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Alright so my boyfriend (well.. now ex-boyfriend :/) broke up with me on Tuesday night. He said he was so nervous to come over and do it and he was shaken up. He said he has been thinking about what to do for a little bit and even when he said he wasn't thinking about it, he was thinking about it. He said he made lists, wrote things down, cried at night, read my notes that I gave him, but he said he thinks it's best that we be done right now and if it's meant to be, we will be together.
It didn't end bad for a beakup. I said "I can't hate you, I can't be mad at you, I can't call you a dick or a douchebag or an ass. All I hope for you is that you find happiness because you deserve to be happy and you deserve the very best. And if you need anything you know I'm here for you and my door is always open for you." Then we hugged and I gave him a kiss on the forehead. He said that killed him to hear that and he doesn't deserve it and I deserve to he happy.. he was crying a lot .. He kept apologizing and saying he is sorry. He hates hurting me. I know he is hurt by it.. he said he will always be here for me and if I need him to call or text. He said he will still bend over backwards for me
He has only had 3 girlfriends, including me and I know his last two ended up bad. I know he has been hurt in the past and it kills me that people hurt him because he is the sweetest guy I have ever met in my entire life. I keep thinking that maybe since I was the first person to actually give a damn and who actually cared more about him then about themselves, that maybe without knowing it, it freaked him out. He has been confused lately. And I do think it's because he was scared because he found someone who really and truly cared about him.
I keep thinking that maybe this summer when we are both at home and we have time for ourselves, space, and everything, we come back to school and we can work things back out. He said that it isn't me, that I never did anything wrong and that's why deep down I feel like we can work through this. We have an online class together next year and he said that we would study and whatnot together.
That makes me think that maybe we can try and work things back out. But I don't know. I've never cared for someone as much as I care for him. He's so different from anyone that I've ever met. It kills me knowing that I may have lost him.
I told him that I still want him in my life and he said I know and I want to still be in your life too. He said I was never a bad girlfriend and to never think that. He said he is always going to worry about me and he still cares an awful lot. He said he didn't mean to make me feel this hurt, not at all. He kept saying he's truly very sorry for everything. Idk something is telling me deep down that we can work through it. There is something about him that is different. I know a good thing when I see it. and with him I see it, feel it, and know it.
I guess what I'm asking is if you guys think there is something still there between us or what? (link)
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This is what i dont get. HE loves you. he cares about you. he states you are a great girlfriend. And he is extremely upset about breaking up with you....
so then why did he.. if he loved and cared about you that much there has to be a reason that he did what he did..
and as far as getting back together. it has to be 2 sided. not just you wanting it. sorry if that's harsh. but you cant sit waiting for him. when there is no garentee that you will.
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I woke up from a rough sleepless night, very dizzy, nauseous, and I could barely keep myself upright. In the shower, I was falling over and feeling so lightheaded. Just the thought of food made me sick.I thought it was just a minor headache, so I took a Tylenol,had a tall glass of water, and got ready for school normally. I felt a little better after breakfast. My boyfriend picked me up to go to school. Later I ate lunch without any problem.
Later on the bus, my tendency to get car sick made my nauseousness return. I opened the window and laid back and hoped for the best. The walk home was okay, but when I got home, I broke out in sweat and had the dizzy, lightheaded, nauseous feeling again. I read on the internet that vitamin B deficiency can cause all of this, so I took a B vitamin and laid down after I did my chores and cleaned my room. I am a vegetarian if that helps, but I eat a pretty well-balanced diet. I don't know what is going on. I don't have my period and I have a very safe sex life.
Any ideas what is going on? Thanks!
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my guess is it is a cold or flu. because there is alot of that going around right now.
Don't listen to internet advice about pills and what not. only a doctor can tell you if you have a deficiency in any of the vitamins. if it doesnt go away for the next while. go see ur doctor.
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My new job does there scheduling through google calendars but they didn't give me an email to sign in to their calendar. Only a username and password. How do I sign in? I need immediate answers and of course I will return the favor ;) (link)
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try putting username @gmail.com
for example:
username
hamson35
try
Hamson35@gmail.com
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there is this guy i like he has reputation for being a player he is very good looking he is very out going and fun to be around and girls throw themselves at him and even though i know about some of the things he done i still like him but im not sure how he feels about me one day he will talk to me hug me kiss me on the cheek but then the next day its like im not even there but almost every time im near him i catch him staring at me. i want to know why he is like this with me but with other girls he seems to have an easier time i mean he could have any girl he wants so why does he act like he scared of me or doesnt want to be around me? (link)
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First off. Men are so weird.
secondly. he may be afraid of you for the fact that he is unsure how to act about strong feelings for you. since he is used to being a player. and from that hasn't had strong feelings.
I would suggest trying to be around him more.
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So I have to do a presentation on John Greenleaf Whittier's poem "A debtor's prison poem". The poem is about someone he knows being incarcerated for a debt of 14 dollars... however, no matter how much I search online I'm having trouble finding who exactly he knew that was put in prison. I don't know if it was a brother or brother-in-law... Do you guys happen to know who it was? I'm having a lot of trouble finding background information about this and how the events of this person's life led to him being thrown into jail.
Thanks. Any websites would be great! (link)
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try going to the library. they hold alot of great materials. and there you can do specific searches just like in internet refering to john greenleaf
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I listened to this song and here are some facts about it. Please tell me what song this is!
1.) It was on this PSP game. It was like DDR
2.) I think it was Kingdom Hearts(song)
3.) It had a bunch of numbers in the title and it said "days" and "weeks" in it. I think it did. Either that or it says "months" and/or "years".
No, it is NOT 365 days by Victoria Justice or anything with just "365 days" as the title. It was on PSP Revolution I think (link)
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could it be
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J0hIMm364Qg
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I think i found itt!!
Kingdom Hearts 358/2 Days
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Say someone has seen a lot a lot a lot of porn, and is kinda like... Well, nothing seems to turn them on anymore. And they feel no shame. Nothing affects them.
If they completely stopped viewing it, would they not be "desensitized" anymore after a while? Or is there no regaining that sensitivity? I'm talking mental, like how easy it is to become aroused, not physical.
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If they are addicted to porn. It's like a drug. They will need to get their fix. so they will detatching themselves from real life. They need to be taken away from it.
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i am from India. i have turned 19 today. i have no one to give me emotional support. i did not need it in my childhood. when i was 15 yrs, i fell in love with my classmate. he is an amazing person. he loves me a lot and takes care of me only when i am in a normal mood. it is only recently that i am realising that he is totally avoiding me when i am tensed. i asked him several times not to avoid me when i am tensed and that i need his support. but he does not understand. today the whole day i have been crying as he did not wish me happy b'day. ii myself called him and asked to wish me but he replied that he won't. i have no one else except him whom i am comfortable with to some extent. i am not able to share this with anyone. i want to commit suicide. can you tell me some easy ways of doing it at home? (link)
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First off honey, Happy birthday honey!!
secondly. we are not going to tell you how to do that. We will give you advice to get back on track. you are only 19. This boy is obviously a jerk. and is definetly not needed in your life. Think about your future kids. You area beautiful. Talented. Amazinng person. You where meant to shine in this world. Don't let one guy change that. You are strong enought to stand on your own.
and you def don't need a guy.
I believe that you will do great things :)
sincerely.
Jasmine
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Im 14 and i dont know whats going on with me. My 8th grade dance is coming up and i have mixed feeling for so many boys.Two of them are my bestfriends and i completely dont wanna lose them. Usually i just get over them i think since im foreign theres no way guys will like me and that im ugly but i know thats not true. Plus im not allowed to have a boyfriend anyways. What should i do? Need some advice. (link)
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First off. You being 'foreign' HAS nothing to do with who you really are. You are a beautiful amazing person. And is having a bf against your relegion? and I would just wait it out and see what happens with them. you don't have to pick who you like right now. Just let those feelings develop on their own.
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I really want to dye my hair blonde but without any proxides and chemicals damaging my hair so is there a way getting blonde hair natrual? (link)
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If you have dark hair. the only way to do it is with chemicals. or going to hair stylist. but even then. they still have to bleach your hair to get it the lighter color
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Sorry for the length
There was a guy I met at the beginning of the year in band (he's a senior, I'm a freshman). We started getting close after a little while and started trusting each other with big secrets. He even told me that he loved me...we were like brother and sister. He would always tell me stories about himself that made him seem so...perfect. All of a sudden, he started to change. Out of the blue, he completely stopped talking to me. Instead of sitting with my on bus rides, he didn't even acknowledge me. For the first few months, I was so depressed. He left me at a time where I really needed his friendship. During that time, I blamed it all on myself. I tried texting him a few times after and I didn't even get a full sentence answer. I thought I did something wrong. But the more I thought about it, he isn't so perfect. He is one of the worst guys I've ever been friends with. He had that quality about him...the one where he could say anything and I would believe him. And it was so convincing because he believed it too. I found out last month that right around the time he stopped talking to me, he started dating my best friend. As soon as they broke up, he started ignoring her and dating this other girl days after his and my friend's breakup. It turns out that him was talking to his current gf behind my best friend's back while they were still going out. It made me so sad that everybody else still believed how amazing this guy is when all he is a fake, heartless player. There's so many things that I want to say to him before he graduates. Is it worth it to even bother telling him how I feel about him? And if it is, then how should I talk to him (keep in mind that we haven't spoken in about 4 months) Thanks for all answers in advance :) (link)
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Honestly. Go up to him wen he's walking to the bus. and bitch him out. Get it all out. Then walk away. Don't let him interrupt you. haha:P
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What do I do if my feionce whom I love so so much beats and strangels me :( (link)
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First you have to understand that Even if he has a mental problem IT IS NOT RIGHT to beat someone or strangle you. I would first go to your family. And tell them what is going on. And get support.
You may love him. But would you rather be alive or dead? Because if it worsens. he might end up killing you and throwing you in the trunk of a car. Next you want to go to the police. inform them of what is going on as well. maybe a warning or a fine or something.
And if he continues to do this. You need to get out. Fast. You can get a cop to associate you and at the house when you carry the boxes out. that way he won't do anything.
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So there's this guy from my geography class who works at the UPS store, and I went there because I had to send a package to my brother and send some other mail. Well I had to go back there because I wasn't sure if they had sent the letters. So anyways I was talking to him, and I told him I needed to send another package (my brother's birthday present) and he told me to come on Monday, Wednesday, or Friday because those are the days that he works. Does that mean he likes me? Or am I just delusional, because I feel like I am being a delusional, and I don't want to get my hopes up too high. But whenever he said to come when he's working he just stared at me and smiled. It was really sweet. So what do you think? Thanks. (link)
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I think there is a possibility of shit gentlemen having a crush or liking to you. since he asked for you to come in when he is working specifically it is to see you again. So if you like him too. i would dress up a bit. NOT over the top! But pretty!
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So I started high school this year and there is this girl I knew from last year. We have a class together now and I guess we could be considered friends. Today one of my other friends in our "group" told me that she found some beer in the girl's cup one day. Now, I don't know if it's true, but this isn't something that my friend would lie about and most likely she knows what beer smells like...So I'm wondering what I should do. I'm not going to tell on her because I have no idea if it really happened. But just in case, what would be the right thing to do in my situation? Because underage drinking is against my morals. I know that we're not close enough for me to ever feel pressured by her, but I know that my parents wouldn't necessarily approve of my even being kind of friends with her. Please no answers about reporting her. I have no idea if this is true, but I just want to be prepared in case I find out that she really has been drinking at school. (link)
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First of. You have no proof. You just have someone else's word. and She might have lied. Secondly. It maybe against your morals. But that doesn't mean you should stop being friends with her. just cuz she is acting different. If she is drinking at school. How often is she doing it. once a week every day? Maybe try talking to her about what's going on to make her feel like she has to drink?
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I'm inviting my crush to play soccer with me, my brother, adn some other friends and I want to make it's fun. What should I bring or tell them to bring? When we ar eall tired and don't want to go home yet what should we do? I'm thinking of water balloons but I don't think my mom wants to buy them. What are some things I could get to have fun? Thanks! (link)
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Take a couple of drinks like some aqua water or orange juice or something and bring a soccer ball, maybe a foot ball.
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14/f hey there, well about a month ago my boyfriend broke up with me suddenely wasn't even expecting it, and I loved him so it hit me hard. Well that night I went to my bestfriend for help and me and him skyped and his bestfriend was at his house and so he skyped with us too. I know his friend lets call him River like i've talked to him before and things well he asked me out and i said yes but just not right now because im still getting over my last boyfriend (who just broke up with me that day) and he kept saying all this nice stuff about me and how much he liked me and stuff! well i kinda liked him then not that much tho, but he really liked me and see i never really payed him much mind. Now a month or so later I really really like him now! even tho i havnt text him sense that last time we skyped and talked for two days i see him at school and he stares at me. But I think that he dont like me anymore. I tried texting him a week ago but he didnt answer. I really like him now though but I dont think he still likes me. Im not for sure tho. What do I do? Thanks(: (link)
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Try talking to him at school, try getting too know him more. Ask him to hang out and what not. My guess is he might like you but just doesnt know how to act upon it or not to.
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So I don't have very high self esteem, and I want to feel really pretty for my birthday, I'm tall 5"8 and I have brown hair that falls at my shoulders, it's not very long and very layered, I want to do cute vintage pin curls but I don't know how to do it, I'm dying my hair a chocolate brown and I thought it would look pretty curled, I don't own a small curling iron and I don't have any styling products. any tips or any other ideas I could try? My birthday is in a few days and I want to look cute, I bought a new outfit and everything, I'll be turning 18 and I think my friend is throwing me a surprise party seeing as she is being obvious about it, I want to look cute for it because I'm sure she invited my guy friend I like. Please help?? (: (link)
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Back combing might lookgood. if you have a straightener.. if it's a hot enough one you can do curls with it
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How do i make a guy jealous, and or to want me more?
I know this sounds ridiculous, i get it. it's much more complicated and isn't necessary to explain. My guy friend keeps playing mind games with me, and i would like to return the favor so i need to know how to make him more interested, and jealous. He used to like me, but he stopped because nothing happened, (i never knew he liked me) and i want him to like me again because i like him. but he's starting to like another girl and i dont want that.
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First off you can't force him to like you. and you can't change his feelings for this other girl. all you can do is be your self. flirt with him. But most importantly be yourself. If he is meant to be with you he will realize how special you really are. :P
!Jasmine*
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should i be single because i relly like a lot of guys n i think who should i be wirhth. there is this one guy tht i like n i am kind of shy to talk to him and when he tries to talk to me my heart like feels lie its racing a cheetah. when i try to talk to him i ct nd say the dumbest nd stupidest thinf ever. i lso think that he likes me. but when a girl he like passes by him he says oh i would like one of those girls fhen he looks up at me. i woundee why he is cting like this should i just keep tring my best or ahould i just move on or stay single because i have been single for a while. wht should i do? (link)
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Honestly. Relationships come from friendships. So i would just talk to these different guys become better friends with them. Something might happen with one of them. But don't play them. Someone will come along and it will be meaningful. Enjoy the single life.
xo.Jasmine~
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I'm participating in Kony 2012 and got my whole town in it. We were just gonna buy the Kony merchandise but it sold out. What should I do
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you can download the kit so you can print off posters:
http://www.kony2012.com/get_the_kit.html
that's the only option i have found
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