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Is my boyfriend being selfish and treating me like a friends with benefits
I need some help. I am a single mom with two kids. We have been dating about 7 months. He initially didnt make any effort to see my kids. He only wanted to see me at his house. I broke up with him because I felt he didnt want to be with me for the right reasons. He stopped taking me out and was just lame. We worked it out. He was spending time with me and the kids once a week and would see alone twice a week. More and more are alone time is just sex. He came to pick me up last night and because I wasnt able to go to his place for sex, because I couldnt get a sitter he said we should make it another night and left. I offered for him to come in and talk, Id make food or we could watch a movie. He just said we will make it another night. Am I right to be pissed? I only him see him two to 3 times a week.
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From what you have written it sounds very much as if you are being used; as in a friend with benefits situation. This guy wants to milk the cow but doesn't want to pay for it or buy the cow as the saying goes.
It does not sound as if you are okay with this situation. It sounds like you want more from a relationship then just sex. My advice would be to give this guy his walking papers and find someone who is looking for the same type of relationship you are.
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He isn't looking to have a serious relationship, He is looking to have a sexual relationship. This may explain why he didn't meet your children, He clearly didn't want to get involved.
If you read what you wrote, It sounds as if he doesn't want your company. Mind as well say.... he is using you.
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