about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

i was wondering how people got those little hearts on their profiles/away messages?

i love your advice =)
xo

It's a font. Some people have it, some don't. Just copy and paste it or look if you have the font. & Thank you!

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hey hey hey hey hey teza whaz up homiee heheheh well i juss wanted to say i luv you so very very much heehhe umm tezas in da bed givin ----- head hahahha mah rap lmao we are sooo ghetto well i have to go i love yah
guess who?????
u already kno

Emina!! Haha. Well, I love you very much also =) Now about that rap, it's wack because you're talking smack! Hahahah, wow we're losers but it's all good yo! Love ya tons.

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what are symptoms toToxic shock syndrom

It is a bacteria caused by leaving your tampon in for too long.

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What is your favorite perfume? What perfumes do guys like best?

Dior is personally one of my favorites. I love anything not to strong and that isn't fruit. Paris Hilton, Hollister sprays. Guys like anything that smells good and soft.

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do girls care if guys r circumsized or uncircumsized?

Most girls do care if it is circumsized. Depends on the girl.

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hey! ok well i went out with this one girl for like not even 24 hours cause she couldnt have a bf at the time. and now im going out with some! and the other girl said shes like in love with me and i like her!! but i cant leave my gf!!! help me teza!!! pleaz!

You must be in a tough situation. At this point, you should choose one or the other. Honestly, you have to figure out what you like more about the girls. If you like your girlfriend now, and don't want to risk loosing her, stay with her. If you like the other one, and would do anything to be with her then choose her. I want you to know that this isn't about choosing someone. It's really your decison on who you want to be with. What exacly did you mean you can't leave your girlfriend? You will know what the right thing to do is. Good luck and let me know how it turns out.

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okay well my boyfriend is in my 3 friends extra classes (like gym health and art ) and they are saying that he called me a whore and stuff and now hes saying he never called me that but thoughs 3 friedns were always known for makin things up and now i have to choose who to side wiht and i wanna be friends with both my boyfriend and my friends.... please help ASAP!!!!!

Why choose sides? I honestlly hate when people feel like they have to. Why don't you just belive no one? Forget about it because if they did say that, then they aren't your true friends at all. If they are known for making things up, don't belive them. Trust your boyfriend or who ever you think is telling the truth. Just don't take sides. It won't do you any good. Ignore them, and ask someone to pay attention if he really does say that.

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Okay, so apparently everyone says that you "make it to 1st base" by at least kissing someone on the lips. some say making out is first base. Others say if you just kiss some1 on the cheek. Do you know the answer??!?!?! &hearts &hearts &hearts

Making out is the first base. Not kissing on the lips or on the cheek. People just have different views on it though.

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hey! you just helped me with my question on a cute costume for halloween. I liked your barbie doll idea, but what would i wear for that? Thanks for your help!

If you want you could eather pick any dress, or get a barbie costume. You know how a barbie looks right? Well, do your hair, make-up, and dress like her. It would look really cute. Anything else, let me know.

Edit- You canbuy a poffy dress, kind of like Cinderella. It should be pink, because that's just how barbies dress is. The thing is barbie doesn't only have one outfit. She can be a tennis player, a cook, a mom or whatever. So you should choose on what barbie you want to be.

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Okay. I just got the nerve to try out a tampon. I was all relaxed and read directions and I finally got it. So, I was excited I did cause I wimpped out before. and my mom got all mad at me cause she said i could get toxic shock syndrom and like something in my vagina broke? What the heck is she talking about? Im scared to use another one cause she freaked out. So help me please!!!!!!!!

Toxic shock syndrom (TSS) is caused is the tampon is left in for too long, and if it isn't changed every few hours. It's rare you will get it. Your vagina will not brake but if you put the tampon in too high up, your hymen might break which is nothing to worry about because it happens to all girls. Don't be freaked out though. You'll be fine. Make sure you change your tampon every 2-3 hours.

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I'm going trick-or-treating with my friends this year and I have no idea what to be. My friends usually get all the attention, so for once I want to be the one with the cutest costume. Can anyone help me with a costume that's creative, yet cute? Nothing scary or TOO slutty please! Thanks!

Cop
Nurse
Cowgirl
Barbie doll
Super model
Marelin Monroe ( sp )
Cheerleader
Singer
Anyone you admire
Princess =)
Hooker, not too slutty though.
Apple, so my friend says.
French maid.
Hollister model.

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i'm scared of bein' alone,...pretty much anywhere. i always think someone's followin me or i'll get kiddnapped and raped or something,...and i dont know what triggered it. i just felt scared one day and its been like that ever since,...i dont know what to do about it...

There is nothing wrong with feeling like that. To tell you the truth, I always feel like that. I am always scared that I'm going to get killed, raped and those things. It's just you have to look out for yourself and you have to learn who you trust. Sometimes, you can't trust all of your friends. And you might have to learn that in the future. Just look out for yourself, be careful at what you are doing and who you hang out with and the places you go.

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13/m
I would like to dress up like something different this year. I have been...
A pirate
A hobo
a devil
an m&m
A clown
dracula
Grim reaper

Any1 got some Ideas that arent listed?

Spider-man!!! =D Batman, scream, cowboy, ninja, darth vadar, The hulk, power ranger, pimp, venom,rapper, ghetto person, soldier. Have fun!

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what does OOOOH FO SHIZZNLE MY NIZZLE

Me and my friends talk like that just for fun all the time. It doesn't really mean anything. Fo shizznle means for real. All together it means for real my ni**er.

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well i know it's nad and everything but i want another one and another one. im only 13!!!!!!!!!!!! i only had one and i want another one! PLZ HELP!!!!!!!!!!

To tell you, having just one won't make you addicted. You just have the thought of wanting one because it's supposibly "cool". Anyways, you really don't need one or want one. That is just what your brain is telling you. Smoking is horrible!! No matter how many you have. Just don't think about smoking and don't let your friend give you more.

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I'm setting up a campaign for people to see whats the difference (of thoughts/actions)in people that smoke and do not. If you are a smoker or a non-smoker, please answer these questions in which category you fit in. Oh, and please tell me if you are a smoker or a non-smoker. I'm doing this so I can hellp people with certain things. I can't ask anyone around because I don't speak thier language.

Smokers:

1. How do you feel if you don't smoke for a long period of time?
2.What has influenced you to smoke?
3. Have you noticed any differences since you began smoking?
4. About how many ciggarets do you smoke in 1 day?
5. Did you feel like you have upset anyone when you first started?

Non-smokers

1. How do you feel about people who smoke?
2. Would you ever consider to smoke? Why?
3. What is your reason not to smoke?
4. In your opinion, why is smoking bad for you?
5. What would your advice be if a smoker wants to quit?

Thanks in advance, I hope you guys don't mind.

I am a non smoker =)

1. I do not like when people smoke at all. I hate the smell, and it is a poitless addiction.

2. I would not consider smoking because you can get lung cancer, bad teeth and there is really no reason to.

3. My reason not to smoke is bacilly because it's a drug and you can get addicted and die.

4. Smoking is bad for you in many ways. Like I said, you can die from it.

5. My advice to a smoker who wants to quit is that they are doing what's best for them. They should try as hard as they can to quit.

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Okay well theres this boy, and we've known eachother since god knows when. Well i mean we're really good friends, but like i dont know how to tell if i like him or i love him. He always gives me signs too. please give me advice, you dont know how much i need this, or maybe you do. ;&hearts

Since you are asking how to tell if you love him, you probablly don't. Love is a very strong thing to admit for someone and you only say it when you feel it and when you are positive. You must really care for him and like him. The only way to find out how he feels about you is if you talk to him about it. Flirt with him, and if he keeps giving you hints and signs then he likes you.

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k for halloween i'm being a cowgirl. i have a cowboy hat and stuff but i'm just not sure how i should wear my hair. it's not very long.. it just touches the top of my shoulders when it's straight. i was wondering if i should put it in pigtails or if i should just leave it down? what would go with the 'cowgirl' theme more? thanks

Eather leave it down or braid it in pigtails. It'll look really good with the outfit.

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i got my period for the first time on auguest 15 (this past auguest). i didnt have it last month, but now i got it again on the 15th, and still have it. is this normal?

Yes it's normal. Periods are never regular. Sometimes you might even get it twice a month and sometimes you might even skip a month. It doesn't mean that something is wrong though. It's normal. No worrys.

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I'm really close to this guy named Kevin. He's one of my best friends & I just met him about a month ago when I first moved to this state. He told me he was gay when we first met. It didn't bother me at all, seen as I have a lot of gay friends. But, this was our conversation tonight:

HIM: I love you a lot! :)
ME: Hah, you can't you're gay.
HIM: No, I'm bisexual. I just prefer guys more.
ME: Lol, well youre 75% gay.
HIM: Yeah, but the other 25% is you.


Okay, Well, basically my question is, do you think he really likes me? Like from that 25% thing? Just wondering.. Thanks a bunch.

If he wasn't being sarcastic, then yes he likes you. He is bi so it's nothing odd. Just keep talking to him and ask him if he meant it.

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