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Ok me and my bro are twins... Im 14/f and My family always bugs me because were so close... I have a 16 yr old sister but we dont get along and they are so judgemental about it... They want me to always hang out with her and Me and My Bro Just get along way better and he has the coolest friends... ANYWHO my dad says i cant have a BF and my sister is 2 years older then me and she can... WTH this really sucks because i like my bros friend Cris and stuff but my dad wont let me have a BF... :( ive tried asking but all he does is yell at me and says i cant... HES REALLY strict so how can i get him to let me have a BF... He never argues with my sister about BF's and i always am told no you cant have a BF until your 17 WTH my sister is 16 and has one.... HELP!!

go out with a guy behind his back. if he asks where your going then just tell him that your meeting friends at the mall or something. make upp names if you have to. hope i helped

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my brother is really spoiled. Here are some reasons why:
*he gets whatever he wants
*whatever he does i get blamed for-no joke.
*when he wants friends over, he can have them over (I cant.)
*if he slaps me or hits me or punches me, even if i dont say anything or touch him, i get yelled at. EVERY TIME.
*one time my friends came over and he started just peeing his pants right there and my friend and i told my mom and she didnt believe us even after my brother admitting it because she thinks hes "perfect" and would never do anything like that.
--this gets VERY annoying VERY often. I really wanna change this but whenever i tell my mom how i feel she goes "Oh please..grow up I never baby him" when she knows she treats him differently. I cant even have friends over without him around us!! please help me! what can i do???
Im 14/f hes 9/m

just ignore him and your parents for a while.

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to get my acne scars to clear up.. is neutrogena acne fading peel better to use or neutrogena visbly even daily spf 15 moisterizer? whats the difference and witch ones betta

acne fading peel is better.

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m a virgin and its like im supposed to lose my virginity to my boyfriend back home... everything is so perfect and we haved talked about it having sex. before i left for vacations we talked about it and agreed that if it would happen, it had to be after i went back home ... i couldnt be happier with him but now ive been gone a month and i have been dating a guy here.. im with my friends and he even came to have diner with my parents. i already met his and his friends; everyone is so happy that we are together and we see each other everyday. his friends tell me and my friends that they havent seen his so happy with anyone and the truth is that im happy with him. here is the dilema, do i sleep with him or not? i want to but i have a bf back home and if i dont tell him that im not a virgin, can he find out physically? like what other ways can i break my hymen? advise plis ..

he wont find out physically but you shouldnt have sex with him. especially if you love your boyfriend and dont want to hurt him.

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HI,
My grandma abuses me what should I do?

see a school counselour. youll get help.

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Dose anyone know of a store name,that just sells band t shirts.
Like i know hotopic does,but do you know any other stores ?

flea markets. but i prefer making them yourself

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I have a friend who has a pretty hard life.She lives with her dad,grandma and older brother.Today we were all at her house and she said f*** and her grandma walked in and started hitting her in the face.My friend tried to block her but her grandma pulled her arm away and smacked her dead on in the face.My friend got so mad that she threw her cd player and then she said "Im out of her" so of course we followed her and when she opened the door her grandma pull her by the arm and starting hitting her again.My friend pounched the wall and walked out and there was a hole in the wall.She was afraid that her dad was going to beat her when he found out and she was sooo scared.What should I do to help her out??Ill rate high for any answer!!

tell her to run away to your house. maybe it will work. hope i helped

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when you first start wearing glasses do they look kind of weird in side of them because I just now got new glasses and then i kind of cant see out of them that good do I just have to get used to them or what??? p.s I mean I can see some things buit like not all

nope. you should go to your eyedoctor and tell him/her

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So I'm getting my hair cut soon, and I am sooo excited! Right now my hair is almost 3 inches past my shoulders, and I wanna get it cut so that it sits right on my shoulders, with side-swept bangs (similar, but not identical to Kristin on Laguna Beach, and no, I'm not being a dumb wannabe). Do you think that sounds cute? (I'm a natural blonde, and am sooo sick of long hair, I had it for about 4 years.) Anyway, I was wondering if you guys could tell me some sites or post some links to photos of that haircut so I could show my stylist lady exactly what I want. Hope you can help!

yes that would look very cute. you should do it.

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I've met this really great guy. We have so much in common and we became really good friends right off the bat, and we've been partying together ever since then. I'd totally date him, but he's 4 inches shorter than me!!! Do you guys think that he's still worth my time, or just dump the idea of hooking up with a shorty? (I'm 16 and he's 18, so he's not growing anymore either)

well you probably wouldnt go well together but if you like him that much go for it!

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I have pretty bad back acne.. What can I do to get rid of it?

its actually called bacne but you should wash your back in the shower with your face cleanser. hope i helped! ; )

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What age do you think a girl should be to go to a gyno? Not for birth control, just for health check ups? Thanks!

umm.....probably around 16 or 17. or when you start to get sexually active

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OK i've never worn eyeshadow that much but i sorta wanna now..is it true that a brown or tan shadow goes with hazel eyes? if not, then what color goes with hazel?? thanks!!

brown and tan works with everthing. for hazel eyes dark green, like a jade color would look good. hope i helped!!

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does anyone have any good idea for hairstyle when your growing your bangs out? Or know of a website that has some ideas of how i can were my hair when i am growing out my bangs.

you should get your bangs vut to the side and get layers and get it cut a little above your shoulder. thats sexy. hope i helped!!

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i need to get in shape. im always tired and unhappy and moody and im not in shape. i want to be in shape. i can never motivate myself enough no matter what i do. what can i do?

do 100 situps, 100 pushups, and jogg for 30 minutes every day. hope i helped

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So my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half on August 23rd. We decided that we would just get each other something small and $25 or less.. but I have no idea what I should do and I'm stumped.. If you have any ideas, please let me know.. thanks a bunch!

go on a date like out to a resturaunt. hope i helped

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I am a former self-injurer, and I finally stopped cutting at the end of 8th grade (I'm going into 9th). I've been happy since the end of 8th grade and haven't had a reason to cut, or I'v refrained myself from cutting. But that's how I deal with stress. And I'm afraid I'll relapse this year from stress. I've been to therapy, and I write a lot. Is there any other way I could possibly deal with stress that isn't destructive?

thanks in advance!

dont cut-whatever you do. take a walk or clean your room to get rid of stress. squeeze a stress ball. hope i helped! ;)

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how do i Lose Weight Safely? dont be mean about it! i am 150 pounds and i am only 14.

help

do like 100 situps every day. jog and do 100 push ups every day. hope i helped. ;)

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Well me and my friend our boered. WE usually tan outside but its cloudy today. Anybody have any ideas on what we could doo?

go out some where. like the mall or the movies. its especially fun to throw popcron at people at the movies! ;)

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This may be a little long...Sorry.. but i really need to know what was meant... So.. The other night I was at my boyfriends house we were laying in bed watching a movie... and his friend showed up... and then his brother came in and was watching the movie with us... Well then they all started talking about getting their new cars.. well my boyfriend and his friend.. and his friend said that him and my boyfriend could pick up chicks.... well my boyfriend was like no way.. Ive got mine right here... and put his arm around me... well then his brother said that all Kevin (my boyfriend) would have to do was have me with him to pick up chicks.... So my question is... Was he saying that I'm Hot... Or was he saying that I was like a lesbian or something... I was really confused by what he said..

he might have meant that your hot and you might attracted hot bisexual girls that would go out with guys or girls. hope i helped

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