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♥ My name is Kelly. I`m 17 years old. I live in a small town in Arizona. I`m a born and raised Christian. I love God, my family, and my friends. I have been through alot throughout my teenage years like from boyfriends, girl drama, loosing mediate family members, moving all the way across the country, starting new schools - making new friends! You can ask me ANYTHING and I will try my hardest to answer your questions. Please, don`t ask stupid questions because i will give you a stupid answer back. You can also email me at xstarbrightbabix@yahoo.com, IM me at xostarbrightbaby, Or my quote site. link is on the right module. =]

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when im at school im kinda shy around people i dont know and when i do get along with some1 a while later they think im annoyin or they hate me or somethin and i don even know wat i did
can sum1 help

Making new friends can sometimes be overwhelming. You may just be so excited and happy that you try soo hard to make a new friend. Don`t always ask them to hang out & call them as much. Let them call you first after awhile they should feel comfortable and know you well enough to be better friends. Just don`t over-do it. :] ♥

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When I shave my vagina, it is pokey even right after i shave, like how my legs get the next morning or so. It is also very itchy down there after that. How do I help this or prevent it?

You may not be using like a 3+ razor blade and then your hair grows in really fast causing it too itch. It`s normal for it too be prickly and itchy like after you shave. Try using shaving cream/soap, and a 3+ razor blade. ♥

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I have a friend who is mad at me. I wont say why but she says she will never talk to me again. I tried to work it out but she wont listen to me. WHat should I do?

She is obviously mad at you for something you did or said. Tell her your sorry and that you didn`t mean to do what you did and so on. Then tell her you will let her be for awhile and when she is ready to talk-you`ll talk. She`ll talk to you eventually just give it time and apoligize. =] ♥

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me and my boyfriends 1 year is coming up! and i do not know what to get him!!! i cant get him anything, calone because the calone he has right now is like 130$ , i cant get him a watch because his watch is also very exspesive and i cant aford it, he dont wear ties, hes kind of wealthy so he pretty much has everything he wants so i dont know what to get him!!!! everytime he says something like " i want that" in the next day , he buys it! does anyone have any ideas or anything that will help?!?!?

It only matters if it comes from the heart. Do something like make a nice romantic dinner w| candels in such then watch a movie, he should appreciate and just love it. =] ♥

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This guy & I were together for a while but then he broke up with me because he didn't want a girlfriend. He told me he really liked me still so we stayed talking. We've been talking for a while now & we "mess around" a lot. He always does stuff to me but I'm kind of scared to do something to him since we aren't exactly 'together'. Him & I are basically together just not with the boyfriend/girlfriend title. I really like him & I like how our relationship is right now but then why do I feel like this is wrong?

It seems wrong because he might just want a friends with benefits kinda relationship. Be cafeful because those relationships aren`t good. Ask him why he just won`t "go out with you" if your going to do that stuff. And talk to him about it. Hope things go well. ♥

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hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my mom says that I can't go to a boys house or have a boy over my house even when she's home she says iam way to young for that,but she let my sisters have boyfriends over and have them over when they were only 15.I think the reason could be becouse I have attention deffesince disorder(add).do you think that could be the reason and how do I convince her that iam responsible enough to go to boys houses and have them over mine.Iam in special ed to could that be another reason?

Yes, I do believe she doesn`t feel like you will be responsible enough too. Maybe you can try to see if she will just give you a chance of responsibility. It could also be because your sisters might have done a few mistakes in the past and it got ruined for you. But, just try to ask your mom if she will let you have one boy over and let her get to know him first and see how the situation is handeled. ♥

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ok so theres this guy that i really like. i mean i really LIKE him. but im afraid to talk to him. with all my toehr crushes i was perfectly fine liek i would be myself. liek if i was hyper i would go crazy right in front of htem. but with him.. im just very i have to make sure that im perfect. and that makes me so nervous. does this mean that like i love him?? orr?? well nto love him but i mean that i like him more than the others?? i dont know.. and how can i make myself talk to him??? so yeah theres two questions..lol

Yes you really do like him hehe you just want to impress him. Your just really nervous he might not like you for that way. I know how you feel, when i met the guy i really liked i would try so hard to look and act perfect. I eventually emailed him on myspace and hung out and such. After a while i became myself in front of him and he told me he likes me because of who i am. Unfortunetly he has a girlfriend now. t=/ But try emailing him, IMing him and such. && Be yourself too. ♥

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i asked for some advice earlier about my partner who is insecure about our relationship and i got an horrible answer off a women saying no wonder my partner is ashamed of the relationship and that cousins should not be together. should i end it or not i feel terrible?

Ok, if your blood related i think it`s wrong. If your step-cousins & if your not blood related than there is nothing wrong with it. honestly, end it because you will have to face so much with the society. =/

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How do you know when you should go out with someone?

when the time is right and when both of you like eachother. =] ♥

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Im not fat i dont need to lose weight .. but I have a really bad double chin. Any way to get rid of it?

http://www.indiaparenting.com/beauty/neck001d.shtml
it has helpful hints near the bottom of the page =] ♥

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what is pms?

Stands for pre-menstrual syndrome.Usually happens before, and during the early days of, a period. Symptoms of PMS may include weight gain, fluid retention, sudden mood swings, irritability and fatigue. =] ♥

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i am 13 years old and i have developed breasts but i still havent gotten my period yet. I know that all girls are different but i just want to know when i will get it and if i can wear tampons when i do.

You won`t know when you`ll get, you can show signs of it getting it soon. For example if your breast get tender, getting cramps in your ovaries, pms, and headaches. I personally wouldn`t use tampons right away, you might want to see how your flow is first (light, medium, heavy) then start using tampons. Hope this helps. ♥

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Is it normal for your vagina to get itchy after you masturbate, like the next day or so?

If you didn`t wash your hands and they were dirty you could have put bacteria in it. If you wash it too with soap it might be irritating it causing it too itch. If it doesn`t go away get some creme for it (vagisil) or ask you mom.

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what are the names of some christian rap bands or song artists so I can find a song to add to my myspace?

Barlow girls(myspace), Mercy me, Third day(they have a myspace), Casting crows, Kutless (punk band), Relient K, Chris Tomlin, Jaci Velasquez, Micheal W. Smith, Jeremy Camp,& Luther Vandross. That`s all i can think of right now, you can try seeing if the others have music for myspace. =] ♥

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Ever since a few days ago, I've been discharging WAY more than I ever have. It feels like I'm peeing, when I'm not...
I'm not sexually active, and I shouldn't have my period for another two weeks.
Why all of a sudden am I discharging so much?
&, i repeat, i have NEVER discharged this much before in my life.
Also, when I go to...well, i'll be blunt, wipe myself after i go to the bathroom, it looks like i sneezed there is so much discharge on the toilet paper.
It's really disgusting, and it's really uncomfortable. Two questions.

1. what might be the cause of this?
2. how can I make it not as thick?

You can have an infection or maybe your going to get your period early. Wear pantiliners or a thin pad. If it doesn`t go away for awhile tell your mom and go to the doctor. sorry. ♥

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how do you give a handjob?

Pretty much do what he would when he`s masterbating. I can`t give you nemore info or i can get banned. Sorry. ♥

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i love him.

how do i tell him?

When the moment is right, tell him. Tell him you have developed strong feelings for him and you really care about him -- then say i love you? Pretty much just do whatever comes to your mind. ♥

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i know that this is a dunb question but what does getting fingered mean

google it ♥

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yea im kinda self conscious about the way i look and i look down on myself a lot like i dont only think i know that im ugly and sometimes it bothers me when my friends are like ur ugly and i just laugh it off or just say i know i dont know if they are serious or just joking with me but i dont know.. but like when i say mom im ugly shes like no your not your beautiful i know she doesnt mean it she just says that because shes my mom.. but ya whatever thats why im very careless of my looks like i dont really know what to do so that i wont look down on myself so much and not to think about how ugly i am thats why i dont really care about my appearance n e more is that a bad thing??

If you call yourself ugly in front of your mom it might make her feel bad, you have part of your looks from her. Your friends are saying it in a sarcastic way, it probally bothers them because you say it frequent and they know you are pretty. They don`t care what you look like other wise they wouldn`t be your friends. Your friends and mom love you for who you are not what you look like. You care because you feel as if maybe people won`t like what they see and if you`re not good enough. Help build your confidence up more by wearing alittle make-up, have friends help you, bring yourself out shopping buy new clothes. Hope this helps. =] ♥

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ok so i just started going out w/ this guy but i REALLY like him and we talk every night unti like 2 in the morning on the phone. so i always have the urge to say i love you... but i know htat i don't. but i don't want to say "I like you" because that doesn't sound quite right and he already knows that. what is an alternative to saying " i love you" to someone you REALLY like but don't exactly love yet. cuz i still want to mean what i say.

haha when i`m on the phone with anybody i always cut the convo short and i`m like ok i`m gonna go, love ya. you`re not fully saying i love you but it`s a way to show i like you and care about you. ♥

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