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There's this boy that i've liked since about 5th grade his name is Brian. I'm in 9th now btw. He's liked me since 2nd. We've been sorta close, but me & my boyfriend of like 2 months broke up. It wasn't serious AT ALL. But, I really like Brian. If I dated him, would it look bad? I mean me n my bf just broke up like a week ago. please help (link)
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Don't wait another week to ask this kid out, i broke up with my boyfriend because there was no sparks and i had feelings for this other kid... and the other kid asked me out 2 days later and i said yes because if you really like someone you need to think about yourself and not how others will feel about it. I know you might think i'm crazy, but now i am as happy as ever. Follow your heart and your desicion will never be wrong
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Alright, 4 months ago my boyfriend dumped me because he had some issues of his own to work out. In those 4 months I developed a crush on his younger brother, who is my age (15). My ex is 17. I asked his brother out and he said no cuz he can't date until he's 16, which is in a year. I know that the brother has feelings for me (his sister told me). Now, my ex-boyfriend has feelings for me, but I like his brother more than him right now. And one of my friends has a crush on him. What do I do? I have some feelings for my ex, but they aren't as strong as the ones for his brother. (link)
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If you really like this guy... you'll wait for him to turn 16. As for hurting your ex's feelings by going out with his brother... well... sumtimes you have to worry about your feelings before others because u need to be happy too. YOur ex will hopefully move on
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Almost three weeks ago my boyfriend broke up with me, I was pretty upset about it and really confused about what I felt for him. Last Sunday, a boy I kind of liked asked me out and I said yes. I broke up with him the following morning because I realised I didn't feel that way about him and that I still had some feelings for my ex boyfriend. Now I don't know what I feel. My ex has a new girlfriend but he hasn't seen her for two years, they got together of MSN instant messanger. He doesn't like me very much in any way now and we generally just annoy each other. I don't know what I feel for him or the guy I went out with after him anymore. My ex thinks I still like him and I don't know if I do or I don't. I keep thinking I'm over him then he says something or does something and I like him again. What do I do? (link)
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I don't think ur ex has any feelings for you.. he's found someone he really likes. I had the same problem with this guy... one minute i liked him because he was so sweet and then the next there was no sparks or butterflies... i realized that it wasn't meant to be and now i've found a new boyfriend. And as for this guy who you went out with after your ex... move on and find someone you really like to be with.
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hey guys. before i begin i must say that all you guys are really great at giving advice. mucho props. okay now my problem. i have this friend chris and i think i did a really bad thing. i flirted with him wayy to much today. it was really bad. good for me but i dunno. it seemed like he was haveing problems. i dont know what my dealio is but i really didnt mean to do it. so my question is what should i do to like i dunno go back to the way things were before i was freaking him out. thanks you all!!! (link)
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Don't try too hard.... tell him that your sorry if you made him feel uncomfortable today. Then if you have feelings for this guy, tell him.
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ok well i am 15-f n i kinda like this guy right lets say his name is bob ok well u can say me n bob r real good friends n we tend to flirt kinda alot but bob has a girlfriend n i dont want him to have to choose cuz thats wrong n all that but how can i get him to start likin me more to have him know i wanna be more then friends??? thanks PLEASE HELP ME!!!! (link)
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I would tell him how you feel... and then say i no you have a girlfriend, but i can't help the way i feel. Maybe he has feelings for you too and he'll dump his girlfriend for you. Hopefully this guy will follow his heart and tell you the truth about how he feels
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ok...well my ex boyfriend recently told me that he still loves me--ALOT! He called me on my cell phone at 1 in the morning...and i was asleep but it woke me up and i answered and he said...what would you say if i asked you out again...and at the time i still had some feelings for him...so not thinking being as sleepy as i was i said yes...the next day when i woke up i totally changed my mind...so when i got home the next day i had 62 missed calls on my phone!! all from him!!! and then i got a text message from him asking me out again...i said we should just be friends back...but then he said you led me on...and i don't even want to be friends with you you hurt me to much. And i can see how i led him on but...i mean i was really tierd and sleepy and wasn't half aware of what i was saying...but i really want to be friends with him...hes a great guy!!! Help me!!! What should i tell him? (link)
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I think you should just be friends, if he doesn't want to be your friend just leave it a lone. If he really likes you he'll understand that you just want to be friends. I had a boyfriend just like him, but when i asked if we could just be friends he said no i want to be your boyfriend not just a friend and i haven't talked to him since then and now i have a boyfriend who i reallly like and i'm as happy as ever.
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I have this guy freind I like to pick on for fun, ok flirt how u guys call it lol. well thing is i think i am doing it to much, I fee like i act silly and he dont really pick back or anything else he just really nice and sweet, he in drama and chaption basketball team. lot of people say he werid but nice, thing is I want a converstion with him and try be freinds freinds not try show him i want pick on him all the time. i know can't make it happend but i like him play back. thing is he dose that coupld other people in drama class. he know i like him and he think cool that I do. he know i dont think that way. but thing is sometimes i just like some funny pop lines or something make him respones and something funny talk about and lought. hope this make since. (link)
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DOn't try to be someone your not. DOn't try and make him like you and make him joke around... maybe he is shy around you because he likes you
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okay i think i may like a guy...the bad thing is he is a freshman and im a junior i know i said this to my self a thousand of times that i would never date a freshman but he is really nice, sweet, cute and all of the above things that guys could be...i mean what should i do...im really confuzed on this one can any one help me... (link)
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Don't sweat it, if you really love someone, it doesn't matter what grade they're in... just go for it, follow your heart and you'll never go wrong.
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Ok, me and my friend Jessica got in a fight that was ridiculous and I had no idea what it was about. She was always wicked mean and shes like oh yeah you think your allll that and I was like No... and so we ended up ending our like 3-4 year friendship. I miss her, she was a TRUE friend, before..that is. What should I do?
Signed,
A Engineer with no travelers. (link)
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If your really miss her then talk to her, but if she is mean then its best that you leave your friendship behind so you won't have to get into another fight.
If i were you i would think about how mean she was to you and then ask yourself if you wanna be friends with her again.
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ok,where do i begin, alright i like this guy and he likes me,but we are both to scared to go out i mean ill go out with him with open arms but i think he is scare to what should i do?
FROM,
xlilsunshineJSKTx
P.S. im a girl and at age 13 (link)
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Ask him out? DOn't go too fast and always try to make him feel comfortable around you. Let him no that your willing to go out with him. Maybe a phone conversation will make him less nervous.
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Okay Theres A Guy I really like but The thing is he lives in Michigan and I live in tennesee And every day i am wanting him beside me by my side.I cant Get over him no matter how hard I try. I am in love and I know I am. Ive neveR felt ThiS kindA love when I do talk to him.Hes Always has beenthere for me and had soothed me through thick n thin. Im just so depressed cuz we live so far away and its just not fair to me . I keep missing him everyday.I donT know how to control myself I Justdont know How I can ever stop thinkin about Him .What Can Ii do To not think about him so much
!? _love glaze (link)
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You shouldn't have to stop thinking about him, if you have his phone number call him or talk to him online. You can't stop your self from liking someone.
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Ok, I really like this guy at my school. In a couple weeks there is going to be a dance and I really want to ask this guy out. But I have self esteem and dont think that Im pretty enough and am afraid of rejection. All my friends keep telling me that I should go for it. But Im very very VERY nervous. What do I do? (link)
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ask him out. if you don't feel pretty enough, then the day you ask him out wear an outfit you look good in and feel good in. Don't be afraid of him saying no, if he says that he is not worth it. There are plenty of other guys out there. Good luck i hope u ask him out.
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Okay, well last night i had a dream that my crush asked me out ..so i invited him over except "my house" wasnt really MY house! It had a pool which i dont have and i had a different family. so anyway, the whole time we never hung out! He just hung out with these boys i think were my cousins (and i dont even have boy cousins!!) And didnt talk to me..then all of a sudden were outside and we start talking when a landmass happens and the only people left are me and him on this little peice of land that somehow DIDNT fall!! ?!? Then he says i want to break up withh you!! After all that ..what is this telling me? do you think i shouldnt ask him out cuz he will dump me fast? Im so confused ..i rate! sry about the length! I really need to know so plzz dont delete! (link)
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Wow.. this is confusing. Maybe you should ask him out... but what i think this dream is trying to tell you is that he would rather hang out with his friends than you. If i were you i'd listen to my heart and take a risk.. you never know what will happen unless you ask him out. Sorry i don't have a lot to offer but i'm just so confused.
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okay, i have this great guy friend he would do anything for me and if someone would bug me he'd get rid of them and i've liked him for a real long time and all and i would do anything for him too but i dont want to risk our relationship if he doesnt like me but he has been dropping little hints like lots of smiling hugs and when he gives me a high five i holds my hand for quit a while but i dont know if i should risk it or not cuz i have liked him for more then 5 months so plz help me on this one *i rate high* (link)
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It can't hurt to ask, if you really like him tell him, don't be afraid that he won't have the same feelings back. I think he likes you. If he doesn't like you, then you can still be friends and even if it is a little awkward just be yourself and everything will be fine. Go for it, it's ok to take risks.
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I am really depressed. I just feel like every one thing that is good in my life, there are three bad things. In other words, the pros outweigh the cons. I really need help, but don't want to ask my mom to go to a shrink. So, I'm waiting for someone to notice. I don't want to cut myself, but it's the only way for people to notice. So, I just take a pin and scratch myself so that it will make slight cut marks on my wrists. I know it's stupid, but I just need help beyond my stupid friends' advice.
I hate these bribe things, but I do rate high, if that will help you to answer me. (link)
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Don't worry, things get better... don't scratch your self with a pin, instead of doing that call a friend or invite someone over. Try doing fun things on weekends and enjoying yourself.
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female/13 see i got a boy friend but mii best friend is a boy and it seems like i havent spent any time wit my best friend lately because im so focused on my boy friend so what should i do ? im scared of losing our friendship
signed, confused
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I don't think your friend should mind because your friend should want you to be happy. Maybe you can split your time. A few days a week with your boyfriend and the rest of the week with your friend. Also, your boyfriend should trust you if you spend time with your best friend who's a boy.
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Ok, there is this one guy at school (Eric) that I think I like. He's in my math class and I can NEVER wait to see him. I think he likes me cuz he talks to me more than most girl.s Here's the catch, my friends BF called me last night (Max)cuz he was bored. Also, I've had this crush on a guy (Daniel) since november and i see him a lot between classes. He occasionaly glances at me. Do ANY of these mean ANYTHIN? I rate HIGH! (link)
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First of all... you need to listen to your heart and see which one of these guys you like. just because eric talks to you more than most gurlz doesn't mean he likes you. He may just like you as a really good friend. If i were you i would probably have a hard time picking between eric and daniel... but daniel just sounds like a crush, and with eric it sounds like you really like him. I would choose eric. Maybe he does like you.... ask him and then see what happens.
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for like 2 months,and he wants to kiss me, but I'm not sure if I should. My mom would freak out, but i really like him. What should I do? (link)
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If you really like your boyfriend go for it, but if it was me i would talk to my mom about this situation first. MAke a compromise and explain why you think you should be allowed to. Its not like its a bad thing. I would talk to your mom about it and if afterwards she says no go and kiss him without her knowing. Your relationship will never get far if you don't at least kiss.
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okay this is kinda hard, but i REALLY like this guy like ALOT and im not sure if he likes me. i have asked him out in the past but he has said no. im at a loss... i odnt know what to do anymore. i think hes shy around girls and he cares about what other people think too so0o.. i odnt know im just sooo confused. PLEASE HELP ME!
confused and distressed. (link)
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Ok... don't be fooled by his charm and smile. you shouldn't fall for that. There are plenty of other guys out there who will treat you like a queen and will always be true to you.
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Hey...ok i like this guy in 10th grade sooo much and he is my neighbor...and i dont know if he likes me should i ask him myself?? and do you think it would be weird for neiogbors?? ir eally need help someone! please!!! and i dont know what to ask him and stuff i wana no so bad and i dono if he has a gf!!
PLEASE
love
rach (link)
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Just follow your heart and be true to your feelings. Ask him and if he says no then hes not worth it. It's not wierd that your neighbors because then you get to see him more often.
hope i helped
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