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What's up? Well, I'm sure like each and every other advice columnist is that, we all enjoy giving advice . I like to keep things real and you'll find out how real when you ask me a question . I absolutely love helping people . Hollah at me sometimes !!! Oh, and yahoo me . Goodness sakes knows that I could do with the mail.
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i just started use tampons. behind my moms back. my sister was the one who wanted me to. but thats not the point. my mom told me all this stuff about how if it gets stuck you will have to get it serically removed or u could even die from them. soo basically im terridy of them. ive got it in "there" but like im too scared to let the plastic come completely off cause im too scared to leave it in there on even sit up. that probally sounds really retarded. but what do i do about. if u give good answeres ill rate high
If you're scared about this(and this is a uncomfortability issue during your period) then I definitely think that you should not use them because you're not comfortable in them. Use what you want to use and what's comfortable for you. Having to sit a certain way during your period with fear of it getting stuck in "there" is another fear that adds terribly to you. You already possess the fear of leakage. So if you're really in this sort of fear, which causes you uncomfortability that you've had enough of unless you can deal with it, don't put it on then. It's not worth it all. Your comfortability throughout a period is very important.
My best friend in the WHOLE world told me that she is going to privite school next year. Today was the last day of school and she's leaving for 8 weeks of sleepaway camp TOMORROW!! I know I will see her after camp but I just have this feeling we'll get torn apart during the school year. I'm really scared to walk the halls of my school without her!! Help me get over this emptiness im starting to feel!
There's nothing that all of us advice columnists can say to fill that void of emptiness , but there is some things that I can say to help you get over it all. Like the fact that you shouldn't let this put an end to your friendship. Talk to her and try to stay apart of her life as much as possible . She'll appreciate it. But you have certain needs as a human being too and those needs may be require(infact I do think they require) a friendship or some sort of healthy relationship and it doesn't necessarily have to be boyfriend and girlfriend. Talk to someone and let them be apart of your life. Someone that you're comfortable with too. It wouldn't be a betrayal because it would be something that you need. NEED. That's very important than something you just want. Hope I was some help and good day to you.
Does anybody know if Laney was adopted like you know in eminems songs. i know that halyey is his real kid but what about laney? i know its kind of a dumb question but i dont need to know that thank you! peace.xox
Laney is his niece. In the song he says, " Laney,yeah your uncle's crazy yeah, but he loves you girl and you better know it." So that is his niece.
hey i want to get a big butt i mean mine is pretty decent becasue i dance but i want a bigger one..like strong muscles...wats some exercises i can do to make it bigger?
There aren't any exercises you can do to make your but big, although there are exercises that make it tight. You'll have to eat, I guess, and then work it out to make that but get tighter and better formed.
ok, my girlfriend's dad died the other day (they were on vacation in Qubec with her, her dad, her mom, & 2 friends) & so she was very upset & so she broke up with me. I understood & said it was ok. & so I bought her a card (witch I'm gonna send once I get her address from her friend) & I'm afraid to call her & everything cos I don't want to talk about it & that'd be the only thing we'd talk about.
but what I'm asking is if I should wait for her to get over it all & maby go back with her, or if I should just move on?
more about our realationship, she lives about 45 mins. away & I haven't been able to see her much & I haven't been the best boyfriend since I'm going through some really hard times right now, but I try
I'm 14/M & shes 14/F
thanks
Don't put your life on pause for her too long, but I do think that you should wait some time for her to heal because losing a loved one can be very tramatic to a person. All you can tell her is that you're there for her whenever you need her, put great emphasis on this, and tell her you're there waiting for her whenever she is ready. If it gets where you're lonely and when you really need that someone, then go on to someone else . IF you decide to do this, let her know that nothings changed when it comes to the fact that you will remain there for her for all times and for anything that she may need. But you can't wait when you need that someone because you deserve that someone as we all. Hope I was some help and have a nice day.
so last night i was on aim and i was taking to one of my friends and she had said something about how she thought she was bi!
and i know this is werid but i really need some help bc its crossed my mind too!
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some one lost
Just because it has crossed your mind doesn't make you bi. It makes you thoughtful. And if you're bi, you're bi. If you're gay, you're gay. If you're straight, you're straight. You can't help who you are, although some others may disagree with me here but even they have to respect and deal with who you might just be . It could just be the very fact that you're uncomfortable or shocked with what your friend is. Depends on how close she is to you because that really would affect someone seriously. You have to decide if you're comfortable with the person that she is. If you're comfortable with yho she is and if you can accept it. That's a major factor in a friendship and if you can't deal with it then... the friendship is doomed. It doesn't necessarily make you a bad person/friend if you can't deal with it and it doesn't make you a bad person if you can. It makes you a forgiving and understanding human being. So goodluck with that and have a nice day.
im 99% sure my dad is cheating on my mom..i was looking at his cellphone one day and it was like his name..lets call him bill and this other girls name lets call her christy..it said bill and christy in love forever and there was a million messages saying i love you back and forth..plus my dad is never around so this isnt really a shock to me..but how am i suppose to tell my mom and should i because i wasnt suppose to be in my dads business anyways! what should i do???!
I really think you need to tell your dad and get all the facts before you go to your mother just to be sure . I believe you but what if you tell your mother ,and she talks to your dad and finds hard evidence that these accusations aren't true. That would only make a whole mess out of things making it worse for you and possibly your mother and father's marriage. Address him and I know that will be very difficult, but think of it as loyalty to your mother.Know all the facts before you act. Tell him what you know and how things seem to you.If you even feel that he is bluffing,lying, then threaten him that you're going to tell your mother the truth. If he says he is, set a time limit for him to tell your mother(which means you'll have to tell him the limit so he'll meet it) otherwise you're going to your mother to tell her the truth if he doesn't with the opportunity given. Let him explain himself and make him feel guilty. He deserves that much if he did it all. And before you go and visit your dad, SERIOUSLY tell your mother before you go.
Ok ive been going out with my boyfriend for about a month and 1/2 and i love him so much. I know it seems to soon for love but i have been his best friend for many years previous. Everything is going down hill and i dont know what to do. I care so much and i dont know where he stands. We never talk anymore and if we do it goes nowhere. Everyone tells me i should break it off but i cant i dont feel its right. Hes into my friends, and really pays no attention to me. its almost like he has gotten to comfortable.
What sould i do?
Whether he likes it or not, you really need to talk to him about it all and you really need to tell this guy how you feel. If he doesn't have anything to say make him say something that relevent to what you discussed. If it's stupid, I suggest you just accept the fact that it just wasn't meant to be with him and I know that you don't want to hear this. It can be hard but you need to accept it or be prepared to accept it because if he's as bad as you described him, then you deserve much better. Talk to him and if you don't like his response, break up with him before he breaks up with you. I know it seems immature and all but at least you know you did it all on your terms. Find out and trust your instincts. Sometimes the heart wants things that aren't necessarily best for you. You'll see that later on. Hope I was some help and have a nice day. And goodluck too.
My boyfriend and I are celebrating our 2 year anniversary next month. Any ideas on what to get for him? I want to get him something nice and special, but he doesn't wear jewelry and he already has a really nice watch. What should I do?
Try to find something that may appeal to him. The smaller things can sometimes mean more but still... try to find something that may appeal to the type of person he is. Through this gift, it may portray what you also think what type of person he is and that come sometimes be special when you know what you're doing. Don't overwhelm yourself because then you'll just waste all your energy for nothing. Save it for when you give it to him... trust me, hun, any other way you're going to need it all. Try to find something that appeals to him... it could be something that he is very passionate about... like a view point or a sport. Just find the gift that fits him and you'll be alright. Hope I was some help and goodluck .
where can you go to get layouts for advicenators???
"Page Backgrounds" under Miscellaneous on the advicenaters screen. If you don't find those suitable, I guess you should try a search engine with whatever type of background you're looking for and copy it. Then paste it onto your advice column. Hope I was some sort of help and have a nice day.
Tommrow im going with my grandma to her "Bring your kids to work day", and I have no Idea what to wear?
Any Suggestions?
Thanks;)
If you have some sort of message that you want people to think of when they see you then you should definitely wear what fits that message. If you want to look young, sophisticated, and responsible wear something that suits it. If you want to wear something that makes you seem as if you're the edible grand-daughter then wear something that fits that suit. Make the clothes be the message which fits the image that you want to make towards others. Now, of course, I can't tell you precisely what to wear because I have no idea what your wardrobe looks like. Just try something that looks like you and don't let the suit seem as if you're trying too hard. Let the clothes show you in a respectable manner or whatever manner you see appropriate. Hope I was some help and have a nice day. Remember, first impressions are a lot!
Me & my guy friend had a fight like 2 weeks ago, then last week I called him to apologize (it was nothing big i swear...just stupid) and i don't think he was happy to hear from me. He went to out of town for a few days and just got back today and now he's leaving again tomorrow for a week and a 1/2. I havent talked to him since I've called him. He told my friend that he's not mad but he just doesn't wanna talk to me bc he's afraid then I might start to like him. I sent him a text asking him if he was still mad and he never texted me back. I need to know if I should try calling him again TONIGHT before he leaves again bc I really miss him sooo much and I don't want our friendship to be over because of this bc we've been friends for 6 yrs & have been thru soooo frikin much together! HELP PLEASE!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO???? And if I call him, what should I say to get him to listen to me? Thanks!
Well, hun, have you ever just considered the fact that he just may need space on his on terms and time. I know that with any friendship that may just come very hard for the person who's supposed to be providing that space ,but you really have and need to respect that because it could very later on show him how much you care for the friendship and him... and it may show something to yourself later on that may well suprise you.I would not suggest you calling him over the phone because he could make up all sorts of reasons to avoid you. Oh and have you thought that maybe the "nothing big" fight may have been something big to him. Yeah, I know, some things aren't as they appear right. Well, if you can talk to him face to face. Maybe run or drive(have someone else drive you to his home before he takes his leave) to his house for a brief comment. In this comment, focus upon the fact that you are sorry about the fight and that you will be provide all the space and support he needs ,and that it was a bit reckless by not noticing that the fight was a big deal because if it's a big deal to him it's a big deal to you. Tell him that you respect all the time he needs to become comfortable with your friendship again and that you're there for him. Then let it be that. But you may, or at least you should be prepared for the fact that this friendship maybe just wasn't meant to be . I know , that's wrong right. But you only can try so hard . Just be there for him in whatever and try to support his decision whatever it may be. I have this feeling that you will benefit in some way or form . I don't know why, but I think... no I know... that you two will be alright. It'll take time...but somehow I just know it. Hope I was some help and lovely day.
Does anybody know any good work outs to help tone you thighs to make them look nice and not flabby?
Biking, lowering yourself to the ground(not all the way) and then coming back up and doing it all over again. They really do burn . So, I hope I was some help and lovely day.
can anybody tell me how to get pictures on my web page.not only pictures off the internet but like pics i have at home. and how to make the words move
You could copy them, right click button on mouse, then paste it too when on the internet. You could also copy home pics using a copier then you could paste them on a site. If you have a program like imagings, or some pictorial program, then that should make it easier for you. If you could save it onto a disk then you should paste it from the disk if you can upload the pictures onto a disk. Well, I hope I was some help and good luck with that too.
How much eyeliner is too much? How can you tell? (I know this sounds really retarded, but I don't know!!!)
When your eyes water, when you have gunks under your eye, when it is too deep of a color. You should really stick to asking people because it all depends on the texture of your skin and the way you look with the features you possess. Every person is different . Hope I was some help and have a nice day.
ok i really like this guy and i have a boyfriend at the same time i really like them both and me and the other kid have ben talking about "practiceing"... i dont know wat i should do...i need some help
You really should consider the fact if you don't want to hurt anyone, and if you don't want to hurt anyone then you'll have to decide what to do. If you really want to go "practicing" , then I guess that is what you want to do. You need to ask yourselves these question.
1) Am I staying true to my virtues?
2) Do I want to hurt anyone?
3) Is this really what I want?
4) If it is what I want, is it the way I want it or will it be the way I want it as I imagined?
5) Is this what I need ?
6) Is this what I need in my best for me?
7) Is this what I should do?
8) Am I thinking morally and rashionally about this?
9) Is there anything that I haven't thought about?
If you can answer these questions, or any other questions that pop up in your mind, then you should know that it's right for you. Sometimes , you just have to do what will please you and if it does... do it.
what are some good qualities you need to have in a friendship? for example ..loyalty. i need at least 3 of them. thanks i rate high for good answers
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Trust= someone you can tell things and you'll be certain that they won't betray you.
Honesty= someone who will be honest regardless of certain circumstances.
Good listener and Sincere= you want someone who'll listen because that really is a big test of friendship itself . When a person if sincere to you fully, it shows truly how much they do care.
But let me give you some extra advice. I know that you asked for qualities in a friendships but with different people, there are different qualities that they look for in a friend. This is because people have different things that appeal to them. Try to find out what appeals to you in a person, then make your decision from there. It's all really up to you. Hope I was some help and good luck with it all.
okay....i need help!!!I am soo tired of my old screen name. i need a new one. i want something original something different that noone else has but me, have ne ideas? my old s/n is Tec...my enitials. here are some things about me that might help:
fav. color = pink
fav. sport = basket ball
fav. hobbie = skating
i'm boy crazy: not always a good thing...lol
so there is sum stuff if it will help at all. but if someone could help me i would be very happy.........THANK YOU luv ya lots ( if u can help)
I really think that you should focus on something that appeals to you and your sense of humor or quality. Something that fits good and something that doesn't make it seem as if you're trying too hard to send a certain message . Some messages can be too hip, and when you're trying to be that hip it isn't hip. Think of something that symbolizes your beliefs or something that motivates you in such a unique way. Hope I was a little help when it came to some things to help you realize what you want. Sorry, but sense I don't know your personality, I can't actually give you a name.
whats a way to get your hair really shiney and not look at fried?like what products can you use?
thanks ill rate high for real answers.
Moisturizer, hair grease, lotion, pantene pro-v . I know it's not a lot but that's all I really know.
my guy friend is having trouble with this and if im more informed, i can help him out a bit more. well he has this gf, kelly, who is a good friendof mine and i got them together. theres this girl who is kelly's friend, bernie, who is always clinging onto kelly (almost like she likes her...) and so this guy cant pull her aside to kiss her. theyve been together for 4 months and for some reason kelly isnt being very nice to the guy...she doesnt want to hang out for dumb reasons and she thinks theyre going to fast when they barely hold hands, she never calls him or does anything sweet for him. before we thought it was pms but its been going on for a reallllly long time. (poor guy.."i didnt think it was supposed to last this long") he really loves her and i dont know what to say to either of them. any tips?
All you really should do is be there for him unconditionally and let him know that you care. That you understand , and it would be best if you were to share your opinion on such things. Be there for him whenever he needs you, and if he wants some space, you'll have to be understanding enough to give it to him. I know that there's this strong urge for you to go up to Kelly and screech," Do you know how good this guy is and you're treating him like dirt because you'll never have another guy like him." But you have to leave that alone and let the story play out on it's own so that they, and most importantly he, can see that they aren't meant to be. It's just, although I'm sorry to say, another hard lesson that he has to learn . You can be there for him, but it's truly their relationship. He'll see later when the pain has gone down some. Hope I was some help and have a nice day.