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I'm Jaz. I'm 17. I love photography and writing. and I've gone through a lot with self-injury, depression, and guys. I hope I can help you ask much as possible. I will give the most honest answer.

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Heyy. I will be going back to school in early Sept. This summer I have really been into MTV. Well, I got even more into Laguna beach. When I see their lives, I am sooo jelious. I am not popular. We do have a popular crowd though.,.... My life can't be anything like the ones on Laguna Beach... is there anyway I can over come this and maybe even come close to having that life??? Please Laguna is almost my life....

popularity isn't everything, dear.

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hey.. umm in 2003 i was a cheerleader.. and i was a base . the one who holds the flyer.. and well 2004 .. i didnt know where to sign up. And it was a exciting year.. they threw the flyers. and stuff... and they went to nantucket for a huge competion. Well im doing cheerleading this year.. and i dont know if im strong enough to be a base. I love being a base..
I duno why i need advice..
But any tips to get stronger.?

I RATE HIGH!! ;)

how is this spiritual? dude...you're not cool.

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im not exactly the preppy girl but i want to wear pretty clothes and have pretty makeup and nice hair. i have brown hair and brown eyes. my hair is above my shoulders and i wish it would grow. how can i make my hair grow? do u have any makeup tips for me? what kinda clothes are great but not too expensive?

experiment.

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I really like this guy and he doesnt even know i exist even though i am friends with alot! and i mean alot of his friends, and it seems weird he hasnt met me yet...i know alot about him because my friends talk about him ALOT and so is started liking him and i guess he'll never like me, and i dont want to go out with anyone else because i want him and no1 else...i am like shy aroudn guys i like alot and even if i was aroudn him with my freinds i'd be nervous to saay 1 word to him...so months ago i started cutting and you probably will say "dont cut its bad" or shit like that but i cant stop and i dont really want to because it gets alot of stress and anger out and i REALLY like him and I CANT STOP CUTTING and no i am not going to tell someone like my parents my mom already treats me like a fucking 10 year old and would be so disapointed and shit...and i dont cut that bad so i dont really need a shrink/psychologist or what ever...

signed
Unloved confused cutter

cutting is a psychological problem. you need to get help. I am a former cutter and I got help, and it helped me tremendously.

if you need to any more info or advice on cutting, please IM me on AIM: fatalxhaerts

-jaz

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hey everyone what's ^ nothing much here could you tell me any jobs that i could do im 15 years old i really want a job so i could make money so if you have any suggestions then feel free to say them thanks

learn to spell first.

second, ask around.

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i want to go on a diet so that when school starts i will have something to feel good about and not just the torture of school starting but i just cant stop eating im 13 years old and i weight 106 lbs and have a big tummy i have been doing crunches but i just cant stop eating any suggestions i rate 5s help please asap

signed desprete

eat healthy foods when you eat.

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Iam always nervous and deppressed no one around me like family,friends,stuff like that can tell. I have no brothers or sisters to help me,I'm scared of life to and of the devil I think I want a Theropist but I'm scared if I tell my parents i'll get in trouble and they wont belive me. I am 13 and female, I'm also scared of the fact of becoming one of those teens who get soo stressed they move things with there mind and don't even no it, and some of those kids become Excersist.

P.S. I'm that teen who is a Little too skinny.

wow....see a therapist. tell your parents, they'll believe you. just show them this post.

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what are some good websites that tell dirty stories?

google.

*edit: you gave me a one rating? what the hell? yeah okay, you don't have common sense and you shouldn't be asking questions like that. it's gay.

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...What do people think about a teenage pregnancy? Is it bad i mean If a person thinks they are lonley an are scared to be alone while their boyfriend leaves for awhile for the military..would it be okay to have a baby?

teenagers aren't ready to care for babies. my mom had my brother when she was 17, and hasn't had her life on the right track since. and the guy was kicked out of her house because he was a bad father. teenagers just aren't ready.

although, if it happens, what can you do about it? it might have been the way things were supposed to be.

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I have a lot of pimples, and lets just say i shouldnt at my age! how do i get rid of them? I ALREADY TRIED BUYING PRODUCTS

go to the dermatologist.

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i have a bladder infection and i've drunk water and everything and it won't go away. is there anything else i can drink or what should i do. please get back to me..
*i rate*

go to the doctor.

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Sorry its kinda long... My boyfriend and I get along really good but he thinks I have too many guy friends. I am pretty good looking *not to sound big headed, its just what people say* so he thinks that whenever I go spend time with him I will cheat on him. He doesn't trust me at all. Just the other weekend I went to see my guy friend I have known since I was born. He moved when we were 6 so I go visit him all the time. My b/f called me every 30 min. to make sure I wasn't cheating on him. He didn't even want me to wear a bathing suit infront of my frnd. Of course while I was there I didn't cheat on my boyfriend. Is there someway I can make him trust me with my guy friends?
Thanks for the help.

he's insecure and controlling.
dump him.

sorry for bluntness.

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ok.. me and my mom get into a lot of fites.. like everyday..... my mom has a step daughter which is my half sister.. i love her so much.. but my mom hates her.....so wenever we get in fites she brings her up....... because they got into big fites just like me... but they got into one so big that my half sister ran away...... that was wen she was 18.. my mom was happy.... i finally got a hold of her and we talk so much..... im planning on going to a college near her so i can move in...... my mom always says oo your talking to her so much your turning into a brat just like her.. im so mad..... my mom always takes her problemz out on me....i hate her.. i literally do. she alwayz gets my whole family to turn up against me.... just please help me...

learning to spell might help. and your mom has a step daughter that is your half sister? um..okay... That makes nooo sense at all.

oh and for advice: you're fucked. just ignore your family. family will be family.

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I was wondering what makeup colors would go well with my skin and eyes and hair.
I have blue-green eyes, dark blonde hair, and fair but tan right now skin. Thanks!

black.

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anybody know some cute icon sites? like xangas? please tell me! thanks

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=BANGxBANG___Icons

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=Icons______________duh

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=hardonICONS

enjoy.

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Ok so I kissed this guy last night. I like him and he I think he likes me. People have told me we look cute together and they think he likes me too. I was really nervous but I did it, it was great blah blah blah. The thing is, he would much rather make-out. He was my first kiss, and I don't know if I'm ready to make-out. I've always been scared to, and I'm not sure why. I think it's because I don't exactly know step by step how to do it, and I'm scared I won't be good and i'll do something horribly wrong. I don't want to just not do it cuz im not ready. I wanna be ready and go for it, but those fears keep coming back to me. Is there anything I can do about this? This guy is way more advanced than I am but we still like each other to some extent. Any advice?

if you mess up, explain to him it's your first time making out. and just go with the flow. it happens natrually.

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i had five dreams about a boy he found out and ever sence hes been acting diffrent around me .i wanna bring it to a diffrent level of going out but hes not on the top of the food chain not that i am but hes higher then me .i dont want to get hurt more should i say strait up that hey i love u go out with me and have him make me crash or leave it where it is and wait to see if he makes the first move.im a girl and 11 but not to young to be in love

teenage dating = always getting hurt.
most of the time at least.

just ask him out. if he says no, then it wasn't meant to be.

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about what age do boys and girls start french kissing?

when it happens, it happens.

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My boyfriend is super nice. He is always telling me I'm hot, im sexy, im pretty, im cool, when I don't really think i am. He says he loves me way too much and its strating to get a little annoying. I basically just met him and don't know him as well as I would like to. I feel like hes rushing things, but still hes super nice and he loves me and hes really obsessed with me.....

I rate....

sounds like a guy I dated. break up with him. really. I know how it ends up. or talk to him about it, if he continues, break up with him.
sorry to be blunt, but I know how it goes.

if you need anymore help with this, IM me on AIM: fatalXhaerts ...i'll be glad to help.

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well my boyfriend and i have been having sex, he wa smy first. and its fine and everything but whenever he wants me to give him head or a handjob.. i cannot do t.. he says im really not that bad.. but i can tell i am.. it takes forever giving him head and i dont know... i try hard but i cant.. any tips or websites i could check out? thanksss

it's the guy.

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