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Im 13 and me and this dude had sex w/ out protection adn well of course i got pregnat....and yes i am a blonde and i didnt really think it would matter and i dont no if i sohuld tell my parents cvause they are really christian....
what shall i do

Well if you ARE pregnant your parents will find out soon or a later. So you might as well tell them. Next time you sould also think a little before having sex.

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F/13 me and my sister was talking today and I told her I started my period to day. She told me she never started. (she is 16) Is that normal?

Every gilr starts at a different age. And if she still hasent gotten it yet she'll get it soon. I think the latest is 16 or 17 i dont remember but yes it is normal.

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well me and my friend went to wall mart and stole...and got caught but she blamed it on me and made my poarents pay for the shit she did and i dontr wnat ot tell my mom nor dad cause it will get her in trouble and i dont want to and she says that she will always be there for me....is she telling the truth or is she useing me
and
p.s
shes spoiled and boses me around liek im her slave...
help me please!!!

Seems like shes using you grl. Sorry, but id rat her out. If you didn't do it you gatta tell. And dont let her boss you around. You're your own person not her slave.

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Ok heres the story,Christmas day is when everything started...my whole family cept for me started fighting, my brother and his friend was over here and my mom started in on my brother and my brother ended up cutting his wrist, blood was running down his arm, i also cut myself that day because i was upset with everything thats been happeneing lately, when i cut my arm i blacked out, and well the story goes on, yesterday and today my parents have been fighting and i mean seriously fighting, my brother and his friend left yesterday and got one of their friends to come and pick them up and after they left my parents started fighting and have been fighting all day today and i cant take it no more, they were fighting so bad my mom was hitting my dad they spit on eachother, one of em pushed the other into the christmas tree and it broke at the bottom and everything on it droped on the floor and broked as well, and they wont stop fighting, i tell them to stop and they wont...they wont listen to me, i told them maybe they do need to get a divorce if they're gonna fight this much because there aint no sence in em being together if they are gonna fight 24/7 and i dont know what to do i cant take it anymore, i wanna get out of here but i have no where to go, no one wants me, and i have no one to talk to about any of i because i have no friends and i dont know what to do...the thoughts of my running away crossed my mind but i wouldnt have anywhere to go and its to cold outside to run away...so if anyone has any advice to give me please do...i need all the advice i can get, sorry this is so long, Thanks to who ever takes the time to read this and send me their thoughts.

Wow im really sorry. It must suck to have you paretns fighting all the time.
All i can tell you is to well if you wanna run away, go to a friends house. But if not try discussing the problem with your parents. If they dont listen try calming them down so the dont fight as much.
If you need more help feel free to IM me... im on all the time.
Good Luck!

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well theres this boy who likes me (and i am a girl).i like him back too.he already knows that i like him and i know he likes me.but i like his step brother he is really CUTE!.the boy that he knows that i like him is nice,funny,gental well cute but not so much and hes playful alot.his step brother is cool,cute,serious,manly and not so playful.wich one should i go for???????????????????????????????.

Mainly it depends on what kind of guy you like but id go for the one you like best or know better.
My opinion: go for the playful one.
Good Luck!

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im 16 nd i've had my period for about three years. in october i got it on the 19th then on the 22 in november nd it has always been pretty regular. this month tho i didnt get my period at all nd im kind of worried since its always been pretty regular. one time last year it was very lite for like 2 weeks and then went bak 2 regular the next month nd has been fine since. thenn like 2 weeks ago, in about the middle of december i got my period reelie lite for about 2-3 days and then nothing so i dont no what it is. can anyone give ne advice plz. thx so muchh

Its proably just ur hormons going through changes. See if you get it normaly next time or maybe you'll get it sometme later this month.
H.I.H.

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Im extremely tan just because of where i live. Is anybody else like that? But my face isnt as dark as my arms and legs and stomach and ect. its like it fades when it gets to my neck/face.. is it because i have my hair down so its harder for the sun?

Probably but its normal, your body normaly get more tan then the face.

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Ok.. I just wanna know if its uh.. normal. or feel way to overwelmed about sex. I know it ment to be pleasurable and stuff. But that fact of something going inside of me. Is wayy disgusting its like my fear.. kinda. I cant help the feel. and it pisses me off.
Im Bisexual and it even goes for finger or tampons i just get so grossed out. Is this normal??
will i get over it.

Yea its normal... but all people think of it different so it depends, but id say its normal.

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ok so i was at a basketball game and i was standing behide my crush and i was with all my friends and these other guys. i was talking fine with all the guys i even met new guys(and im fine with them) but theres just something when im about to go and talk to him im just to scared to go and talk to him i get really nervous when im close to him. and the thing is he knows who i am but i really havnt talked to him.

Just try to pop up a simple conversation. Most girls get the same way, but once you get to know him better the shyness will go away.

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well, at my school rap is reallllly gay. Everyone is punk or emo which i think is gay. If i tell them that they all hate me and get mad **my friends++ and if i say i like rap they think im a freak. What do I do? Please donttell me to not care about what they think...because i do.

also-- same subject

I like anime. No one does at my school but one or two totally ourkasts. sorry if thats mean but they are. And, no one knows i like anime, but i want to put anime layouts etc on xanga, notebooks, and just draw it. What do i do?/

thanks

Do what you feel confterble (sp?) with. It's ok to care about what your friends think everyonce and a while but not when it comes down to what type of music you like to listen to or if you like anime or not. If they can't except you for who you are and what you like then they aren't great friends.

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what should i get my bf for xmas he is 14 and he liks sports but he is not like crazy of them. and he doesnt play video games that much and he doesnt watch movies that much. and i dont want to get his colonge cuz that is not very orignal so what should i get him?

Get him a CD, or maybe some sport equiptment...
You can always make him something.

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well, there was this girl i was going out with, and we recently broke up and i miss her alot! but now shes going out with another guy, and she just likes me "as a rli rli good friend" wat do i do, please, i miss this girl so bad!!!

Well you can tell her that you still love her. Or you can try and make he fall for you again?
H.I.H.
simone*

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Ok. Heres the thing. Theres this boy I e-mail, and I like to talk to him- being a non-relationship thing, just friends. But he always start on about hwo he hates my BFF's in the whole world. I try and make peace, but I don't know what to do. He's a nice guy, this has been going on for months. What should I do from here?

Try to get him some good things about ur BFFs that he could agree on or try to change the subject and say their my friends and you should care what their like... H.I.H.
C U tomorrow Soph!

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How to know if my women got pregnant?

She'll probably act alittle different and she wont have her period...

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How do you delete songs off your iPod mini?

this prob wont help but i aint gatta clue... sry

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When you look at the view feedback, what does the number mean?

What the person rated.

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Hey Drummer. Ever since I was little, I have been a shy girl. I love to do things like sports and that, you might think I'm a tomboy, but really, I have a creative side. I have no confidence, and a big problem. To me, that is. I love to sing, and once when I was younger, I sung to my friend, and she laughed in my face. Ever since, I've thought I'm a bad singer. How can I prove that I don't suck? How can I regain confidence to sing again? -At a confidence loss

Well if you really love to sing, start practicing everyday, preform infront of friends that you really trust and that have your back no matter what. Also if you're very confident after that try going to talent shows. Theres one in southlake that they do every year. IM me and ill tell you mare about it... simone*

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hey i really need help my hair is about 4 inches past my shoulders and the color of ashley olsens blonde hair and i have green eys and im 5'9 i need style ideas for my hair pleaze ill rate u good!

Brades are alot of fun! um... what i usually do is just mess around with my hair until i got somethin good...lol but yea, brades are good you can make a lot with brades, depending on what you want just mess around with it!
H.I.H.
simone*

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I'm 6'11" 430lbs Male. I need a plan for weight loss, and i need to lose it soon. My doctor has suggested surgery, and i do not want to go there until i absoulty have to. It is literally killing me. Please give me some low cost solutions on losing weight. Thanks.

Well... you could eat better foods, not all that crap from McD's and stuff. You could also excersize more and take an hour walk each day.

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I keep having dreams about the guy I used to go out with. I guess I kind of still like him. Well anyway first dream was where I was yelling at my friend in the art room. (I'm in art with the guy I keep dreaming about.) He was sitting with other people at a table and not even noticing our fight. Then last night for the dream I was sitting in the art room once again. He was answering a question that the teacher asked. He answered it really good but the teacher didn't really care. I was amazed at his great response to the question. When I woke up this morning I had a headache and I never get those, especially when I wake up. Are my dreams trying to tell me something? If so, do you have any idea what?

Well your dreams are always telling you something, but this one sounds like you want him back again. Maybe you should see if he still likes you...

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