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Hi, My name is Bailey. I am 15, and I know that is young, but I think I can offer good advice, or at least try my hardest.


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Ok, I am a 14/f. Im not a virgin, but I have never 'sucked' a guy before. And i was just wondering. when you are sucking/blowing a guy. How do you know when to stop? Lol. Do you stop sucking when he is Jizzing or what? I really need help, cause i don't know. And it will be this friday. so please hurry up and answer.

Well when he is coming, you should stop then, and either spit or swallow. But you might now want to really "suck" it. Becuase it is not a sucker, and i don't think that would feel the greatest for the guy.

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16/f. my boobs feel a little sore. does this mean they are growing?

Yes, or it could be a sign of your period.

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Everynight I sit in bed for about 2 hours before I fall asleep. Its not a big problem staying awake but the stress I go through trying to fall asleep is terrible. It's been going on everynight for about three weeks. I told my mom there was something wrong with me and that I needed sleep pills but she blew it off. So I began taking tylenol PM (without her knowing) and it put me to sleep within 30 mintues. But this weekend I ended up exposing alot of my secrets to her (that I have been drinking, etc) and told her about the pills. She believes me now and is going to take me to the doctor but she take forever to set up an appointment and I hate bringing it up. So Im going to probably end up taking them again. My question is, are all of these problems I've been having signs that im depressed? To me, it seems like what every kid my age does and that I shouldnt be worried.

I know exactly how you feel, only it has been happening for 3 years now, and I just recently got help for it. Actually I happen to be severly depressed, and that has lead to my insomnia, so I think that there could be a possibility that you are depressed. You should deffinately try the sleeping pils...they work wonders. And maybe suggest to your mom that you should see a councelor.

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My friend really likes someone and he really likes her. They both know that they like each other and they look so cute together. There is only one problem, my friends parents doesnt let her date and this boy will be no exception. Shes afraid that if he asks her out she will have to say no because she does really like him. She really needs help and fast so please any answer I will rate a 5 thank you so much!!!

Well I am not saying that she should go behind her parents back, but if they go to the same school, then they wouold see eachother a lot. And they can just kind of sneak around. Like the movies, going to the mall...or anything like that. She can just say she is going with you, and he could meet you guys up there, and they could be together.

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i realli realli like this guy and he is all i think about day and night and he says he likes me but he doesnt want a gf right now...wat should i think?

Well you probably are not going to be able to just get over him. I think you should just try and be friends with him, and maybe he will start liking you and you can go out with him. But don't like pressure him to go out with you, and just act yourself around him. Because it sounds like you really do like this guy, so just be his friend, and maybe he will decided he wants to date you.

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Anyone know what slipknots latest album is?

Vol.3: The Subliminal Verses

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I got the sims 2 a while ago and everytime i want to get the kids into a private i can never get accepted. I dont really understand how to serve the dinner and then make them all eat together, so i never get points for that. If someone could explain steps on how to do it that would be great.

I'll rate! =D

You have to obviously have someone making the headmaster happy, and then have someone making a nice dinner. Then you have to call everyone for dinner, and the headmaster you click on him and tell him to come and eat. But make sure you make good food, it gives you more points.
Good Luck.

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Okay, so my boyfriend, Reed, and I have been going out for 3 months this tuesday. I know its not that long, but still, i'm in love with him. Before we even started going out, we would always say "I love you" or "your the best". Once he even said to me "I can't live with out you Cici." Well, i do truely love him, with all my heart, but the problem is, i never see him. He goes to a different school, and is 2 years older then me (hes in 10th, I'm in 8th) So he is in high school, im still in junior high, so he is always busy, the last time i was him was over a week ago. WE didn't even get to see each other on valentine's day. Well anyways, I was at the Panic! At The Disco concert with my best friend Lenah, and one of her friends, Way, was said to her "You're friend, Cici, is really gorgeous." So like, him and I were flirting with each other at the concert. Then during Hellogoodbye, he was standing behind me, and was holding my hips, holding me close to him. Then all of the sudden, when i was dancing to P!ATD, i turned around to look for a friend that had gotten lost from me in the mosh pit, and he kissed me. Well we ended up leaving the mosh pit, and made out, outside of the building. And like asked for my number and all and i gave it to him, but like, he hasn't called (which im glad) But i want to tell my boyfriend, but i have no idea how. What can i do and/or say to my boyfriend to tell him and to make it up to him. I didn't want to hurt him. I have never loved him more then i do right now, and I'm shure he feels the same so... Please help


I RATE 5'S FOR GOOD ADVICE.

Well there is NO way that you can tell your boyfriend and not hurt him. So you should expect him to be hurt, and probably extremely upset. And if you really loved him, I don't think you would have done this to him. I love my boyfreind, and I cannot even imagine EVER cheating on him. So I think you should reconsider your love for him, and break up with him, because you obviously aren't good enough for him, and he deserves better. I know what it is like to be cheated on, and it is a pain you NEVER want to have to experience. I have absolutely NO sympathy for people who cheat on another person. So you can rate me really low, but what I am saying is completely honest. You are going to hurt him so increbly badly, so you better be prepared when you tell him. So if I were you, I would sit him down all alone, and tell him exactly what happened, and don't leave any parts out. Then you should probably expect to be broken up with. And you will get what you deserve.


I love it how you rate me a one, when what I said was completely honest, and you know it, you just don't want to admit it!!! Oh well...

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Hey, so my friend wanted me to ask if anyone knew if Pro-Active helped at all. So, if anyone has used it, just answer back and let me know saying yes or no. I'll rate. Thanks

My friends and I all use it, works great!

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hi.i am kane.when she see me she says hi with small smile and i also do the same.i said to her that if u want to share any thing u can share with me.and she said you also.

Sounds really cute, I think that you should ask her out. You will probably both be really happy, and have a good relationship!

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Alright So..
Me and Alexis have been best friends since 5th grade. And all of a sudden this year shes changed.(we're in 8th grade now) . Like she hangs out with Seniors(Um Ew?. Thats like hanging out with my brother) And she has smoked and drank. And it bugs me. Like we still do sleepovers sometimes and talk at school but its all differant. And now Alexis, my friend Karie, and my friend Holi have this thing called "KAH" which stands for their names and they think their the shit. it pisses me off.. and now i feel like i dont have a best friend..


please help

That is such a typical teenager thing. Trust me I know. Seems like everyone thinks they are cool. They just want to be cool, and they think they are by doing all of that. I know that is such a cliche thing to say, but really she is just trying to be cool and fit in with the "cool crowd". I know people just like that, and I used to be like that. But eventually I came to realize how stupid it was. I think that you need to find some new friends to hang out with. Have you talked to her about her problems and how you feel about it? Because that is probably be a good idea. But if you have already tried that, then I think that you should just not hang out with those girls, because you may get sucked into doing the same things. So you should deffinately get out while you can, and find some friends that you can hang out with, and aren't drinking or smoking. Maybe Alexis will realize that she is losing her best friend ,and will come around. But till then I think you just need to leave her right now, and find some better people.

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im 14/f my bf is 17. he is always talking about how he wants to marry me and how much he loves me. i love him. i know you will think im to young. im not to young to know love. alright. so he got me this necklace for christmas that has a heart on it that on the front our names are ingraved and on the back it says "7 or 8 more years..." theres a story behind it...but its about me and him getting married in 7 or 8 years. then for valentines day he got me a ring. he wants to get married in 4 or 5 years now.... and he calls me his wife. like when he intorduces me to his friends he callse me his wife. and even to his mom he says hes going to see his wife and stuff. and whenever i see a baby i want one of my own.... is that normal? to want to have his kid? me and him have never had sex or anything. were really jsut good kids in love. so is that bad/wrong/weird/normal?

Yes, wanting a baby is completely normal. My boyfriend and I are basically in the same exact situation as you. He does the same things that your boyfriend does to you. The only difference is we are both 15. I have thought about having a baby a lot, and I have come very close to it. But I have come to learn that it would absolutely ruin my life, and the baby would not have a good life. And I think the main thing stopping me from having a baby, is the fact that the baby would have a bad life. I mean if you really think about it, you can't rely on your parent. I don't know how supportive your parents would be, but you can't just expect them to take care of the baby and pay for everything. So I know how it feels to have that feeling, but you need to think about the baby's life, and how it would probably not have a good childhood, and that would probably lead to a rough life for it in the future. So you really need to focus on how it would effect your life AND the baby's.
Well I hope you make the right decisions.

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My doctor told me i have depression. And i dont doubt it becuase im always crying and stuff. I dont know why. Like is their something that makes you depressed? Or do you just randomly feel sad about stuff?. And i really need someone to talk to. like i want to go to a physcologist but my Mom doesnt think i need to. i tell her i do and she says i could but we never get to it. idk what to do .

There are many different kinds of depression. There is situational depression, which is when you have are in a bad situation and you get depressed.Then there is actual depression, that you really cannot control. It is because the chemicals in the brain are unbalanced. That is why there is medication. I am on medication and I can guarentee you it makes you feel so much better. If you have your doctor talk to your mom she will probably be more open to having you see someone for help. Because seeing a psychologist(sp?) really does help too.
I wish you the best of luck with that.

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My boyfriend sort of fingered me last night, it's not the first time. This time he wasn't going into the "hole", he was moving his finger around the top, forcefully. I don't know what he did, but it hurt, and now this morning its extremely sore. The specific part it hurts at is the top of the clit, there is something like a small ball. It hurts to touch. What did he do and is something wrong with it? What should I do?

Hey hun,
Sounds like he maybe just scratched you or was just being a little too rough...I would just see if it gets better overtime, but if it doesn't then I would get it checked out, but for right now just wait and see.

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My girlfriend(17years old) has been raped by three different people. She only trusts me and hasnt got the confidence to tell anybody else. This means that the responsibility is down to me to give her my own sort of counseling service. I'm not really sure as to what to do apart from help her get it all out. Please could somebody give me some tips on more counselling advice? It would be much appreciated.thankyou x

I don't agree with the other people about her going to the police yet. I think you need to get her to go to a pychologist. I mean yes, you can help her, but she also needs some professional help. So I would really try to talk her into going to a professional, and then maybe the police later.

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ok, this friend of mine told me that this girl i really like deosnt like me but a friend of hers said she likes me , but shes afraid to hurt me if she brakes up with me. her friend said i should ask her out but my friend said i shouldnt. should i take the chance and listen to her friend and ask her out or not and listen to her friend?

If you really like her, then just take the chance, you will probably feel better when you do.

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Last night I had to spend the night with my sister. She is married and already has children. So while she was taking a bath I was looking on her phone and found Text messages that where from her husband (he has a driving job) and one said, "Talk Dirty To Me." and another one said, "Wouldn't you like to be licked all over?". I was so shocked. I mean I would have never thought of him acting like that. So I put the phone down and I just couldn't read anymore. I still feel shocked and horriable. I know she is married and has a right to do what she wants,and I shouldn't have been looking on her phone and nowI just don't know what to do. Any Ideas?? (She is 29, he is 30)

Well, I think you just need to accept that is is completely normal. I mean you know you shouldn't have been looking through her phone, and it is just something that is normal. Really there is nothing you can do except to just understand that they are a married couple, and they are going to talk like that.

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I'm just wondering, but what do guys find attractive in a girl? If you're a guy please just tell me the truth. It can be looks, personality, whatever, but please be specific. If you're a girl, tell me what you think or what guys have mentioned to you!

Thank you!

I am a girl, but guys have told me that they deffinately go for looks firt, but if they get to know a girl and she is not the best looking then they start to like her, and she becomes pretty to them. But, from what guys have told me is personality wise they don't like girls who whine and bitch a lot, or who are too overly obsessed with how they look. But they like a girl who takes care of themselves and is nice to talk to to. So that is just what guys have told me.

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Ok, two days ago (Wednesday) my boyfriend (Mike) wasn't at school because he was sick. Yesterday, he was at school. He was acting kind of wierd. Like, he wasn't doing things that he would normally do (such as walking up with me to my locker in the morning, talk to me the whole class that we have together, come up to my locker at the end of the day, and get out of class to go to the "bathroom" just to see me ). Then later yesterday online I told him about this guy that is one of my friends in Geometry class that played a little joke on me. I had my paper on his desk and I was turned around, so when I turned around again it said "Steph

Hey,
It sounds like something is wrong, I think that you need to talk to him about it. Just say you are concerned and wondering what has been up lately. I don't think you are overreacting, but I think he did when he got upset over that joke that boy played on you. So ya, I think you should just talk to him and find out what is wrong.

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hi i've found a bunch of RANDOM unwanted clothes in my closet (a denim jacket, a cheap renasance dress costume, silver sequin gaucho pants thing, a mini tennis skirt type thing(gray).....) what are some good ideas of what i could do with these?

Donate them to like salvation army, or a place like that.

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