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Hey guys im Michelle!! Some people think im annoying, some people think im crazy.. but who knows im just ME!! I bite my nails, i know its a habbit i have to stop. I love getting my nails done, its my obsession. My goal in life is to become famous, but who doesnt wanna be? Im mean to people if they're mean to me first, otherwise whats the reason to be mean to someone? I dont understand life.. although it can be fun sometimes. I love the color pink, and when i say that people automatically think im a girly girl. I love to dance and sing, although i dont see myself doing it when i get older..

advice

my boobs are really small and my stomach is really big. its like showing off my fat waaaaaaay too much! is there anything that can make my tiny boobs bigger

WEll, excersize and they fat will go to your boobs.
♥ michelle
ps dont wear a bra when you go to sleep sleep open.

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So, here's the story:

I am currently a freshman attending a private high school in Greenville, North Carolina. Since I'm in high school, I've started to search for different colleges that I would be interested in attending. I'm considering UNC-CH and I've viewed the application forms and application requirements. While I was looking through them, I noticed that a few of the required courses are not offered at my school as of now. My English literature teacher informed me that some colleges in the area offer extra courses during the summer, so I'm going to begin the required courses later this semester. But, I'm wondering whether taking the extra courses at a college during the summer or switching from my current school to a public school that offers these courses would be better for applying. I know that AP and IB programs are offered at J.H. Rose and South Central in Greenville, but I can't bear to leave my friends and my boyfriend behind. I know that my education should come first, but really, it is hard for me. What do YOU think would be the best thing for me in the long run?

- A confused high school student

Follow your heart. Stay here and go to summer courses here.
♥ Michelle

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My brother and I are nine years apart but we get along great and I love him to death. Over the years my brother has been with a few girls and I've always got along with them. But his new girlfriend (he live with her at her moms house because we moved and there was no room) but anyways we dont get along I mean I try to like her but shes a bitch to me and my friends. My best friend shes like my sister she considers mty bro her bro and my bros girlfriend is always a bitch when shes around. She is very stuck up and im afraid my brother is going to be with her for a long time.......What should I do I want to like her but I cant.
Dont say im jelous or protective of my bro because no matter what ill be happy for him. HELP!!

Tell him.
♥ mIchelle

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im 13 and i dont have my peroid yet and lately i have been having red blood spots about the size of a penny...is it my peroid coming soon or is it an infection??

please help

Its your period.
♥ Michelle

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i used to go out wid this kid(lets call him jordan)and then i broke up wid him because i found out he was cheating on me with this girl(lets call her becky)this was in around october novemeber and it ended in january and it turns out he was cheating on my for like a month and now jordan dumped kasey and now kasey still likes him but jordan likes me and he has since the 4th grade but im starting to have feeling for him again and my guy friend(lets call him mike)just recently told me he was gunna ask me out on monday and i like him but i dont kno if i can trust him because og him cheating on me the 1st time but i really really like him what should i do???

please help

sorry for the longness

Hey, I wouldnt take my chances with jordan again. I would try it with mike though.
♥ Michelle

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what is the first thing u do when you have your period.... what do u do?

change your underware and put on a pad.
♥ Michelle

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Is Codeine bad for you if you take it when you don't need it, like if you take it just to get high or whatever? If it is bad, what does it do specifically that is harmful?

Yes, any drug that you take the you dont need is bad for you. Not to mention getting high off of it makes it wors. Do the right thing.
♥ Michelle

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Is it normal for girls to have there period for 2 days.


-thanks

NO, yuo should definatly see a doctor.
♥ Michelle

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im 14 years old(male) and i keep cutting myself. I've tried to stop but i keep doing it. I ve talked with my friends to see if they could help me out and one of them started to cut too! i really dont know what to do please help me out.

Go to a guidence councler. Or when you want to cut, catch yourself and dont!
♥ Michelle

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Ok so at school there is this really hot/nice guy. We talked to eachother before but not alot. He has a girlfriend but he has told a few people that he likes me too. He also says that hes going to stay with his girlfriend. But one day at PE he came sat by me there was no room by me so he asked my friend to move over so he could sit by me. I kinda do and kinda dont want them to break up. i just hate it because i cant ever get a boyfriend. I really like this guy what should i do???

Dont ruin his relationship now. When he brakes up, ask him out but dont sound too desprate. Tell him how you feel and maybe he will confess too. Maybe things will change from there for the better!
♥ Michelle

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tonight i was at my boyfriends house and ive been with him since october.. 16/f.. just recently i fell in love with him and its an amazing relationship ..i was at his house tonight and he and i were messing around and i suddenly have never wanted to have sex so bad in my life.. im a virgin so im kind of opposed to it.. but i mean im in love with this guy and he means so much to me its just.. being a virgin i get so much respect and i love the respect i get from it.. im afraid if i lose it im gonna regret it somehow or another.. i dont know though.. i really dont know.. what should i do.. i mean i want to so bad because its just so .. there.. but i just.. dont know.. by the way hes a virgin to.. hes 18/m me-junior him-senior

I think you will regret it. Just wait. He might seem like the special one now but then later you guys might brake up. I would just wait until you guys have been going out for a little bit longer.
♥ Michelle

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there is this guy i like that i send letters to but i was wondering should i ask him if he is single or would that be to rude of me?

No, its fine.
♥ Michelle

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is it bad to pop your knuckles? Some people say it is and others say it isn't...

Yes it is. You knuckles brake and get bigger. You can also get that shaking desies and i forgot the name of it, oops sorry.
♥ Michelle

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Ok i just got over this huge depression thing i went to a shrink and everything. i started getting happier and i hung out a lot more with my friends and my dad who just got outta jail and i felt a lot better too. recently my mom is making me spend time with her i dont want to but i decided to at least be positive about it. so anyway i hang out at home a lot more and i get SO depressed like omg i feel like dying. i am so mad becuz i just got over this and i dont wanna go through it again. i cant do anything about it though. is there any way to help it that i just dont know about? plz help! im 14 btw

Well, you are going through puberty too. This is the age you get depresed a lot too. Your depression might be on your dad coming from jail, doing things you dont want to do, and mostly things like that.
♥ Michelle

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there is a guy at my work who is going back to brazil where he came from. we have gotten really close and i'm going to mis. tonite was my last night seeing him and he gave me his number, his address, and even his email. he keeps asking me when i am turning 18, and i don't understand why. he is a 25 year old male and i'm a 17 year old female. any ideas what this guy is trying to say?!

I am guessing you are the girl who asked about the should i wait till im 25 and he is 35 or somthing, well i think he likes you and wants to keep in touch with you. He defenetly wants to keep in touch and he wants you guys to bet back together sometime when he visits prob. He might want a relationship but how will you have a relationship when you guys are like so far away from eachother?
♥ Michelle

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do you think it's better if a 17 year old dates a 25 old?! or do you think it's better for me wait until i'm 27 and he's 35?!

Okay, That is an 8 year differance. Not that anything is wrong just um, maybe you want to stick with people your age. But if you trully love him. Date him when you are 20 and he is 28!!
♥ Michelle

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okay, there is this chick that lives with us, rhee, she's basically a sister to me now and she is a serious worrier. she freaks out about everything!she has had a bad life.. her mum died, her dad kicked her out, so she hasn't learnt much of anything. she went to a mates place and slept in his bed... alone... and worried she coulda gotten pregnant!!! how can i let her know about the birds and the bees without embarrasing her??? she is 18 i am 17. my mum gave me the talk but hers didnt coz she died. any advice on what to do would be appreciated. thankyou in advance!!!

~sister troubles

Well i think you should say, ((name)) can we talk. And then tell her the 'mother' talk or just tell your mom to do it.
♥ Michelle
ps it isnt as hard as it seems

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my ex and his gf just broke up he is heart broken and i love the kid to death so feel horrible i have always just wanted to just randomly walk up to him at school and kiss him or tell him i love him but he had a gf so i respected that. they arent dating anymore so what should i do.

Tell him how you feel you might have a chance with him again
♥ Michelle

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(Sorry, i wasnt sure what category to put this under!)

I'm afraid to have feelings for people and I dont know why. If I find a guy I like...and then he starts liking me, I start backing out, and its always like this. There was ONE guy that I liked a lot and he liked me a lot but then we only became friends and we were really close, you could say he hurt me because now we hate each other and hes the closest ive gotten to anybody at all...so could anyone help me with my problem? Do you know whats wrong with me??? Please help :( Im getting extremley upset.

You are hard to get. Its okay you lke the challange of trying to get a guy to like you. Nothing is wrong with you.
♥ Michelle

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i have brown curly hair with highlights and i always try to straighten it and i usually do but in the times i dont and my hair is curly my hair jsut doesnt seem to look good in any type of hair style does any one know any good hair styles for curly haired people???

Well i used to have that hair until i used The Conditionair from paul mitchell. It is great you a wee bit everyday in your hair and it makes pretty curls.
♥ Michelle

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