anyone want to have sex???? i am a female age 13
If you put yourself out there like this no guy will want to touch you.
1) Its illegal
2) You want it for the wrong reasons
3) Its a bit slutty
4) No one on here will say yes, because either we're too old, or the people who are your age write in questioning things to do with sex, not asking for it.
5) Concentrate on your studies-not sex for the time being. You don't want to be job less do you?
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Okay, so I'm 14 and I'm starting to have a really bad relationship with my parents. They never listen to me (ignore me when I state my opinion or tell me I'm wrong because I'm a kid), they are never satisfied (once my mom made me redo a chore clean the bathroom because she didn't "see" me clean it. WTF!?!?!?!?!?!)
and they pick on me SOOOO much. They find every little mistake I make, and never notice when I do good (on tests for example). They find all the bad traits about me and compare me with others. Once I tried standing up to my mom when she compared me to my cousin by saying "But I'm not him, Mom!" and she grounded me because of that and I wasn't even trying to be a smart aleck.
and they blame EVERYTHING on me. So once, the toilet got clogged and they blamed it on me BUT HEY, I WASN'T EVEN THERE THE WHOLE DAY SO WTF!?!
*Sorry for capitals, I just want to show much I'm frustrated and also if I sound spoiled or bratty. I actually do work hard at school to earn privileges. It's just my parents are so unreasonable.
btw, I'm not a perfect English-speaker. I'm French-canadian but I still speak English well enough (I think).
As much as I empathize with what you're going through, I don't know what advice you want, because there wasn't a question.
Inbox me with a specific question and I'll help you :)
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Hello everyone i am 13 and my acne have really came in. My pores are so greasey and oily. And when i bust one bump more come up. So please anyone what is the best methods or products is best for my face.
Don't pop spots! Ever! It makes them stay up to ten days longer on your face.
I had this really bad a few years ago.
Avoid oily makeup such as liquid foundation and stick to powder, and just use makeup to highlight your eyes.
Also can get this concealer called 'witch'. It is excellent because it hides your spots and fights them all at the same time. As the name suggests, it contains witch hazel which helps to fight spots.
Make sure you cleanse your face, using a wash like Neutrogena designed for young skin. Then, be sure to put a cleaner and toner on your face. This helps to remove any make up. It also controls shine, meaning your spots will be less visible.
Different things work for different people. With a lot of theses 'washes', you have to be patient for abot a week before you see the results you want.
If it still stay bad, do what I did. I went to thedoctor and they prescribed me Benzol Peroxide. I think this is what I'd do, as its medically made and really works for me.
One thing to consider: Why are there so many products out there claiming they totally stop spots? Its for the same reason there are loads of diet products out there-because they don't work, and there's a big market for them. Because they don't work, people keep buying them.
I'd book an appointment with your GP who can give you a powerful cream to help eliminate the acne.
Good luck :)
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Me and this boy want sex but we can't have it at home because our parents are always in the house because they work at home is their any places we should try?
If you're calling him a 'boy' and you both still live with your parents, I'm guessing you're young.
The legal age is 16-any younger than that in a public place is against the law, and you can be arrested.
Clearly you don't want to ask your parents, which suggests sex is a bit 'naughty'. I think you should wait-you don't sound very old. Also, the only other place that's not in public is a friends house.
What makes you think anyone else will let you under their roof if your parents don't.
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Question for you women will you sleep with me
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Okay i am 13 and i had difficulty with my period when it came on at first. But now it come on regularly. But It supposed to be the week for it to come on. I haven't been sexually active. So is this normal or what. I really need advice.
At 13, you're relatively new to having periods. It can take up to the age of 17 for them to become regular. Don't worry, its normal. Sometimes people can miss a month.
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Hello. Me and my boyfriend have been dating ever since May. We used to text a lot and then after that he had to go to two camps for two weeks and couldn't talk to me. Well now since he returned he does little to no texting me at all. He's ignored me for two days. He posts stuff on instagram but idk why he wouldnt see my texts! What should I do? Help me please!!! :(
This has happened to me...it sure feels bad but you HAVE to confront him if you want to save this relationship.
You need to text him-cut out the lovey stuff and ask 'have we fallen out?'.
Prepare for the worst but still stay positive. He's either lost interest or just not had time. Its something for you to consider:do you want to be with someone who doesn't have time for you?
Deal with this as if it was a friends relationship-taking feelings out of it.
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Sex..... I'm 13, I'm a guy lol,I'm from USA (New York), and willing to have sex. if I ask a girl I really know well, she's sometimes horny and wants to have sex ; i think if I ask her, she will say no and she might tell her friends or say I'm a pervert and slap me. What do I do? ( if it doesn't make sense well my bad because I didn't know how to say it out ;) .)
It depends if you want it to mean something.
If not, just go for the trashy girls in a club or something. Trust me, you'll know if they want it or not.
Alternatively, what I recommend is being in a relationship. I do not mean use a girl for sex, I mean that you have to let the girl know she can trust you, before even thinking of sleeping with you.
The easiest way is to get into a relationship. So great, you know a girl well? Enough to want to be with her for reasons other than sex. If so, your in a winning position.
Other than that, the setting has to be right. E.g. at a party or something.
But I really think you should get with a girl who you don't just use as a sexual object but for more things. You may think other guys are doing it, but they are likely to be lying-the psychological process of mate competition.
Also, if you're really stuck usually one thing leads to another anyway. The only time it does not is if you are in a relationship, where normal protocol is to ask.
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I am sick and tired of being alone ; all my friends are avoiding me for no reason and even my family.When it comes to my family , my dad i did not see him for almost 9 years and this month i will travel to him and see him in USA , and my sister works 6 hours everyday,except on Friday ,i am just feeling very lonely and that kind of feeling causes a lot of sorrow to me , my annoying friends only talk to me when they want something , such sycophants ! , so i need to make new friends in USA so when i come I'll find someone to hang out with. so if anyone is interested just add me on Facebook .. my email is ahmedscater2@hotmail.com ... thanks
You're not in solitude, you're lonely.
Solitude is when you're quite content with being by yourself, loneliness is basically the opposite.
Now I notice you think that you can overcome lonliness via connecting on facebook? The thing is, physically you wont feel any better being in a room ON YOUR OWN, even if you're typing to people.
To truly overcome this you have to make some physical friends. Also, you need to recognise it is fine sometimes to be on your own. Once you can enjoy being alone, then the pressure will be off.
You need to work with what you've got. Your friends/family may be avoiding you, but at least you have them. Try to maintain these relationships, in one way or another. But don't overdo it.
You need to meet up with others and start new hobbies to do this. Also overcome any self esteem issues that may be holding you back. Good luck :) Btw: Just type in cure for loneliness into Google...
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I have an obseastion with 5. I have had it for as long as I can remember, and I am ten. does this mean I have OCD. 5 minus one means death, just to say.
You're too young to be on this site, that's what the rules say.
You also have not provided enough information e.g. circumstances about the number 5. An OCD is an anxiety disorder, and anxiety as I know personally does not manifest until middle teenage years-this has been scientifically proven.
If you're that worried speak to your GP well get your mum to take you?
I have to say it is rare at your age though.
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Does anybody know how to put pictures on face book with a digital camera ?
Do you know how to upload them to your computer? That's the only way to do it.
Your camera will have come with a USB chord. Just plug one end in to the camera & the relevant end into the USB port. Your computer should recognise it and let you save those pictures.
Then create an album on facebook to upload the photos into.
Hope this is what you wanted...
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My friend had a huge fight yesterday.
And he told me, today he's been coughing up blood. Not like when you slit, then it's a bit red, really he coughs the blood up. Should I be worried? :s
I told him to see a doctor but he refused.
Does the fight cause this?
If you go into A&E coughing up blood, they'll have you straight down the corridor to surgery to check the person out.
The fight may have caused this yes. He could even be entitled to compensation-so he needs to go to hospital now.
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Im 13 and my boyfriend and have bren dating for 7 months now, and we haven't broken the touvh barrier yet. We hugged twice and thats about it
I totally know how you feel!
The only way around this is to build up slowly. Start by holding hands and often.
Ask in a text, may I hold your hand? Or even in person. Then its simple, offer your hand a he'll take it.
Once you've broken the barrier, things should naturally progress.
So even if you're shy, just take the first step! Honestly, it'll be such a relief. Plus the 'text' thing kinda lets him know if he didn't already you're shy. So he'll be more open about the subject of contact.
The next step would be hugging but a bit more often. However, you have to go at your OWN pace. For sure, couples around you may be practically making out after just 3 months, but don't copy!
What I advised you worked for me (I'm a girl!) and it really helps release that nervous tension that there is-important for the relationship to last.
Good luck-you honestly have nothing to lose!
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All my friends have had sex but me. Probably because they have girlfriends but still. What must I do to get a girl to have sex with me?
Obviously you're not into long term, committed relationships.
Seeing as this is the only way to get anyone to consider sleeping with you, I suggest you give up trying.
Go to a party, and get with the girl who has no self respect and wants it aswell. Go ahead, but it wont mean anything.
You don't want to get in a situation where you use people just for their body. Only you'll get a reputation.
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Hi Im 18 and I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year our anniversary is next month. we get along just fine and haven't had sex, we respect each other about anything and just last weekend my boyfriend and were at my house my parents were gone and he came over i played guitar in front of him for a while then we ended up making out but as we started making out, all of a sudden I feel his hand going under my shirt
Trying to feel my breasts. It made me feel good but at the same time I felt like its bad I don't know if I should've said something I mean afterwards he asked me if it was ok with me and also said he wasn't ready for sex but he respects me. I don't know what to think but I love him
I'm 18 too :)
It seems like you have a slight fear about sexual contact-as most people do.
Clearly, you're not ready yet, and you have to accept that that is ok. Although you're 18, it still feels quite a jump into adulthood, having sex.
Maybe he was going to fast for you? And that's ok, as long as you let him know. Obviously, he wants to move the relationship slightly further, whilst you were perhaps happy as you were.
So long as you let him know that it's not disinterest and more 'not ready', there is no issue here.
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I just got a retainer today after a year and a half of braces. my retainer is the see through one without any metal. I have just spent a week after they took my braces off without anything on my teeth, no brace, no retainer (it took them a week to make the retainer). and when i put the retainer on it didnt really hurt. it felt a bit uncomfortable but only for the first 2 hours or so. so doesnt this mean that my teeth dont move as mush as other people's, because after having a week to move out of place, they remained pretty neat. if this is so, does it mean i can go easy on the 24/7 six month rule of wearing my retainer? if my teeth dont move that much, can i wear them only at night? taking them off and washing them every time i eat will be a huge pain, and ive learnt that my orthodontists exaggerate a little - i didnt listen to many of their rules on braces.
I wear retainers, but at night and not during the day. That's what they tell most people. If they sense your teeth are moving, then they'll just advise you to wear it a bit during the day as well.
My teeth always move, and they don't even tell me to wear mine much during the day, though you have to wear them every night. That's why it is at night, because you're not eating or anything.
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I am quite a gym rat and my husband has no interest in any kind of workout or exercise at all. He is way too skinny for a guy and would certainly benefit from joining me at the gym occasionally.
How can I motivate him? Is there a playful way for me to show him that I have developed a lot more strength than him (I'm sure i have). I have also been doing some kickboxing and karate classes which I don't think he even knows.
Any suggestions on how I can motivate him? I'm not trying to be mean or vain. Maybe pick a play fight and put him in his place playfully?
Everyone has their faults!
You may not like him skinny, but that's who he is. That's who you chose to marry, I'm afraid.
In my experience, guys do not like it when you try to 'transform' them into your ideal man. Because its like they're not good enough.
Going to the gym is reinforcing this message. It wont do anything for his self esteem to go to a gym and be told to 'bulk up', when he thought he was perfect in your eyes.
I'd just change his diet first. Not to be stereotypical-but if you do do the cooking, you can control what you both eat. The best foods to eat to bulk up are proteins an dairy products. Try this first.
I mean, how would you feel if your husband said to you-come on we're going to the tanning salon. Its not nice. Why not try charity running/cycling events or something?
I know you're not trying to be mean, and without knowing him its hard to assess how sensitive he may be.
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I am in college 3rd year,a student of psychology.My overweight and my parents remain frustrated coz of all dis and it is affecting me...
This question does not make sense. Why exactly are they frustrated? Is it you or your parents who are overweight?
Please ask this again making more sense, so people can help you, because we need a lot more detail than this.
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I want sex
so sexline i rang
little guy
with a big wang
getting high
got the munchies
Eating out a bowl
kellogs and crunchies
smoking weed
also called pot
Left out cold
in a ditch to rot
i got a spliff
Roll it tight
get me of
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I want to see if i can stay awake all night from 7am till 7am the next day is thier any tips or any ideas on how i can stay awake ... its just a random thing i got going on and i want to see if i can do it ;) lol its a bet i got going on don't ask lol
Make sure you do exercise before you go to bed. Drink coffee but not too much as it may have the reverse effect and you'll feel uber tired the next day. Instead, just drink lots of sugary drinks that give you energy.
Do it on a night after you've had a really good sleep.
Think of something scary.
The main reason why many people struggle to fall asleep is simply because they do not keep still. I should think the best thing to do is to not go to bed.
Well, go to bed a rest your body for a few hours by reading. Then when it gets to the middle of the night move to somewhere else in your room, gaze out the window or something.
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