If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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How can i have 8 glasses of water I cant drink it during the morning Or else i will need the bathroom all day. Cant during shcool no water allowed. And 8 glasses of water in the after noon i get off from school at 3:00PM and i go to sleep at 8/9:00PM. is it healthy to have it all in the afternoon.
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You don't need 8. You actually get enough water in just eating food, but this isn't reccommended. Drink if you feel thirsty, that's usually a good indicator.
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I am a married man who a few months ago was asked to go to lunch by a female coworker. She's 23 and I am 36 and she has a boyfriend and if it means anything we are both considered very attractive. I initially didn't take her up on her offer, but then agreed after she asked me a few other times. We went to lunch and we talked about work and stuff and she paid. Well this is now a regular occurrence and she now brings up things besides work, like sex with her boyfriend and when and how they do it. She also just recently asked me to go play tennis with her after work. Needless to say, I think we're becoming close friends. I'm just not sure what her intentions are if any. What's even more confusing is that a bunch of us went out to the bar the other night and she didn't even talk to me, spending most of her time talking to another male coworker. I would think that if we were friends she's act normal around me and talk to me in an outside work setting. But it's almost like she was afraid something may happen. I guess my question to you is am I just a victim of different generations? Is it normal for a twenty something female to hang out with a coworker, talk about sex, ask him to do extracurricular activities, and not want to be with him on a more intimate level? I'm thinking I should nip this in the bud before we do something we both will regret. (link)
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You're right. She obviously feels close to you if she's saying shit like how she bangs her boyfriend, tennis after work, and going to lunch. These lunches are becoming not work related anymore. If your wife were there, would you still talk about shit like that? Of course not. That's how you measure if what you're talking about is bad or not. But she may just be using you as a friend to tell all her secrets to. I'm thinking the former though. Don't go to anymore lunches or anything like that.
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ok my mom died last year and now my dad has become overly close with me and hes always sitting too close to me and im an only child and i dont want to break his heart by telling him he scares me but every now and then i see him watching me sleep and its really starting to freak me out plez help me
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Ok I just answered a question in similiar fashion to yours. However, your situation, I think is different. You're an only child and your father really has nobody else. He feels even more emotionally attached to you than ever. You're his son, so the bond is already strong. He feels like b/c your mom isn't there, he's got to give you even more emotional support(sitting close, hugging you, shit like that). I don't think your dad has any sexual lust for his own son. Tell your dad that it makes you a little uncomfortable when he does that, but don't call him names or accuse him of anything. If your dad hasn't dated since your mom died, maybe he's still getting over it. Talk to him.
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i'm guessing your a guy by your name but oh well! i have this uncle. i think he's a perverted uncle. i'm not so sure. but whenever i'm around him he always touches me. i don't know, but iz that normal? i'm 13yrs.old. i went over his house one time. i waz wearing this tight shirt but he went up my shirt and touched, my bra and said out loud," you have breasts now" what uncle says that?what am i suppose to do? i don't want to be rude and say stop touching me, but if i have to go there should i say it? please tell me wat to do, i'm confuse (link)
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Yes you're right I'm a guy. You're right about your uncle. He's pretty gross if he's talking about his niece's tits and feeling up on them. You need to tell Uncle.Perv that you really feel uncomfortable when he touches you like that. If that doesn't work, tell your parents. It's not being rude to say that. He's being gross and twisted for doing that. Don't let him do this to you anymore.
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okay im a f/16 and i shave down there. is that weird if im not having sex at all and dont plan on it any time soon? does anyone else? (link)
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No it's not weird. Most girls do shave or ,at least, trim.
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Hey. I just got the guts today to tell my mom & sister that I think I may have a bacterial infection down below. They made me an appointment to see a regular doctor (not gynaeocologist) on Wednesday. I was wondering, it won't be awkward, I shave completely down there. Like do you think they'll think I'm weird? Because I shave down there? I don't know, it just seems sorta creepy seen as I don't do anything with guys yet! I'm 15/f! :) Thanks. (link)
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No they won't care.
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Do guys really find it sexy if girls gring with each other? im not quite sure and i wanted u guyses opinion (link)
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Why yes, we sure do.
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Were you affected a lot by the Hurricane? I know this can be personal, so you don't have to answer with lots of details. (link)
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No I wasn't affected by either one. I live in Baton Rouge and we're about 80 miles inland. The real affected areas were along the Mississippi gulf coast(where there is literally nothing left) and, of course, New Orleans. I lost power for two days after Katrina, that's about it. Had a lot of family in New Orleans affected by it though.
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a guy that likes me that i'm friends with is always pretending not to know things about me when he really does. For example, he knows darn well how old I am and what day my birthday is but when he's in front of others he'll say, oh your (not my age) right? Or {when is your birtday?) He also treats me really bad when he's with his guy friends. He will ignore me, and when I talk to him him won't give me eye contact. But when he's alone with me he's sweet and attentive.
Why is he so afraid of what his friends think? Is it that he's embarrassed that he likes me? (link)
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Yes. And he's worried what his friends think. He's a weak individual. If you're kind of ugly, he doesn't want to be made fun of for liking you.
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I'm 25 shes 19, known each other for 3yrs. Get on really well always laughing and flifting etc, lately shes split with her ex. We've done stuff before but no sex which is fine thats not the initial aim here, spent fair bit of time together recently, few kisses etc but then thats it. I'm sure she knows I really like her and she must like me too, but I fear if I lay it on the line with her she may clam up but if not then she'l certainly find someone eles soon, annoying thing is I'm a great guy and definately have qualities her ex's didn't she knows that too. (not meant to sound big headed). Which way should I go? We also work together so I always know when she's seeing someone and I think thats gonna start to do my head in, and if she isn't interested why is she leading me on!? Help please! (link)
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Well first of all, she's a little young for you. She may not be as emotionall mature as you are and probably is not ready to make a commitment(did I spell that right?) But still, it is always best to tell her how you feel and see where it goes. Sounds like you're falling into the "great guy/friends" trap. And once you get in there, theres no getting out.
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what should i get my bf (15) for x-mas? (link)
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Just a blow job.
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I have seen things like hearts and stars falling down on peoples profiles on myspace, how can i get falling hearts and/or daggers? (link)
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A hi of LSD does wonders.
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I've got my 100 things I love about my boyfriend finished, but I need a cute way to assemble it. I have about a million notes he's written me in the past couple of months and I wanted a cute way to incorporate the notes into my kind of 'scrapbook' that I'm making this into. I put the 100 reasons on pictures of us.
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You rated me before and I just want to say that THIS IS THE STUPIDEST IDEA IVE EVER HEARD IN MY LIFE. When you break up with him, or vice versa, you'll see you wasted all your time on this shit.And b/c you think I'm 13 you obviously can't do math. 2005-1986=19,not 13 honey. Your relationship is going to end. And SOON. HAHAHAHAHA
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Okay, 15/f him 16. This guy and me like always hang out in this one spot between classes. And like sometimes we hold hands and crap. And i said i didn't wanna go out with him, and he got all hurt. but then today he was sitting on the ground n he like tried 2 pull me into his lap but i jsut sat next to him n held his hand. n he was like i looove you. n i was jk n like u better. (cause i dont wanna say it if i dont mean it) and like so when we had to go we hugged and crap n i had given him a note saying i really liked him but i didnt kno what he wanted n he should wait 4 me or like write me back. so today i looked for him n it didnt look like he was there. so wtf? like did i just not see him? or what is with him??? (link)
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You're weird, he's weird. You're both weird. You like holding his hand and sitting on his lap, but you don't wanna go out with him? Then he tells you that he loooves you. Which is obviously a ploy to get into your pants. Nevertheless, ask yourself why you don't wanna go out with him and why you send him mixed signals. The more apprpriate question is what's with you.
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I am in the 10th grade and I am already recieving intrest letters. The problem is that I have no IDEA what I want to do in life. I was once thinking about majoring in psychology, but I have no iDEA, can someone please Help me (link)
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No one knows. Join the club. They key is try to find a major you like, but that will earn you some momey. My dad majored in psychology and he's an air traffic controller now. Nothing to do with psychology. But at 19, I dunno what I wanna do. At 15, I wouldn't expect you would know either.
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For high schoolers:
Were you able to keep your old friends and make brand new, more loyal ones in high school? To put it bluntly, it seems like everyone is dumb and immature in the eighth grade and I just want some sort of reason to tell myself that it'll all be okay in the end.
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Bad news: People are stupid, dumb, and immature at ALL ages. You will never escape until your death. The true friends you met in junior high will still be true friends in high school. People don't usually change, they just get older. Now the immature factor won't be like sniffing your farts and shit like that, but it'll be just fucking a girl for pussy, not b/c you truly care about her. Or drunk driving. That's the kind of immaturity that you'll run into. I'm sorry, but yes, it will indeed be OK in the end.
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I know this looks stupid from what the subject is but plz read!!! anyway I like my ex alot more than I did now than when i was going out with him, and I made the cheerleading team and he made the basketball team and this prolly sounds stupid but I think if we do go out again that it would be so cute the idea that he and i would be like the jock and the cheerleader, anyway i like him alot and my friends say go for, yet they say dont at the same time what should i do, tell my best friend (Jon) to tell him i wanna go out with him again or aomwthin????!!!! (link)
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Ok time out. You aren't going out with this guy for a reason. I don't know what it was, but you do. No it doesn't sound "cute" that you're the cheerleader and he's a white unathletic basketball player. That's how it usually works. Second of all, if you like him, don't tell your best friend(Jon) that you wanna go out with him. You should do it. Besides,Jon prolly likes you too and it would hurt his feelings that you're using him to try and get another guy. End of story.
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I'm 17/f and I've been best friends with this guy my whole life. Our dad's were friends in high school so it's literally my whole life. His name is Ryan.
Ryan has a girlfriend that I just cannot stand. Last year she got me kicked off of my cheer squad at school and since then I've despised her.
When that happened they were dating and they way she got me kicked off was by showing my cheer coach pictures of a party I was at. At my school, cheerleaders aren't supposed to go to drinking parties and things like that.
Well I asked Ryan to talk her out of giving them to my coach because quite honestly, I never did anything like that to her and I never would have so I still don't understand why she would do such a thing. But anyway, he never talked to her about it and she gave them to my coach.
During this past week Ryan had bought her a beautiful white gold ring with a bow in the middle and in the middle of the bow there was a blue sapphire. He told a few people and it got around to her.
Monday after school Ryan and I were at my locker and she came up to us (him) and asked if he got her the ring. He said yes and she replied with "Ryan I HATE blue! You know that!”
That REALLY pissed me off so I said, "Yeah and I hope he knows you're a bitch too." Ryan told me to shut up and he walked off with her.
What kind of girlfriend would say that when her boyfriend bought her such a nice, expensive gift?
Every time I try to say something about her to him he gets all mad and tells me not to talk about her. Yet, I hear her talking to him about me all the time. And they're way worse things that I would ever say about her. I even have other friends tell me that she says things about me and he AGREES with her!
Today I went over to his house and walked into his room and they were in there. All I heard was "(my name) is such a bitch why do you even talk to her?" and Ryan said, "Yeah she just gets jealous sometimes"
If I were to say that to him about her he's have a fit! I don't know what I'm supposed to do here because it seems that he just doesn't care about me. She’s a bitch to everyone including him but he still puts up with it. Why does he treat her so much better than how he treats me?
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He is her bitch. He will not let anybody talk bad about her,even though this girl sounds like a total cunt bitch. Why do you care anyway? It's not like you like him. He treats her better than you b/c she's giving him head. You're not. It's a very simple concept. You give me sex, me give you gift. It's just how it works.
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Last time my question for deleted.
can someone please tell me what SPOONING means?
Like... i have no idea what it means.
please help
ill rate high
thank you
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Its a sexual position where the girl lays on her side and the guy lays on his side. The girl has her back to the guys chest and he lifts up her leg. He puts his cock in from the side and fucks her just like that. This is spooning.
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Hey guys! I'm 13 years old (almost 14) and I am in 8th grade. Next year, (which is not too far away) I will be in high school (freshman). For those of you IN ninth grade or over, does it suck? It scares me because I will be going to a school with 17 and 18 year olds and I'll be only 14 when I go to high school! Is it scary to go to high school? I've heard so many bad things about high school... the boys are the worst... I could probably survive in an all girls school because boys that I klnow are just mean except a few. I'm really scared knowing that I will be in high school! Can anyone give me some comforting advice to help me feel better because everyday, I get scareder knowing that another day is past and I'm that much closer to high school? I'm just scared... can anyone help me... seriously! I don't want sarcasm or rudeness in yall's answers. I'm just looking for a little comfort... Thanks!
P.S. I rate 5's to those of you who answer to me and who are being serious about the question and not goofing off...
Thanks!
Luv, Kay
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Did your parents survive high school? Has most every other American survived it? Yes, so you will too. High school is a hell of a lot more fun than college. And its easy.
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