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Q: i want to go to the UK with my friend on this trip as a student ambassador (because we both got accepted) but it costs a ton, like we need fundraising ideas. so far we have:

babysitting, bake sale, petsit, dog walking, watering plants/ rake leaves/shovel driveways, teaching people about the computer (AIM and stuff), lemonade stand, cookies, garage sale, make keychains, sell candy bars, homemade doggie treats, sell stickers, bracelets, car wash

Can someone please like tell me the name of a company that does fundraising ideas, or just give more ideas ? like suggest something else or tell me a compmany that lets you fundraise. like a girl at my school is selling chocolate for her choir group from this chocolate company...anyone know anything? thanks!
Well you could do like a "walk a thon" and ask people to sponcer you and for every lap they'll pay 1 or ever 20 dollars and do that for like an hour. YOu could sell some stuff like on ebay lol. Um... you have alot of good ideas! Maybe ask your parents for an allowence or go to your grandparents/aunts/unlce/cousins/brother/sister/ etc. and do yard work or clean for them. You could clean peoples houses for them like a maid. YOu could be a tutor. Get a job some kids can get a job at age 15 maybe even 14. HOPE I HELPED!

Q: whats a good kind of perfume that smells really good.. like a girly type of perfume that will last through the day.. i want a perfume that i can buy at the mall thats pretty cheap
i like the marycate and ashley coast to coast it spells really good and only cost 12 dollars each and i saw a package that came with both for 15 dollars. I like the jlo one and i LOVE curious too! also happy for clinque it cute too. If ya don't like those try look/smeling lol magaxines or online and if ya find one ya like that expenisve try ebay! HOPE I HELPED

Q: I've have a really close guy friend who I just found out is moving to another province.. We've been friends for almost 3 years and I know that he cares a lot about me. I'm 27 and feel that he may be the love of my life.
I'll be seeing him next week before he leaves, he's giving me his computer so we can still email each other.
What would be a good way to let him know that I am interested in him as more than a friend? I don't want to get too emotional or freak him out. But I feel like I am in love with him.
He's moving becuase he got a job in the Alberta Oil rigs and the money is too good to pass up.
Does anyone have any ideas?
Well if ya don't wanna freak him out i don't think you should jsut say i love you or i really like you alot. but maybe ya never know lol i think you two should go to a movie or dinner at the dinner ask for some of his food play footies with him hold his hand at the movie if he has a jacket ask him for and act cold and cuddle up to him once again try to hold his hand. Be flirty but not too too flirty like a teen flirty be an adult flirty. When he leaves give him a big hug and even a lil kiss tell him you'll miss him a whole lot. But this is a really hard situation i'm not totally sure what else ya could do. If your really brave just tell him you really like him and hope to become more than friends and maybe he'll "accept" this and your relation ship will go farther who knows but I HOPED I HELPED and i hope your situation will work out the way you want it.

Q: i need help with one math problem on my homework:

Mr. Alvarez withdrew from his saving account $25 per week for each of 8 weeks. He then had $1,623 in his account. How much did he have in his account before he made these withdrawals?
well ok to find the totaly he withdrew you'd do 25 times 8= X and to solve for X youd times 25 times 8 which is 200. So now you just add 1,623 to 200 to write this equation you'd write 1,623+200=x and the answer is 1823. Well at lease that's what i got. HOPE I HELPED!! btw if ya need any more help please ask me cause i hated math when i didn't understand it atll.

p.s her are some ways to write that problem...

25(8)+1623=X

25(8)=X X+1623=n

btw when there's a number in () next to another number it means to multiply. once again HOPE I HELPED!

Q: Hey i want to take a shower with my boyfriend but idk what to do in ther other ppl told me to just make out with him and have sex but thats not waht i want to do.. so does anyone have anyideas please help I RATE 5's
um... i dunno if this is waht ya want but you 2 could take a buble bath with candles and rose peadals and wine (if you old enouf lol) or i guess just makeout give each massages. i hope that helped i not really sure what else ya could do lol

Q: i was cleaning my sons ears with some q tips and noticed some small amounts of blood on it i feel so bad and scared should i be scared blz help concerned mom
i don't think it's anything you have to worry bout and you can clean the inside of your ears cause it's just gross to see the poepl wiht wax coming out of thier ears just don't go in too far. He alos might have cut a lil cut in his ear and you picked the scab so it bleed. I don't think you or your son has to worry! but if it gets worst go to your dr. HOPE I HELPED

Q: My boyfriend always seems so sad and depressed.. What are some things I could do to cheer him up? Like little or big things, doesn't matter.
Well i've found that the one thing that makes guys happy is sex or naked girls or just girls. So you could do that or fulfill a pantsy of his. Or you could send him lil love letters that let him know you love him. Or find out why he's depressed if it's cause of school try to help wiht school. Mybe he just needs some one to talk to. HOPE I HELPED!

Q: How can i become a mod on here?
http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=67

to see if you can be a mod. click here the link on that website and it tells you yes or no and if no it shows you why not. HOPE I HELPED

Q: my parents finally let me have a pet, but they said it has to be quiet and not stink too bad. i wanted something i could really play with, you know take on walks or something. Will rate good.
Cheyenne
well the only thing you can walk is a dog so if you want something to walk get a dog...basically all anmials will play with you unless it's got some issues. hamsters and jerbles cages smell after awhile not sure bout rabbits birds are loud..most of them..i'd suggest a dog,cat,rabbit, cause those things will play with ya. If your still not sure go to a pet store look around ask someone to help you and tell them what type of animal your looking for. HOPE I HELPD!

Q: WELL okay me and my b/f met at least 4 weeks and some odd days ago and the moment I met him I knew I was going to end up falling for him and I did
I saw him as this guy who would never be with me because he was to amazing....and I was seen and this snobby stuck up rich girl....!! That night we talked and spent at least 4 hours together everyone from the party left except Me him and Crystal* and Deven* my friend and his friend... He comes over every friday and sometimes during the week. we live kinda far from eachother everyone thinks were perfect for eachother one night after hanging out he told me he loved me and I was shocked...cause I loved him to.. the thing is I am scared to loose such a great person...The other two times I have said I love you to someone they dumped me... so the question is should I be scared??
i guess you should be scared but think maybe that has happend to him too maybe he's affraid you'll leave him like thos other guys left you. and he already told y ou he loved you so should you tell him you love him. and if he leaves then he's not right for you or maybe it just was meant to be but i'd go for it you'll know unless you tried. HOPE I HELPED

Q: so me and me GF broke up( im not sad she brought me down hard)but i still miss her.when i got over her i began to think hard about my first crush who moved away but im not sure if its because im finally single and want to be with her or that im lonley
um i'm not really sure what your asking but if your asking if it's normal to be sad when a gf break up with you then yes that very normal. And yes it is normal to miss an old crush that went moved away. i hope that answer you question what ever it is/was

Q: i love my boyfriend sooo much and i wanna show him how much i love him, id do anything so please tell me what i could do


i rates 5's for any answers
hahah the first answer says it all or do a special fantsy for him do something for he he'd really like or just lay out candles that say i love you wiht roses! HOPE I HELPED

Q: what is a skeez
Basically a slut or a hore who goes round going guys HOPE I HELPED

Q: Hey!
this guy I like IMed me & was like " hey babe" & when i said i g2g he did the crying face.
Does this mean he likes Me?
ill rate you a 5 if you can help!
prolly not but maybe you never know but mostlikly he's just trying to get some if ya know what i mean lol

Q: Does anyone know of any ways to get rid (or decrease) of puffyness around eyes? I was crying last night and now my eyes are puffy.
=/

thanks in advance!
um.. you could try taking a cold when washcloth or someting and hold it on your eyes for a minute or two. Sorry but that's really all i can think of hope i helped!!!

Q: umm yea ok i'm osrt of over weight and I hate it a lot nad i mean i just don't have any motivation in me like i do when ever i og shopping and i can't fit into some of the stuff but yea umm any ways to loose weight even if i can't stop eating and tips or stuff and don't tell me to eat healthy( i'm very picky) thanx i rate high
Claire
i exactly how you feel same with me but try siging up for sports or a dance team where you usually work out 1-2 a day try your hardeest in p.e when you run. Ask you mom/dad to not get soo much sweets when you out. Think to your self hmm am i really hungry or do i just want this. Eat slow it'll fill you up faster. drink lots of water...try to workout and make it fairly regular. get a treadmill and just walk at a normal pace oni t when your studying,reading , or watching your fav. t.v!! HOPE I HELPED GOOD LUCK!!!!

Q: i got this shirt and it says "better forget it cause you'll never get it" ..is that a bad shirt, would people think im wierd?
no i think that's really cute!

Q: hey heres my story:
im 18 yrs old and in love with a 24 yr old man! my story starts like this, hes my manager at my job and iimediatly had an instant crush on him but me i dont have that much confidence in myself so when he satrted to show intrest in me i panicked and backed way and brought in a freind to go for him, but the only thing is that the friend is actualy me! the real me that i would like to be but dont have the confidence to be! i made up her name and a whloe life for her(me).and called him pretending to be this person! everything was going so well and my emotions got stronger and the more we talked the more we had in common! i ended up fallin totaly head over heels in love with him and decided id tell him and low and behold he felt the same way! and of course he wanted to meet! i didnt know wat to do! i thought for days and days as to wat i should do and finaly decided i should tell him the truth! that the women he was in love with was me!.... well when i told him over the phone he seemed fine and didnt wanna talk about it just wanted to put it behind us and told me that he could never trust me agian! and im the type of person that trust is important to me and it broke my heart to hear that! so anyway the next three weeks passed by and evything was fine he was nice and called me to talk like friends he invited me to places with him and stil comnfided stuff with me! we were all cool then he hit me with a song he had wrote! he had origianly wanted me to hear it but my comp didnt have speakers so he sent me the lyrics! it was amazing lyrics it touched my heart but he didnt say that i was for me! so i read it he imed me like 20 times asking me if i had recived it and wanted my reaction! once again i panicked and retracted my emotions and played it as if i didnt understand the message he was trying to convey! like i liked the song and wanted to know who the artist was (knowing that he wrote it). he immediatly signed off! then greated me at work with a big smile the next day and asked me once again if i had recived the email! again i backed away! and now so di he! he wont talk to me as much anymore and insist on makeing me jelouse with the other female employees! meanwhile im standing hear with all these feelings and dont know wat to do! im in love with him so much it hurts i cant take it anymore he keeps telling me that my apolagies just arnt enough!can u pls tell me wat i should do! it hurts to have these strong feeling twords someone and not be sure that they feel the same way! i want to go back to when i was the real me!( wich he named lola)
sincerly,
lola( the real me)
Well i'd suggest to ask him out on a date and if you don't feel confident wear something you know make you look hot and have someone do your hair and make up so you have a second oppionon. But if you both truly do love each other you shouldn't let him he migh not eveycome back or he might think you dont lik him and giving up on you. Just listen to your heart! And i that didn't help you try asking other people frieds family who evey i'm sure they'll help! Good Luck!!

Q: I never got my period yet I'm 13/F.
Every so often (Like once or twice a month) I get these cramps that make me want to cry and I have to sit or lie down when I get them. When I got home from school today I got them and its excruciating pain I mean like bad enough to cry over. These cramps hurt SO bad. It feels like someones stabbing me and slowly pulling the knife out and torturing me. After I get these cramps I can't walk anywhere for like an hour. Do you think I'm going to get my period soon. (My mom got hers at 10)
you may be getting it but you get your period form ages 8-16 but i got those too i know they really hurt try taking some alive, hot pad, take a warm bath, stretch. HOPE I HELPED!! good luck

Q: how can u tell if a girl likes you. i had a gf but i asked her out so i really would not know how girls flirt. so will someone please help me.



i rate 5's
talk to her friends, have one of your friends talk to her or one of her friends, or just ask her. Hope I Helped!!!

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