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i was wondering if anyone knows how to get their website known to ppl? (link)
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Link to all sites that you are on, make your website really cool looking. Get some blogring friends to help you out and disperse the popularity. Make friends and help them advertise for you, put it on your AIM profile.
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would it be ok if i asked you for your email addy u seem really nice (link)
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yeah sure! It's sp4rklingr4in@yahoo.com
Are you an advicinator here too? If so, maybe we can become advicinator buds where I put a link to your column on my site and you do the same. n__n That way we both get more visitors! You seem like a really nice person too! mail me!
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can i answere my own questions????? (link)
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Yes, but that's kind of lame.
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What does 512k amount to in bytes? I need to know for a website design. (link)
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http://www.onlineconversion.com/computer.htm
Try this site. All you do is type in the number of bytes and it does all the math for you. Really handy
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can you get pregnant if you have sex without a condom while on your period? (link)
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Yes, I got the quote from the professionals on http://lifehouse.glorifyjesus.com/
"Although it is very unlikely that you could become pregnant during your period, some women do ovulate when they are bleeding (which may not actually be a menstrual period), so it is remotely possible.
If you have a consistent menstrual cycle, with several days of bleeding every 27 to 31 days, you probably can't get pregnant during your period. However, if your cycle is irregular, you may mistake some bleeding for a period; if this is the case, you should consider yourself fertile at any time during your cycle. If your period lasts more than a week, you could possibly become pregnant if you engage in sexual intercourse toward the end of your period."
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Lets see yesterday my bf and me were at the park and he told me that he kissed my best friend of all time.. it was just a peck though and he said it ment nothing at all im glad he came out and told me but should i break up with him? i mean i dont want to but i dont want to get hurt anymore and have it be worse... (link)
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No, you shouldn't break up with him unless you've stopped loving him. He did have the courage and trust to tell you that he kissed your best friend. That was probably a lot harder for him to say that you think that it was. Give him a second chance, unless of course you've completely fallen out of love and you disrespect him for what he's done or any other understandable reason.
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im gonna be a freshman next year and im really afraid im not gonna fit in. see i have plenty of friends now but i worked pretty hard to get and keep them. im... different to say the least and a lot of people dont get me and now it feels like i have to start all over again to find friends. and frankly, im not sure how. im kinda anti-social in a way... i dont like people on a whole lol cause they're stupid... but i do like meeting new people and i would really like to make some new friends (link)
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Don't worry about it at all. The one thing that I've learned about highschool social groups and status is that your social ranking really doesn't matter in the long run. Just try to stay popular in your own group of friends. There are so many people that it doesn't really matter that you don't fit in because no one really "fits-in" if you get what I'm saying. Just make sure you stay close to your current group of friends so you aren't friendless in highschool. That would really suck beyond all reason. o__o||
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hey im a 16 male from cali and i really like this girl. she likes me too and shes 16 as well and i want to ask her out but im not positive if i should because she just got out of a relationship. so im wondering what i should say to her. i dont want to make her ex mad cause hes cool and hes still obsessed with her. i really want to give this a shot with her i just dont know what to say to her any ideas? (link)
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i would actually consult her ex-boyfriend first before considering asking her out. If he's ok with it then he might give you some help. If he's not ok with it then you're probably rushing into a relationship with the girl a little too fast.
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i just had sex with my dad and i'm afraid that he got me pregnent..what the hell do i do! i'm so scared. is it possible for my dad to get me pregnent (link)
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Yesa it is possible that you can get pregnant from having sex with your dad. If I were you, I would pray to God that you aren't pregnant. Next time use a condom (and hopefully there won't be a next time). Did he rape you? If so, you can always charge him with child rape. If not, I hope you make better choices in life next time.
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i am havin a real trouble tryin to pick a colour for my room. i have knda a big room and i dont want colours wot make it to big or to small can sum 1 help me plz (link)
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I've always liked white because no matter what kind of posters or acessories you'd like to hang on your walls, it will match with everything. Also, if you style changes in the next few years, white will be easier to adjust to rather than pink or a printed wallpaper. Even though white may seem a bit boring and run-of-the-mill, decorating it with posters, pictures, etc, will add just the right roomy touch to your living quarters.
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has ne 1 had there belly buttons pierced. i have had mine done and puss keeps cumin out of the holes and it bleeds can sum 1 help me is it infected (link)
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Yes it's infected. The same thing happened to one of my best friends. You have to get it checked by a doctor otherwise the symptoms could get much worst. He should give you some cream stuff to disinfect it with. You probably won't be able to put anything in your belly-button piercing until it fully heals and you get a new piercing to replace the one you have right now.
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i have to share a room wiv ma sis and now ma mum said i can move into the spare room but i dont no wo colour to have it. i love the colour pink but my room wiv ma sis is pink so i want a different 1. can ne1 help me (link)
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I've always liked white because no matter what kind of posters or acessories you'd like to hang on your walls, it will match with everything. Also, if you style changes in the next few years, white will be easier to adjust to rather than pink or a printed wallpaper. Even though white may seem a bit boring and run-of-the-mill, decorating it with posters, pictures, etc, will add just the right roomy touch to your living quarters.
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alright well i've got this boyfriend and like i like him a lot! And we havnt had sex or anything but he wants to and what not. But my fear is that hes had sex with 5 different people... Thats nothing i'm interested in ya know! I'm still a virgin and like I'm not sure if i want to lose it to my boyfriend. See i'm scared to have sex with him because i'm scared of getting any STD or whatever. But like he claims he doesnt have any, because recently he got out of the hospital because he got into a major accident and he was in there for like 7 months, and they test you for all that and stuff and he says he hasnt had sex since hes been out of the hospital. Should i wait and see if hes the right person or what should i do!?! HELP ME! (link)
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Don't let him pressure you into doing anything that you don't want to do. I would also advise using a condom (just in case) It doesn't sound like you are ready to have sex with this guy. If you're really nervous about it then tell your boyfriend. He should understand, and if not then maybe he was just interested in your relationship for a booty call.
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I have a friend, well more of an aquatence well i dont know what you would call her but newyas.. she has hurt me so much and we fight all the time. she was my best friend and i dont have barely any friends, just a boyfriend i have loved dearly for 7 months! i dont know what to do. I dont want to be her friend but i do. its so confusing but im fed up with people walking all over me and i wish i had friends that werent so immature and didnt go to my school. i just need someone to talk to and shes not that person nemore. she has told my secrets before and i can barely trust her with nething. what do i do? should i still be her friend? (link)
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This sounds like a situation that I've gone throught before. I would advise you to go get a new best friend. Even though it might not be the easy thing, I would still give it a try. When I was in your same situation, I found new best friends pretty easily and I'm really happy that I did what I did.
However, you may want to stay "acquaintences" with your ex-best friend just in case she wants to black mail you or anything. I would try to drift away from her slowly. You can find much better friends than her. There are many fish in the sea
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ok there is this guy who i think likes me but im not sure. today he stood up for me guy this guy is always all over me and i hate it. but my friend is like just leave her alone shes mine and like a minute later hes like my friend to go with wut he said b4. he used to like me. im not sure wut to do (link)
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He might like you or he might not. It sounds to me like he might have just been standing up for you as a friend, but subconciously still likes you.
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my 2 best friends an me always hang out an like whenme an one are chylllin the other storms off an gets pissed off... she curses to much an she talks behind our back to one another an we are reallygettin fed up!like rite nowme dana and andria..( (link)
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Oh my gosh! This sounds just like me and another two of my friends. If you really want to stay friends with Andria, then I would advise you to try to get her out of her drug abuse habits first. They are probably one of the reasons she has so many mood swings. It sounds like she might have a lot of problems with herself. Maybe family or school problems? You and Dana should try to understand her and try to help Andria out of her current situation. If you better understand Andria, then maybe things will fall back together again.
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Hey! I know html and I've tried putting music on my site before...I know what song I want but once I have the code where do I put it? I tried putting it in settings... but I wasn't sure where! So if you could just tell me where you put it, that would be so helpful! Thanks a million! Love ya -Mandee (link)
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Go under "Edit Settings" and then type in:
in the place where it says "Describe yourself or your column or whatever else you want the world to know"
^__ I'm not sure if the text for the music code will show, but I did type the code there. Sometimes html doesn't appear in typed messages.
If it didn't appear in the message, just email me at sp4rklingr4in@yahoo.com
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me and my mates wen we leave school all say we will go to the same university. i really want to but i also want to do things for myself. i dont no how to tell my mates but hopefully sum 1 out there will help me thanx (link)
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Don't ever let your friends lead your future. I've been taught that you should never go to a specific college just because your friends or lover is going there because college is very different and who's to know if your friendships will actually even last. Then you will be going to that university for nothing! I would tell them your feelings about going to a different school. If they are real friends, they will understand.
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hi has ne 1 ne ideas how to put on a little weight. ppl say eat more but i eat like a horse can sum1 help me (link)
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Eat at McDonalds. I love their food, but if you don't like fast foods then I would advise you to just stick to a diet of deep fried, sugared goods for a while. Just make sure you don't give yourself a heart attack eating so much deep fried stuff...
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im really girly and i am decorating ma room but wot colour shall i do it? its a big room (link)
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I've always liked white because no matter what kind of posters or acessories you'd like to hang on your walls, it will match with everything. Also, if you style changes in the next few years, white will be easier to adjust to rather than pink or a printed wallpaper. Even though white may seem a bit boring and run-of-the-mill, decorating it with posters, pictures, etc, will add just the right roomy touch to your living quarters.
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