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is it worth it to tell the guy the way I feel about him
Sorry for the length
There was a guy I met at the beginning of the year in band (he's a senior, I'm a freshman). We started getting close after a little while and started trusting each other with big secrets. He even told me that he loved me...we were like brother and sister. He would always tell me stories about himself that made him seem so...perfect. All of a sudden, he started to change. Out of the blue, he completely stopped talking to me. Instead of sitting with my on bus rides, he didn't even acknowledge me. For the first few months, I was so depressed. He left me at a time where I really needed his friendship. During that time, I blamed it all on myself. I tried texting him a few times after and I didn't even get a full sentence answer. I thought I did something wrong. But the more I thought about it, he isn't so perfect. He is one of the worst guys I've ever been friends with. He had that quality about him...the one where he could say anything and I would believe him. And it was so convincing because he believed it too. I found out last month that right around the time he stopped talking to me, he started dating my best friend. As soon as they broke up, he started ignoring her and dating this other girl days after his and my friend's breakup. It turns out that him was talking to his current gf behind my best friend's back while they were still going out. It made me so sad that everybody else still believed how amazing this guy is when all he is a fake, heartless player. There's so many things that I want to say to him before he graduates. Is it worth it to even bother telling him how I feel about him? And if it is, then how should I talk to him (keep in mind that we haven't spoken in about 4 months) Thanks for all answers in advance :)
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Honestly. Go up to him wen he's walking to the bus. and bitch him out. Get it all out. Then walk away. Don't let him interrupt you. haha:P
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