when im at school im kinda shy around people i dont know and when i do get along with some1 a while later they think im annoyin or they hate me or somethin and i don even know wat i did
can sum1 help
There are a lot of guys and girls out there who'll like and accept you for WHO YOU REALLY ARE. People who won't hate you and people who won't get annoyed with you.
Anyway, I'll just give you some tips on how to gain friends:
The easiest way to get friends is through SMILING. A lot. When you smile at people, they'll think that you are approachable and friendly.
Then, strike up a conversation. Being a good conversationalist takes quite some time but you can definitely learn how to be one! I know it's a cliche but having self confidence really helps. Practice having a nice and sensible conversation with a close friend first, if you want. Then start doing this with other people. Being a good conversationalist also means being a good listener. Listen to what the other person has to say and avoid interrupting the person when he/she is speaking. The rule is to listen as much as you speak.
Briea answered Saturday July 29 2006, 4:27 am: Well maybe you should just be yourself and don't care what other people think of you because they can't stop you from being you. [ Briea's advice column | Ask Briea A Question ]
xostarbrightbaby answered Saturday July 29 2006, 2:20 am: Making new friends can sometimes be overwhelming. You may just be so excited and happy that you try soo hard to make a new friend. Don`t always ask them to hang out & call them as much. Let them call you first after awhile they should feel comfortable and know you well enough to be better friends. Just don`t over-do it. :] ♥ [ xostarbrightbaby's advice column | Ask xostarbrightbaby A Question ]
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