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I'm BLAiR, Im a SENi0R this year, Finally! I have waited 4 years for this! I would like to say I'm enjoying it, but I think its one of my most challenging years yet. Im so excited to go off to college and meet new people. I hope to go to aTm! I love polkadots and duckies too. I have been through a lot with guys and relationships so shoot!
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Okay,everyone at school always calls me a slut and a hoe and a whore and i never even did anything! They won't stop and it's really getting on my nerves. I don't think I am, but when you hear it all day from all of your friends you start to believe it and that's kind of what's happening! But i don't know what to do! Please help! i rate

well if your "friends" are calling you that then i dont think they are that great of friends...just tell people you havent ever done anything and they are just throwing the word around and maybe it will stop? hope i helped!

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I don't have any guts when it comes to dumping a guy. Well.. OK I must admit this is my first time and we never went out on a date. I just don't want to be in a relationship right now. So, do you think it is ok to write a note to the guy I want to dump and say I don't want to be in a relationship? Or, does anyone know another way where I don't have to talk to him face-to-face. Or, do I have to talk to him like that! PLease help!

well most ppl i've talked to think its "low' to do it any other way then face to face...but i think the next possible way is maybe over the phone and just tell him the truth dont give him any bs that "it not you its me" blah blah blah just tell him how u feel...

hope i helped!

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Well I am kinda in a long distance relationship and it is hard because i dont get to see him like everyday. I am only 13 and i am a female and I think he is the one and I love him every much. Do you think this will last forever????? NEED HELP FAST!!!!

it just depends...but maybe if you want to make your relationship stronger and you dont already...talk to him on the phone. i mean there is a 50/50 chance it could last forever...but i do doubt it...i just got out of a relationship it wasnt long distance or anything but i thought he was the "one" and he told me he loved me so much and would do anything for me...but anyways maybe just talk to him and see how he feels about everything...hope i helped!

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I need a way to dump this guy im going out with but like not, its not you, its me thing cuz thats soooo old, anyway..just plz ill rate high if you give me a way to dump him and i just wanna it to be the way it was were we were good friends..but i odnt want it to change when i dump him and i dont want him to hate me!
Thanx in advance
xoxo
-confused

just tell him you liked it better when yall were just goodfriends...and tell him u dont want anything to change when yall are over...hope i helped!

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I wanna get my nose pierced, i haven't asked my mom yet, but when i was 14 she said i could get it done at 15 and im 16 now. so she'll def. say yes. we're not allowed piercings you can see, besides your ears.. but there are a few kids in my school that have their noses pierced, because their like dating the principals sons and stuff, i don't think that should be allowed, its like their getting special treatment or something, right?

ur right they shouldnt get special treatment just because of that. we're not supposed to have piercings cept ear at my school also but ppl have eyebrows and nose piercings...the principal just keeps getting onto them about it but then they just get tired and leave it alone...lol i know i did help...sorry!

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theres this girl i like and i dont know if she likes me back but im too shy to go up to her and ask her if she does... what should i do?

uhmmm well i think you should just confront her about it...

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I have a friend who always seems to love hot cheetos , take my dvds, and plays lacrosse. What shud I do? -lol

hmmm this sounds like me! lol constance you stupid loser!!!

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13/f
I always look at the people around me, happy with their boyfriend or girlfriend. I sort of want a boyfriend, but sometimes it doesn't feel like it's the right time. I have a few guy friends, but not many. I don't hang out with any guys after school. There's one guy friend that I talk to a lot, but I don't like him like that (and he has a girlfriend anyway). So I need advice on what to do? I know you will all say "You're only 13 you don't need a boyfriend", or "Just wait until the right time, he'll come", but..I just feel so lonely sometimes, and I want to know that someone will always be there for me.

...i think u should wait...wait for the guy who likes you soooo much he would do anything...girl it will be best in the long run and u'll be glad you waited and just get to know the guys well and have a good guy friend...they are always there for you!

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ok i like hate my name so much .. it's Liana.. and well people sometimes "cant pronounce it" so they just say "Hey you!" or they just pronounce it wrong. Or sometimes their like "um..you.. i forgot your name" .. and well like is there anything i can do to get people to pronounce my name right or call me something diffferent that is easy to pronounce .. (maybe like a nick name)

p.s. sometimes my friends call me Lee for short but not very often

aww i love that name! i had a bestfriend named liana its so pretty! ...so sorry i cant help ya htere!

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hey when my friend is on her period and she keeps telling me to do stuff forher and her excuses is always " I am on my perios and i dont feel good" and i cant help but do it for her cause i am just that good of a friend. Should i tell her to do it her damn self or keep on being a good friend?

u shouldnt have to do everything for her...does she do it for you? i just say do it ur own damn self!

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a guy friend says u look sexy or u look cute, or good in a particular outfit does that mean he likes u??

well it could means he likes u...in my case it did...but then again he could just be saying WOW u look really nice or something...ya know?

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Ok, heres a good question. I just broke up with my g/f becasue we didn't see each other enough. I still have fellings for and she has for me. But I have a firned that I also have feelings for. I can see my self with my friend more than I can my ex. But I don't wan to hurt my ex's feelings. We told each other that we might get back together when we are able to see each other more. So, what does everyone think?

i think you should tell her exactly that...well maybe not exactly but along the lines of i like u but i also like "my friend" too and i dont think things could work out between us because we cant see eachother a lot. but i still wana be friends...or something like that

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hey my mom said whenever i want to become sexually active she would give be birth control pills does that mean she cares or not?

yes she definitly cares...my stepmom told me that too she said they would necessarily agree with it and they might chain me to my bed or never let me out of the house...lol but she said she was j/k but no really she does care because she doesnt want u pregnant

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okay so there is this boy that i went out with b4 as friend he was really rough like we always wrestled and stuff and i just thought it was his way of flirting so i let it go when he asked me out i said yes cuz i thought the rought stuff would cool down but it didnt and that lead to a break-up. but now i really miss him. and i found out he likes me back and so i really wanna go out wit him again but im scared that hes still just as rough with me! how can i get him to treat me more gentle and not like"one of the boiz"?
please help me asap!

well i say...just sit down and talk with him and tell him u dont want to be treated roughly...???

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