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Hi, My name is Bailey. I am 15, and I know that is young, but I think I can offer good advice, or at least try my hardest.Feel free to leave me anything in my inbox.
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Also I check my e-mail everday, so if you don't want to ask a question on this site, feel free to e-mail me and I will respond as soon as I can!
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I really would like to make more guy friends. Guys talk to me and stuff, but how do I develop a friendship with them? I'll give all 5's. Thanks
Just act like normal, and don't talk about girl stuff with them all the time. A lot of guys I know don't like to hear about me whine, about guys, or other girls, or stuff like that, just talk to them, and have fun with them. But don't just try to be their friends to go out with them.
Does proactiv really work and get rid of all or most of your acne? A girl told me it was great for her and her friend, but other people say its junk. I just wanted to know cause I always have acne and i want to know if this stuff really works.
It helped me and a lot of people I know a lot!
Not good. My best friend and I like the same guy and he might like her back and I'm completely jealous annnd she doesnt know I like him.
I just got out of a relationship.
what to do?
I think the best thing to do in your situation would be to tell your friend about it. Because she is going to keep liking him, and if he likes her back then they will probably go out. So if that happens you will just be jealous and probably mad at her and she won't even know why. So tell her how you feel.
I just want some opinions on this:
Do you think it's wrong to let your boyfriend go to a strip club?
I personally think it is wrong, but then I see some girlfriends even go with their boyfriends to stripclubs!! I just don't get it. How could you let your boyfriend get turned on by another woman? ..or let alone get a sexy lap dance by another woman? I personally think that can even lead to the thought of cheating.
What do you guys think? I am 18 and my boyfriend is 17 and he will be 18 next month. I don't know whether to never let him go to a strip club(since that is a common thing for men to try out at least once in their lives) or to let him try it out. I am really uncomfortable with that idea.
In my opinion I think strip clubs are disgusting, and it would hurt me a lot if my boyfriend were to go to one. I am also a strong believer in not looking at pornography either. Men do not need sexual fantasies and such to live their life. If you think that it is wrong for your boyfriend to go to one, then i think you should tell him how you feel about it. Because it is not fair that he gets to have a night of fun, while you will probably have a night of worrying and being jealous. That is how I would feel. Luckily my boyfriend understands how I feel about all of this and respects it, and is fine with it. But if you are not comfortabe with the idea, then I think you should tell him, and if he cares about you he will understand. Especially the lap dance part. I mean if you decided to be fine with the fact of him going to a strip club, then I think lap dances should be completely off limits to guys who are in a relationship. To me that would be like cheating. Because I'm sure my boyfriend wouldn't be to happy if I was getting dry humped by some guy and enjoying it. But really it is just up to the girl, because there are deffinately some girls who totaly think it is fine for their boyfriend to go.
I've been going out with this guy for ages. He seems perfect. He has a great body etc etc. Thing is i have loads in common with this other guy, and i really like him. I go all girly everytime i see him. I really really like him! Im 15 and my bf is 17. The guy I like is in the year below me. Hes not the best looking either. But when my boyfriend and i have sex all i think about is this other guy. What shall i do?
It sounds like you just don't have ths same feelings you probably used to have for your boyfriend. When you start thinking about other guys when you are having sex, then that is the time to break up with him. I mean you are 15, so having different boyfriends is a good thing. So I think you should try to go out with the boy you really like right now.
ok thanks guys for all your advice! i am really taking it to heart. well scott gets out of rehab monday and comes home....and i am supposed to vist him tuesday at work...i love him so much but i want him to get better, off drugs and get his life together and i think i just need to be his friend for right now but i dont want to break up with him but i dont want to hold him back becasuse of my own selfish reassons...i love him so much and i just want whats best for him. he tells me he loves me too but someone said if he really loved you then he would want to stay away from drugs and rehab and want to not go back so he would be with you hes putting drugs befor you and i've been thinking about that ever since she said that i dont know what to do please help me asap! thanks love you all xox
I don't think that is true at all. Drugs are very addicting, and they are very hard to control your use of them. It sounds like he probably really does love you, he just has a really bad addiction. I think the best thing you can do is to just be there for him, and help him get through it, if he loves you then he will be trying to stop, and get help for it. He may not necessarily stop all together, but overtime. Just because he is doing drugs, does not mean he doesn't love you.
I hope everything goes well!
we get to do a research paper on anything we want, what would be some good topics?
Well I am not even going to try and make a list like the person below me! I don't know how old you are, or what you like but some good ideas would be like, something that is going on in the world right now. Like the war, terrorism, or just any other big issue that is going on right now. Or you could do it on someone you like. Possibly your favorite celebrity, sports star, politician, etc.
Good Luck!
hey guys i need some advice....me and scott have been dating and everytime i try to call him the phone is ALWAYS busy! i know he has a lot of friends that are girls but he talks to like 7 girls on the phone every night he tells me its not even like that..but i'm having doubts then one day he called me and told me his ex girlfriend called him and she bought him a presant and i got mad and he goes " see i knew you would get all bent out of shape about it." ok if some whore is buying my boyfriend presants am i supposed to be happy? i dont know if hes cheating on me and i think he is because the phones always busy and when i try to talk to him about it he gets all mad..what do you guys think please help me out!
Hey,
It doesn't sound like he is ready for a relationship. If my boyfriend was talking to 7 girls every night and his ex-girlfriend was giving him presents then I would dump him. It just sounds like you will end up gettig hurt in the long run. It doesn't sound like he is cheating on you, but I just don't think he understands how to be a good boyfriend. I mean he should at least understand why you were mad when his ex got him a present, and it just sounds like he is avoiding talking to you about other girls. So it really sounds like you should just dump him....
Well Good Luck with everything!
Hey ok i know this is very steryotypical but i am i emo girl and mah frinds say im a goth and i try to tell them goth and emo are totally differnt.... arent they... could u give me the differnt of the two or like a deffinition of each???? thanks!!
I think that everyone has their own "deffinition" of each. From my view, emo is not I guess as "hardcore" as a goth. They are similar in some ways but not in others. It is hard to say, since there is no correct deffinition of either. So really if you think you are emo, then just ignore your friends. They are probably just trying to piss you off.
my little brother always wants me to play with him and it is so stupid........yes,my mom makes me and i dont no what i can do i'll rate good for good advice
Um, I am not quite sure what you are asking here,but I will try and answer. If you are asking what you can do so that you don't have to play with your little brother then you should go talk to your mom, and tell her that you will play with him sometimes, but that you want to do some stuff on your own, and not play with your brother all the time...I hope that is what you were asking.
Hey! Well i have this problem..i LOVE hanging out with my cousin--we are the same age . both 15 and she is pretty much awesome lol we are really close! The only thing is when we hang out we dont really go anywhere..she is a computer (AIM , MYSPACE) addict..im serious. We were suppose to hangout this weekend and at my house we are having this party but like ALL OLD PEOPLE are going to be there..and its boring..and my cousin told me that me her and the kid she liked (mike) and his friend (zack) and this girl brittany were all going to go to a movie so i could meet the guys she likes. Well now i just talked to her a little bit ago shes like GUESS WHAT? i get to drive to your house on saturday because she got her permitt..and i was like ohhh coool..and shes like but yeah i dont think zack has even talked to mike yet ..so im not sure what we are doing this weekend..and it seems like she is coming over here for the boring party where we will just sit here with all the adults and do nothing..she will probably go on the computer. She wants me to sleepover but the problem is since she is grounded from the computer at her house..we dont do anything besides sit there and watch tv the whole time..this is not how i want to spend my weekend! i look forward to my weekends and i dont want to waste it by sitting on my butt. We never go anywhere..sometimes its boring but like there is never anything to do and it seems like she never wants to do anything! we both dont really hangout with guys..even tho i would want to but we are more quieter so we dont have many guy friends..and yeahh. SO any suggestions on what we could do? Or anything that would help with my situation on how to spice things up..and just have fun!!
i will rate 5 for anyone who answers!
thanks :)
Just tell her that you want to do something. Tell her that you don't want to spend your time at your house since you are always there, and you want to go out and do something. I don't know what you like to do, but going to the movies, of maybe like an indoor mini golf place, just anywhere exciting. Tell her that she can spend time on the computer later, but you want to do something outside the house first.
me and my best friend arent talking and recently ive been getting im's and texts saying how my lifes soon gonna be a living hell and im gonna have no friends and that thres gonna be nasty rumors .. should i tell someone like a teacher that i trust? or should i try to work it out myself?please help!
You should deffinately tell someone you trust as soon as possible.
ok so over the summer i became best friends with this girl and we did everything togeter. but since we started highschool everything has changed. she wont talk to me and when she does its aways negative. i really cant stand it anymore and my other friends are sick of listeing to me. i come home and go in my room and i dont want to talk to anyone except her and try to work things out. but i do want to talk to some one like one of my favorite teachers who i think could really help because she knows whats going on but i dont know how to approach her and as her about it. someone help!
I think that talking to a teacher is a very good idea. Teachers are trained for that, so you really should just go up to her, and ask her if you can talk to her about some private stuff. That is part of a job of being a teacher, is to be there for your students, so your teacher will be glad to give you help. So just go up and ask her to talk!
ok i dont know what topic this should be but if you have hbo on demand for io and you pick something to watch does it show up on the bill?
Yes it does.
alright heres the deal.. i like my best friend.. and he still likes me even though he has a girlfriend.. he cheated on her 3 time and he always says "i love you and if we were going out i woudln't cheat on you" and stuff and i don't know if i shoudl still like him or if i shoudl move on.. he's also always rubbing it in that he's going out with this chick to make me jealous.. and i don't get jealous..
additionally, when i like someone other than him.. he gets completly jealous and starts flipping on me and telling me that i'm an idiot because the guy is gay.. when first off he doesn't even know him.. i told him plently of times that if he woudln't be with his girlfriend i woudl be with him.. but he continues to go out with her.. and i feel really bad
should i get over him or whatnot? i will rate a 5 for any thought
Hey hun,
He doesn't sound like the ideal guy for a relationship. He doesn't even sound like he is mature enough for a girlfriend. I think that you should just forget about dating him, and just go with another guy. He doesn't sound like he would make a good boyfriend, and he sounds like he is all talk.
my friend didnt know how to make out n like use her tongue n stuff......so she like did it with her dog i guess
is it just me or is that a lil weird?
she told me she did it tho so she wouldnt look stupid when she does it with a guy fer the 1st time
Well, yes that is a little weird. There are deffinately better ways to practice then with a dog. Because I have never kissed a dog, but I am guessing it is nothing like kissing an actual person. So yes it is a little weird.
Tommorrow is the school dance. I really want to dance with the guy I like. At the last dance we really hit it off and spent a ton of time together because we're already great friends. The thing is I want to be more. How should I act? I kinda want him to ask me to dance but if I have to ask him I will.
If he does not ask you to dance, then you should deffinately ask him, and make it a slow song too! Then maybe try and flirt with him during the dance, and just try talking to him.
Good Luck!
Hey, Im not planning on doing this but im just wondering. What would make you loose more weight faster .. Only eating lets say a bag of chips and a drink for lunch .. then for dinner just toast .. by the way no breakfast .. or just eating regularly. So basically my question is will eating less cause you to gain more weight or stay the same. A friend of mine is going through this and I would like to know.
Eating less like that is not the way to lose weight at all. A heathy way would be to eat breakfast! That is so important! Then eat lunch too. A bag of chips and a drink is not even good for you, so that is not a good way to lose weight. So maybe a sandwich and some fruit. And for dinner, again a piece of toast, that is not healthy at all. So she should eat a good dinner. The thing is if she wants to lose weight she just needs to eat smaller portions that is the key to losing weigth. So I would tell her to eat regularly, but in smaller portions, and also to work out.
so i shoulden't date someone who is coming out of rehab? i mean i love him alot and i just can't turn my back on him like that but i want to do whats best for him but i want to still be with him what do i need to do?
Hey,
I think that it does not matter if he was in rehab or not.
If you have feelings for him then you should stick with him.
I don't know how he feels about you, but if he likes you then I think a relationship would be a good thing for him. As long as you are not into the negative things he was doing to get him into rehab, if you are then it is not a good idea, because that would just take him right back to where he was.
Even if you do not date him, try and be there for him.
So you have no idea how to get rid of it at all? Cuz its annoying me..
I just went up to my toolbar on the screen where it is and I right clicked it the I went to customize, and then I clicked on MSN messenger and then I clicked remove and it just went away!!! Try that!