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How do I get laid?
All my friends have had sex but me. Probably because they have girlfriends but still. What must I do to get a girl to have sex with me?
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I don't know about this. Ibhave the same problem. My friends had sex but me. I feel u man. Message me dude
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I wish you had put your age down as it would be useful in answering this question.
First you just don't get a girl to have sex with you. Sex is something you build to while in a relationship with someone. Sex is not a sporting event where once you score you move on.
Now if you are between 14 and 17 do not believe that all your friends have actually engaged in intercourse. The odds are they have not. They may have had some type of masturbatory sex but few of them, statistically, depending on their ages, less than 2 in 10 may have actually had intercourse. What it boils down to is their definition of sex. If you want to stick with the statistics the younger they are the higher the chances are they are more bragging then doing.
There have been a number of surveys done recently that point to less and less teenagers actually engaging in intercourse and fewer teenagers engaging in masturbatory sex together than ever before. So to say all your friends have had sex would be statistically impossible.
Statistically the numbers stay the same regardless of how many friends you have. One of your friends may have had intercourse and less than two have joined in mutual masturbation. The rest are falsely bragging about their triumphs.
If I knew your age I might be willing to offer more advice. Without knowing your age this is as far as I will go in offering any advice.
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Obviously you're not into long term, committed relationships.
Seeing as this is the only way to get anyone to consider sleeping with you, I suggest you give up trying.
Go to a party, and get with the girl who has no self respect and wants it aswell. Go ahead, but it wont mean anything.
You don't want to get in a situation where you use people just for their body. Only you'll get a reputation.
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You can't make a girl have sex with you.
Also, having sex because your friends do is kinda lame. You'd be doing it just to fit in or be cool. And getting a girl to like you and just to have sex would be using her and then you'd get a bad reputation.
They probably get to have sex because they treat their girlfriends good and are nice and sweet. Girls need to feel cared about and loved.
Sex is an intimate thing and no respecting girl will have sex with you just because your friends do it.
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You cannot make anyone have sex with you.
Let me ask you something, What does sex mean to you?...
Who the fuck cares if your friends are having sex. Doing things to "fit in and be cool" is called peer pressure. This is not going to make a girl want to be in a relationship with you. Woman like to be respected, valued and cared for. NOT taken advantage of! You got the wrong idea when it comes to sex kid.
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