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my friend, the peach, just got an operation and she is in terrible terrible pain! and i want her to feel better!! what should i do?!?!?!
-salami san (link)
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Go visit her with your bf sometime soon!!! >__^v because that will make her feel sooo much better!!! hehehe!
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COULD BORING GET ANY MORE BORING!!! I'm stuck in the house with my little sister and it's sooo boring. The computer and tv and playstation are losing there fun...so any creative ideas on what i could do to when stuck in the house?? I'm 14 and a girl. (link)
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Books, folding oragami (the long paper star confetti is really fun to make) listen to music, call your friends on the phone, browse the internet and talk to your friends online, play a board or card game, clean your room, or count the number of dots on your cieling. All are things that I do in my boring spare time.
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i can't kiss my boyfriend. i said i wanted to and he said he wanted to and we do but we're both too shy. what do i do???? (link)
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Play something like spin the bottle, truth or dare, or some kind of kissing game just to get started. Once you get more comfortable, then you can start kissing more often.
Or other option: JUST KISS HIM!
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hi jocey!!!! i love ya gurl! skool's almost out!! what should i do?!
~crazie ol' salami san!!! (link)
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You should go to the movies and mall with me more often! ;) just us gurlz!!! indeeeeeed XP Harry Potter 3 and Spider Man 2 are looking pretty good right now! oooo!!! and we still have to watch My Sassy Girl!!! >__< sleepover laterz? :3 teehee!!!
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ive been with my bf for 3 1/2 months and well...i used to be so INTO him.. but soemhow the luv has just FADED away... i DO care about him and love him alot, its just that im not IN love with him anymore. he told me a few days ago that if he ever lost me, he would kill himself. i know he wouldnt really do it, but i still need to worry. ANYWAY, he has NO CLUE about how im feeling. He thinks that i LUV him alot, and i dont know how i can get him not to be into be anymore.
hes just so into me and tells me so many things that he luvs about me... it creeps me out...
what should i do?! can anyone gimme any ideas on how i can get him to STOP LIKING ME... at least bit by bit.... i just want him to get , well, TIRED of being with me... i jstu want him to DUMP ME!!!! (link)
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Don't wait on him dumping you. Dump him now! He won't kill himself and if you really fear that he will hurt himself then give him the "Let's stay friends" deal. If you're not happy being together anymore, then end the relationship. No big deal.
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I have a boyfriend and we get on really well when we're together. We've been going out for 4 months but we've known eachother for a lot longer. We were really good friends before we started going out.
The only thing is, lately he wants to see me 24/7. Don't we need space? I feel I need a bit of time on my own. But I dont know what to say to him. I don't want to hurt his feelings in anyway. When I say I have stuff to do he gets a bit annoyed.........well he kinda says its ok but he hints it a lot that hes not happy with it.
Please help me (link)
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Don't let him push you around like that. So what if you're not with him 24/7? You're going to need to tell him that you have a life outside of your relationship. If he's a good bf, he should understand. If not, then he wasn't good enough for you in the first place.
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My friend started dating my crush and i dont know how to tell her i've liked him for like 3 years. what do i do? (link)
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I would postpone your crush on the guy but keep him as an option for later. Telling your friend that you like her boyfriend is only going to bring up conflict between you two. Friendship is more important than guy-girl repationships by far. Don't tell your friend anything. Just wait around for them to break up, and until then look for a different guy. There are many fish in the sea.
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Hey!
oookkk i need major advice lol cause my friends def. dont give me any. i really like this guy, but he does a lot of stuff i dont like. he smokes a lot, drinks to much (i like to drink but he drinks all the time) and hes just kinda known as a "bad boy". a lot of people tell me i could do a lot better. he gets into trouble a lot and starts fights with people, but im really comfortable with him and i like the way he makes me feel. i dont know what balances out more or if its worth going through stuff he does... and if i should keep being with him cause i really like him but i really dont wanna get stuck in his drama and the stuff he does. i dont want to lead him on either... so if i should get away from him i need to. hes a really nice guy and he has a lot of friends and i know he would never hurt me... but the things he does really bothers me... and i dont like to see him get hurt or get in fights. I NEED MAJOR ADVICE!!!
-kelly (link)
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I think that it's probably best if you just stay good friends with him. One thing that I've learned in my years is that you can't change a guy. No matter how hard you try, they will never change, and it seems like this guy needs some changing in his life style. I have to admit that there isn't much wrong with drinking or smoking a lot. My dad smokes and drinks and he is a really great guy; however, getting into fights and being known as a bad boy at school isn't a very good thing. I don't think that you're going to want to get in to a relationship with this guy. If you need anymore advice just mail me again. n__n
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u dun hafta gimme advice....i just really need sum1 to listen or i'm gonna drown in my own stress..
i've been going through a lot of stuff right now that r stressing me like skool, family issues, and my bf. skool grades r stressing me out my sister and other family issues i have r seriously getting to me...my bf is prolly the only person close to me who helps me get rid of my stress and listens to me. but lately, we get into arguments and i get stressed from that too. so i tried to do what my bf wants me to do in order to avoid nemore arguments like be happy all the time, talk to him more and call him more. and i also try to just take what he says and not argue w/ him. i try really hard not to make him upset. like sumtimes he'd be grumpy cuz he's tired and i'll try to talk to him all cheerful cuz he gets mad if i dun talk and dunno what to talk about. so i talk to him like what he's gonna do tomorrow and stuff but he just says he doesn't know and gets really grumpy. sumtimes when he misses a signal, he gets frusterated so i say its ok and try to calm him down but i just get a "what?" and i can't seem to make him happy most of the times... i get upset that i can't do nething to help so i tell him i want him to be more happy or at least try to be cuz it makes me feel horrible. he doesn't seem to understand me and how i feel all the time. i get really stressed and start to cry...he tells me to stop getting all upset but i can't help it... it makes me feel like i'm a bad gf....sumtimes i'll be crying for the rest of the night w/o getting ne sleep. i really love my bf...i really do. that y i try to do everything for him... my bf was the only person who didn't stress me but the things i do for him and his lack of understanding how i feel makes me stressed... and w/o ne1 close so just listen to me, i get all this stress built up and i start to get severe headaches and stomachaches...and now i often think about just killing myself and how easy it is for me to get away from my life...suicide is the thing i hate most but everytime, i just get closer and closer to doing it...sumtimes i feel so miserable, i start to give myself physical pain. i can't help myself.... i just can't take nething nemore....
sry if this was disturbing...i just want sum1 to listen....to hear me....cuz i feel like i have no 1 right now....
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I LOVE YOU CHIEF!!! *biggerest hugs* I will always be here for you... so don't worry if your bf is being an ass. Just give me a call or IM me... or mail me... n__n all is good. Life is good ok? Don't quit when you're this far in the game. JUST KEEP SWIMMING! JUST KEEP SWIMMING!
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ok I like this girl named Britney she has a good personality likes to smile a lot and she has a nice smile. Ok I've been giving her poems and all that other stuff every time I do she says thank you. How do I get her to like me more than just a friend? The bad thing is her dad is over-protective how do I get to know her more and family to and to get them to trust me more without getting her pissed off at me? (link)
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Well no offense, but not very many girls like poems. Try something different next time. Maybe a flower? Anyways, try to flirt with her. Throw in a few corny pick-up lines while you're at it.
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Do girls generally stop growing taller after they get their period ? (link)
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No, I grew another 5 inches after my period started.
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Im a male and im 24,i need tips on how to achive stamina without pills ,creams,pumps or surgery? (link)
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Run up and down stairs a lot and start exercising. Swimming, and jogging are both good at boosting stamina.
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im thinking of having sex... oh it might help... im turning 15 and im a grl... what do you think (link)
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Go for it. Just make sure that it's safe sex, and that you don't get caught.
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FOR ALL GUYS =)
( and girls too , if you want to comment )
Okay , please state your age (12-16 ) and what you think of girls .
Are you still at that stage where you think girls have cooties and avoid them at all costs ? If not , do you have a rating system or something ? What do you look for in a girl ? Do you prefer a girl asking you out , or would you rather ask a girl out ? What would you think of a girl thats shorter than you by around 9 inches , if you were 5'11 ?
Sorry for all the weird questions ....but please answer , okay ? thanks =) (link)
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I'm a girl so I'll answer the question from a girl's perspective.
age: 14
Girls don't have cooties; however, we do have pepper spray, taisers, and fog horns kept in our purses so boys should watch out for us!
What I look for in a guy:
-Someone who has the same interests as me.
-Someone who I can see myself with 40 years from now when I'm old and wrinkles.
-Someone who can make me laugh and feel good about who I am.
I like it better when a guy asks me out.
Guys shorter than 5'11 are a good height and I think that it's cute when they go out with significantly shorter girls :3
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i broke up with my boyfriend because we werent acting like boyfriend and girlfriend... like whats the point of going out with someone if you act like more that friends when you are just friends and when we are more than friends we act like nothing! i still like him but i know we are better off being friends! what should i do?!?!?!?HELP!!!!!!! (link)
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If you seriously don't feel any other special connection then you are not in love with him. In otherwords, he's not worth your time. Continue to stay friends with him until things change whether they be good or bad.
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I was hot one night.... 3 nights. So I turned the air temerature down and then my mom realized and she said that costs money! my family doesnt have alot of that to spend on something like this! what should i do? i dont want them to be mad at me!
help! (link)
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Try opening the windows. That will cause some more circulation of air through the room.
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I have recently noticed a number of small pimple like irritations on my penis head and shaft. (link)
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Go see a doctor, chief. They always know what to do.
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I am a normal 13 year old girl.I am so not popular and dont want to be.Everyone likes me as a friend and boys who never noticed me want to talk to me.It is all just because I have nice clothes and a kool boyfriend.I really dont want to be popular but I kind of do because I would be a kool, and nice sort of girl.I need help on what to do.So, WHAT??
Signed,
Just Because (link)
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I would say go with the flow. You have a rare opportunity that you should definately not turn down. It really doesn't matter if you're popular or not just as long as your friends are nice to you and you don't become obsessed with your popularity. I hope things go well with you and your boyfriend! Good luck.
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u'll prolly think i'm stupid for what i'm about to tell u...but i guess i'm kinda scared. i think i'm failing a class or 2 right now cuz of a stupid project i had and sum technical difficulties.. well newayz that's not the problem... i tend to procrastinate a lot and get lazy w/ hw and stuff, and i miss a lot of work i can't make up cuz i get sick really easily, but i really wanna go to san jose state w/ my bf but w/ MY grades, i dun even know if i can go to ne college at all...even a community college. and i'm the 1st child so my mom expects a lot from me and all the pressure is getting to me and i'm getting stressed out. i feel like such a failure. i dun wanna be the only 1 who didn't graduate hs or college besides my dad. i just really wish i can help myself be more successful... and i dunno what my bf would feel about me if he knows about my grades right now... u prolly know how he'd react. i'm just scared he might get mad at me and yell at me for being such a failure and i can't do nething right. if he reads this, he'll prolly know its me and he'll know the situation prolly...i'm just really scared...i wish i was like u jocey..smart, nice, and pretty. u got brain and beauty, unlike me.
-i refuse to state my name but sum of u prolly can tell from the clues. (link)
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Don't worry chief. Not all of us can get good grades all of the time. If you need help with your classes I would really consider studying incredibly hard for finals, ask your teachers if you can do anything to bring up your grade, and if you're at a borderline grade like a 68 feel free to beg your teacher to boost your grade up. Don't worry about your grades too much ok? Stress leads to hate, hate leads to anger, anger leads to suffering. Use the force :3 har har har. The good thing about living in the US is that every person has a second chance. If you mess up really badly try to take your classes over again; however, the most important thing is to try really hard. Try spending a little more time from your bf and use it to study for finals and put a day's worth of effort into your reports. I hope you do your best this semester! Good luck for finals :D
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ok, I like this boy in 6th grade I'm in 5th and I think he's really cute and I don't know if he likes me or if he even knows who I am should I talk to him?
WHAT SHOULD I DO! HELP! (link)
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You should talk to him. Just go up to him and say something like "Hey I'm *put your name here*" make some conversation with him otherwise nothing will ever happen and you will always live wondering what life would be like if you had.
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