ask... but i really want to know

is using tampons like a guy fingering you? or will it loosen you up? and does it pop your cherry?

i will rate 5s because i really want to know...

I am not sure, because I don't use them but I do know it can pop your cherry

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