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hey umm idk if this is under the right category but w.e..well i was wondering if wearing bronzer to school is appropriate like it isn't too dressy or w.e and if it isn't what brand do you recommend(powder or that liquid stuff)? and also what eyeshadow that last all day that is more a neutral color (like beige, brown, bronze etc..)that is shimmery is good a good brand to buy?

hey i think bronzer can be used anytime..it's not too dressy for school...also i never used it before tho but my friend does and i believe it's a neutrogena kind. and try Maybelline's Mocha Lights creme eyeshadow $5 at Walmart. it has 4 shades of brownish colors and it works really well! i love it! so give that a try and it shimmers too! =D anything else let me kno! Take Care...Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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Hey, I'm 21 years old and female. I have a problem. My boyfriend of 4 years (5 October 3rd!) and I havent had sex yet. He is really not that kindof guy to ask for sex or anything. He's really patient and all we have do is makeout. We were best friends for 2 years before going out and he really respects me. I am ready to lose my virginity to him, because after 5 years of going out shouldent it be time to have some fun? lol I have been on birth control for 2 months just incase when I do ask him if he wants to have sex, he will say yes. I want to tell him I want to lose it on our anniversary but I'm really scared because how am I gonna start the conversation of sex? And since he really respects me and cares for me I think he wouldent want to. But I'm not 16 anymore, I'm a woman and I want to do this. I love him a lot and I just dont know how to ask if he wants to do this! We are talking about marriage so should we just wait till were married? Help!

hey. okay if you said you are ready then on that special night...make it really mega romantic and be like you kno i think i'm ready to do this...you wanna and just ask him...i'm sure he'll no wut u mean. be like i kno you respect me and everything and i love you so i'm ready for this and just lead him on...i'm sure you guys will have a great time..lol Take Care...Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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ok first day of school (freshmen) i am wearing jeans and a white with blue and orange lettering short sleeve shirt! and i have brown hair that i am going to wear up in a messy bun.. what color eye shadow!?!

Hey. thats a great outfit! i'll waer it! lol anyways i say light pink because it goes with everything. or silver or natural colors so you look sporty but trendy at the same time. Take Care. Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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Well, tomorrow night i'm getting my hair done and I'm thinking of dying it brown with some highlights. My hair is blonde right now, and I have fair skin. My natural color is a light brown, so do you think it would look nice on me? If not, what are some good colors for someone with fair skin? Thanks a lot!! I really need the help haha.

Hey. since you already have natural brown hair why dont you take the blonde out. sorry forgot wut it was called and then just add blonde highlights to that. Take Care. Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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My hair has gotten really dry over the summer, because of the sun. the sea and because i straighten it all the time. Do you know any products or treatments which might help.

Hey. you can go to a nearby salon and have them do this hot oil treatment which helps it go back to normal and silky smooth. or you can go look for the nuetrogena 60 hot oil treatment. something like that $6 at Walmart. Hope i helped! Take Care. x3 SweetStar.

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My parents wont let me get the 2nd whole pierced in
my ear but I really wanna do it. So i have dicided to do it on my own! Does any1 know how,and what i should use?? Pleaz dont earase this cuz i wanna make sure i pierce them the right way !!I'll rate high..I promise!!

Hey. i did my second and third hole and cartlige and this is wut i did...go to walmart and get those piercing kits...the earrings yah kno that are on display for like $9 at Walmart. take the earrings out of the containers that they are on. use a pen or something and poke it out or u can have the ppl at walmart take them out for you. put them in alchol for a few mintues and mark ur ear where u wanna do it. then hold the earring and poke it threw. the earring is pointy cuz its a piercing one. anything else let me kno Hope i helped! Take Care. x3 SweetStar.

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okay this guy i love him truly with all of my heart and i really wanna marry him we were together for over 2 yrs. and well we broke up last thursday.. and well he told me that he truly loves me that he wants to be back with me but he dosen't want me 2 hurt him anymore which i admit that i've done some stupid things but i'm truly srry for them and it would never happen again. but the thing is their's this other girl that sorta like him and he likes her a little bit but i can't stand seeing them together and i told him that i can't seeing them together and well he said that' he's doing it for us to see that i'm really the one for him i don't know what to do
and to make matters worse i think i'm pregnant

Hey. Yes you should get a test and see if you are really pregnant. and i dont think he is doing this for you guys. and whats with the he doesnt want you hurting him? what about him hurting you? jusdt get somethings straighten up and ask him who he wants and love. not going with this other girl cuz it's better for u guys or wutever. Hope i helped! Take Care. x3 SweetStar.

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Hi!!! I need your help, Im baby sitting this boy for almost a year now before her mom paying a fare salary but now I kinda don't like the way she pays me, I let her do that twice but now I don't think it's fare for me her mom paying me $5.00 for at least 4 hours, and I think that is so unfair. The boy is fine but he kinda eat a a lot so I need to fed him, because I dont want him to starve you know.
Im afraid at talkiing to people, because maybe she will get mad.
What should I say to her.
Help me!!
thanks!

Hey. Let her kno that your a student and that you sometimes need money for your own things and that since you have to take your time out and baysit let her kno if she can raise ur pay. like wut everyone said dont be nervous and just let her kno in a polite way. you dont have to tell her you can write her a little note and let her kno that he needs to eat sometimes and that $5 isnt enough if you can him need to eat yah kno? so just let her kno. Hope i helped! Take Care. x3 SweetStar.

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k, im the girl who asked the ? about askin my mom to wear thongs. Do ne of u no where the sell cute ones. I jus like to be accesorized. I WONT SHOW IT!! lol. I jus would like to know where they sell some cute ones so when I go to the store, I can look and pick??? THANXS!!!!

hi. try wetseal they have awesome ones there...victoria secrets definitly...hmm rave has nice ones too...basically everywhere lol anything else let me kno Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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Ok heres the deal ...
I got a fone going in to ninth grade my moms old fone its so old it doesnt even have games( and new ones cant be downloade) but my sister just went into ninth grade and my mom said she was going to get her old phone ( tyhe one she got new when i got mine) but when we got to the verizion place ... my sister came home with a brand new camera fone!! i just bought a car and i need the hands free kit ( new your state law) but my stupid fone is so old they dont sell the kits any more!! i asked my mom if i could buy a new fone with my own money and she told me no ! Its not fair that my sister gets a new fone fully paid for but im not even allowed to buy my own !! Its not even that i want the best ... i just want something new so that i can hook it up into my car! Ive tried every thing i can think of and please dont say talk to her cause it never works !

Hey. i think it's not fair...how old is ur sister? so wut if u got a new car...it's still not fair that you have to get a old phone when ur sister gets *new* one. go buy it anyways. the trick is that if u kno that ur phone as a SIM card in the back of it...where the battery is and all u have to do it switch it to there...u dont even have to get a plan. just go to a retail store and buy the phone ONLY and u can do it. if u need more help or info let me kno! Take Care. Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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hey guys! i got my hair chemically straightened with my cuzin back in march. my hair doesnt really dry straight from it though. its kinda wavy when it used to be loose curls. i still have to straighten it which used to take me an hour now its like 20 mins. but my cuzins hair dries straight .. mine doesnt. my hair took to the chemicals real fast so they didnt let it sit in my hair as long as they should have. ok well getting to the point.. i have to get my roots straightened again soon and i was wondering if i should say something to them and if so.. what should i say?

Hey. tell the ppl that did your hair that it didn't all straighten when you let it dryed and is still wavy and everything...tell them everything and things...you should have told them that it wasnt straighten right in the first place. i dont think taking in the chemicals matter you have to have a certain time for it to coem out yah kno? Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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I have 2 best friends who are leaving me out a lot lately, we used 2 b extremely tighht but now they're bein kinda mean. One of them is very controlling and the other is a follower so the follower follows the controller and they do stuff against me. I really hate it. I always feel like the second choice or the third wheel. What should i do... i rate high!

Hey. i would sit them down and ask them why they are being so mean lately and leaving you out. i kno i say this alot but its better to tell them straight up that you kno i feel left out and i wanna be tight with yah again...why is this happening? did i do something wrong...???and see wut they say. Take Care. Hope I helped x3 SweetStar.

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I live in Orlando, Fl., dose anyone know a good place to get your hair dyed (unnatural colors ex. blue, purple, etc.) or any good hair dye products that can be found in stores.

Hey! i live there too! lol i ould say try spencers or something like other hair salon shops...just go int here and ask and they should sell it to you...just be like a friend wants it..lol or try places in the mall that sells wigs...i'm new to the city in all so i dont kno much places. Take Care...Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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ok heres the deal sorry if it's kinda longg..

well my boyfriend one day got into a fight and i was so like depressed nd shit that i cut myself and yeah but then we got the fight resolved, and like we went out for a week after skool ended and then he dumped me cuz he felt guilty for being my boyfriend and not being able to see me..and he went out with this grl nikki from his camp, then after that we got back together and then after like 2 weeks he dumped me again same reason diff. girl her name is lauren (also goes to his camp) then dumped lauren and went for another grl katilin who came to vist from maryland for a week and then dumped her and now were going out... notice the pattern and i think he does love me on some extent but he also has to be with other girls oh and b4 katilin i went to bahamas for a week and didnt have fone service so i didnt get 2 talk to him and my bff told me that while i was gone he hit on her and told her he loved her nd everything and also now wen were going out he still sometimes tells her that even though shes not interested and like he told me that during the yr. he has to dump me and go out with this gurl nicole to help her make her ex boyfriend jealouse cuz he cheated on her but she likes my boyfriend (whos name is charlie by the way)!! ?? help!!!!!!!!! is he just desparate?? lost intrest?? cheating?? does he really love me??? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! or

Hey. wow he changes girlfriends faster then i buy shoes and heck i have a lot...okay lol anyways..if you really like him then i guess you can hold on but i say let him go because i kno you feel hurt somewhere between he going out with all those girls and having to dump you and everything. i mean it's just not right that one minute he saw this girl and dumps u for her and then comes back to u...thats just not right and if he really liked you then he would even LOOK that the other girls. i would stay away from him...but thats just my opinion...anything esle let me kno..Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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wut kinda of bronzer should i use? i dont kno wich type.. helps! luv me

Hi. find a type that you think works and suits the color you want. i never used bronzer before but i'm sure the ones that they advertise on tv will work. also if you are going to get those get some bronzer/selftanning remover incase you messed up. Take Care. Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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heya im going to be a freshmen this year so its my first time in a public school. i was wondering if most people use backpacks or binders or w.e cause i heard that most people dont and i dont want to look outta place.. any comments would be helpfull and i rate well
~thnx~

Hey! i kno wut ur going through cuz i just started my freshman year...most ppl bring binders...and since it's the first day you dont do much so bring a binder and something to write with and you are ready to go...lol have a cute outfit too! lol i'm sure you! ;-) anything else let me kno! Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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hi ! i didnt kno the proper category but i had gotten my belly button peirced . i love it!! and my healing time is up and i wana take out my original ring and put in a new one i bought . this may sound dumb but i dono how to get then ring out . its a circle/hoop ring and the bead is over it and i dono how to remove it . can neone please help me ! :\ ??i rate high!

Hey. i have mine done too!!! lol anyways okay the ball you have to pop it off because some dont twist and mostly the ones they do it with dont so they make you go back and pay them to get it taken off...you can do that too but i'm not positive on how much they charge. some do and some dont. but to pop it off you have to try to pull the bars apart sliightly and then pop the ball off. and then you can insert the barbell in but if you are putting in a hoop again then you mostly likely have to snap the ball in. anything else let me kno okay? Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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Heyy...i want to wear a lil makeup its lite but im in 7th grade and my mom wont let me wear it out of the house.....should i just not wear it ask her or just wear a lil lipstick?

hey you can get some natural makeup...it will add some highlights to your eyes and face...just a little...you wont be able ot tell but you glow a little. like Maybellines Mocha Lights $5 at Walmart works well. anything else let me kno Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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i'm 13 and i want to find a job to raise money. is there any places i can work at? i rate realli high! but there is one problem..i love babysitting..but there isn't many people i know with younger kids. so besides babysitting..what else?

Hi. since your only 13 you cant really work anywhere without a work permit and you get that when you turn 14. but post some flyers up for babysitting and have mom take you to a neighborhood maybe two streets down and put flyers in there mailbox. tell me how it goes. Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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my mom's boyfriend slept over the other night and one morning i woke up early to my mom closing my door and then a few minutes later i heard her moaning continuesly. it was so nasty and i knew i couldnt move or else she would know that i heard everything, so i had to sit there and listen. it's so disgusting but i dont know if i should tell her what i heard or just keep it a secret? i have no idea what would be best and what would make me feel better. what should i do?

HI.ohh wow that is nasty..let her kno that it bugs you that you have to hear her and everything and like what others said...definitly let her kno that is she's gonna have a night like that tell her to do it somewhere else where you wont kno about it hear it or have anything to do with it. it's better that way too. Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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